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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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Saturday · 16 min
6 Psychological Tricks To Read Anyone
How To Read ANYONE https://goo.gl/Za6Y2J Today we are going to cover the skill of reading people. Which is an awesome skill - to be able to know what someone is thinking or feeling will save you a lot of grief. You won’t look silly talking to someone who is not interested, you’ll get a better of idea of who is interested and isn’t saying anything. But we won’t stop there Because one of the most amazing things that developing your ability to read an individual does is that it enables you to improve. And I saw in the comments, a lot of you were asking what I studied to be able to do the charisma breakdowns - truly there was no class - it was just a matter of doing these steps over and over. And there is a science to it. So let’s get into 1. Increase self-awareness 2. Find where their attention is (eye contact is huge) 3. Get good at identifying micro-expressions, potentially use this site: http://www.microexpressionstest.com/m... 4. Identify common patterns 5. Make predictions based on people's body language 6. Experiment in your own life Hope you find that helpful in identifying the body language to read people. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 13 min
Secrets Every Shorter Guy Needs To Know
Join Over 13,000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3MldAd8 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Some people are extremely judgmental about height. And it sucks to be judged for something that’s totally out of your control. There’s no magic formula to get every single person to stop being prejudiced BUT there are tricks you can steal from some of the world’s most charismatic men to help you command more respect from the people around you. Regardless of your height. This video isn’t meant to be a one size fits all solution. Instead, think of it as a menu to choose from. Pick the advice that fits the charisma style you like most. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:25 - #1: Addressing your height 0:39 - Option 1: Go there first 1:09 - Option 2: Talk about it like it's no big deal 2:16 - Option 3: Don't make it a part of the conversation 3:04 - #2: Be a big presence 3:10 - Option 1: Be the loudest person in the room 3:37 - Option 2: Use expansive hand gestures 4:24 - Option 3: Freely use neutral space 4:57 - Option 4: Use platonic touch 5:52 - #3: Celebrate other people's success ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TomCruise #TomHolland #KevinHart #CharismaOnCommand ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 6 min
Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma
Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meet https://goo.gl/janZ3F Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 11 min
How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown
How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown How to make eye contact - learn from one of the masters... Bill Clinton. The 1992 Presidential debate was a huge turning point in the race and Clinton's superb eye contact is what so endeared him to voters. When you break down Bill Clinton's charisma it's obvious that there is a lot more going on than eye contact. But by focusing on these 3 simple charismatic tips to improve your eye contact, you'll find that your ability to connect with people immediately jumps. Bill Clinton used it to advance his campaign all the way to the Presidency - so you should be able to use it to make a few friends :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 7 min
How To Stop Caring What People Think
How To Stop Caring What People Think Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nNVCa0 Have you ever lied about an odd hobby you have? Or maybe your job status? Or your height? Or even just avoided putting yourself in a situation in which you knew you were likely to fail? Why did you do that? Short answer: because you were embarrassed. Embarrassment comes from trying to control how other people perceive you. So instead of just showing the world your nerdy hobby, say you collect Beanie Babies, you go “I don’t want people to think I’m a dweeb.” and you pretend you don’t have one. The same process plays out with hobbies as it does with mistakes we’ve made, areas in which we are weak, and areas where we might get publicly rejected. We hide what we don’t want people to know about us. We conform to what other people would like us to be. But that doesn’t have to be the answer: Because there is another, more empowering mindset: Instead of focusing on other’s perceptions and feeling embarrassed about what they may think… Focus on whether or not you live up to YOUR OWN values. That's what this video is about and that's how you'll learn to stop caring what people think about you. Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Animations by RSDF Studios, Jakarta (http://rambatansaddhadhika.co.id/) Art: Bonni Rambatan, Dwinanda Edo Editing: Bonni Rambatan Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 6 min
How To Stick To Your New Years Resolutions
Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTD So I made an early resolution that I hope you'll like: more YouTube videos!! Specifically I am going to create and release a video at least once a week. Let me know in the comments if there is something specifically you'd like me to cover. Happy 2016 - excited to make these videos a serious priority :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 16 min
How To Flirt With A Girl Without Being Creepy
How to approach and flirt with women that you like without being creepy. Get The 3 Ways To Start A Conversation: https://goo.gl/YcTueW The first ever study of creepiness was done just a few weeks ago, and it had a really interesting result that men and women think of creepiness differently. Men think of creepiness as taxidermy, scary movies and clowns. Women have those same associations plus one more... Women also associate creepiness with men. Somewhere in the course of every mans life while he was flirting he has done something creepy. The reason is that men don't have the same understanding of creepy that women do when flirting. How to Flirt Time-Stamp Guide: 0:47 The Goldilocks rule of eye contact when flirting and approaching 2:04 Warm Up to social interaction (start making brief eye contact with everyone) 2:44 Add a smile, wave or high five and speak to the women who smile back 3:50 When flirting combine your compliments with jokes to release tension 5:05 1-3 Second touches on the arm are enough to indicate interest without being creepy 6:25 Pay attention to how receptive she is to physical contact and respond accordingly 8:05 Critical Flirting tip avoid making her feel trapped by positioning your own back to the wall Link to Russell Brand Flirting Breakdown: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8k Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 16 min
How He Won Using Charisma When Under Attack (How You Can Too)
Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3wYo2SR Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Johnny Depp’s relaxed confidence on the stand has helped make public perception around his trial with Amber Heard pretty one sided. But as many other witnesses have shown, staying calm and confident is not easy under that kind of pressure. Which is why in this video we’ll be covering 5 things Johnny has done and that you can do to radiate extreme confidence that makes others trust and like you even in high pressure situations. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:32 - #1: Control the cadence of the conversation 1:01 - #2: Maintain non reaction seeking body language 3:28 - #3: Catch and refuse frames you do not agree with 7:03 - #4: Confident people are able to control the emotional tone of an interaction 8:39 - #5: Confidence is easier to feel when you have positive reference experiences -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #JohnnyDepp #AmberHeard #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 12 min
How To Influence People With Your Word Choice
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2simGTt How To Influence People (And What Not to Do) Want to know how to influence people? Well, first it is helpful to know what NOT to do. This clip breaks down two different persuasive strategies used on The Voice by Ricky Martin and Joel Madden. You'll learn how self-esteem plays a role in convincing people to do the things you'd like them to do and how to frame your reasons so that people are more influenced by what you have to say. Make sure to implement these charismatic tips in your own life so that people respond to you positively when you make requests of them. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 17 min
How To Quietly Take Control of a Room
The fastest way I know to build your social confidence: https://bit.ly/003-26 Dr K is about to win over this chaotic room in 13 minutes, going from the ignored outsider to the person everyone loves. He does it using five techniques most people get wrong, but anyone can learn. 0:00 - Intro 1:11 - Find out what people respond to 1:58 - Join the chaos 3:37 - Make the agreement explicit 6:03 - Change HOW you talk about it 8:12 - Take them somewhere new 11:24 - The fastest way to build your social confidence Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Visko Matich Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 13 min
How To Stop Negative Self Talk
BEST FRIEND BRAIN Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EaYfJo So this is going to be one of those times where I share something I am just getting started on. In fact, I stumbled across this idea this week. I was reading this book recommended by a friend and one of the lines stuck out to me, it was “I’m trying to be a best friend to myself” And I thought hmmmm - so many of the times when i have been upset in my life come from times when I’ve not been a best friend to myself. I want to invite you to spend one week changing your thinking to be more of a best friend towards yourself. I'll be trying the same thing :-) 2:49 Feel isolated mentally 3:56 Your best friend brain is solution-oriented 5:13 Best friend brain has high standards and gives you tough love 6:03 Your best friend brain is flattering Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 22 min
Why You’re Still Lonely, Even If You “Go Out”
Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-Friendships Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We are in an epidemic of loneliness and it’s a real problem. Roughly half of adults report feeling socially disconnected, and science is showing loneliness is associated with a greater risk of dementia, stroke, depression, anxiety, and even has a similar risk of premature death as smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day. On the flip side, you’ve probably heard that you are an average of the five people you spend the most time with. That means with rare exceptions, your happiness and success are heavily dependent on who your friends are. So in today’s video, you’ll learn how to improve in each of the four main phases for making incredible friendships. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:40 - #1: How To Meet New People 0:42 - Proximity 1:06 - Join A Flock 1:41 - Become A Beacon 2:10 - Say Yes To Invitations 2:20 - #2: How To Turn Them Into Friends 2:40 - Focus On The Process 3:22 - Bait For Shared Interests 4:13 - #3: How To Make Your Friendships World Class 4:36 - A Shared North Star 6:04 - Being A Lifeline 7:55 - Mutual Vulnerability 9:32 - #4: How To Maintain Them For Decades 9:37 - Constructive Conflict 11:37 - The 5 To 1 Rule 12:00 - Replace Jealousy With Joy 13:41 - Expect And Embrace Change 15:02 - Do you want great new friendships? How To Be Happier For The Rest Of Your Life: https://youtu.be/VTOO_9_ECA8?si=U_G6rMULINOQcEd_ How To Make A Great Impression: https://youtu.be/NzVrmGjsGWo?si=qCLL0JRa4gT_MMjb https://youtu.be/zDEfjg6ylFA?si=-y5NNf_CskVrS4ZC Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 10 min
5 Subtle Habits That Build Massive Respect
Join Charisma University today: https://bit.ly/016-25 Give me seven minutes and I will teach you five psychological tricks that you can use to command respect instantly. 🕒Timestamps🕒 0:00 – Intro 0:24 – Fill Your Calendar 1:18 – Move Like a Predator 2:34 - The Friendly Extension 3:51 – Remove filler words 5:00 – Embrace Silence Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 13 min
8 Habits From Tommy Shelby That Make People Respect You
Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University: http://bit.ly/3K1quRA Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe People love Tommy Shelby from Peaky Blinders. He’s a quiet, introverted character, and at the same time extremely charismatic. While you don’t want to be like Tommy in every way, there are 8 habits you can learn from him to instantly command respect from the people around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:21 - #1: Have slow, relaxed movements 0:57 - #2: Hold eye contact, even during conflict 1:57 - #3: Be non-reactive to hostility 3:00 - #4: Be as big as your audience 3:33 - #5: Show conviction with your words 3:56 - #6: Show conviction with your tone 4:26 - #7: Speak slowly and use pauses between words 6:23 - #8: Use carrot / stick motivation -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #PeakyBlinders #ThomasShelby #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 15 min
How To Instantly Make Someone Like You
How To Make People Like You - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nN0H2C People like people who are like them. When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport. That's the short answer of how to get people to like you. In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone. From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements. Bruce Lee's charisma demonstrates a number of these traits and I break 'em all down in this video so that you learn exactly how to make people like you. Use these charisma tips in your own life to make friends quickly and connect with the people you'd like to get to know. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Friday · 18 min
4 Covert Attacks To Your Character And How To Beat Each One Calmly
Join over 21,000 members inside Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-00325 Malcolm Gladwell’s debate missteps offer valuable lessons in handling arguments and conflict. This video breaks down key mistakes like passive aggression, straw-manning, and defensiveness—and shows you how to avoid them while staying calm and persuasive. Learn how to respond when others twist your words or act rude, and recognize when you’re shutting down so you can stay in control and confident in any situation. 0:00 - Intro 0:46 - #1: Covert Sniping 2:30 - How To Reverse Rudeness 3:03 - #2: Straw-Manning 5:34 - Refuse Burdens 6:17 - Use The "That's Exactly Why" Response 6:40 - Can you pass this test? 8:14 - #4: Projecting Bad Faith 9:33 - How To Avoid This In Your Own Life 10:42 - Notice When You Lose Your Capacity To Listen 12:16 - Want To Build That Unshakable Confidence? Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Written by: Charlie Houpert Video editing by: Io Anastasaki Andre Ringkjøb Christopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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