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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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Yesterday · 9 min
How To Instantly Get A More Attractive Smile
Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nM4cpO How To Smile Perfectly For Men Will Smith has one of the most winning smiles on the planet. How does he do it? And can you learn how to smile better? You can. There are 3 key tips that lead to people finding your smile more attractive and Will Smith demonstrates them all. Two of them are in your direct, immediate control. And the third comes from learning how to smile genuinely so that you activate the muscles under the eye, which signals that you are being real. When you've mastered all three, you'll be able to smile batter and smile perfectly. So whether you want to learn how to smile for pictures or you'd just like to have a good smile in your normal life, practice these tips. They'll make those pearly whites shine even more and help you come across as more genuine. Check out our book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 12 min
This Simple Trick Makes People Love Talking to You
The fastest way I know to stop having boring conversations and become more magnetic: https://bit.ly/004-26 Most people are stuck having the same boring conversations on repeat. They play it safe, ignore the obvious, and stay trapped in rigid social scripts that kill connection and charisma. In this video, you’ll learn the conversation techniques Ryan Gosling uses to instantly make interactions more fun, magnetic, and memorable, so you can stop running out of things to say, connect faster, and become someone people genuinely love talking to. 0:00 - Intro 0:21 - Why conversations feel repetitive 1:10 - Escape the frame 2:07 - Follow the shiny thing 2:50 - Open the circle 4:22 - Imply friendship fast 4:46 - Acknowledge others emotions 7:00 - The fastest way to become more charismatic Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Joe Cordle Edited by Simba Mahachi Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 24 min
This Is Not Confidence
The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills: https://bit.ly/KevVsClav Most people think confidence comes from fixing everything they dislike about themselves. But the more you treat yourself like a problem to solve, the easier it becomes to believe you’ll never be enough. In this video, we compare Kevin Hart and Clavicular to reveal two very different ways of responding to insecurity. You’ll see how Kevin turned the thing he once felt ashamed of into one of his greatest sources of charisma, why appearance-based self-improvement can become an endless checklist, and what real confidence looks like when you stop managing how everyone sees you. Because confidence isn’t having nothing to feel insecure about. It’s no longer needing to hide it. Timestamps: 0:00 Everyone Has An Insecurity 1:52 Kevin Hart's Height Complex 3:04 The Mask: Lil Kev The Bastard 5:02 "Comedy Isn't For You" 6:33 The Characters We All Play 7:43 Mindset #6: I Go First 8:28 Nothing Left To Protect 10:23 The Other Path: Looksmaxing 13:51 The Checklist That Never Ends 15:12 Kevin vs. Clavicular 16:29 Try This Yourself Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
Trying to Get Respect Doesn’t Work, This Does
The fastest way I know to build real confidence and strong social skills: https://bit.ly/005-26 Most people lose respect in ways they don’t even notice. They try too hard to look confident, dominate conversations, or prove their worth, but those moves usually backfire. In this video, you’ll learn the respect killing habits that make people take you less seriously, how Tommy Shelby avoids them, and how to build real self-respect so you can stay calm under pressure, stop chasing approval, and become someone people naturally respect. 0:00 - Intro 0:20 - The 3 respect killing moves 0:40 - Respect killer #1 1:22 - The body language that earns respect 2:07 - Why fake confidence backfires 2:51 - Respect killer #2 3:40 - How Tommy Shelby stays calm 4:01 - The 3 to 5 second pause 5:03 - The Joffrey Rule 5:51 - Respect Killer #3 6:51 - How to handle underhanded comments 7:31 - When to walk away 8:30 - The deeper reason people lose respect 9:41 - How to build self-respect 11:17 - The fastest way to become more charismatic Connect With Us Further: Website: [http://www.charismaoncommand.com](http://www.charismaoncommand.com) Facebook: [http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand](http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand) Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Joe Cordle Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 14 min
The “Mature” Habit That Quietly Destroys Relationships
Join the email list. Get your discount for the Art of Accomplishment Connection Course: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/aoa-discount In a recent interview, Anthony Hopkins is asked about his estranged daughter. At first, he avoids the question. Then he gives an answer that reveals far more than he likely intends. The language he uses shuts down vulnerability and blocks connection. This video breaks down why those kinds of phrases feel protective in the moment, and why they quietly damage the relationships you care about most. 0:00 - Intro 0:32 - Shut down phrases 1:15 - The real problem 2:21 - The staircase of vulnerability 3:49 - Go First 4:04 - Show Care 5:04 - Just Listen 5:27 - Acknowledge Your Part 6:03 - Share Your Story 7:23 - Stop Treating Yourself Harshly Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 7 min
How To Have Fun Without Drinking
"How Do I have Fun Without Drinking?" https://goo.gl/0uDf6E It can be tough to have fun when you are learning how to not drink when everyone else is. People will peer pressure you incessantly, implying that you're no fun or a buzzkill. That's why it's good to come up with a plan for having fun despite not having anything to drink. So if you've watched this video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTkX4wfkj1A) and decided to quit drinking, take a look at these tips for having a good time when you're sober and everyone else around you isn't. Obviously there are a million ways how to have fun without drinking, but the big question is, "How do you do it in an environment where everyone else is?" Hopefully these musings help :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
The Podcaster's Secret To Instant Connection
Level up your charisma in the fastest way possible: https://bit.ly/CU-2425 For the first time in history we have professional conversation havers - they’re called podcasters. And one of the most overlooked social skills that make them successful - is the ability to connect with anyone, even when they have nothing in common. So in this video, I’ll show you 6 techniques - that the best conversationalists use, and that you can use today - to connect with anyone and begin a more meaningful relationship. 0:00 - Intro 0:29 - #1: Let them know this 2:03 - #2: Navigate the talk towards... 3:49 - #3: Parroting 4:34 - #4: Advocate for things people... 6:32 - #5: Pause and take a moment 7:29 - #6: Go there first 9:06 - A challenge for you 9:49 - The fastest way to level up your charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 13 min
How To Make A Disrespectful Person Look Insecure For Insulting You
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbwIYh How To Stand Up For Yourself Without Being A Jerk, Robert Downey Junior Style We all have had those situations in life where we KNOW someone is trying to get to us. Maybe they keep asking embarrassing questions. Maybe they put us down with backhandedly. We know they are attacking us passive aggressively, but it feels like there is nothing we can do about it. Many of us don't know how to handle this kind of conflict. In this interview with Robert Downey Junior, Krishnan Guru-Murthy continually asks about his history with drugs and jail. In the context of the interview, the questions are out of line, yet Guru-Murthy continues to probe. This video will show you how Robert Downey Junior handled the situation and the exact steps that you can take to deal with these kinds of passive aggressive attacks. The good news is that you don't have to be a jerk, nor do you have to be a total door mat. You can politely be assertive and then exit the conversation by following the 5 steps. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 18 min
The Recurring Dream You've Been Having Is Trying To Tell You Something
Candace Owens says she has recurring dreams where Charlie Kirk’s soul visits her from purgatory. In the dreams, he warns her about a betrayal and gives her a name. Candace takes the dreams literally and reaches out to the person he mentions. In this video, I explain why this is a mistake. You will learn how to interpret dreams properly using Carl Jung’s iceberg model. We break down what dreams are, what they are not, and how confusing symbols with reality leads to bad conclusions. 0:00 - Intro 1:49 - Carl Jung 2:43 - The Consciousness Iceberg 9:44 - Step 1 10:01 - Step 2 10:28 - Step 3 11:08 - Step 4 Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 10 min
How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpower
How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpower https://goo.gl/rsuAzZ Everyone gets excited about the idea of self-improvement. But when it comes time to actually put in the work over the long haul, things change. We find excuses. We don't follow through. This video explores how you can stay motivated and on track long after the initial excitement of improvement has passed. It covers a few surprising ways to better manage your own willpower so that you stick to your resolutions and become the person you want to be. When you've mastered your willpower and learned how to stay motivated even through arduous tasks, achieving the goals you've set for yourself becomes much, much easier. Enjoy :-) Inspired by the book Willpower by John Tierney and Roy Baumeister http://amzn.to/1Ocr1Je Join the newsletter to get tips on being more charismatic and confident in the moments that matter most: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 24 min
Wharton Business School: Entrepreneurship Speech (former private equity Associate)
Went back to Wharton Business School to talk with some MBAs about entrepreneurship. It's a bit long so feel free to skip around or watch on 1.5x ;-) Link mentioned: http://bit.ly/COC-FirstImpressionYTD If just one person escapes investment banking because of this I will be proud! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
Charisma Has 4 Levels. Most People Never Get Past 2.
In Stage 2? Here’s your next step: https://bit.ly/020-25 In this video, I break down the 4 stages of growth that guide all of my content going forward. Each stage needs a different approach — and knowing where you are helps you get the most out of my advice. Watch this to understand how my videos fit into your journey. 01:24 - Stage 1 02:34 - Stage 2 04:21 - Stage 3 06:58 - Stage 4 08:20 - What do you do with this? Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 6 min
The Quickest Way To Make ANYONE Laugh
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: https://goo.gl/2pFTj7 How To Make Someone Laugh (The Easiest Way) This video breaks down of the easiest way how to make someone laugh. You don't have to be clever. You don't have to have good comedic timing. You don't funny or complicated jokes. In fact, it's almost so easy to do that it is frustrating. But hey, it works. Even Ellen can't contain her laughter. So if you want to maThe nice thing is, once you've made somebody laugh, they are more likely to open up and connect with you. You're more likely to make a friend. So when you want to make somebody laugh, remember: it doesn't take a brilliant joke. It just takes someone who is really into the joke they are telling! (featuring Ellen Degeneres and Julia Roberts) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 14 min
How To Instantly Make Someone Like You
How To Make People Like You - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nN0H2C People like people who are like them. When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport. That's the short answer of how to get people to like you. In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone. From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements. Bruce Lee's charisma demonstrates a number of these traits and I break 'em all down in this video so that you learn exactly how to make people like you. Use these charisma tips in your own life to make friends quickly and connect with the people you'd like to get to know. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 12 min
The One Belief That Erases Social Fear
Unlock your natural, consistent charisma: https://bit.ly/45oSK8f There is ONE mindset that erases social fear. If you have it, you will walk through life with total confidence and comfort, like you own the world. In today’s video, I want to break down the belief that IShowSpeed has, because with it, you will feel completely socially free. 0:00 - Intro 1:09 - The Core Mindset 1:48 - Treat people with enthusiasm 2:56 - Balance enthusiasm with playful banter 4:06 - The danger to teasing 4:55 - Reenforcing the core mindset 5:38 - All of us have natural charisma 6:03 - Today's mission 7:12 - Unlock your natural, consistent charisma Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 8 min
How To Be Extremely Captivating To Those Around You
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nRAxuA Body Language Tips - Tony Robbins Charisma Breakdown Tony Robbins is a master of body language. These body language tips will break down how he is able to communicate so effectively by using his body in ways that most people don't during speeches or presentations. By the way, if you haven't been to an event, check him out. He is the most charismatic man I have ever seen in person and a huge portion of that is because of his emphatic body language, which is on full display in this video. If you want to learn how to inspire a crowd of 7,000 people, there is no one better to learn from than Tony. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 10 min
Speak Up Confidently And Stop Getting Ignored
Master your confidence step by step with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/43aLj3G When people interrupt you, it’s easy to feel small, overlooked, or ignored. But you don’t need to be loud to make others listen. In this video, you’ll learn four simple ways to stop people cutting you off, command attention, and speak with quiet authority. 0:00 - Intro 0:28 - Preface with a hype line 2:01 - Use gravity pauses 2:59 - Use gravity gestures 4:25 - Finish your sentence Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
How To Get Better At Public Speaking Fast
The fastest way I know to become a better communicator, storyteller, and leader: https://bit.ly/006-26-Ford Most people think great speeches are about confidence, natural talent, or finding the perfect words. But if you study the speeches people remember for years, from Harrison Ford to Steve Jobs, they all follow the same underlying structure. In this video, you'll learn a simple five-step framework for giving speeches that capture attention, connect emotionally, and leave people thinking differently, whether you're giving a wedding toast, leading a team, interviewing for a job, or getting called up to speak with zero preparation. 0:00 - Intro 1:12 - F: Start with humor 2:52 - A: Acknowledgements 3:41 - R: Relate to the audience 7:02 - T: The Takeaway 9:13 - S: Your signoff 10:00 - Improve your confidence & charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Charlie Houpert Edited by Sousa Marães Directed by Andre Ringkjeob Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 12 min
This Scene Will Change How You Handle Conflict
Build real confidence in conversations, relationships, and high-pressure moments with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/013-26-Mike There are two kinds of calm. One gets you treated like a doormat. The other earns respect and makes people think twice before pushing you. This Better Call Saul scene shows the difference. 0:00 - Intro 2:05 - Be Explicit 3:14 - Be Interested In Whether, Not Why 3:56 - Don't Take Full Responsibility Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Written by Charlie Houpert Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 7 min
3 Body Language Habits That Make People Dislike You
Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: https://goo.gl/D6dy72 Chris Evans Charisma - What Your Hands Say About You See how Chris Evans comes across as more likable and charismatic simply by the way he uses his hands when he speaks. The power of gesticulating can't be underestimated. When you compare Chris Evans to Jonah Hill, it's impossible not to feel that Chris looks far more confident. And it's not immediately evident, but a large part of that comes down to how they use their hands when speaking. So check it out: these 3 tips are easy to implement and will help you look more confident talking with your hands. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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