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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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  • Sunday · 14 min

    How To Be Miserable For The Rest Of Your Life

    What would make you happier? Winning the lottery? Or becoming paraplegic? What’s crazy is that a year after winning the lottery versus using the use of their legs, people from both groups rate their happiness as the same. This is called impact bias: we overestimate which things will make us happy and for how long. What’s crazy is this isn’t just a quirk of lottery winners - so many people spend their lives in a pursuit of happiness that is not that impactful and fleeting. You get the a job that you desperately want that once you arrive isn’t as glamorous as you thought, you get a phone, a computer, or a car, and for 2 weeks you notice how new and cool it is, but before you know it it’s just another thing. There are ways to avoid this trap though. I have spent literally years studying people, their happiness, and applying the lessons to myself. What you see is that there are certain approaches that work and certain that don’t. There are 5 things and I’m calling it the happiness ladder, because I tend to see it correspond to phases of our lives and people tend to move from one level to the next in order. My hope is that this video gives you a shortcut to the top. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 18 min

    How To Be The Most Charming Person In The Room

    Thank you to Audible for sponsoring this video! New Audible members get a 30-day free trial. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text “charisma” to 500 500 to try Audible today! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Have you ever wished there was a blueprint you could follow to make people instantly like you? Good news, there kind of is! All you have to do is follow the 3 Fs. Be Fascinating, Funny, and make them Feel Good. I know, easier said than done. But in today’s video, you’ll get a set of tools that make it easy to do each. We’ll do this by breaking down some of today’s most charismatic celebrities, most prominently Will Smith and Chris Hemsworth, so you have real life examples you can model. 4 Jokes That Make People Instantly Like You: https://youtu.be/GBuZMl0CcPY How To Be Nice Without Being A Pushover: https://youtu.be/M5mgdJDEgwU How To Confidently Flirt With Anyone: https://youtu.be/8NalcOPBXvs ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:26 - #1: Set stakes to hook people 1:22 - #2: Make your stories Immersive 2:33 - #3: Make your story relatable 3:53 - #4: Use the charades method 6:16 - #5: Use the fake out method 7:36 - #6: Use contagious laughter 10:10 - #7: Give high quality compliments -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #WillSmith #ChrisHemsworth -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 14 min

    Sydney Sweeney Controversy Reveals Something Darker About Us

    Want to build real prestige and improve the way people see you? Join Charisma University here: https://bit.ly/CU2325 Check out more of Rob Henderson’s work here: https://substack.com/@robkhenderson Sometimes outrage is not really about politics or beliefs, but about hidden strategies we use to compete for attraction and status. In this video, I dive into the controversy around Sydney Sweeney’s American Eagle ad with insights from psychologist and author Rob Henderson. Through the lens of evolutionary psychology, he reveals four cunning strategies driving outrage, rivalry, and reputation attacks. Beneath all of that lies an even bigger trap, the universal status game that shapes our lives, often without us realizing it. 0:00 - Intro 1:54 - Lower Rivals Eligibility 2:51 - Police and Limit What Rivals Can Offer 4:53 - Align With High Status Individuals to Improve Own Position 6:13 - Develop Skills That Benefit the Coalition 6:55 - Two Strategies To Gain Status 8:15 - The Direct Route 8:41 - The Indirect Route 9:20 - Learn To Make More REAL Connections Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Video editing: Andre Ringkjoeb Christopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 16 min

    How To Stop Being A Loser

    How To Master Your Mind If you want updates on the Belief System course I mention, leave your email here (didn't have time to make a separate sign up page, but I'll make sure you get the survey!): https://goo.gl/AiIEjJ If you’re like me, your mind has sabotaged you in the past. You want to feel confident, but it makes you shake You want to eat healthy, but junk food wins Today I’m going to give you some high level strategy for dealing with all those things and more. Let’s start with the operating principles What makes one person walk into a room confident, head held high excited to meet people on the top of their game and another slink in? What makes one person work on their business like crazy When you think about what people are willing to do for religion, give their lives, hurt other people, help other people, it should become clear that your beliefs drive action. The problem is most of us do not know how to choose what we believe. It might sound crazy, but imagine if you could simply choose to believe that everyone was excited to talk to you. Or you could choose to believe that putting long hours into building a business was fun. Or that eating junk food was worse than being hungry. Imagine how easy it’d be to achieve your goals if you could just pick the beliefs that supported them. Well, that’s where I’m going, so I want to introduce you to the principle that drives what we believe. 3:58 Recognizing the positive intent for the self confidence 5:00 Associate a painful consequence if you do not change 7:59 Determine the pleasure you get when you change Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 7 min

    3 Body Language Habits That Make People Dislike You

    Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: https://goo.gl/D6dy72 Chris Evans Charisma - What Your Hands Say About You See how Chris Evans comes across as more likable and charismatic simply by the way he uses his hands when he speaks. The power of gesticulating can't be underestimated. When you compare Chris Evans to Jonah Hill, it's impossible not to feel that Chris looks far more confident. And it's not immediately evident, but a large part of that comes down to how they use their hands when speaking. So check it out: these 3 tips are easy to implement and will help you look more confident talking with your hands. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 14 min

    How Hillary Hijacked Trump's Best Weapons

    The reason why Hilary Clinton is beating Donald Trump Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BMEIBj At the end of July, Trump was at a dead heat in the polls against Hillary Clinton, but in just a span of just a week, things turned on their head for Trump and according to polls, he's currently a long shot to be President. What's most interesting is that Trump didn't change much in that week. Rather, Hillary's team effectively countered techniques that Trump has been using for months. In this video, we're going to look at what persuasion mistakes Trump made, how Hillary capitalized on those mistakes, and what both candidates need to do to win. So let's start by exploring how some of Trump's most effective weapons have been turned against him. 0:33 Trumps "Others have said..." technique 1:33 The start of Trumps troubles 3:57 Hilary started to portray Donalds exaggeration as facts 5:00 The end of Trumps political incorrectness 6:10 Showing the human side of Hilary Clinton Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 19 min

    How To Be Instantly More Fun to Talk To

    Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3CjRS5w Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all had conversations that feel forced, awkward, or just boring. Sometimes it gets to the point where you have no idea what to say. While it’s funny on TV, in real life, these conversations are painful. So in this video, we’ll go over five common mistakes that lead to boring conversations, and what to do so you can have amazing conversations instead. We'll do this using clips from some of the best conversationalists that we've covered on the channel so far. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:42 - Mistake #1: Energy ducking 3:00 - Mistake #2: Assuming interest 4:28 - Mistake #3: Giving bland one to five words answers 6:24 - Mistake #4: Asking the same boring default questions 8:51 - Mistake #5: Being a passive listener Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 14 min

    Beat Anxiety Fast with These 5 Simple Tricks

    Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/AnxietyOverthinking Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video you’ll learn 5 techniques to immediately reduce anxiety and stop overthinking. Then we’ll cover 5 mindset shifts that let you instantly feel more confident. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:08 - Technique #1: Use your body 0:43 - Technique #2: Use breathing techniques 1:32 - Technique #3: The Snap Method 2:24 - Technique #4: Gratitude Anchoring 4:19 - Technique #5: Own it with a smile 5:00 - Mindset #1: Accept your anxiety 6:30 - Mindset #2: Shift from an outcome mindset to a process mindset 7:20 - Mindset #3: Be willing to polarize 7:48 - Mindset #4: Reframe the situation 8:26 - Mindset #5: Focus on getting options -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 10 min

    Why Successful People Seek Out Rejection

    Join Over 18,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-FearOfRejection Video of Sam asking out 100 women to get over his fear of rejection: https://youtu.be/mC34TSXNKiY?si=7V2QT4JSu3Hxu-sd Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Failure might delay your dreams, but fear will kill them. Because fear leads to inaction. So in today’s video, you’ll learn 7 tricks to help silence that voice in your head that fears rejection. That way you can go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you’ll feel completely unphased even if you do get rejected ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:23 - #1: You are not your first impression 1:05 - #2: Rejection is inevitable. Shame is optional 2:09 - #3: Life is a numbers game 2:45 - #4: Amp up your carrot/stick motivation 3:15 - #5: Rejections are good for you 5:24 - #6: See rejection as a sign that you aren't a good match 5:49 - #7: Focus on becoming the type of person who has options Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 12 min

    How To Network If You’re An Introvert

    The Introvert's Guide To Networking Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FZ27h5 Last week I went to a conference called ClamourCon I saw something that really surprised me. In fact it wasn’t a something, but a someone. This person, a self professed introvert, was one of the best networked people I know, with connections from Holly wood to the venture capital world, to personal development world. Once I found this out about him, I began to ask him how that all came about and that’s what I want to share with you today. His name by the way is Evan Carmichael, he’s a YouTuber who makes inspiring content for entrepreneurs. I’ll put a link to his channel in the description. So here’s what I saw from him. First off, redefine what constitutes a networking event. Most things with “networking” in the title are a complete waste of time. It attracts people who are looking to develop a network instead of a relationship. And it’s especially bad if you’re an introvert, since you’ll be competing with a bunch of other people hungry to share their story and what they are working on. Evan's Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/ModelingTheMasters 0:50 Redefine your networking philosophy as per Evan Carmichael 2:15 Be open to people and have confidence and believe in yourself 3:28 Know what people want which is easier for an introvert 5.07 Play matchmaker and help others in their self improvement Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 13 min

    The One Belief That Erases Social Fear

    Unlock your natural, consistent charisma: https://bit.ly/45oSK8f There is ONE mindset that erases social fear. If you have it, you will walk through life with total confidence and comfort, like you own the world. In today’s video, I want to break down the belief that IShowSpeed has, because with it, you will feel completely socially free. 0:00 - Intro 1:09 - The Core Mindset 1:48 - Treat people with enthusiasm 2:56 - Balance enthusiasm with playful banter 4:06 - The danger to teasing 4:55 - Reenforcing the core mindset 5:38 - All of us have natural charisma 6:03 - Today's mission 7:12 - Unlock your natural, consistent charisma Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 12 min

    How To Short-Circuit The Fear Of Rejection

    Do you ever feel like the fear of rejection is holding you back?... Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2C43VD8 Like maybe there's someone that you would have really liked to ask out, someone that you've had your eye on for a long time, but when you think about asking them out you think about them maybe saying no. Rejecting you. So you don't even want to try. Or maybe you're an artist of some kind and you'd like to share your art, you'd like to publish it, you'd like to maybe even pursue it as a career... for me, this was writing. But, when you think about being criticized or rejected for that art, you don't even want to throw your hat in the ring. If that's something that you can relate to, the good news is that you don't have to continue to relate to it because there's people in the world that are basically immune to rejection! They don't feel it in the same way that you might, and they don't fear it. And the only difference between them and someone who has issues with rejection that were kind of fears it is the way that they perceive it in their mind and that's what we're covering today. How can you make those quick little rejection tweaks? They're gonna make rejection kind of feel like something that just rolls off your back like nothing at all! Rejection Mindsets and Strategies: 0:57 Think of a time that you have been rejected exercise. 1:15 Disassociate yourself from the rejection. 2:44 Broaden your perspective and goals of being rejected. 4:20 Success is a numbers game (roll the dice). 5:50 STOP using the word "Rejection" Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 16 min

    How To Be Charismatic If You're "Nerdy"

    Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: http://bit.ly/3UkcHoS Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The biggest movie franchise of the last decade was based off of comic books, the biggest TV series was based off a fantasy series, and there are people making millions of dollars a year streaming themselves playing dungeons and dragons. Some people mistakenly think being a nerd or geek automatically makes you less attractive. But now more than ever, it’s cool to be a nerd. Now of course, Joe, Margot, and Henry are very good looking. We’ll actually touch on improving your looks towards the end of the video. But first, let’s go through some charisma advice that will help you to be more attractive no matter what you look like. These tips will help you be more attractive on dates, as well as just more magnetic with friends. (Also I know all the real nerds out there will point out that technically, nerds and geeks aren’t the same. But for this video, we’ll use the terms interchangeably.) ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 1:03 - Mistake #1: Hiding your nerdy interests 2:11 - Mistake #2: Not knowing how to talk about your interests 9:33 - Mistake #3: Not having a variety of interests 10:06 - Mistake #4: Giving up on your physical appearance 11:48 - Mistake #5: Hiding your interests because you fear rejection -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #HenryCavill #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 14 min

    How To Be Charming When Talking To People

    Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbqMm1 Jennifer Lawrence - Funny, Self-Deprecating Stories Jennifer Lawrence is the most famous actress in the world. Scroll through the comments on any of her interviews and they are filled with people who support her and sing her praises. She is considered extremely funny and grounded. Yet despite her fame, Jennifer Lawrence has never garnered the type of hate that many accomplished people do. And a huge piece of that is in the stories she tells. In her interviews, she makes herself appear vulnerable and down to earth when she reveals embarrassing stories from her past. They might seem like simple anecdotes, but they endear her fans to her. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 12 min

    How To Be The Center Of Attention

    Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nSrMjP Why People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden) Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive. His son, Jaden, is not. In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why. It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up. In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group. Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while Jaden gets cut off and has trouble getting a word in. The good news is that it isn't impossible to move upwards from the position of being trampled over in conversation. Watch this video and learn how to be a leader in a way that makes people happy to have you around. Book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 15 min

    How To Be Someone People LOVE To Be Around

    3 Habits That Make Chris Pratt Charismatic AF Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BfF4iS Chris Pratt is one of the most charming and funny people I’ve ever seen and that’s after over 100 Charisma on Command videos. So In honor of Guardians of The Galaxy 2 I wanted to do a breakdown of what it is that makes him so engaging and likable. In his case, there is a powerful aura of positivity. Nearly everything he says and does is so upbeat and the effect is contagious Now, It’s far easier to say be positive, than to actually put it into practice. That’s why we are going to look at some of the foundations of Chris Pratt’s positivity. Because when you can bring that into your own life, being confident and charismatic comes so much more easily 0:47 Self amuse as in Jurassic World - Guardians of the Galaxy diet 4:53 Chris Pratt positivity as in this funny clip with Stephen Colbert 6:58 Chris Pratt sticks to the complementary humor and comedy Everything is awesome (The LEGO Movie): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=StTqXEQ2l-Y Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 12 min

    How To Be Charismatic When You're Quiet

    Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CUChrisPine Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Some people mistakenly think that to be charismatic you have to be loud and energetic all the time, but that isn’t true. So today you’ll learn 7 tricks to be charismatic and make a great first impression even if you’re quiet. We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Chris Pine, since he’s both soft spoken and incredibly likable. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:13 - #1: Active speaking 1:14 - #2: Smile with your eyes & speak through a smile 2:21 - #3: Take advantage of first minute bias 3:17 - #4: Be a likable listener who laughs easily 4:30 - #5: Show your genuine emotional reaction 5:18 - #6: Ask energizing questions 6:10 - #7: Raise your voice to recapture attention -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #ChrisPine #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 11 min

    How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpower

    How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpower https://goo.gl/rsuAzZ Everyone gets excited about the idea of self-improvement. But when it comes time to actually put in the work over the long haul, things change. We find excuses. We don't follow through. This video explores how you can stay motivated and on track long after the initial excitement of improvement has passed. It covers a few surprising ways to better manage your own willpower so that you stick to your resolutions and become the person you want to be. When you've mastered your willpower and learned how to stay motivated even through arduous tasks, achieving the goals you've set for yourself becomes much, much easier. Enjoy :-) Inspired by the book Willpower by John Tierney and Roy Baumeister http://amzn.to/1Ocr1Je Join the newsletter to get tips on being more charismatic and confident in the moments that matter most: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 20 min

    When You Feel Nervous, Use This Trick To Look Confident

    Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3UqHccK Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Whether it’s an interview, a first date, or just a conversation with someone you don’t know well, we’ve all had times where things didn’t go well because we were uncomfortable or nervous. That feeling sucks. So in today’s video we’re going to go through some easy ways to look and feel more confident in those moments where you might have previously felt nervous. We’ll do this by breaking down clips of Tom Holland. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:22 - #1: Expand in awkward situations 4:58 - #2: Look up and away 6:55 - #3: Bounce between sharing and joking 8:22 - #4: Tell embarrassing stories 8:53 - #5: Re-enact your nerves 10:27 - #6: Commit to your impressions 10:40 - #7: Use a surprised pause 11:35 - #8: Defend people if someone tries to elevate you above them -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TomHolland #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Check out our video on Dave Chappelle: https://youtu.be/YZRxX1XYgoQ Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 14 min

    How To Deal With Negative Comments From Family and Friends

    6 Tips To Deal With The Negative Comments That Come With Self Improvement https://goo.gl/Exsh64 When we make positive changes and pursue self improvement, we sometimes attract negative comments from our friends and loved ones. It doesn't matter if you start taking your fitness seriously, starting a business, or implementing the charisma tips you see on this channel, whenever you start to grow there are inevitably people who would like to see you stay the same In this video I want to teach you how to deal with negative comments and hopefully turn that negativity to positivity. There are 6 tips I cover are 1. Use the toddler technique 2. Purposely misinterpret passive aggressive questions 3. Answer their questions with vulnerability 4. Use the 1 sentence rebuttal 5. Don't recruit; live it 6. Find one other person Those 6 things have been a huge help in removing negativity from my own life. I hope you find them helpful in removing negative comments and negative friends from yours. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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