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Want to be more charismatic and confident? We make videos to help you learn how to be more confident, how to make people laugh, how to be more likable - basically everything about exuding charisma. Relationships in life are everything, so we want to teach you to turn on your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter most.

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Saturday · 16 min
3 Surprising Problems of Successful People
3 Surprising Problems of Successful People Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nJlBj1 Why You Don't Feel Good Enough (video I reference): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gcH6tFugYfo Email list (click the blue button): www.charismaoncommand.com Answering What Do You Do: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/never-run-things-say/ Success is awesome. Getting what you want is a wonderful thing in many ways. But it has downside that almost nobody talks about and it makes us sitting ducks for confusion and unhappiness. I make this video for 2 reasons, 1) to help you prevent against these things if you’re on the come up, and 2) to help you identify them in your own life if you’ve already achieved success. Since we’re told getting what you’re aiming for is a good thing, we can become blind to the very common problems that come with it - or else just think we’re weird for having them. So if you are successful, hopefully this video can help you solve some problems you might instantly recognize without ever having named. And for the rest of this video, I am going to be talking about success in the professional sense, though I know these problems could occur just as easily with dating success, physical fitness success and just about every area of life where you can achieve your goals. 1:08 Success invites a comparing mind 3:42 Success can become a social crutch 6:54 Success can be a crutch for happiness Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 18 min
How To Build Unwavering Confidence
How To Be More Confident - Conor McGregor Confidence Breakdown Get INSANE Confidence, Instantly! https://bit.ly/2N3xkCC Conor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes of all time. He routinely calls his shot and speaks with a conviction that victory is a total certainty. That's how he earned the nickname "Mystic Mac." Conor McGregor's confidence has led him to one UFC belt and another on the horizon. In this video I am examine some of his thought processes that lead him to have such superhuman confidence and prove that anyone can learn how to be more confident. Use these charismatic tips in your own life to look more confident and feel more confident as well. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 9 min
The One Thing That Saved James Gunn’s Career
Learn the social skills to build powerful connections: https://bit.ly/CU-2225 When James Gunn lost his career overnight, he thought it was all over. But what happened next completely changed how he saw himself and the people around him. In this video, we break down his story and the simple lesson you can use to turn your worst moment into your strongest comeback. 0:00 - Intro 0:37 - James Gunn's Worst Moment 1:48 - Wait a second... 3:02 - The Buffer Against Feeling Loved 4:03 - A Practical Takeaway 5:48 - Learn To Build Powerful Connections Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 14 min
How To Make People Respect You Immediately
Thank you to Audible for sponsoring this video! New Audible members get a 30-day free trial. Visit http://audible.com/charisma or text "charisma" to 500 500 to try Audible today! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Volodymyr Zelensky has been extremely effective at getting people and nations from around the world to support his cause in the conflict against Putin’s Russia. So in this video we’ll break down 5 leadership habits that you can use to command MASSIVE respect and make people want to follow you whether you’re trying to lead in business, politics, or just your social life. (We’ll also touch on Putin’s approach in regards to these same habits). ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:37 - #1: Show people how what's good for you is good for them 2:15 - #2: Describe the heaven if they side with you, and the hell if they don't 4:14 - #3: Give your followers a high reputation to live up to 6:20 - #4: Praise people publicly 7:29 - #5: Your own behavior sets the standard for everyone around you -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #VolodymyrZelensky #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 14 min
Make Anyone Feel Incredible With These 6 Tricks
Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCBradPitt Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video, you’ll learn how to be extremely likable, whether you’re an energetic extrovert or a soft spoken introvert. We’ll cover how to make an amazing first impression AND how to turn that first impression into deep relationships with people that love and admire you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:11 - #1: Charismatic body language - Listening With Warm, Soft Eye Contact. - A Duchenne Smile. - Speaking Through A Smile. - Expansive Gestures. 1:34 - #2: Capture attention - A Pre-Story Laugh. - A One Line Hook. 2:54 - #3: Making someone feel good around you - Laugh When Someone Makes A Joke. - Adding A Light Platonic Touch And Compliment. - Be Universally Kind. - Playful Teasing. 6:31 - #4: Be a shield in their shield wall -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #BradPitt -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 18 min
The Masculine Archetype That Builds Quiet Power
Join over 21,000 members at Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-004-25 This video explores the archetype of the king, its defining traits, and how embodying that mature king energy can boost your self-confidence. 0:00 - Intro 0:39 - #1) The King has little interest in changing other people's minds 1:55 - #2 ) King Energy inspires people around to feel confidence 4:18 - #3) Kings define themselves by what they love 7:16 - The Burden Test 8:18 - How to offer support 8:36 - You must be committed to clear seeing 12:07 - Want more? Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Edited by: Ryan D'Souza Andre Ringkjøb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 12 min
3 Witty Jokes To Make Anyone Laugh
Conan O'Brien: How To Be Witty Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BNrmF6 Comedy Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLefV978fp07dqsgcxRNQITnahKaSFgp96 Conan O'Brien has an extremely fast sense of humor and wit. When we watch him interact on Conan on TBS or the Team Coco channel, he can seem impossibly conversationally clever, which is why he has had no problem entertaining millions of people for nearly 20 years in interviews and now his Clueless Gamer series. But the truth is that there are principles behind the kind of sharp wit that Conan uses so often. And while his years of comedy training have made him a master, simply understanding the principles and using them in your own life can make people find you much much funnier. So let’s take a look at those principles. 0:48 Out of context analysis with Clueless Gamer as one example 3:39 Be specific like how Conan teases Kevin Hart as one example 4:36 See the doubling down here by Conan O'Brien and on TBS Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 17 min
The Debate Skill Jordan Peterson Forgot
Join Charisma University today! https://bit.ly/017-25 My original Jordan Peterson video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nS9W-wlJHPA Jordan Peterson has delivered some of the internet’s most iconic debate moments. But his Surrounded video doesn’t quite reach that same level. Many will dissect the substance of the debate—the semantic haze, the definitions, the back-and-forth. That’s not where I want to focus. What matters most in a debate, if your goal is to actually change someone’s mind, isn’t clever semantics, gotcha moments, or even airtight logic. It’s the emotional connection you build through rapport and charisma. That human link is what opens the door to real persuasion. 0:00 - Intro 1:04 - Focus on amusement 3:06 - Use a receptive style of listening 6:41 - The Anti NBA Rule 10:11 - This makes everything easier Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Edited by: Andre Ringkjoeb Christopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 14 min
5 Steps To Stop Caring What People Think
Join Over 18,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/47f6mBu Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The number one regret of people who are dying is "I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me." So let’s spend this video going through how you can do just that. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 1:00 - #1: Find your fire 2:25 - #2: Create an inner circle 3:10 - #3: Decide your core values 4:47 - #4: Leave the validation casino 7:09 - #5: Self acceptance Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 17 min
How To Avoid The Mistakes That Made Will Smith Less Likable
Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3v7qh3V Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Sometimes we know for sure we’ve done something to make people dislike us. But other times it’s less obvious and the slap isn’t the only thing that is causing Will to receive such backlash - there were several more common mistakes that turned people against him. That’s why in this video we’ll cover 3 of the more subtle things Will did so you can avoid these mistakes in your own life. We will also get into the real reason why Will Smith hit Chris Rock, something I have not seen anyone else talk about yet. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:24 - Mistake #1: Triangulating yourself into your significant other's relationships 1:40 - Mistake #2: Dodging ownership of bad behavior 3:12 - Mistake #3: Carrying emotional baggage to your interactions -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #WillSmith #Oscars2022 #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 21 min
Why Trump Will SMASH Hillary
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EPUGcp Why Donald Trump Will SMASH Hillary Clinton Donald Trump is going to beat Hillary Clinton and be the next President of the United States. Let me be clear. This isn’t a pro-Trump video. I’m not voting for Trump. But after watching hours of footage of both Trump and Hillary, I have seen an incredible pattern that convinced me to bet $1000 of my own money that Trump would be president. Even though I am not voting for him. That’s how confident I am. Not because I want him to, but because he is head and shoulder above Hillary when it comes to campaigning and you may not have realized why it’s working so well. So let’s rewind one year to see how Trump got to where he is and how that can show us where he’s going. Because as soon as Trump announced, a lot of people thought it was a joke. First he was seen as a joke.... Then he started making outlandish statements, dominating the news cycle.... Then he took down his republican rivals one by one, naming them Weak Jeb, Little Marco, and Lyin' Ted... And now he has set his sights on Hillary Clinton. Hillary, in the meantime, has demonstrated an ineffective strategy. Her slogan, "Love trumps hate," has Trump's name in it. Her talking points typically come back to the fact that she is a woman, which Trump has labeled "playing the woman card." It has caused her to slip to the point where she and Trump are at a dead heat in the polls. Some even have him up. If this continues, it won't even be close come Election Day in November. Check out Scott Adams' blog: http://blog.dilbert.com/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 17 min
How To Be Nice Without Being A Pushover
James Corden - How To Be Nice Without Being A Pushover Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EdT6Qs Push Pull In Flirting: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8k Self Deprecating Humor: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLefV978fp07cE9uFJ-SqUHQvmuNbhdRmz James Corden has the fastest growing Late Night channel on YouTube thanks mostly to the massive success he has had with Carpool Karaoke on the Late Late Show. And while it is certainly fun to watch your favorite singers rock out to their most popular songs, a big contributor to the success of those videos is the dynamic James is able to create in such a short time. He’s able to get people to open up and really enjoy themselves. And if you watch closely, there is a moment where these stars who were previously bored or skeptical, seem to really begin to like James Corden. James Corden’s magnetism comes from the fact that he is able to make people feel good, without losing their respect. That is what we are going to learn how to do in this video. 01:44 Make your compliments more specific and direct 02:06 Push-pull compliment to avoid the vibe of butt-kissing 02:54 If tension arises when complimenting, follow up with a joke 06:01 For certain groups, don't get walked over by dishing it back out 07:55 Set boundaries at times too like what James Corden did here Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 13 min
It's actually pretty easy to flirt with women
Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/VVVAjE Russell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women. That's a problem. Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong. Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone. The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women. It's not the ONLY way, but it is a great way to show interest without creeping anyone out. So check out Russell Brand's special version of "push pull" and see if it matches your style of flirting. Also, pay close attention to the moments when the women start to fall for Russell. They will teach you a lot about flirting with women. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 8 min
Stop Doing This When You Speak
Master your confidence step by step with Charisma University: https://bit.ly/026-25 There is one common mistake that kills your confidence. It makes you look weak, it makes you feel smaller, and it pushes people away. In this video, we’ll use Ned Fulmer’s recent podcast with his ex-wife Ariel Fulmer, to show the habit that destroys both your confidence and people’s trust. 0:00 - Intro 0:16 - Context 0:41 - His voice is constricted 1:47 - What you should do instead 2:31 - Do this when you start to feel constricted 4:35 - Want more tips like this? Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 13 min
5 Clear Signs Of A Manipulative Personality
Join Over 12,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/38kih8e Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Narcissists don’t behave like most people. They take advantage of the social rules we expect people to follow and their manipulations are shockingly effective if you’re unprepared. That’s why in this video we’ll cover 5 tells that you’re dealing with a narcissist, one who is lying in an attempt to gaslight you. That way you’ll be more able to catch them and defend yourself. We’ll be using Jussie Smollett as our example. For those of you who missed out, in 2019 he claimed to have been a victim of a hate crime. But his story quickly fell apart in ways that are instructive for catching narcissistic liars in your own life. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:30 - Sign #1: Details that only serve to establish a desirable persona 1:47 - Sign #2: Other people's motivations relate back to them 3:23 - Sign #3: Making skepticism evidence of a character flaw in the disbeliever 5:06 - Sign #4: In the face of overwhelming evidence, they tend to dig in deeper 5:52 - Sign #5: A cost/benefit analysis of a narcissist's lies will probably make no sense to you 6:44 - Bonus Sign: Narcissists tend to be perpetually unhappy due to their image focused nature -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Narcissists #JussieSmollett #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 13 min
6 Flirting Habits Women Actually Love
Join Over 16,000 Members At Charisma University: http://bit.ly/3VpDBhP Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video, you’ll learn 6 habits that instantly make you more attractive. We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Jack Harlow, because he has an easy, authentic style of flirting that many women find extremely attractive. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:21 - #1: Approach without hesitation 1:59 - #2: Assume good intent 3:37 - #3: Use the push/pull method 5:27 - #4: Be honest in situations where a lot of guys would lie 6:12 - #5: Don't be desperate for a romantic connection 6:57 - #6: Have standards beyond beauty -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #JackHarlow #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 14 min
How A Small Insecurity Can Grow Into Narcissism
Join Over 21,000 Members at Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-005-25 Elon Musk recently pretended to be one of the best in the world at a video game—only for the truth to come out. But this isn’t just about a lie; it’s about the sad pipeline of toxic shame, where the fear of not being enough leads to deception, compulsive validation-seeking, and, in some cases, malignant narcissism. This video breaks down how it happens—and how to break free. 0:00 - Intro 0:29 - Elon Musk was caught pretending 1:00 - The context 3:39 - The psychology behind Toxic Shame 5:20 - Where Toxic Shame comes from 6:06 - The opposite of Toxic Shame 6:20 - It can get worse... 7:18 - How to address Toxic Shame 9:12 - Want to level up your confidence and charisma? Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Video Editing: Skye Andre Ringkjoeb Henry Houpert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 17 min
4 Reasons You Are Losing Friends
4 Surprising Things That Sabotage Friendships Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EQVPAG Friendships are some of the most important things in life. Yet sometimes it can seem difficult to start friendships - other times friendships you have simply dissolve. And that may be because you are doing something to sabotage them. Either having an idea of how to make friends or keep a friendship and relationships, you will surely realize something new in this video that maybe you haven't. 00:42 Lack of integrity in a friendship or relationship 03:43 Manipulating your friend with guilt 06:57 Being inconsiderate of your friend 08:40 Your values have diverged from your friend's Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 9 min
How To Make People Like You Immediately
One Simple Tip To Make People Like You - Tom Hiddleston Charisma Breakdown https://goo.gl/qgN8BY Watch Tom Hiddleston and Grae Drake banter back and forth and learn how you can boost your charisma just by shifting the way you crack jokes. It's a simple technique that you can use to make just about anyone like you, guy or girl. After all, we like people who make us feel good about ourselves, and this tip will do that for you. Subscribe to Charisma On Command. https://goo.gl/qgN8BY Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Saturday · 9 min
How To Be Extremely Captivating To Those Around You
Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nRAxuA Body Language Tips - Tony Robbins Charisma Breakdown Tony Robbins is a master of body language. These body language tips will break down how he is able to communicate so effectively by using his body in ways that most people don't during speeches or presentations. By the way, if you haven't been to an event, check him out. He is the most charismatic man I have ever seen in person and a huge portion of that is because of his emphatic body language, which is on full display in this video. If you want to learn how to inspire a crowd of 7,000 people, there is no one better to learn from than Tony. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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