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Unstuck with Jay Abbasi

Jay Abbasi

Real people. Real stories. Real solutions. I’m Jay Abbasi, host of Unstuck, and as a former leader at Tesla, I understand the whirlwind of challenges in the modern work scene. In this podcast, we reveal how to thrive in demanding work environments through relatable, real-life stories. Each episode starts with a true story of modern professional challenges, followed by expert insights to help you thrive at work including practical advice on resilience, mental health, and work life balance. Get unstuck and build the life and career you’ve always wanted.

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  • S1 · E213
    Yesterday · 16 min

    213: 7 Steps to Avoid Running Bad Meetings

    Great meetings aren't about filling time. They're about making every minute count. In this solo episode, Jay tackles one of the most common workplace frustrations: unproductive meetings. Drawing from his leadership experience at Tesla and his work...

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  • S1 · E212
    Monday · 51 min

    212: We've Been Promoting the Wrong Leaders

    Just because someone delivers results doesn't mean they can lead people. Meet Ganesh. He's a successful senior product manager at a major airline. Executives love him, his team delivers results, and his career is thriving. But when one of his best...

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  • S1 · E211
    October 9 · 15 min

    211: 7 Steps to Master Networking

    Networking isn't about what you can get. It's about the value you can give. In this solo episode, Jay shares his seven-step approach to building meaningful professional relationships and mastering the art of networking. Drawing from his experience...

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  • S1 · E210
    October 5 · 58 min

    210: Reinvent Yourself (Before You Have To)

    Reinvention doesn’t have to begin with quitting. It begins with curiosity. Meet Terrence. He’s a successful senior vice president with a good salary, a wife, two young kids, and plenty of responsibility. But lately, his work feels transactional. His...

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  • S1 · E209
    October 2 · 15 min

    209: Don’t Be The Duck

    Great leaders don’t pretend to be calm. They learn how to become calm beneath the surface. In this solo episode, Jay challenges a leadership lesson he learned early in his career: “Be like a duck.” While a duck appears calm above the water while...

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  • S1 · E208
    September 28 · 51 min

    208: AI Can’t Think For You

    Just because AI can do it doesn’t mean it should. Meet Michelle. She’s a VP of HR trying to keep pace with a CEO who moves fast. One week it’s AI, the next it’s retention, then recruiting. Everyone expects Michelle to solve problems, protect the...

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  • S1 · E207
    September 25 · 15 min

    207: How to Handle a Difficult Employee

    When coaching isn’t working, it may be time to stop talking about the work and start talking to the person. In this solo episode, Jay explores what to do when you’ve coached, given feedback, shown empathy, and nothing seems to work. Drawing from a...

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  • S1 · E206
    September 21 · 1 hr

    206: Gen Z Isn’t the Problem

    Before you blame the next generation, look in the mirror. Meet Robert. After 25 years in hospital leadership, he’s frustrated. Younger nurses seem distracted, overwhelmed, and resistant to feedback. His usual leadership strategies aren’t working, and...

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  • S1 · E205
    September 18 · 17 min

    205: 7 Signs of a Toxic Leader

    There’s a difference between a difficult leader and a toxic one. Do you know how to spot it? In this solo episode, Jay shares a personal story from his time at Tesla to explore the difference between a difficult leader and a truly toxic one. Drawing...

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  • S1 · E204
    September 14 · 58 min

    204: Is Your Boss Toxic, or Just Difficult?

    A difficult boss makes work harder. A toxic boss causes harm. Meet Adrina. She’s a successful senior director who loves her work, but something has changed. Her CEO’s constant criticism and subtle comments have slowly chipped away at her confidence....

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  • S1 · E203
    September 11 · 18 min

    203: Stop Playing the Hero

    The best leaders don’t solve every problem. They empower others to solve them. In this solo episode, Jay explores a common leadership trap: playing the hero. Drawing from his own experience as a leader, he explains why constantly answering questions,...

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  • S1 · E202
    September 8 · 52 min

    202: Stop Waiting to Feel Motivated

    Motivation doesn’t create action. Action creates motivation. Meet Melissa. She stares through the windshield at the county administration building, overwhelmed by the demands of work, family, and being the person everyone turns to when things fall...

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  • S1 · E199
    September 4 · 12 min

    201: What’s Next for Unstuck

    The best of Unstuck may still be ahead of us. After 200 episodes of Unstuck, Jay looks ahead to what’s next. In this solo episode, he shares five areas he wants to explore more deeply as the podcast evolves, along with the types of experts and...

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  • S1 · E200
    August 31 · 16 min

    200: 10 Things I Was Wrong About (Part 2)

    The more I learn, the more I realize how much I don’t have figured out. In this special 200th episode of Unstuck, Jay continues his countdown of the 10 things he was wrong about and shares the five lessons that have changed him most. After nearly 200...

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  • S1 · E199
    August 28 · 17 min

    199: 10 Things I Was Wrong About

    Growth begins when you’re willing to admit you were wrong. As Unstuck approaches its 200th episode, Jay looks back at how nearly 200 episodes of conversations, research, and personal growth have changed the way he thinks. In this special two-part...

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  • S1 · E198
    August 24 · 54 min

    198: Every ‘Yes’ Costs You Something

    Every time you say yes, you’re saying no to something else. Meet Carl. He’s a successful real estate agent with no shortage of ideas or opportunities. But behind the deals, billboards, and growing business, he’s exhausted. He struggles to delegate,...

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  • S1 · E197
    August 21 · 14 min

    197: The 5 Strategies That Make People Trust You

    If you want people to trust you, don’t wait for it to happen. Build it. In this solo episode, Jay breaks down five practical strategies for becoming someone your colleagues, leaders, stakeholders, and direct reports genuinely trust. Because when...

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  • S1 · E196
    August 17 · 53 min

    196: Training Won’t Fix Your People Problem

    Not every performance problem is a training problem. Meet Lucy. She works in learning and development at a nonprofit she believes in, yet leadership repeatedly asks for quick PDFs that rarely change behavior. She wants to stop taking orders, ask...

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  • S1 · E195
    August 14 · 13 min

    195: Give Your Inner Critic a Name

    You don’t have to believe everything the voice in your head tells you. In this solo episode, Jay shares an unconventional strategy for dealing with the inner critic: give it a name. Inspired by an experience at a silent meditation retreat, Jay...

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  • S1 · E194
    August 10 · 51 min

    194: Your Inner Critic Is Lying to You

    What if being harder on yourself isn’t making you better? Meet Dwayne. He’s a respected COO who appears calm and confident, but internally he second-guesses himself, replays conversations, and feels like he should always be doing more. His instinct...

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