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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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  • Monday · 19 min

    If You Only Watch One Charisma Video, Make It This

    Click here to build your charisma with daily reps 👉 https://bit.ly/010-26-7Principles Charisma is not something you’re born with. It’s a set of social skills you can train, rep by rep, until confidence, connection, and self-expression become second nature. In this video, Charlie shares the 7 principles that helped him build his charisma from the ground up, and how you can start doing the same. 0:00 - Intro 0:36 - Charisma is a muscle 2:44 - Charisma has 5 types 4:55 - Confidence is "I'll be okay" 6:05 - You are always broadcasting 7:43 - Trying to be liked backfires 9:22 - The leader humanizes first 10:41 - Fear is the wall Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Indy Fullstop Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Rinkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 12 min

    Dwayne Johnson Has Unbeatable Confidence… HERE’S WHY!

    Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2GY7leb The 5 Charismatic Habits Of The Rock (Dwayne Johnson) Dwayne Johnson (aka The Rock) has been successful in 3 very different careers. He was an excellent football player at Miami (until he injured himself). Then he made the transition to the WWE where he became famous as "The Rock." And then he made an even more incredible career leap to movies, starring in the Fast and Furious franchise. Now he is moving into the comedy real in a new movie called Central Intelligence with Kevin Hart. To be successful in all of those careers, particular the second two, where he was the most successful, you need a great deal of charisma. The wrestling fans need to like you. People need to want to see your movies. And Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson has been able to accomplish that. So in this video we explore what makes Dwayne Johnson so charismatic. Starting back in his WWE days we can see exactly how he learned to gesticulate, to command the attention of a crowd and then moving on, we see how he also learned to show leadership and vulnerability. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 13 min

    6 Jokes That Instantly Boost Your Charm

    Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: http://bit.ly/3VnoTYB Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today you’ll learn 6 easy ways to make people laugh and love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - #1: Play dumb 1:28 - #2: A sincerity fakeout 2:14 - #3: The 3 point list 3:07 - #4: Exaggerate so much it's impossible to take you seriously 4:26 - #5: Elevate the other person 5:39 - #6: Self deprecating humor 8:03 - Learn how to form connections with anyone -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 9 min

    8 Early Signs That Someone Dislikes What You're Saying

    Get "How To Win Friends And Influence People" from Audible today! New members can try it free for 30 days. Visit https://audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500-500. Check out Logan: https://www.youtube.com/c/ObserveWithLogan Join Over 14000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3SS8vvz Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We've all accidentally blown it in a conversation that we really wanted to go well. But that doesn't mean there wasn't potential for a good connection. Sometimes it just means you two talked about the wrong things :-) Luckily, if you learn to detect the subtle signs of dislike EARLY in a conversation, you can change topics and potentially save the relationship. Today’s video was a collab with body language expert Logan from the YouTube channel Observe. Thanks Logan for helping spot these 8 subtle signs that someone dislikes a conversation. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:23 - #1: Their feet point away from you 0:37 - #2: They cross their leg 1:41 - #3: They're leaning sideways 0:47 - #4: Their torso is twisting away from you 2:03 - #5: Look for self-soothing gestures 3:00 - #6: Look out for compressed lips 3:24 - #7: Watch for a fake smile 3:38 - #8: Their eyes narrow after you've said something -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 13 min

    How To Dominate A Debate

    Trump v Clinton - Who REALLY won the debate? Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BQv80i The first Presidential debate is over and everybody is weighing in on who won. Was it Donald Trump? Or Hillary Clinton? But I have a different question: How did each candidate perform during the debate from a charisma perspective? This is critically important. When people don’t know who to trust, we oftentimes just choose the person they “have a better feeling about”. You might not like it, but it’s the truth of how we work. So if you want to know how undecided voters will vote in the 2016 presidential election - you can’t ignore the charisma angle. Link to How to Memorize a Speech - with No Notes video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gaoxXFju6uo Link to Genuine Smile video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxzR4n0OHHk Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 11 min

    4 Activities That Will Dramatically Boost Your Attractiveness

    Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2Bimt5J 4 Activities That Will Dramatically Boost Your Charisma I often get asked what things people can do on a day to day basis to improve their charisma. There isn't a gym or dojo that you can go to to work on your charisma and confidence. But there are ways for people to take certain types of classes that will indirectly boost their confidence and increase their charisma. The four things that I have see had the most impact on my confidence and charisma were 1. Improv comedy 2. Toastmasters 3. Martial Arts 4. Mini experiments in normal social environments. Taken together, those four activities account for almost all of the real world practice I was able to get in developing my self-confidence and charisma. So if you're interested in signing up for something that is likely to have a huge positive effect on your charisma, start with this list. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 11 min

    How To Make Someone Realize They Can't Control You

    The fastest way I know to build calm, grounded confidence in high-stakes moments: https://bit.ly/007-26-Draper This Mad Men scene is a masterclass in grounded confidence. Don Draper does not argue, defend himself, or try to convince anyone of his worth. He simply accepts the other person’s choice, states his own, and stays in control. In this video, we break down how to use that same energy in conflict, sales, leadership, dating, and any moment where you feel tempted to prove yourself. This video covers principle 4 of the 6 charismatic mindsets: you don’t need to convince anyone of anything. If you want the full framework for staying calm, honest, and grounded when it counts, watch all 6 here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWFwUwMoMl8 0:00 - Intro 0:14 - The situation 1:00 - Where Don shines 2:58 - 1. Slow Down Your Response 3:13 - 2. Accept their choice, then name yours 3:44 - 3. Invite them to a solution 6:36 - The best way I know to work on this Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Charlie Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 19 min

    Subtle Tactics To Outsmart Anyone

    How Littlefinger Controls The Game of Thrones https://goo.gl/uNmVQH Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FGX6uj Littlefinger Is probably the single best player in the Game of Thrones. He’s indirectly led to the downfall of at least 3 major houses and has advanced his station at every opportunity. In this video we’re going to do an analysis on what it is that he does that makes him win and how deviating from his strategy may lead him to the end of his winning streak. 2 caveats. First spoilers through season 6 and some speculation into season 7. And two, don’t do the things little finger does. It’s fun to analyze Littlefinger manipulations and learn how you can avoid them in your own life - Sansa Stark would benefit for certain - just don’t be a liar and backstabber. It’s not cool. Let’s begin - Game of Thrones is all about power. Some people, like Cersei, use their position to command others. Or people like the Mountain who literally just dominate through brute force. But in the long run, it’s those who wield power more subtly who excel at the game. And perhaps no one is more subtle the Petyr Baelish. He is the ultimate power player in the game because he gets other people to do what he wants, without them even knowing he’s influenced them 01:10 Littlefinger got the power subtly and not by force in Game of Thrones 07:53 Cersei Lannister is opposite of Petyr Baelish in terms of subtlety 08:14 Petyr Baelish in HBO Game of Thrones lets other think they control him 09:46 Marriage scene with Tyrion Lannister 13:15 Littlefinger talks to Sophie Turner as Sansa Stark Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 17 min

    Trump v. Clinton: Who Won The Last Debate?

    Debate Analysis on Trump and Hillary Third Presidential Debate Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nMoIXl The second and third presidential debates between Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton are in the books and everyone is talking about who won but today, we're not talking about policies or strength of argument. I want to analyze who won strictly from a charisma angle so let's get into it. The first thing to note is that previous presidential debates, especially the primaries, were defined by zingers and there were a handful mostly from Trump. There was a different vibe in this debate though since the audience couldn't laugh out loud at Hillary and there were longer uninterrupted stretches to answer questions. Instead of punchy one-liners, these debates came down to two main principles. This is an analysis on the final debate and the election is getting near the end! 0:57 Credibility -- being an authority on the issues (Hillary won) 1:08 Use of specific numbers to build authority (tie between Trump and Hillary) 2:13 Specificity does not equal truth 2:29 Comfort in answering difficult questions (I'd say Clinton won, though Trump had a rougher go from the moderators) 6:25 Conviction and congruency being major contributors to charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 12 min

    This Scene Will Change How You Handle Conflict

    Build real confidence in conversations, relationships, and high-pressure moments with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/013-26-Mike There are two kinds of calm. One gets you treated like a doormat. The other earns respect and makes people think twice before pushing you. This Better Call Saul scene shows the difference. 0:00 - Intro 2:05 - Be Explicit 3:14 - Be Interested In Whether, Not Why 3:56 - Don't Take Full Responsibility Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Written by Charlie Houpert Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 16 min

    Become A Master Of Influence

    Link to tip to strengthen your frame & build confidence: https://goo.gl/y2CvdQ Game of Thrones: How Power Really Works Game of Thrones is all about power games. What many people don't realize is that behind those power games are clashes of the way people see the world. There are clashes of frames. The people who can control these frames (like Tyrion Lannister and Tywin Lannister) tend to win over the Game of Thrones people who struggle more often (like Robb Stark). There are tons of ways you can use this understanding of frames in your normal life. We'll look at three in this video Note: the spoilers go up only through season 4, so if you haven't seen all the way to season 6, you are still good to watch 1) Breaking frames for persuasion (Tyrion vs. Shagga) 2) Frames in insults (Tyrion vs Robb Stark and Robb Stark vs. Jaime Lannister) 3) Frames to create options (Tyrion vs. Tywin and Tyrion vs. Lysa Arryn) Let me know how you feel about these fictional breakdowns! I have never done one in the past and would love your feedback. Especially let me know if you like Game of Thrones related breakdowns, because there is a lot more I could potentially cover (like Tyrion's charisma and persuasive abilities) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 23 min

    Ted Lasso Leadership Lessons That Work

    Join Over 8000+ Members At Charisma University: http://bit.ly/3Vnzums Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The character Ted Lasso is probably most well known for his wildly positive attitude. This is an awesome trait we may cover in a future video. But in today’s video, we’re going to dive into leadership. While the show is pure fiction, Ted demonstrates techniques that real life leaders like Steve Jobs, Larry Page, and Phil Jackson used to achieve great success. If you already naturally do these things, it’s a sign that under the right circumstances you could be a fantastic leader. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro. 0:59 - #1: Make everyone feel like they matter 3:12 - #2: Align your goals. 4:15 - #3: Create lieutenants. 7:07 - #4: Actively solicit feedback and try to improve. 8:45 - #5: Have empathy for the people you lead. 9:51 - #6: Celebrate other people's wins. 11:38 - #7: Create belief in a motivating vision. 13:20 - #8: Don't deny reality. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TedLasso #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 13 min

    5 Funny Jokes You Can Copy Today

    Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCGervaisReynolds Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video, we’ll break down some jokes from Ryan Reynolds and Ricky Gervais so you can learn how to make people laugh and love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:22 - #1: The Sincerity Fakeout 1:44 - #2: Say the opposite 2:06 - #3: Use an absurd answer 2:49 - #4: Create a ridiculous mental image 5:58 - #5: Tease something that's unlikely an insecurity -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #RickyGervais #RyanReynolds #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 5 min

    Avoid These Body Language Mistakes to Be Liked

    Animation: https://zeino.tv/ Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-ZeinoCharismaMistakes Today, we're delving into 5 pitfalls that can diminish your charisma, and what you should do instead, to steer clear of these mistakes. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - #1: Scanning the room 0:27 - #2: Don't let someone interrupt while someone else is talking to you 1:13 - #3: Trapping 1:37 - #4: Communicating shame 2:12 - #5: The eyebrow flash -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #Zeino -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 15 min

    This Is Why Logan Paul Keeps Winning

    Why Logan Paul Is A Genius Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2DaJYvF Logan Paul has the fastest growing channel on YouTube and he’s unlikely to slow down. I originally wanted to cover him for this reason alone - after all you have to do something right to accrue millions of new fans a month. But after digging in, I found out that he is doing something special on the business business - so this is as much a charisma breakdown as it is a business and sales breakdown. I spoke about this at length in the Pewdiepie video, but the jump cuts and intense emotion keep the video incredibly engaging since the human brain is trained to pay attention to people showing strong emotion as well as anything that changes rapidly. Logan Paul is a natural performer and comedian who is willing to be goofy in public. Together with his brother Jake Paul, the two are poised to move from Vine and conquer YouTube. 1:40 Chloe Bennet comments but Logan knows what has to be done 2:52 Logan Paul loves what he does as shown when he does his vlog 8:51 Paul shows the merch and Maverick clothes plus the hollywood hero trophy Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 13 min

    How To Be Confident Under Pressure (Even if You're Shy)

    The fastest way I know to build your confidence and social skills: 👉 https://bit.ly/016-26-Inde Pressure can destroy your confidence when you need it most. Your mind goes blank, you stumble over your words, and opportunities slip away. In this video, we break down how Inde Navarrette stays charismatic in high-pressure moments, despite being naturally shy. You’ll learn how to prime yourself for confidence, mirror the energy in any room, and turn nervousness into connection. You’ll also discover why admitting you’re nervous can make you look more confident, and how to stop holding back so you can express yourself freely at work, on dates, and in your social life. 0:00 - Intro 1:10 - Priming 4:00 - Energy Mirroring 5:29 - Announce Your Nerves Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 15 min

    4 Jokes That Will Make You The Most Liked Person In The Group

    Ellen Degeneres' Tips To Making People Instantly Like You Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nWBHVU We all want people to like us. And Ellen Degeneres seems to have that down to a science. Ellen Degeneres is one of the most likable hosts on TV. And it’s largely due to the types of jokes that she makes. Almost all hosts are funny, but Ellen’s style of comedy has a way of instantly endearing her guests to her. Today we are going to talk about the most common types of jokes that Ellen makes, how you can use them to get people to immediately like you, and some habits that you can work on to just generally be funnier throughout your day. 1:10 - The kind of jokes that make people sad, ones that Ellen rarely makes 2:08 - Self-deprecating jokes make people feel comfortable around Ellen 3:10 - Poking fun at subjects that people are not insecure about allows Ellen to crack jokes without upsetting people 5:20 - Making ego boosting jokes that make other people feel good, makes Ellen someone that people want to spend more time with 5:59 - Ellen can also joke around and just simply be silly Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Snapchat: @charliehoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 16 min

    How Tom Hardy Turns Social Anxiety Into Charisma

    Join Over 8000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3T8Y9Yv Despite having social anxiety growing up, Tom Hardy has transformed himself into someone that oozes confidence and is incredibly popular. Tom’s charisma is unusual because he doesn’t follow the normal advice you might see on something like a body language list. He’ll often slouch or fidget in conversation, doing things you’re quote unquote not supposed to do. But Tom has a few core mindsets you can steal that will instantly make you more confident in almost any social situation. These mindsets allow him to project a confident “I don’t give a f**k” attitude that draws people to him. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:50 - #1: Be willing to polarize 1:35 - #2: Allow yourself to have authentic reactions 3:45 - #3: Stop trying to look flawless 5:23 - The shadow rule 6:47 - #4: Prioritize your own comfort 8:38 - Are your fears holding you back? 10:49 - Links & more videos -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TomHardy #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 16 min

    The Masculine Move Most Men Are Too Afraid to Make

    Build the confidence to take direct action in conversations, dating, and real life: https://bit.ly/009-26-DDvsReacher Most men think attraction works like this: become successful, get in shape, build status, then wait for women to notice. But that fantasy keeps a lot of men stuck. In this video, you’ll learn the difference between indirect attraction and direct action, using Jack Reacher and Matt Murdock as examples. You’ll see the attraction signals most men miss, how to flirt without being awkward, and why what you want is usually on the other side of fear. This isn’t just about dating. It’s about the same pattern that keeps men from starting the business, writing the book, making the move, or going after the life they actually want. 0:00 - Intro 0:29 - The Fantasy Holding Men Back 1:34 - Indirect Attraction vs Direct Action 2:47 - The Signals Most Men Miss 4:02 - The 12 Stages of Intimacy 6:00 - Why Reacher Gets Stuck 7:00 - The Right Way to Flirt 10:25 - Build the confidence to take direct action Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 7 min

    100,000 Subscriber Thank You + Giveaway

    100,000 Subscriber Thank You + Giveaway Didn't think I'd get to do this soon! We just hit 100,000 subscribers earlier this week and I wanted to thank everyone who has watched, subscribed, and shared our channel. Aside from just extending our thanks, we're offering 10 of our subscribers a chance to win a brand new module on Dealing With Conflict. It will cover how to come out of those difficult situations getting what you want while still maintaining a strong relationship. So if you're interested in participating, here's how: 1) Share your favorite video of ours on Facebook 2) Make sure to tag Charisma on Command That's it. We'll add your submission up to 3 times for 3 shares over the next week. The giveaway ends Thursday April 21st. We'll randomly choose the 10 winners then and contact them in the following days. Thanks for making this possible :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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