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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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Today · 16 min
3 Questions That Reveal What You Really Want
Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CU-013-25 Most people spend their lives bouncing between pleasing others and chasing freedom—never realizing both paths can feel like a trap. This video breaks down the psychological tug-of-war between ego and superego, inspired by a powerful scene from Shogun. If you've ever felt stuck between doing what you should do and what you want to do, this might reframe everything. 00:00 - Intro 00:23 - Shogun 00:59 - The Scene 01:56 - Living Ego 03:03 - The Dilemma 03:35 - Super Ego 04:44 - Coping 05:57 - Finding The Truth 06:58 - The Middle Way 08:03 - 3 Powerful Questions 08:50 - What Happens Next 09:30 - Living Your Path Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Video editing: Ajit Singh Ikjot Christopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 7 min
How To Have Fun Without Drinking
"How Do I have Fun Without Drinking?" https://goo.gl/0uDf6E It can be tough to have fun when you are learning how to not drink when everyone else is. People will peer pressure you incessantly, implying that you're no fun or a buzzkill. That's why it's good to come up with a plan for having fun despite not having anything to drink. So if you've watched this video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTkX4wfkj1A) and decided to quit drinking, take a look at these tips for having a good time when you're sober and everyone else around you isn't. Obviously there are a million ways how to have fun without drinking, but the big question is, "How do you do it in an environment where everyone else is?" Hopefully these musings help :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 17 min
5 Powerful Ways to Command Respect Everyday
Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3UCIrpg Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe There is a way of gaining respect and power that is not about projecting strength, but the truth of who you ARE So in this video we’ll be using Viserys Targaryen's dinner speech to show how you can influence effortlessly and command respect you for who you truly are. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:28 - Force 1:00 - Manipulation 3:44 - True power 4:35 - #1: Share the complexity of your emotional truth 5:04 - #2: Own clearly when you're asking someone else to behave in a way that makes you feel better 6:06 - #3: Power is most effective when it's consistent 6:51 - #4: Don't pretend your demands are requests 7:34 - How to stop confusing demands and requests 10:41 - How to build social power quickly -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #HouseOfTheDragon #DaemonTargaryen #ViserysTargaryen -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 12 min
Facts Beat Feelings
Facts Beat Feelings - The Trump Prediction Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BOeluP So in the in February 2016, 9 months before the election I started making videos about Donald Trumps impressive powers of persuasion and in May, I made this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LibRNYJmZ-I The video talks about the specific things I saw and I recommend watching all of those, I’ll link to them for the specific things I wound up seeing, but I want to talk about the higher level thinking which led me there. And it’s one of the lessons that I got in 2016. Facts Come Before Beliefs Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 14 min
Why I Left Charisma on Command
In this video, I open up about the difficult decision to leave Charisma on Command, the falling out with my co-founder, and the personal struggles that led to this moment. I'm also excited to share what’s next and to continue creating content that inspires and empowers. 0:00 - Intro 0:20 - The short version of the story 0:43 - The long version of the story 4:58 - What's next 9:02 - A big thank you Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 14 min
How To Spot Dangerous Advice
I’ve been thinking a lot about the bad decisions I see people make, and even the bad decisions that I have made and I see a common pattern. First you have someone who is relatively uncertain, in a transition period of their life, and then they take the wrong advice. In this video, I want to clarify how to spot bad advice so that you don't wind up trudging down the wrong path for months or years. Here's what I've learned 1. Only take advice from people who have the kind of life you desire - you'll know because of what they've achieved, what the people who have followed their advice have achieved and what testing their recommendations proves. 2. When you have aspirations that no one around you has lived up to, you need to find a digital mentor. Get online, read a book, just find the person who has done it and study their path. 3. Develop a circle of friends who are supportive of your happiness, even if that means change. Cut the ones that only want you in status quo 4. Pick teachers that have strong morals. You can't learn a skill set without also picking up a life philosophy, so be careful who you let in Hope that helps you filter out the bad advice and move closer towards the kind of life you dream of :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 17 min
4 Mistakes That Are Killing Your Relationship (And How To Fix It)
Join Over 16,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CU-4Horsemen Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Dr. John Gottman has developed a model that can watch you talk to your partner and then predict with 90% accuracy if your relationship will end. He does this mostly by looking for four common communication mistakes. So today we’ll go over each one AND the four antidotes that can save your relationship if you or your partner have these bad habits. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:25 - #1: Criticism. 3:04 - #2: Contempt. 6:13 - #3: Defensiveness. 8:08 - #4: Stonewalling. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 16 min
Why Everyone Likes Millie Bobby Brown (8 Habits To Steal)
Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3y4zg8O Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Actress Millie Bobby Brown has a polarizing but effortless charm that has made her incredibly popular. So in today’s video, we’ll break down 8 habits you can steal from Millie that will help you immediately make people like you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:10 - #1: The magnetic effect of having fun 0:57 - #2: Soften your tease with a laugh 2:17 - #3: Mix in compliments with your teases 3:15 - #4: Use warm platonic touch 3:32 - #5: Make your life relatable to others 5:30 - #6: Give expansive answers 6:34 - #7: Turn the conversation back on the other person 7:30 - #8: Be a likeable listener -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #MillieBobbyBrown #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 11 min
How To Deal With People Who Interrupt You
Have you ever been out with a group of people, you start to say something or tell a story, and then somebody cuts you off? It can sap your confidence and leave you in your own head unsure how to get back into the conversation... So today we're going to cover how to captivate a group without getting interrupted! With 6 strategies you can use to engage a group of people so that instead of cutting you off, they're hanging on what you have to say. These strategies touch on both WHAT you say and HOW you say it. 0:45 Put pregnant pauses mid-sentence NOT at the end 1:17 Express excitement with your voice to activate listener mirror neurons 1:48 Be loud enough with your voice and your body so as not to get interrupted 2:13 Speak like you deserve to be heard which is also good in group dynamics 3:06 Tell tight stories to captivate and develop those social skills 3:47 Make yourself enjoyable to listen to 4:28 Wrap complaints in story arcs 4:50 Relate back to the listener Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 13 min
Public Speaking: How To Make An Audience Love You In 90 Seconds
6 Public Speaking Tips To Hook Any Audience Public speaking is hard. We all know it. But if you master a few basic public speaking tips and techniques, you can absolutely hook any audience. https://goo.gl/IpBEnO In this video you'll get the public speaking training to hook an audience n 30 seconds. The public speaking skills to tell stories that have people hanging on every word. And the techniques to nail a finale that moves people to action. Public speaking shakes a lot of people's confidence, but if you use these tips and techniques, you'll be on your way to giving presentations that TED would be proud of :-) You can watch the full speech here: https://youtu.be/Iqq1roF4C8s For the written version: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=videodesc&utm_campaign=blog Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 19 min
The Concerning Way Modern Men Have Changed
Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/012-25 Jack Reacher and Geralt from the Witcher are fearless in combat, unstoppable in crisis… So why do they shut down around women? In this video, we break down how modern masculinity became passive, what it says about young men today, and how tapping into what you really want can bring your life back online. 00:00 - Intro 00:18 - Jack Reacher 01:00 - The Problem 03:30 - How The Male Fantasy Genre Evolved 06:06 - The Difference 06:44 - James Bond 07:20 - Risking Rejection 08:08 - The Witcher 08:34 - Social Media 09:32 - Monk Mode 10:00 - What's Going On? 10:46 - The Connection To Male Passiveness 12:23 - How To Overcome Your Fears Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Video editing: Ajit Singh Christopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 27 min
How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on Command
How To Build Good Habits That Stick - Maneesh Sethi talks to Charisma on Command Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 14 min
How To Become The Biggest YouTuber of All Time
Why PewDiePie Is Unstoppable Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2ESHLXz Pewdiepie is the biggest YouTuberr by far, its not even close. And with his recent milestone of 50 million subscribers, I thought it would be interesting to look into the factors that contributed to his massive success. And obviously his enormous catalog of videos, and early entry into lets play genre contributed, but in this video we’re going to focus on the psychological factors that make him so unstoppable And I promise you, even if you hate Pewdiepie or don’t yet know who he is, you can learn from his success. Because he has tapped into the fundamentals of the way people work We'll talk about how Pewds got away with not deleting his channel at 50 million subscribers and instead deleted the jacksepticeye channel, how his let's play videos capture attention so well and why he's likely to stay on top Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 17 min
Adele: How to Be Authentic
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2BjiwgX Adele: How to Be Authentic Adele might be the best singer alive. Her music is soulful and moving. What’s fascinating about her is that the “honesty” in her music extends to her interviews and offstage interactions. So in this video I want to explore what makes Adele come across as so genuine. We'll watch her interviews with Jimmy Fallon on the Tonight Show, James Corden on Carpool Karaoke on The Late Late Show, and Fredrik Skavlan on Skavlan. We'll also listen in on her song "Someone Like You" to watch how she delivers it with such pure emotion. Learning where that feeling arises from will make it easier for you to spot fakers and it will make it possible for you to become more genuine yourself, which will make people you barely know trust you and want to get to know you better. James Corden And Adele Singing Carpool Karaoke: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nck6B... The three things that Adele does so well that will we cover are: 1) Smiling Genuinely 2) Being Honest And Congruent With Her Feelings 3) Praising Others Openly And Freely Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 16 min
Why Jimmy Fallon Seems Fake
Why Jimmy Fallon Seems Fake On The Tonight Show Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Ec8iOc Jimmy Fallon’s hosts the most watched Late Night show on TV (the Tonight Show). And in an industry where most games, stunts, and celebrities are interchangeable, that says a lot about his likability. But Jimmy is not universally adored. A glance at the YouTube comments shows that some people find him fake. Specifically they think his laugh is fake. In this video we’ll look into the things that may make it seem that way to some. Oddly enough, it’s also his biggest strength. Long story short, I think it isn't (it's probably just a habit Jimmy picked up while working at SNL) but what's most interesting is how his laughter affects the people around him - and what we can learn from that "easy laugh" 6:59 Watch videos that make you laugh 7:27 Paying compliments by laughing at someone's joke 8:32 Celebrate stupid little things 10:02 Doing goofy things that you find personally amusing Funny videos I like to watch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IixQox4rhEw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5nEl04eG8Eg Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today · 14 min
3 AWFUL Habits That Instantly Make People Look Down On You
Get The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FU1zsL 3 Mistakes That Butcher First Impressions You might be butchering your first impressions without even realizing it. Not cause you’re a self-absorbed jerk, but because a lot of the most well-intentioned advice you’ve received is incomplete. And if you don’t understand the fine points of when that advice applies and when it doesn’t you might miss out on hitting it off with your next close friend, business partner, or even boyfriend or girlfriend. So I want to shed some light on 3 common first impressions mistakes I see that all stem from good advice gone wrong. 1) Thinking that harmony “getting along” and not causing waves is the most important thing 2) Avoiding disagreements and focusing only on commonalities 3) Thinking "fake it til you make it" applies beyond non-verbal communication Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 14 min
Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EsiXrr Will Smith Charisma Breakdown: How To Be Charismatic In Groups Group interactions can be so difficult when trying to exude confidence and charisma. Unlike a 1:1 conversation you might find it hard to get a word in. You might find it hard to hold people's attention. This is totally normal, but it doesn't make it any more fun when you're a shrinking wallflower. The good news is that there are clear ways how to be more charismatic in groups. And Will Smith provides an amazing firsthand example. He manages to come across as genuine and likeable while steering the conversation. Take a look and be sure to implement these charisma tips in your own life! Check out our book : http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Or if you want more on strong presentation skills: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=videodesc&utm_campaign=blog Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 10 min
Never Go Blank Again: 4 Go To Jokes Anyone Can Use
Join Our 8000+ Members At Charisma University! https://bit.ly/3CfNW5P 5 Easy Steps To Be Effortlessly Charming https://bit.ly/2SkU9e0 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all had that moment where we wish we could think of something funny to say, but our mind goes blank. It sucks. So in this video, we’ll go through easy ways to get a laugh in 4 different situations: when someone else is talking, when you get teased and need a comeback, when you’re asked a question, and when you’re telling a story. And rather than go through examples where you need to be insanely witty, these are purposefully some of the absolute easiest ways you can get a laugh. Do these consistently and people will love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:44 - #1: Do the wordless walk off 1:55 - #2: Use an appearance analogy 3:33 - #3: Say an absurd answer 5:00 - #4: Laugh as you tell a joke or funny story -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #Comedy -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 13 min
The Sentence Finisher: Make People Love Talking To You
Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3umpdd9 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all had those moments where we wish we could think of something funny to say, but our mind goes blank. It can be frustrating, especially when you’re talking to someone you really want to like you. So in today’s video, we’ll go through 6 easy ways you can make people laugh or just love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:12 - #1: Finish someone's incomplete sentence with a joke 1:48 - #2: Surprise them with unexpected absurd answers 2:59 - #3: Pivot to an exaggerated version of your real answer 4:12 - #4: Start saying your positive thoughts out loud 5:09 - #5: Be relentlessly positive 6:34 - #6: Focus on having fun -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #ChrisHemsworth #ChrisEvans #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
What To Say When A Conversation Gets Awkward
Join Charisma University and boost your confidence and charisma: https://bit.ly/010-25 Today we're using the power of AI and hindsight to fix some of the most awkward celebrity interviews, showing exactly how you can avoid these cringe-worthy situations in your own life. Learn to handle passive-aggressive comments and uncomfortable moments with confidence. 0:00 - Intro 0:31 - Blake Lively 1:16 - Blake Lively Fixed With AI 2:38 - Turn Passive Aggression Into Active Aggression 3:18 - Jonah Hill & Jimmy Kimmel 4:21 - Agree, Exaggerate & Let It Go 4:27 - Jonah Hill Fixed With AI 5:53 - Ellen DeGeneres & Dakota Johnson 6:37 - Allow Awkwardness To Exist 7:13 - Ellen Fixed With AI 7:35 - Jim Carrey 9:37 - Jim Carrey Fixed With AI 10:41 - Learn how to boost your confidence & charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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