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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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  • Today · 5 min

    Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma

    Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meet https://goo.gl/janZ3F Daily Tip: What your Body Language says about your Charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 13 min

    Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups

    Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EsiXrr Will Smith Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups Group interactions can be so difficult when trying to exude confidence and charisma. Unlike a 1:1 conversation you might find it hard to get a word in. You might find it hard to hold people's attention. This is totally normal, but it doesn't make it any more fun when you're a shrinking wallflower. The good news is that there are clear ways how to be more charismatic in groups. And Will Smith provides an amazing firsthand example. He manages to come across as genuine and likeable while steering the conversation. Take a look and be sure to implement these charisma tips in your own life! Check out our book : http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Or if you want more on strong presentation skills: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=videodesc&utm_campaign=blog Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 9 min

    4 Body Language Habits That Put You In The Top 1%

    The fastest way to level up your confidence and charisma: http://bit.ly/3J5ixui When it comes to having attractive, captivating body language there’s only 4 things you need to know - and if you do them, these 4 will immediately take you into the top 1% of communicators. 0:00 - Intro 0:11 - Reveal your vitals 2:01 - Verbally own your experience 3:01 - Develop strong eye contact 4:55 - Practice charisma as an opportunity to feel good Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 16 min

    How To Give Advice That People Actually Listen To

    A 'Trick' That Gives You INSANE Confidence: https://bit.ly/2DxyfvU Elliott Hulse is an extraordinary motivational speaker. He gives advice in such a way that his viewers are inspired not only to listen to the end of his videos, but to change their lives. And on a crowded platform like Youtube, Elliott manages to speak for upwards of 10 minutes, with long pauses while captivating his audience the entire time. Not many speakers are have the confidence to pull that off. We all have moment's in our lives where people come to us for advice. Yet oftentimes, despite our best efforts, that advice goes unheeded. We can change that. By following Elliott Hulse's charismatic techniques and intelligent structure we can learn to "open up" our listener so that they are receptive to the advice we have to give. So check it out and learn how to give advice that actually motivates people to change. Link to confidence tip: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTD Link to Elliott Hulse's final video in breakdown: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Xgjb8spwew Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 19 min

    The 3 Traits That Make You Impossible to Ignore

    Build the confidence and charisma to express yourself authentically: 👉 https://bit.ly/015-26-Mamdani Zohran Mamdani and Donald Trump have completely different personalities, politics, and values. But both used a similar charisma playbook to overcome opponents with more money, status, and establishment support. In this video, we break down the three traits that made them impossible to ignore: the courage to risk ridicule, the conviction to stay on offense, and a consistent emotional identity. You’ll learn why charisma begins when you stop choosing social safety over honest self-expression, plus how to apply that principle in your career, relationships, and social life without copying anyone else’s personality. 0:00 The Unlikely Rise of a Political Outsider 0:35 The Surprising Parallel Between Two Rivals 4:01 The Courage to Be Disliked 7:25 The Power of a Consistent Emotional Signature 11:17 The Choice Between Safety and Self-Expression Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 9 min

    The One Thing That Saved James Gunn’s Career

    Learn the social skills to build powerful connections: https://bit.ly/CU-2225 When James Gunn lost his career overnight, he thought it was all over. But what happened next completely changed how he saw himself and the people around him. In this video, we break down his story and the simple lesson you can use to turn your worst moment into your strongest comeback. 0:00 - Intro 0:37 - James Gunn's Worst Moment 1:48 - Wait a second... 3:02 - The Buffer Against Feeling Loved 4:03 - A Practical Takeaway 5:48 - Learn To Build Powerful Connections Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 14 min

    Why People Tell Him Things They’ve Never Said Before

    The fastest way to learn to express yourself confidently: https://bit.ly/028-25 Diary Of A CEO Podcast: @TheDiaryOfACEO My Diary Of A CEO Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zg4Ta7vXiIM Most people think charisma is about how you talk. But the real superpower lies in how you listen. In this video, we break down the subtle listening habits that make Steven Bartlett one of the most captivating conversationalists alive. You’ll learn how to hold silence, guide emotion, and create moments where people feel seen in ways they rarely do. 0:00 - Intro 1:14 - #1: Steven almost never interrupts 3:52 - #2: Offer the least invasive support possible 7:00 - #3: Offer an empathetic mirror 8:51 - #4: Ask chunky questions 9:32 - #5: Presence matters more than technique Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 9 min

    How to stop blowing it on dates

    Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/rH8Dvb One of the most common questions I get from guys is: "I thought the date went great....but she didn't want a second date. Why not?" That's what this video covers: how to get a second date. There are a million reasons why she may not want to see you again, but outside of serious compatibility issues, there are 3 main reasons it might be. Once you know what they are, you can pay attention to how you might be making these 3 mistakes and avoid them in the future. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 8 min

    Stop Playing The Social Script. Do This Instead

    The fastest way I know to become more naturally magnetic, confident, and authentic: https://bit.ly/008-26-LoganLoTS Most people hold back the parts of themselves that would actually make them more charismatic. They try to act cool, hide their enthusiasm, and stay trapped in safe social scripts. In this video, we break down what Love on the Spectrum teaches about real charisma, from saying the honest thing, to making simple jokes, to expressing appreciation without needing anything back. You’ll learn how to be more charming without acting fake, and how to bring more of your real personality into every interaction. 0:00 - Intro 0:46 - Literal jokes 2:07 - Cocky jokes 2:58 - Tension diffusers 3:56 - Honest appreciation 5:24 - The fastest way to become more charismatic Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Charlie Houpert Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 7 min

    STOP DRINKING: Why alcohol kills self-improvement

    I get a lot of questions about the steps to take to be more charismatic. And this one always surprises people: STOP DRINKING! https://goo.gl/RyWH6V It seems like improvement is something you do between the gym and work. But the truth is, every social interaction is a chance to learn something. Except when you're drunk, that goes out the window. Rather than dealing with social anxiety, we tend to numb it. Rather than learning how to "turn on" a raucous sense of humor, we rely on alcohol do free up spontaneity. We sacrifice self-improvement for the the quick fix of a drunk buzz. So I know it may seem unrelated, but stopping your habit of drinking is one of the fastest ways to boost your charisma. Plus there's a lot of other benefits of not drinking that you get to enjoy as well, like waking up without a splitting headache :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 6 min

    Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Exercises

    Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meet Link to tip to strengthen your frame & build confidence: https://goo.gl/OJ4dxk Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Exercises Deadlift tutorial: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8ghzmmF_FA Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 11 min

    How To Actually Tell Better Stories

    Public Speaking tips are something we get asked for all the time. I think it's because Public Speaking applies to so many things, whether it's speaking to a group of friends, presenting at work, or speaking from a stage, the skill set is the same. https://goo.gl/LSuAmN There's a TON that goes into being good at public speaking. Some tips include speaking in the present so that people can follow your stories emotions, gesticulating, speaking with emotion, and on and on. But in this video, I cover a little known trick to telling stories that captivate. Because if you can captivate your listener, you will be seen as an amazing speaker. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 18 min

    If You Only Watch One Charisma Video, Make It This

    Click here to build your charisma with daily reps 👉 https://bit.ly/010-26-7Principles Charisma is not something you’re born with. It’s a set of social skills you can train, rep by rep, until confidence, connection, and self-expression become second nature. In this video, Charlie shares the 7 principles that helped him build his charisma from the ground up, and how you can start doing the same. 0:00 - Intro 0:36 - Charisma is a muscle 2:44 - Charisma has 5 types 4:55 - Confidence is "I'll be okay" 6:05 - You are always broadcasting 7:43 - Trying to be liked backfires 9:22 - The leader humanizes first 10:41 - Fear is the wall Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Indy Fullstop Edited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Rinkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 14 min

    4 Jokes That Make Women Notice You

    Master your confidence and charisma step by step with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3LCkP5g We all know women like men who can make them laugh. But you may not realize there are 4 specific types of jokes that women absolutely love. So in this video you’ll learn how to use these 4 to create a fun flirty conversations with anyone you’re interested in 0:00 - Intro 0:22 - The Ice Breaker 1:30 - Build a fake world 3:38 - Portable Jokes 4:49 - Innuendo 5:17 - Innuendo Level 1 5:50 - Innuendo Level 2 6:53 - Innuendo Level 3 8:00 - The core mindset Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 5 min

    Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Evaluation

    Inspire, Impress, And Energize Everyone You Meet https://goo.gl/XTcjzH Daily Tip: Charismatic Body Language Evaluation Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 18 min

    How To Build Unwavering Confidence

    How To Be More Confident - Conor McGregor Confidence Breakdown Get INSANE Confidence, Instantly! https://bit.ly/2N3xkCC Conor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes of all time. He routinely calls his shot and speaks with a conviction that victory is a total certainty. That's how he earned the nickname "Mystic Mac." Conor McGregor's confidence has led him to one UFC belt and another on the horizon. In this video I am examine some of his thought processes that lead him to have such superhuman confidence and prove that anyone can learn how to be more confident. Use these charismatic tips in your own life to look more confident and feel more confident as well. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 12 min

    How To Influence People With Your Word Choice

    Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2simGTt How To Influence People (And What Not to Do) Want to know how to influence people? Well, first it is helpful to know what NOT to do. This clip breaks down two different persuasive strategies used on The Voice by Ricky Martin and Joel Madden. You'll learn how self-esteem plays a role in convincing people to do the things you'd like them to do and how to frame your reasons so that people are more influenced by what you have to say. Make sure to implement these charismatic tips in your own life so that people respond to you positively when you make requests of them. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 19 min

    When Someone Intimidates You, Do This...

    Build the confidence to stay calm, present, and charismatic in any social setting: 👉 https://bit.ly/017-26-VonTyson Why did Mike Tyson go into an interview expecting to dislike Theo Von, then end up telling him, “I love you”? In this video, we break down what Theo did differently with Tyson compared to his infamous interview with Bill Burr, and why one conversation created connection while the other fell apart. You’ll learn how to stop getting trapped in your own head, listen without slipping into performance mode, ask deeper questions without making things awkward, and handle tense moments without becoming defensive. Most importantly, you’ll see how staying physically calm can make all of these skills much easier when you’re nervous or desperate to make a good impression. 0:00 The Art of Navigating Intimidating Conversations 0:58 How to Handle Someone Who Intimidates You 2:43 The Power of Pausing and Reflective Listening 5:35 Building Intimacy Through Incremental Questions 12:16 Using Body Language to Stay Calm and Present Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 14 min

    Sydney Sweeney Controversy Reveals Something Darker About Us

    Want to build real prestige and improve the way people see you? Join Charisma University here: https://bit.ly/CU2325 Check out more of Rob Henderson’s work here: https://substack.com/@robkhenderson Sometimes outrage is not really about politics or beliefs, but about hidden strategies we use to compete for attraction and status. In this video, I dive into the controversy around Sydney Sweeney’s American Eagle ad with insights from psychologist and author Rob Henderson. Through the lens of evolutionary psychology, he reveals four cunning strategies driving outrage, rivalry, and reputation attacks. Beneath all of that lies an even bigger trap, the universal status game that shapes our lives, often without us realizing it. 0:00 - Intro 1:54 - Lower Rivals Eligibility 2:51 - Police and Limit What Rivals Can Offer 4:53 - Align With High Status Individuals to Improve Own Position 6:13 - Develop Skills That Benefit the Coalition 6:55 - Two Strategies To Gain Status 8:15 - The Direct Route 8:41 - The Indirect Route 9:20 - Learn To Make More REAL Connections Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Video editing: Andre Ringkjoeb Christopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  • Today · 16 min

    How To Show Up For Someone In A Rough Time

    The fastest way to build the confidence and charisma to make friends as an adult: https://bit.ly/002-26 Most people want to help a friend who is struggling, but they get it wrong. They give advice too fast, push too hard, or try to carry emotional burdens that are not theirs to carry, which can actually hurt the friendship. In this video, you will learn how to support a friend in hard times, build deeper connections, and become someone people trust, using Samwise Gamgee as the example of what real friendship and support look like when life gets tough. 0:00 - Intro 0:47 - Offer help before they ask 1:25 - Offer help without hooks 4:37 - Honor their boundaries 7:23 - Support them without this... 8:55 - See them as mid-story Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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