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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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Yesterday · 12 min
How To Actually Tell Better Stories
Public Speaking tips are something we get asked for all the time. I think it's because Public Speaking applies to so many things, whether it's speaking to a group of friends, presenting at work, or speaking from a stage, the skill set is the same. https://goo.gl/LSuAmN There's a TON that goes into being good at public speaking. Some tips include speaking in the present so that people can follow your stories emotions, gesticulating, speaking with emotion, and on and on. But in this video, I cover a little known trick to telling stories that captivate. Because if you can captivate your listener, you will be seen as an amazing speaker. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
How Negan Rose To Power In The Walking Dead
How Negan Rose To Power In The Walking Dead Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Bj8DjH Negan is one of the most ruthless leader in the world of the Walking Dead. He literally brings Rick Grimes to his knees. And perhaps what’s most scary about him, is that people like him are not just dominant in social interactions (even over guys like Daryl) but they oftentimes DO become leaders in our own world, especially in times where security is so hard to find, like in the Walking Dead. In this video we’ll break down what traits make Negan such a dominant force, why those make him a natural leader, and how you can handle those traits when you encounter them in real life - without the baseball bat named Lucille obviously. By the way, spoilers through mid season 7 of the Walking Dead AND some graphic images, because we’re talking about Negan here. 00:30 Negan's body language plays a role 3:22 Negan makes the rules clear 5:38 Negan doesn't just punish, he also rewards 7:06 Negan builds a cult of personality Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 14 min
Diary of a CEO: The WORST Interview of My Life
The Diary of a CEO podcast: https://youtu.be/zg4Ta7vXiIM I went on The Diary of a CEO, and it didn’t go how I expected… In this video, I break down what happened and what this experience taught me about charisma, confidence, and being truly authentic. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 0:24 - My charisma mistakes 0:45 - How I wound up there 2:15 - The question that got me... 3:36 - Body language analysis 4:50 - The interview drops 5:54 - The phases of learning 9:21 - Wrapping up Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 18 min
If You Have These Habits, You're Accidentally Making People Dislike You
Thank you to Audible for sponsoring this video! New Audible members get a 30-day free trial. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text "charisma" to 500 500 to try Audible today! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Recently Steven Crowder and Ethan Klein got together to discuss the pros and cons of listening to the CDC. In today’s video, we’re going to break down how that conversation got so heated and what you can learn from it. Specifically we’ll go over 5 common habits you may have that are making friends dislike you when you argue. We’ll also go over some positive ways you can be more persuasive and make people like you even during a disagreement. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 2:01 - #1: Don't aim for a "gotcha" moment 3:48 - #2: Don't repeatedly talk over someone 4:49 - #3: Stop using ad hominem attacks 8:01 - #4: Stop strawmaning 8:49 - #5: Be willing to consider that you're on the wrong side -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #h3h3 #stevencrowder #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 18 min
How To Spark Interest In Every Conversation
Join Over 16,500 Members At Charisma University: http://bit.ly/47PI0SK Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video you’ll learn 6 habits that will make people love being around you. With examples from a celebrity that seems almost universally loved: Ryan Gosling. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:07 - #1: Have fun 0:21 - Absurd analogies 1:09 - The mind's eye method 1:37 - Deadpan humor 2:52 - The fake walkoff 3:24 - #2: Tell funny embarrassing stories 3:58 - Emphasize you're aware it was embarrassing 4:59 - Call attention to your awkward moments 5:51 - #3: Create authenticity 6:36 - Compliment authenticity when you see it 7:10 - #4: Make people feel good around you 7:22 - Show that you like who they are 8:06 - Combine the compliment with a joke 8:58 - #5: Be playfully humble 10:05 - #6: Self validation 11:26 - How can you gain unshakable confidence? 12:15 - The quickest way to build confidence -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #RyanGosling -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 8 min
4 Social Skills Every Quiet Person Needs
Join Over 13,000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3CzfIMy Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe If you’re an introvert, you may think that you’re destined to suffer socially. But one of today's MOST popular celebrities is a self-proclaimed introvert. Even more amazing, Zendaya captivates people without pretending to be extroverted, which can feel exhausting and fake. So today, you’ll learn 4 easy tricks to be charming as an introvert, without changing your personality. Our writing assistant and resident introvert Hadley will walk you through them. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:23 - #1: Front load your enthusiasm 1:07 - #2: Use hand signals to capture attention 2:00 - #3: Speak through a smile 2:26 - #4: Listen with the intention of laughing -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Zendaya #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
How To Give Advice That People Actually Listen To
A 'Trick' That Gives You INSANE Confidence: https://bit.ly/2DxyfvU Elliott Hulse is an extraordinary motivational speaker. He gives advice in such a way that his viewers are inspired not only to listen to the end of his videos, but to change their lives. And on a crowded platform like Youtube, Elliott manages to speak for upwards of 10 minutes, with long pauses while captivating his audience the entire time. Not many speakers are have the confidence to pull that off. We all have moment's in our lives where people come to us for advice. Yet oftentimes, despite our best efforts, that advice goes unheeded. We can change that. By following Elliott Hulse's charismatic techniques and intelligent structure we can learn to "open up" our listener so that they are receptive to the advice we have to give. So check it out and learn how to give advice that actually motivates people to change. Link to confidence tip: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTD Link to Elliott Hulse's final video in breakdown: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Xgjb8spwew Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
The Podcaster's Secret To Instant Connection
Level up your charisma in the fastest way possible: https://bit.ly/CU-2425 For the first time in history we have professional conversation havers - they’re called podcasters. And one of the most overlooked social skills that make them successful - is the ability to connect with anyone, even when they have nothing in common. So in this video, I’ll show you 6 techniques - that the best conversationalists use, and that you can use today - to connect with anyone and begin a more meaningful relationship. 0:00 - Intro 0:29 - #1: Let them know this 2:03 - #2: Navigate the talk towards... 3:49 - #3: Parroting 4:34 - #4: Advocate for things people... 6:32 - #5: Pause and take a moment 7:29 - #6: Go there first 9:06 - A challenge for you 9:49 - The fastest way to level up your charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
Charisma Has 4 Levels. Most People Never Get Past 2.
In Stage 2? Here’s your next step: https://bit.ly/020-25 In this video, I break down the 4 stages of growth that guide all of my content going forward. Each stage needs a different approach — and knowing where you are helps you get the most out of my advice. Watch this to understand how my videos fit into your journey. 01:24 - Stage 1 02:34 - Stage 2 04:21 - Stage 3 06:58 - Stage 4 08:20 - What do you do with this? Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 14 min
Play This Game When Conversations Get Boring
Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University: http://bit.ly/4nbfU9e Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all been stuck in an awkward conversation that feels forced or boring. You want the person to like you, but you have no idea what to say. So in today’s video, we’ll go over five habits that instantly make conversation more fun and help you connect with anyone. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:11 - #1: Set a playful tone early in the interaction 2:31 - #2: Give a genuine friendly compliment 4:25 - #3: Share your imperfections (without shame) 5:42 - #4: Ask open-ended questions 6:37 - #5: Be a likeable listener -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 15 min
The Dangerous Effects Of Instagram On Your Mental Health
Why Instagram Is Ruining Your Life Link To Confidence Tip: https://goo.gl/J8LD0L If you were an alien looking at the Instagram news feed, you would have to conclude that most humans spend their lives in leisure traveling and smiling all day long. You assume that there were far more honeymoons and fights -- far more moments of laughing so hard that you cry than an actual crying and far more successes than failures but none of that is true. Our lives are not represented by the photos that we share. We are pretending and it comes at a dire cost. There's been a lot said about the dangers of consuming social media. After all, the sites are designed to be more addictive than crack. The articles do little more than waste your time and the misrepresentation of how people live can lead to depression with the state of your own life but those are the easy criticisms. The real danger of Instagram and other social media sites is not in what we consume but in what we create. Think of it this way -- every time you post a photo you are contributing to the creation of a persona. Kind of like in a video game -- you post a photo in front of the Eiffel Tower and your sophistication stat goes up, you delete a photo where you look bad and your beauty stat goes up, or you share a funny meme and your humor step goes up. 2:14 You'll be more unhappy the more you care about those likes 2:43 You sacrifice your own experience to promote your identity 3:16 You outsource your happiness to the masses 3:38 Curating an identity stops you from investing in you 4:08 Curating an identity limits you FB Newsfeed Eradicator: https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/news-feed-eradicator-for/fjcldmjmjhkklehbacihaiopjklihlgg?hl=en Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 12 min
Self Love QandA
In the previous video, I spoke about self love and it's critical importance to your well being. In this video I answer questions from YOU (in the comments!) about love, self love, and self esteem. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 19 min
The Art of Influence: How to Get People to Listen to You
3 Surprising Steps To Influence Anyone Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2qTSVYG Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Join Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ Margaery Tyrell might be the most underrated player in Game of Thrones. And it’s a shame that she meets her end so early, at least in the show, because more than any other character I’ve covered, she has the most to teach you about how to behave in the real world. Which is cool, because unlike Littlefinger and Tywin Lannister, I don’t have to tell you NOT to do these things. We’re talking about good stuff here, so you’ll want to apply a lot of this even if you don't live in the Game of Thrones, beginning with Margaery’s first incredible talent: her ability to build rapport with anyone. She has a number of incredibly effective strategies. 00:16 Build rapport as the HBO show Game of Thrones here shows 06:33 Learn as much as you can about the person to truly empathize 07:39 Lead them as shown as examples here from Game of Thrones Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 12 min
This Simple Trick Makes People Love Talking to You
The fastest way I know to stop having boring conversations and become more magnetic: https://bit.ly/004-26 Most people are stuck having the same boring conversations on repeat. They play it safe, ignore the obvious, and stay trapped in rigid social scripts that kill connection and charisma. In this video, you’ll learn the conversation techniques Ryan Gosling uses to instantly make interactions more fun, magnetic, and memorable, so you can stop running out of things to say, connect faster, and become someone people genuinely love talking to. 0:00 - Intro 0:21 - Why conversations feel repetitive 1:10 - Escape the frame 2:07 - Follow the shiny thing 2:50 - Open the circle 4:22 - Imply friendship fast 4:46 - Acknowledge others emotions 7:00 - The fastest way to become more charismatic Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Joe Cordle Edited by Simba Mahachi Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 13 min
5 Tips To Radiate A Cool Attractive Aura
Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University: http://bit.ly/3VVesM1 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Matthew McConaughey gives off an almost effortless feeling of being cool. So today we’ll break down some of the habits that make him so charismatic and how you can incorporate them into your own life. And it’s worth noting, while Matthew McConaughey is very handsome, his confidence and charisma can apply to you no matter what you look like. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:15 - Set the mood 0:17 - #1: Move slowly and don't rush when speaking 0:52 - #2: Greet everyone around you 1:48 - #3: Make yourself comfortable 2:29 - #4: Stay anchored to yourself 3:20 - Be a magnetic storyteller 3:39 - #1: Use a good preframe 4:37 - #2: Share your emotional experience 5:00 - #3: Act out your characters 6:35 - #4: Tell the story with your hands 6:52 - #5: Tell your stories in the present tense 7:48 - How to put this to practice -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #McConaughey #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 9 min
Vocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown
Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: https://goo.gl/lWf9gA Vocal Tips - Neil deGrasse Tyson Charisma Breakdown: Neil deGrasse Tyson's voice is like butter. He has the rare ability to talk about science in a way that makes people want to know more. And it's not necessarily because the subject is so interesting. After all, most of us weren't riveted in 9th grade biology. Neil is so captivating because his voice is so damn fun to listen to. And the good news is, we can learn to speak like he does. So check out these vocal tips and implement them in your own life. That way you'll be able to hook people's attention. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 10 min
How to stop blowing it on dates
Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/rH8Dvb One of the most common questions I get from guys is: "I thought the date went great....but she didn't want a second date. Why not?" That's what this video covers: how to get a second date. There are a million reasons why she may not want to see you again, but outside of serious compatibility issues, there are 3 main reasons it might be. Once you know what they are, you can pay attention to how you might be making these 3 mistakes and avoid them in the future. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 13 min
Do These 8 Things and People Will Want You Around
Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCEmilyBlunt Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video, we’ll go over 8 conversational habits that make people love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:04 - #1: The false completion technique 1:40 - #2: Accept bids for connection 2:53 - #3: Add a touch during conversational high points 3:56 - #4: Friendly teasing 5:17 - #5: Act out your characters 6:14 - #6: Pause when you hear laughter 6:42 - #7: Take a 3 second punchline pause 7:17 - #8: Have go-to stories ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ #CharismaOnCommand #EmilyBlunt #CillianMurphy #Oppenheimer ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 8 min
How To Not Drink: Dealing With Peer Pressure
Get the Video on The 4 Emotions to Make An Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2slu28Y As soon as you've decided that you don't want to drink, you can probably expect a million people to start hassling you. This is the hardest part of learning how to not drink: dealing with the peer pressure. The good news is that you can use these tips to tell people you don't want to drink in a way that gets them to stop bothering you AND commands their respect. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yesterday · 16 min
How To Get Better At Public Speaking Fast
The fastest way I know to become a better communicator, storyteller, and leader: https://bit.ly/006-26-Ford Most people think great speeches are about confidence, natural talent, or finding the perfect words. But if you study the speeches people remember for years, from Harrison Ford to Steve Jobs, they all follow the same underlying structure. In this video, you'll learn a simple five-step framework for giving speeches that capture attention, connect emotionally, and leave people thinking differently, whether you're giving a wedding toast, leading a team, interviewing for a job, or getting called up to speak with zero preparation. 0:00 - Intro 1:12 - F: Start with humor 2:52 - A: Acknowledgements 3:41 - R: Relate to the audience 7:02 - T: The Takeaway 9:13 - S: Your signoff 10:00 - Improve your confidence & charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Credits: Written by Charlie Houpert Edited by Sousa Marães Directed by Andre Ringkjeob Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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