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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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Sunday · 23 min
How To Win Any Negotiation (Even From A Weak Position)
Join over 21,000 members at Charisma University: https://bit.ly/COC-009-25 Zelensky’s negotiation with Trump went off the rails. In this video, we break down the key mistakes, what he could have done differently, and how you can win high-stakes negotiations. 0:00 - Intro 0:35 - Caveat 1:04 - Who makes the first offer? 2:08 - Zelenskyy fumbled this essential point 3:55 - Do not beg to get your needs met 4:30 - Employ the "friendly f***k no" 5:32 - Don't push back in other ways 7:16 - The part where things break down 8:07 - The Karen Technique 8:24 - Zelenskyy gets into it with Vance 9:26 - How to recover from these moments 10:45 - Unprocessed contempt 12:15 - Always have a second option 13:27 - Zelenskyy's Fox interview 14:09 - Remember that you can walk out 14:46 - Learn to master your soft power skills Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sunday · 17 min
How Charles Manson Controlled His Followers (Toxic Partners Do This Too)
The best way I know to quickly improve your confidence: https://bit.ly/CU-2525 It’s a scary truth that the most powerful psychological tricks cult leaders use to brainwash their followers can just as effectively be used by toxic partners, manipulative friends, and predatory organizations against people like you and me. That’s why in this video, we’re breaking down each of those tricks - so hopefully you can spot the red flags and avoid falling victim to them too. 0:00 - Intro 1:06 - They impersonate the family unit 3:02 - They isolate you from your real family unit 4:31 - They twist language to disguise what's happening 5:52 - They demonize asking questions 7:24 - They reward blind obedience 9:21 - They use fake reciprocity Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sunday · 16 min
How To Build A Loyal Fanbase
The Easiest Way To Make The Best Friends (Vlogbrothers) Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Eshgu0 Hank and John Green of the vlogbrothers are some of the most influential people on YouTube. Collectively, they’re responsible multiple huge channels (including vlogbrothers and Crash Course, which just came out with Sociology) bestselling books and movies like the Fault in our Stars, Harry Potter inspired music and the YouTube conference - Vidcon. In his video we'll cover the Vlogbrothers' (Hank and John Green) unique style of education as well as the genius way they build communities. Link to John's video on depression: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ooCeoh6608&t=5s 1:49 Attention first when you communicate as CrashCourse sample 4:58 Hank and John Green built a community they are part of 5:27 The vlogbrothers talk about what they believe 5:57 Nerdfighters share the same beliefs as Hank and John Green 9:39 The vlogbrothers keep their focus on other people Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sunday · 18 min
Social Secrets Arnold Used To Win At Life
Arnold Schwarzenegger's bodybuilding, political and acting successes were no coincidence. Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EOIdWy Arnold Schwarzenegger is one of the most impressive success stories of our era. He won Mr. Olympia 7 times and put bodybuilding on the map, then he became the highest payed actor of his time, then without any elected experience Schwarzenegger became the governor of California. This kind of success tends to alienate people, yet Arnold has almost always inspired love from the masses. Today we are going to talk about what Arnold did that made his success something people were inspired by despite the fact that he was never particularly modest. Watch how Arnold moves from Admiration to actually being charismatic: 2:20 Arnold Schwarzenegger never takes himself too seriously 3:17 Arnold turns a bragging story into a likeable one using humor 6:14 Schwarzenegger is almost endlessly positive 7:08 An insight into how Arnold cultivates positivity in his life 10:00 The powerful "You and I" Switcharoo Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sunday · 19 min
The Power Dynamic: How To Command More Respect
Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EvEGPr Why Tyrion Will Win The Game Of Thrones Game of Thrones is extremely violent. Yet despite all the bloodiness, most of the power that you see characters like Tywin Lannister or Daenerys Targaryen wield is not through physical force. Rather it comes from mini-conflicts of body language, eye contact, and tonality. Specifically, there is a battle to control the 4 W's. I believe the person to win the Game of Thrones will be the one that best takes control of these 4W's. And one of the best candidates to win is Tyrion Lannister. He may never sit the Iron Throne himself, but I believe that given his incredible command of power, he will be by the ruler's side. Here are the four W's that make Tyrion so special 1) When: In this scene Daenerys completely controls the when as Tyrion and Jorah are there at her leisure. She also takes command of the silence. 2) Who: Tyrion is great at making himself appear more important. Tywin Lannister is also great at this as he snatches the power from Joffrey, despite the fact that Joffrey Baratheon is king. 3) What: Tyrion does an excellent job of controlling what Dany focuses on 4) Where: Daenerys' power is completely dependant on where she is - when she finds herself in front of Khal Moro in season 6, it's basically at zero So those are the four W's that I believe will win to Tyrion winning the Game of Thrones. Hope you enjoy! Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sunday · 12 min
Simple Ways To Earn Respect From Almost Anyone
Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3oP46xb Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Tommy Shelby was our most requested video ever. So today we’re doing a breakdown that’s long overdue: his frenemy, Alfie Solomons. While you don’t want to be like Alfie in every way, there are 4 habits you can learn from him to instantly command more respect from the people around you. And even though Peaky Blinders is a scripted TV show, all the psychology covered in today’s video will apply to your actual life. How To Be Fearless Under Pressure (Thomas Shelby): https://youtu.be/Hbj4tfokhYc ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:41 - #1: Be calm in situations where most people 2:12 - #2: Hold eye contact during conflict 3:30 - #3: Don't let other people dictate where your attention goes 5:02 - #4: Be honest even when it goes against your best interests -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #AlfieSolomons #PeakyBlinders #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sunday · 44 min
5 Lies About Being A Man You Probably Still Believe
Get Joe's free transformation guide + $300 off his upcoming Connection Course. Just use the discount code CHARISMA at checkout. This only is available when the cohorts are about to launch: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/course/the-connection-course Or if checkout isn't open, join the email list to be notified of upcoming Connection course cohorts: http://s.artofaccomplishment.com/iVRQ3h Most men are taught a very narrow version of masculinity: be tough, be dominant, never show weakness, and always stay in control. But Joe Hudson argues that a lot of those ideas are actually keeping men disconnected, reactive, and less powerful than they could be. In this video, we break down 5 lies modern men believe about masculinity, and what real strength looks like instead. 0:00 - Intro 1:37 - Lie 1 8:12 - Lie 2 14:41 - Lie 3 21:09 - Lie 4 27:11 - Lie 5 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sunday · 13 min
How To Permanently Reduce Stress
How To Eliminate Stress Stress sucks. Not only does it take an emotional toll, but if you live long enough with stress it can literally kill you. So it doesn’t matter, if it’s from your job, your relationship, your financial situation, or getting in an airplane, for your health and your sanity, you have to know how to reduce and even eliminate stress. I want to cover the 3 levers you have to stop stressing out, but first you need to the big misunderstanding people have about stress. Whatever stress you might have is NOT coming from the activities in your life. It’s coming from our habits. It’s coming from a mindset, which is this: Stress comes from needing something to happen that you don’t think you can control (and that you think could go badly). The good news is that understanding stress like this gives three options to combat it. 1. Stop needing things. Fear setting can help with this 2. Increase your feeling of control. Use tree planning as opposed to stick planning. 3. Create the habit of optimism. NLP swish patterns will help here. Happy stress hunting! Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC For the Spanish and Russian Channels Spanish: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_p2pDMqZ5bjNpQTL3K4r1g Russian: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnXppDx0xzfKqOafJunzcEw Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sunday · 18 min
Thieves, Liars and h3h3
Liars, Thieves, & H3H3 Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nJkIqH Ethan and Hila from h3h3 are basically the Southpark of YouTube. They parody the most outrageous things going on in the community, and despite the fact that they are primarily a comedy channel, they often manage to make a point about the way we ought to behave. In this video we’re going to look at what has made h3h3 so popular. We’ll focus on Ethan in particular because he is on camera far more than Hila. 0:27 h3h3 often gets their point across using parody 3:54 h3h3 stands up for people like when Ethan & Hila was sued 5:38 h3h3 holds on to their principles even if there's lawsuit involved 8:09 h3h3 tells the truth and practices free speech Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sunday · 8 min
This Needs To STOP: Copyright BS
Ugh. I wish this video didn't exist Our video on Conor McGregor received a takedown notice despite the fact that everything on it was commentary and fell within the bounds of fair use. Which means it was ripped off YouTube fraudulently because the owner of one of the clips has too much damn power. This abuse has been happening on YouTube more and more. Fair Use is getting destroyed and it sucks. I don't know how, but I'd like to figure how to fight back rather than just by complaining about it. If you have any ideas and you want to reach out to me, you can contact me via YouTube messenger or via email at charlie@charismaoncommand.com Hopefully, together we can end this shit. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sunday · 15 min
4 Jokes That Make Women Notice You
Master your confidence and charisma step by step with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3LCkP5g We all know women like men who can make them laugh. But you may not realize there are 4 specific types of jokes that women absolutely love. So in this video you’ll learn how to use these 4 to create a fun flirty conversations with anyone you’re interested in 0:00 - Intro 0:22 - The Ice Breaker 1:30 - Build a fake world 3:38 - Portable Jokes 4:49 - Innuendo 5:17 - Innuendo Level 1 5:50 - Innuendo Level 2 6:53 - Innuendo Level 3 8:00 - The core mindset Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sunday · 13 min
How to Change a Stubborn Mind Without a Fight
Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3tkmj7r Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all felt the frustration of arguing with someone that just won’t listen. So in this video, we’ll go through 6 tips to actually change a stubborn person’s mind, without hurting your relationship. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:09 - #1: Say two things they’ll agree with before stating where you disagree 1:14 - #2: Use an analogy you know they’ll agree with 3:01 - #3: Maintain a calm conversational tone 3:30 - #4: Allow for playful breaks 4:08 - #5: Clarify the person’s ideas before you disagree with them 5:15 - #6: Debate ideas, not terminology -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #JonStewart #BenShapiro #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sunday · 5 min
Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Evaluation
Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meet https://goo.gl/XTcjzH Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Evaluation Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sunday · 8 min
How To Be The Funniest Person In The Room
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2E8Yitb Robin Williams' #1 Tip To Becoming Funnier Robin Williams was absolutely hilarious. His mental quickness was second to none and people often commented on what a raw natural comedic talent he was. The truth is though, Robin Williams honed his skills over many years. And one of those skills in particular can be applied by anyone to make themselves funnier almost immediately. It's a humor technique called playing a character and it can make even things that are unfunny seem hilarious. So check out this tip and use it in your own jokes and stories. I can't promise you'll become as funny as Robin Williams, but if you do it with conviction, you'll see people respond with way more laughter than you may be used to. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sunday · 14 min
Donald Trump: Art Of The Handshake
Donald Trump: Art Of The Handshake Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2ESFWtH Donald Trump recently made news with his 19 second hand shake of Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe. I’m going to break down some of the more unique aspects on Donald Trumps handshake and then we’ll cover the more standard business shake - which many people habitually do incorrectly, creating an impression of weakness or overcompensating insecurity. We'll also take a look at Trump's handshake with Justin Trudeau 0:54 Yank during handshake with Trudeau on the receiving end 1:13 Wrist bend and lift as Trump did with Prime Minister Shinzo Abe 1:36 Hand tap during handshake as Donald Trump still does in 2017 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sunday · 19 min
The 3 Traits That Make You Impossible to Ignore
Build the confidence and charisma to express yourself authentically: 👉 https://bit.ly/015-26-Mamdani Zohran Mamdani and Donald Trump have completely different personalities, politics, and values. But both used a similar charisma playbook to overcome opponents with more money, status, and establishment support. In this video, we break down the three traits that made them impossible to ignore: the courage to risk ridicule, the conviction to stay on offense, and a consistent emotional identity. You’ll learn why charisma begins when you stop choosing social safety over honest self-expression, plus how to apply that principle in your career, relationships, and social life without copying anyone else’s personality. 0:00 The Unlikely Rise of a Political Outsider 0:35 The Surprising Parallel Between Two Rivals 4:01 The Courage to Be Disliked 7:25 The Power of a Consistent Emotional Signature 11:17 The Choice Between Safety and Self-Expression Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 13 min
Why Modern Men Are Lost (The Missing Energy)
Watch my King Archetype video: https://youtu.be/Qe3moydLS8w Try the Warrior Breathwork: https://youtu.be/aelfMAhl2hg If you want to build unshakable confidence and reconnect with your full potential, check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/018-25 In today’s video, I dive into why so many modern men feel lost, lonely, and disconnected—and reveal how the forgotten masculine archetypes, especially the warrior, hold the key to reclaiming our purpose, power, and inner fire. 0:00 - Intro 0:58 - Archetypes explained 1:46 - The final masculine archetype 2:25 - Part I: Channel Your Aggression 4:04 - Part II: Embrace Solitude 5:25 - Part III: Take Risks 6:50 - Part IV: Wield The Fire of Death Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 14 min
How To Turn Anything Into A Witty Joke
Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3w2U7sq Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Some people can say just about anything, tell jokes huge that should be terrible and still make an audience roar with laughter. That was Norm MacDonald and its why in this video we’ll be breaking him down to cover how you can make people obsessed with you by telling bad jokes that still manage to kill. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:27 - #1: Smile while you're joking 1:09 - #2: Explain your jokes 2:31 - #3: The dead bait method 4:09 - #4: Make it obvious you're lying 6:10 - #5: The long, meandering prank joke 7:36 - The Meta Method -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #NormMacDonald #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 16 min
How To Become An Effective Leader
Link to confidence tip: https://goo.gl/DCY7nA Steve Jobs Leadership Skills Breakdown - How To Motivate People When Steve Jobs returned as the CEO of Apple in 1997, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy. Today, Apple is the most profitable company on the planet, thanks in huge part to Steve Jobs leadership. He was able to motivate employees, turn the company around, and preside over huge developments like the iMac, iPod, iPhone, and iPad. But Steve Jobs is unique in that despite clearly being an effective leader, he was not particularly likeable. Steve Jobs presentation and interview skills were legendary though. In this video we break down exactly what it was that made Steve Jobs such a powerful leader by examining his interviews and speeches. The goal is to use the lessons from his life to learn how to motivate employees and the people in our lives. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 14 min
The “Mature” Habit That Quietly Destroys Relationships
Join the email list. Get your discount for the Art of Accomplishment Connection Course: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/aoa-discount In a recent interview, Anthony Hopkins is asked about his estranged daughter. At first, he avoids the question. Then he gives an answer that reveals far more than he likely intends. The language he uses shuts down vulnerability and blocks connection. This video breaks down why those kinds of phrases feel protective in the moment, and why they quietly damage the relationships you care about most. 0:00 - Intro 0:32 - Shut down phrases 1:15 - The real problem 2:21 - The staircase of vulnerability 3:49 - Go First 4:04 - Show Care 5:04 - Just Listen 5:27 - Acknowledge Your Part 6:03 - Share Your Story 7:23 - Stop Treating Yourself Harshly Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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