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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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Today · 16 min
The Art Of Funny Storytelling
Get the exercise to build enthusiasm and commitment in under 1 minute: https://goo.gl/Hg42Mi Kevin Hart's 3 Secrets To Hilarious Storytelling Kevin Hart is one of the funniest men alive. Whether in interviews with Ellen Degeneres or George Lopez, or his standup specials, he tells absolutely hilarious stories. In fact, most of his standup routine consists of him telling stories. But he does it in such a way that hooks an audience and never lets go, partially because he is able to include so many jokes. It's not that Kevin Hart's life is inherently more interesting than the rest of ours. He is just a better storyteller. The good news is that storytelling is not something you're born with or you're not. Anyone can learn to tell the kind of funny stories that made Kevin famous. You just need to know the most important pieces. While there are many storytelling techniques and styles that will enable you to captivate an audience, ultimately, the best storytellers share a few things in common: they get attention, they commit, and they are constantly refining their craft. These fundamentals can be used in any kind of story but they are especially useful for funny stories So if you want to know how to tell a story better or you are just are interested in what makes Kevin Hart's stories so engaging, check out the video. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 18 min
How To Build Unwavering Confidence
How To Be More Confident - Conor McGregor Confidence Breakdown Get INSANE Confidence, Instantly! https://bit.ly/2N3xkCC Conor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes of all time. He routinely calls his shot and speaks with a conviction that victory is a total certainty. That's how he earned the nickname "Mystic Mac." Conor McGregor's confidence has led him to one UFC belt and another on the horizon. In this video I am examine some of his thought processes that lead him to have such superhuman confidence and prove that anyone can learn how to be more confident. Use these charismatic tips in your own life to look more confident and feel more confident as well. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 10 min
How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown
How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown How to make eye contact - learn from one of the masters... Bill Clinton. The 1992 Presidential debate was a huge turning point in the race and Clinton's superb eye contact is what so endeared him to voters. When you break down Bill Clinton's charisma it's obvious that there is a lot more going on than eye contact. But by focusing on these 3 simple charismatic tips to improve your eye contact, you'll find that your ability to connect with people immediately jumps. Bill Clinton used it to advance his campaign all the way to the Presidency - so you should be able to use it to make a few friends :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 12 min
How To Influence People With Your Word Choice
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2simGTt How To Influence People (And What Not to Do) Want to know how to influence people? Well, first it is helpful to know what NOT to do. This clip breaks down two different persuasive strategies used on The Voice by Ricky Martin and Joel Madden. You'll learn how self-esteem plays a role in convincing people to do the things you'd like them to do and how to frame your reasons so that people are more influenced by what you have to say. Make sure to implement these charismatic tips in your own life so that people respond to you positively when you make requests of them. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 11 min
How To Make Someone Realize They Can't Control You
The fastest way I know to build calm, grounded confidence in high-stakes moments: https://bit.ly/007-26-Draper This Mad Men scene is a masterclass in grounded confidence. Don Draper does not argue, defend himself, or try to convince anyone of his worth. He simply accepts the other person’s choice, states his own, and stays in control. In this video, we break down how to use that same energy in conflict, sales, leadership, dating, and any moment where you feel tempted to prove yourself. This video covers principle 4 of the 6 charismatic mindsets: you don’t need to convince anyone of anything. If you want the full framework for staying calm, honest, and grounded when it counts, watch all 6 here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWFwUwMoMl8 0:00 - Intro 0:14 - The situation 1:00 - Where Don shines 2:58 - 1. Slow Down Your Response 3:13 - 2. Accept their choice, then name yours 3:44 - 3. Invite them to a solution 6:36 - The best way I know to work on this Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Charlie Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 19 min
When Someone Intimidates You, Do This...
Build the confidence to stay calm, present, and charismatic in any social setting: 👉 https://bit.ly/017-26-VonTyson Why did Mike Tyson go into an interview expecting to dislike Theo Von, then end up telling him, “I love you”? In this video, we break down what Theo did differently with Tyson compared to his infamous interview with Bill Burr, and why one conversation created connection while the other fell apart. You’ll learn how to stop getting trapped in your own head, listen without slipping into performance mode, ask deeper questions without making things awkward, and handle tense moments without becoming defensive. Most importantly, you’ll see how staying physically calm can make all of these skills much easier when you’re nervous or desperate to make a good impression. 0:00 The Art of Navigating Intimidating Conversations 0:58 How to Handle Someone Who Intimidates You 2:43 The Power of Pausing and Reflective Listening 5:35 Building Intimacy Through Incremental Questions 12:16 Using Body Language to Stay Calm and Present Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 22 min
The One Social Skill That Beats All The Others
Want to become more charismatic and confident in any conversation? 👉 https://bit.ly/014-26-MatthewStory Watch the full podcast episode here: 👉 https://youtu.be/QMzxNfX-uAg Most people answer questions by explaining. Great storytellers turn their answers into moments you can see and feel. In this video, Charlie breaks down how Matthew McConaughey uses storytelling to hold attention, connect with people, and make ordinary answers memorable. You’ll learn why Matthew spent 47% of his interview telling stories, compared with Charlie’s 24%, and how to turn your own experiences into stories people actually want to hear. __________________ 0:00 The Secret Skill of Charismatic Leaders 2:06 Mastering the Art of the Hook 5:06 Building the Emotional Roller Coaster 9:22 The Power of the False Ending 13:22 The Confidence to Tell Your Story __________________ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 14 min
Sydney Sweeney Controversy Reveals Something Darker About Us
Want to build real prestige and improve the way people see you? Join Charisma University here: https://bit.ly/CU2325 Check out more of Rob Henderson’s work here: https://substack.com/@robkhenderson Sometimes outrage is not really about politics or beliefs, but about hidden strategies we use to compete for attraction and status. In this video, I dive into the controversy around Sydney Sweeney’s American Eagle ad with insights from psychologist and author Rob Henderson. Through the lens of evolutionary psychology, he reveals four cunning strategies driving outrage, rivalry, and reputation attacks. Beneath all of that lies an even bigger trap, the universal status game that shapes our lives, often without us realizing it. 0:00 - Intro 1:54 - Lower Rivals Eligibility 2:51 - Police and Limit What Rivals Can Offer 4:53 - Align With High Status Individuals to Improve Own Position 6:13 - Develop Skills That Benefit the Coalition 6:55 - Two Strategies To Gain Status 8:15 - The Direct Route 8:41 - The Indirect Route 9:20 - Learn To Make More REAL Connections Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Video editing: Andre Ringkjoeb Christopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 13 min
How To Be Charming When Talking To People
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbqMm1 Jennifer Lawrence - Funny, Self-Deprecating Stories Jennifer Lawrence is the most famous actress in the world. Scroll through the comments on any of her interviews and they are filled with people who support her and sing her praises. She is considered extremely funny and grounded. Yet despite her fame, Jennifer Lawrence has never garnered the type of hate that many accomplished people do. And a huge piece of that is in the stories she tells. In her interviews, she makes herself appear vulnerable and down to earth when she reveals embarrassing stories from her past. They might seem like simple anecdotes, but they endear her fans to her. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 16 min
How To Show Up For Someone In A Rough Time
The fastest way to build the confidence and charisma to make friends as an adult: https://bit.ly/002-26 Most people want to help a friend who is struggling, but they get it wrong. They give advice too fast, push too hard, or try to carry emotional burdens that are not theirs to carry, which can actually hurt the friendship. In this video, you will learn how to support a friend in hard times, build deeper connections, and become someone people trust, using Samwise Gamgee as the example of what real friendship and support look like when life gets tough. 0:00 - Intro 0:47 - Offer help before they ask 1:25 - Offer help without hooks 4:37 - Honor their boundaries 7:23 - Support them without this... 8:55 - See them as mid-story Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 13 min
Why Modern Men Are Lost (The Missing Energy)
Watch my King Archetype video: https://youtu.be/Qe3moydLS8w Try the Warrior Breathwork: https://youtu.be/aelfMAhl2hg If you want to build unshakable confidence and reconnect with your full potential, check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/018-25 In today’s video, I dive into why so many modern men feel lost, lonely, and disconnected—and reveal how the forgotten masculine archetypes, especially the warrior, hold the key to reclaiming our purpose, power, and inner fire. 0:00 - Intro 0:58 - Archetypes explained 1:46 - The final masculine archetype 2:25 - Part I: Channel Your Aggression 4:04 - Part II: Embrace Solitude 5:25 - Part III: Take Risks 6:50 - Part IV: Wield The Fire of Death Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
Unlock The Forgotten Masculine Power Modern Men Crave
Join the in person event waiting list: https://charismaoncommand.activehosted.com/f/70 Some men seem to see what’s coming. They spot where the market will move, guess how competitors will act, and position themselves to win. In this video, I’ll show you how to build that skill, read patterns, predict outcomes, and influence what happens next. To do so, we’re going to dive into what depth psychology calls the archetype of the Magician. 0:00 - Intro 2:02 - Unlearn what you have learned 3:29 - Enter non ordinary states of consciousness 5:02 - Surrender to something larger 9:18 - It's not about you 11:15 - Join my in person event Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 13 min
How To Be Confident Under Pressure (Even if You're Shy)
The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills: 👉 https://bit.ly/016-26-Inde Pressure can destroy your confidence when you need it most. Your mind goes blank, you stumble over your words, and opportunities slip away. In this video, we break down how Inde Navarrette stays charismatic in high-pressure moments, despite being naturally shy. You’ll learn how to prime yourself for confidence, mirror the energy in any room, and turn nervousness into connection. You’ll also discover why admitting you’re nervous can make you look more confident, and how to stop holding back so you can express yourself freely at work, on dates, and in your social life. 0:00 - Intro 1:10 - Priming 4:00 - Energy Mirroring 5:29 - Announce Your Nerves Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 15 min
How to Apologize Without Shame: The Upright Apology
Learn more about Charisma University: https://bit.ly/021-25 Most apologies, whether public or personal, feel fake because they are. This video breaks down why apologies often miss the mark, how shame gets in the way of real growth, and what it takes to make a genuine, meaningful apology. My podcast with Joe Hudson: https://youtu.be/KxiPnflbwJI?si=ocYol2HiZU3DpIB3 Joe Hudson's YouTube channel: ‪@ArtofAccomplishment‬ Get $300 off Joe Hudson's Connection Course: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/charisma-on-command 0:00 - Intro 1:30 - The problem 2:28 - How this applies to your life 3:02 - A real apology 3:19 - How can we fix it? 3:54 - The Shame "Hot Potato" 6:14 - The problem with shame 5:52 - Why I made this video 7:34 - The 4 steps to an upright apology 9:26 - How to further improve relationships Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
The Masculine Move Most Men Are Too Afraid to Make
Build the confidence to take direct action in conversations, dating, and real life: https://bit.ly/009-26-DDvsReacher Most men think attraction works like this: become successful, get in shape, build status, then wait for women to notice. But that fantasy keeps a lot of men stuck. In this video, you’ll learn the difference between indirect attraction and direct action, using Jack Reacher and Matt Murdock as examples. You’ll see the attraction signals most men miss, how to flirt without being awkward, and why what you want is usually on the other side of fear. This isn’t just about dating. It’s about the same pattern that keeps men from starting the business, writing the book, making the move, or going after the life they actually want. 0:00 - Intro 0:29 - The Fantasy Holding Men Back 1:34 - Indirect Attraction vs Direct Action 2:47 - The Signals Most Men Miss 4:02 - The 12 Stages of Intimacy 6:00 - Why Reacher Gets Stuck 7:00 - The Right Way to Flirt 10:25 - Build the confidence to take direct action Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 6 min
How To Stick To Your New Years Resolutions
Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTD So I made an early resolution that I hope you'll like: more YouTube videos!! Specifically I am going to create and release a video at least once a week. Let me know in the comments if there is something specifically you'd like me to cover. Happy 2016 - excited to make these videos a serious priority :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
The Quiet Skill That Attracts Feminine Women
Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/015-25 I used to think being attractive was all about confidence, teasing, and strong body language, but I was missing something deeper. In this video, I break down the 3 traits of grounded masculinity that most men overlook. These are the traits that make women feel emotionally safe, connected, and irresistibly drawn in. 0:00 – Why Typical Attraction Advice Falls Short 2:39 – Containment: The Balance Between Holding Space and Setting Limits 4:18 – Empathetic Attunement: Feeling Without Getting Lost 7:08 – Grounding Someone in the Now (Not the Logic) Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Edited by: Andre Ringkjoeb Christopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 11 min
How To Take Control Of Any Conversation Without Trying
How To Talk To People - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown (Part 2) Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2ENXoza Learning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school. In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview. This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a conversation towards topics that make you more likely to make a lasting connection. There are lots of ways, but this is one that will present itself as soon as the other person starts asking questions. You'll be able to build rapport quickly and potentially walk away with a new friend. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 11 min
How To Be The Center Of Attention
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nSrMjP Why People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden) Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive. His son, Jaden, is not. In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why. It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up. In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group. Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while Jaden gets cut off and has trouble getting a word in. The good news is that it isn't impossible to move upwards from the position of being trampled over in conversation. Watch this video and learn how to be a leader in a way that makes people happy to have you around. Book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
How To Become An Effective Leader
Link to confidence tip: https://goo.gl/DCY7nA Steve Jobs Leadership Skills Breakdown - How To Motivate People When Steve Jobs returned as the CEO of Apple in 1997, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy. Today, Apple is the most profitable company on the planet, thanks in huge part to Steve Jobs leadership. He was able to motivate employees, turn the company around, and preside over huge developments like the iMac, iPod, iPhone, and iPad. But Steve Jobs is unique in that despite clearly being an effective leader, he was not particularly likeable. Steve Jobs presentation and interview skills were legendary though. In this video we break down exactly what it was that made Steve Jobs such a powerful leader by examining his interviews and speeches. The goal is to use the lessons from his life to learn how to motivate employees and the people in our lives. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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