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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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  • Monday · 16 min

    The Dangerous Side Of Tom Cruise’s Charisma

    The Dangerous Side Of Tom Cruise’s Charisma Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand Here, we try to look into the dangerous side of Tom Cruise's charisma. Tom Cruise is known as one of the most charismatic celebrities in Hollywood. When Rolling Stone writer and author Neil Strauss met him, he described him as “the perfect specimen” who has “a natural ability to remain dominant in any social situation without seeming to exert any effort.” As amazing as that sounds, that kind of superhuman charisma does have a dangerous downside. And it’s both of those things that we’re going to explore in this video: the specific behaviors that make Tom Cruise such a dominant social force. And the potential cost of being so charismatic. Below are the ones that make him so charismatic. 0:36 Tom Cruise commands his physical space as in The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon 2:20 He genuinely smiles all the time and with other celebrities 2:53 He mentions the name of the person he's talking to as in this NBC interview 3:37 Tom Cruise keeps eye contact and in Oprah as well 4:28 His talent in conversation also shows when he leans in when talking Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 14 min

    What Narcissistic Manipulation Looks Like

    Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCLoganNarcissism Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Narcissistic and manipulative behavior can wind up destroying your life, and it can be tough to spot, especially when it’s coming from someone you trust. So in this video you’ll learn 5 red flags that you’re being narcissistically manipulated. You can also use these as signs that you’ve slipped into narcissistic tendencies yourself, so you can cut them out before damaging your relationships. We’ll be using Logan Paul’s reaction to Coffeezilla calling out his cryptozoo project for examples. Links: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8-fugWMBwCg&t=1s&ab_channel=Coffeezilla https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Evs2Hcn3nMY&ab_channel=IMPAULSIVE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=viiuS8bOuGE ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:50 - Red Flag 1: Morphing critisism. 2:15 - Red Flag 2: Spending more time on their feelings than yours. 4:17 - Red Flag 3: Repeatedly insisting on having good intentions. 5:20 - Red Flag 4: Projecting badness onto those poking at their self-image. 6:14 - Red Flag 5: Narcissistic rage. 7:08 - Final Point: Narcissism is not excessive self-love. It’s a lack of self-love. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #LoganPaul #Coffeezilla #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 12 min

    How To Take Control Of Any Conversation Without Trying

    How To Talk To People - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown (Part 2) Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2ENXoza Learning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school. In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview. This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a conversation towards topics that make you more likely to make a lasting connection. There are lots of ways, but this is one that will present itself as soon as the other person starts asking questions. You'll be able to build rapport quickly and potentially walk away with a new friend. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 16 min

    6 Habits That Make First Impressions Amazing

    Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3udCRxI Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Look under any YouTube video of Simu Liu and you'll see commenters praising his charisma. He’s new to being an A-list celebrity, but he’s making an incredible first impression. So in this video, we’ll go through 6 mistakes most people make during their first impressions, and 6 habits you can learn from Simu that will let you make an amazing first impression instead. These habits are super easy to do, most people just don’t think to do them. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:37 - Make A Strong Entrance Mistake: thinking a first impression starts when you start speaking 2:03 - Get comfortable taking up the space around you Mistake: keeping your arms tight to your body while you speak 3:30 - Look for Observational Compliments early in the interaction Mistake: trying to be “cool” by coming in aloof or standoffish 4:34 - Elevate the people around you Mistake: focusing solely on trying to make yourself look good 5:29 - Be an Encouraging Listener Mistake: thinking that to make a good impression, you have to do all the talking 7:20 - Have great answers for the questions you know you’re likely to be asked Mistake: having boring answers to the standard questions you know are coming -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #SimuLiu #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 17 min

    6 Mindsets That Make You Incredibly Charismatic

    Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/7G2Go2 6 Mindsets That Will Make You Magnetic When it comes to charisma, you can learn a lot of surface level stuff. Body language, eye contact, tonality, all of these things can be tweaked to make you appear more confident, charismatic, and magnetic. But when it comes to making long-lasting change, you need to change the beliefs and mindsets that underpin all your actions. Only when you've done this will your charisma begin to emanate more naturally. In this video we boil the 12 charismatic convictions (from the book Charisma on Command) down to 6 beliefs. If you can internalize these beliefs, you will find yourself behaving in ways that draw people to you. Those charismatic beliefs are 1. No matter what, I will be okay 2. I care more about my character than my reputation 3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity 4. I don't need to convince anyone of anything 5. I share my purpose proactively 6. I go there first in humanizing interaction If you can incorporate those convictions into your life, you will become much more charismatic in all of your interactions and magnetic to the type of people who you want in your life. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Snapchat: @charliehoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 13 min

    5 Signs Someone Is Lying To You

    How to tell if someone is lying to you Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2C4PWg0 How can you tell if someone is lying? How many times do you think that you've been lied to today? Go ahead and take a guess because the answer might shock you. Studies show that on the low end, that the number of lies is somewhere around ten times. And on the high end, that number could be up to two hundred times in just one day. You are being lied to constantly so this is a video on how to tell if someone is lying to you. What’s worse, your lie detection capabilities are definitely not 100%. In fact, studies show that they could be anywhere from 50% to 75% wrong. This video is meant to put the odds back in your favor because there are things that you’re probably not taught that can help you become a human lie detector. And I want to cover those four things plus touch on some examples of some masterful liars getting caught in the act. If you’ve enjoyed this one, go ahead and make sure to subscribe to the channel. We have tons of videos on how to boost your charisma, your confidence and of course, your ability to read social situations. So if you never want to miss one of those, click Subscribe and you’ll see us on your homepage every single week. I hope that you’ve enjoyed this video and I look forward to seeing you in the next one. Key points to tell if someone is lying: 0:46 How can you tell if someone is lying? Body language 1:40 Good liars know how to lie so here's "blocking" as a follow-up 2:51 The liars "duping delight" 4:36 The "redirection" of the lie 6:10 Test the chronology of the lie Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 7 min

    Common Social Mistakes Most People Make

    9 Mistakes That Kill Your Charisma Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nVneJx You may be doing some pretty little things that can have a big negative effect on what people think about you so in this video, we're going to cover nine of the most common mistakes you may be making that can kill your charisma and some quick fixes. Here we go. First — not proactively introducing yourself. Many people feel uncomfortable when they enter into a new group so in order to keep a low profile, they often offer a small hand wave or just stand there quietly — this is uncomfortable for everyone involved. So the next time that you find yourself entering or being pulled into a small group, make sure to make eye contact and introduce yourself to everyone there with the handshake. 0:14 Not proactively introducing yourself 0:46 Not introducing your friends when you're in a new group 0:55 Talking about things no one cares about 1:16 Not soliciting feedback will not help self improvement 1:41 Trailing off or mumbling may not show self confidence 2:03 Answering questions with single words 2:31 Whining will not help with personal development 2:42 Not remembering names won't help with your social skills 3:08 Lack of principles won't help with your charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert MUSIC: https://goo.gl/2sKQlI Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Monday · 19 min

    The Recurring Dream You've Been Having Is Trying To Tell You Something

    Candace Owens says she has recurring dreams where Charlie Kirk’s soul visits her from purgatory. In the dreams, he warns her about a betrayal and gives her a name. Candace takes the dreams literally and reaches out to the person he mentions. In this video, I explain why this is a mistake. You will learn how to interpret dreams properly using Carl Jung’s iceberg model. We break down what dreams are, what they are not, and how confusing symbols with reality leads to bad conclusions. 0:00 - Intro 1:49 - Carl Jung 2:43 - The Consciousness Iceberg 9:44 - Step 1 10:01 - Step 2 10:28 - Step 3 11:08 - Step 4 Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 17 min

    How To Recover After You Betray People

    Join over 21,000 members inside Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-007-25 Sometimes, the harder we try to make people like us, the more we push them away. Whether it's trying to seem cool, covering up a mistake, or shifting blame, certain phrases can turn a minor slip-up into a lasting loss of respect. In this video, we break down five common behaviors that can make people dislike you—and how to handle these moments better. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 0:43 - Phrase #1 2:25 - Phrase #2 3:28 - Phrase #3 4:38 - Phrase #4 5:56 - Boundary Poking 7:08 - Phrase #5 7:56 - How to redeem yourself 11:05 - The fastest way to improve your confidence and charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: / charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Video edited by: Andre Ringkjoeb Intro edited by: Barcuch & Ikjot Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 22 min

    How Timothée Chalamet Makes Awkward Look Attractive (How You Can Too)

    Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: http://bit.ly/4n2UQS8 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Timothée Chalamet has two traits you don't often see go hand in hand. He's self admittedly very awkward, and yet women find him incredibly attractive. This is interesting because Timothée is not your stereotypical jock alpha male, in either looks or personality. He’s shy and at times seems uncomfortable when speaking: looking down, fidgeting, or putting his hands in his pockets. How can someone who’s self admittedly awkward be so attractive? While he’s definitely handsome, much of Timothée’s attractiveness comes through in his personality. Part of what makes Timothée so magnetic is how well he handles potentially awkward moments. So in this video, we’ll go over 7 tricks you can learn from Timothée to turn your awkward moments into moments where you’re actually making yourself more attractive. 5 Common Habits That Make People Instantly Dislike You (Brie Larson): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KBCcDrG2NjM How To Stand Up For Yourself Without Starting A Fight (Jonah Hill): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BSXoI9MDvU0 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro. 1:12 - #1: Radiate positivity 2:57 - #2: Appear unfazed by smiling through a tease 4:28 - #3: Don't assume negative intent in ambiguous situations 6:22 - #4: Call out the awkwardness 9:03 - #5: Pass the conversational spotlight to the other person 9:58 - #6: Share your higher purpose 12:14 - #7: If this doesn't go well, on with the rest of life -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TimotheeChalamet #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 16 min

    6 Habits That Make You Look Insecure (And What To Do Instead)

    Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCLowStatusHabits Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video we’re going to show you 6 unattractive habits that instantly make it look like you lack confidence. And what you can do instead to command more respect in your conversations. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:07 - #1: Avoidant body language 1:31 - #2: Talking tentatively 3:40 - #3: Asking first instinct questions 4:50 - #4: Retreating after a miss 6:30 - #5: Injecting an unnecessary brag into conversation 7:56 - #6: Prioritizing being agreeable over being true to yourself -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 9 min

    3 Simple Voice Tweaks To Captivate Anyone

    Link to confidence tip: https://goo.gl/gQT6DN Elliott Hulse's tip for a deeper voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P41ER1Wmkj0 Original video: https://youtu.be/wiOwqDmacJo?t=2m14s 3 Simple Voice Tweaks To Captivate Anyone Neil deGrasse Tyson is an amazing speaker. He's one of the select group of science educators that appeal to mainstream America. Truly, some of the topics he covers are fascinating. But the truth is that the majority of his appeal comes from the way in which he speaks. In this video, we cover three simple vocal tips that will make you a more captivating speaker. You'll learn how to use your voice in a way that gets people leaning forward and hoping you tell them more. Those tips are, in short 1. Take longer, deeper breaths to lower your voice 2. Strategically use silence to hook people's attention 3. Develop vocal range in terms of speed, cadence, and style Enjoy, and let us know if you're enjoying the throwback videos! Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 16 min

    Psychology Expert: How To Stop Overthinking All The Time

    How Tony Robbins Outsmarts Depression Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EapCaf Tony Robbins is probably the most gifted communicator I have ever seen. One of his most amazing feats is that in his live seminars, he is able to take people from feeling depressed to empowered in just one conversation. So in this video, we’re going to talk about just one of the techniques that Tony Robbins uses to accomplish this. It’s called a state break and that is anything that you do to shift someone from one emotion to another. It sounds simple, but if you can master this skill, your ability to help other people, to persuade, and to live a more fulfilled life goes through the roof. 0:50 Anthony Robbins gives the opposite of what they expect 3:20 Tony Robbins resorts to humor like in I Am Not Your Guru 7:35 Calls for body motion for self help and personal development Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert personal development Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 17 min

    How To Persuade And Influence People

    Barack Obama Charisma Breakdown - How To Influence People https://goo.gl/SaV6sp Barack Obama's most important job is to influence people. As president, there is very little ha can do on his own. So his main job becomes to persuade people to see his views when it comes to political decisions. In the wake of the tragedy at Umpqua Community College in Oregon, Barack Obama demonstrated a 5 step process on how to influence in those situations where you absolutely must convince people to change their behavior. Obama is a powerful, charismatic speaker and this example is great for becoming more influential in the workplace. If you're interested in other videos that cover the topic of influence, but in a more social context, check out Ricky Martin on the Voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqragS38hCk Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 13 min

    Give Me 8 Minutes And I'll 10x Your Productivity

    How to 10x Your Productivity, and Achieve More With Your Time! Interested in learning more about Charisma University? Click here: https://goo.gl/cu5ve2 In many ways, I consider myself a lazy person, which doesn't mean that I sit at home and I stuff my face all day while watching bad re-runs. It just means that I like to protect my free time. I want to do the things that I want to do. And achieve the specific things I want to achieve. So when I found out from the beginning of this year to today I've 10x my productivity in this Charisma on Command business, I was very happy because that meant I got to spend more time doing things I love and less time doing things I felt like I had to. This isn't just about making money. This is really about how you spend your life. It's about becoming productive. So if you're interested in more of the good stuff, and less of the things you have to do. Go through these 4 steps to achieve more with me right now. (And make sure you write them down because that's how you're going to get the biggest productivity results from this) 0:46 Identify your goal to achieve (and the biggest driver) 1:45 Write down everything that is 'supposedly' taking you to your goal 2:51 Eliminate and simplify in order to become productive 4:56 Find and eliminate your 'Herbie' in order to achieve more 7:21 A review of the 4 steps to increase your productivity Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 17 min

    5 Things Sociopaths Do

    Thank you to Audible for sponsoring this video! New Audible members get a 30-day free trial. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text “charisma” to 500 500 to try Audible today! There are sociopaths in this world who will embarrass, manipulate, and even physically hurt you to get what they want. And because their brains don’t work like most people’s, it can be tough to see it coming until it’s too late. So in this video, we’re going to help you better understand the mind of a sociopath. Then we’ll go over 5 subtle signs to help you tell if someone is a sociopath. While no single trait means anything definitive, if you see these all together it can be a red flag. Special thanks to both Kanika Batra and Dyshae for being so candid about their ASPD. If you want to watch their full interviews, you can click here to see them: Special Books By Special Kids interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bdPMUX8_8Ms Kanika Batra Q&A: https://youtu.be/NLfgNnGrkQU ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:26 - #1: They lack empathy 0:43 - #2: Sociopaths have a strong internal urge to manipulate 2:14 - #3: Their first impressions can feel too good to be true 3:57 - #4: The sociopath stare 7:23 - #5: Their emotional responses seem off -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Sociopaths #Sociopath #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Want to watch more? Check out these videos: 5 Signs You're Dealing With A Narcissist https://youtu.be/Hg4ws1QPeNE 5 Creepy Tactics Sociopaths Use To Manipulate You https://youtu.be/oECsf5y4S7k How To Spot A Liar https://youtu.be/KLvTSMLIPpM Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: Infados by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 licence. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100449 Artist: http://incompetech.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 22 min

    6 Things Nice Guys Do That Kill Attraction

    Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/011-25 Alec Baldwin’s interview with his wife spirals as she loses all respect for him on camera. But what most people missed is how his 'nice guy' behavior quietly led to this. In this video, we break down 6 common habits that make women lose attraction—and how to stop doing them. 0:00 - Intro 2:55 - Apologizing to escape discomfort 3:27 - Over explaining and rambling 4:42 - Seeking approval 6:46 - Roping in other people 9:08 - Resentment 12:51 - Compliment sandwiching Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 17 min

    The Quiet Skill That Attracts Feminine Women

    Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/015-25 I used to think being attractive was all about confidence, teasing, and strong body language, but I was missing something deeper. In this video, I break down the 3 traits of grounded masculinity that most men overlook. These are the traits that make women feel emotionally safe, connected, and irresistibly drawn in. 0:00 – Why Typical Attraction Advice Falls Short 2:39 – Containment: The Balance Between Holding Space and Setting Limits 4:18 – Empathetic Attunement: Feeling Without Getting Lost 7:08 – Grounding Someone in the Now (Not the Logic) Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Edited by: Andre Ringkjoeb Christopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 14 min

    3 Psychological Tricks To Make Anyone Trust You

    Philip DeFranco: How To Make People Trust You Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Eu4uLB Philip DeFranco is probably the most trusted newsperson on YouTube. And in an era where mainstream news is suspect and allegations of fake news fly even from the President’s mouth, that might make Philip DeFranco the most trust newsperson in America. In this video I want to talk about what you can learn from Philly D in terms of generating that kind of trust and respect, even when you’re talking about really controversial topics. And let me warn you, this isn’t always going to be easy As Phil says, let’s just jump into it. 0:31 Philip DeFranco delineates between facts and his opinions 1:25 No hiding of biased opinions in Philip DeFranco Show 4:52 Philly D knows his principles and in DeFranco Elite Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Sunday · 16 min

    How To Build Quiet Confidence That Holds Up Under Fire

    Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCShelby2023 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Tommy Shelby is stone cold confident and seemingly fearless. So in this video we're going to break down what you can learn from him to be confident in high pressure situations in your own life. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:18 - #1: Don't overreact in situations of extreme pressure 1:13 - Exposure therapy 1:51 - #2: Use state breaking questions 3:57 - #3: Align your needs with the other person's 4:25 - #4: View the world from their perspective 5:54 - #5: Give both the carrot and the stick 7:42 - #6: Turn trash into resources 9:19 - Ask yourself this question 9:30 - How do I build social power quickly? -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TommyShelby #PeakyBlinders #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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