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The Milli Fox Show is for high-achieving women who are done performing their way through life.

Hosted by manifestation and self-leadership coach Milli Fox, this show explores the deeper side of transformation: nervous system regulation, identity, relationships, spirituality, emotional healing, feminine power, success, and what it actually takes to create a life that feels as good as it looks.

Through raw conversations, personal stories, mindset shifts, and tangible tools, Milli bridges manifestation, psychology, neuroscience, and self-trust in a way that’s grounded, honest, and deeply human.

If you’re ready to stop living in pressure, reconnect with yourself, and become the woman who can truly receive the life she wants, welcome.

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  • S2 · E24
    Friday · 19 min

    S2 | Episode 24 - It’s Ok to Lose Yourself

    Have you ever looked around at your life and thought, “Who am I now?” Maybe you've gone through a major life transition, a relationship change, motherhood, divorce, loss, career changes, or simply grown into a version of yourself that no longer feels familiar. If you've ever felt like you've lost yourself, this episode is for you. In this episode, we explore why losing yourself isn't necessarily something to be ashamed of. In fact, it can be a natural part of personal growth, self-discovery, and becoming a new version of yourself. As recovering perfectionists and high-achieving women, we can put enormous pressure on ourselves to always know who we are, what we want, and where we're going. But life changes us. Our priorities change. Our relationships change. Our values become clearer. And sometimes, the person we used to be simply isn't who we are anymore. I share my own experience of navigating major life changes, including grief, divorce, moving, a new relationship, blended family life, and the evolution of my business. I explore what it feels like to be in that uncomfortable space between who you were and who you're becoming. Rather than trying to grip tightly to an old version of yourself, what if you gave yourself permission to explore? In this episode, you'll learn: Why losing yourself can be part of personal growth Why feeling lost doesn't mean you've failed How major life transitions can change your identity Why you don't always have to know exactly who you are How discomfort and uncertainty can create opportunities for self-discovery Why the person you used to be doesn't have to be the person you are now How to reconnect with yourself through your body and present-moment awareness Questions you can ask yourself when you're feeling disconnected from who you are How losing yourself in a relationship can lead to resentment Why self-trust and self-awareness are essential for healthy relationships How your relationship with yourself influences the way you show up in your relationships and your life There can be so much shame around saying, “I've lost myself.” But what if you haven't actually lost yourself? What if you're simply in the process of becoming someone new? You don't have to have all the answers right now. You can be in the messy middle. You can explore new desires, values, priorities, relationships, styles, dreams, and versions of yourself. Getting lost doesn't mean you've failed. Sometimes, it's how you find your way back home to yourself. CONNECT WITH MILLI: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E19
    September 18 · 22 min

    S2 | Episode 23 - Maybe You’re Not Going Backwards. Maybe You’re Expanding.

    What happens when the life you’ve been dreaming about finally starts coming together... and it doesn’t feel easy? In this deeply personal episode, Milli opens up about what she’s experiencing as she prepares to marry the love of her life, while simultaneously navigating stress, relational challenges, wedding planning, and a season of major personal expansion. For women who have been taught that “manifesting” means staying high-vibe and avoiding anything negative, Milli challenges that idea. She shares why difficult moments aren’t necessarily punishment, proof that you’ve done something wrong, or evidence that your manifestation is failing. Instead, they can be opportunities to expand your capacity to receive and hold the life you’ve been asking for. Milli shares her own journey from leaving a 13-year relationship and navigating grief after losing her mom, to meeting her future husband and creating a life she once dreamed about. She also talks about the unexpected contrast that can come alongside those dreams becoming reality. In this episode, you’ll hear about: Why your dreams coming true doesn’t mean everything will suddenly feel easy The “contrast” that can come with major expansion Why Milli rejects the idea that negative experiences mean you’re not “high vibe” enough How to recognize when you’re reaching your capacity and need to slow down The difference between self-compassion and pushing yourself to prove what you can handle Why perfectionists often struggle to receive and celebrate the good things in their lives How to acknowledge who you’ve become instead of immediately moving the goalpost The importance of courage, compassion, connection, and community during challenging seasons Milli’s simple framework for getting back on track: Who are you? What do you want? What’s getting in the way? What do you need to do? Most importantly, this episode is a reminder that you don’t have to punish yourself, rush yourself, or constantly strive for more to prove that you deserve the life you’ve created. You’re allowed to be human while your life expands. You’re allowed to celebrate what’s already here. And you’re allowed to take things one step at a time. If you’re a woman questioning your marriage and wondering whether to stay, leave, or change the dynamic, Milli’s new Decide program is designed to help you move out of the exhausting space of constantly questioning and toward greater clarity. The first beta cohort begins at the end of September 2026. DM Milli the word DECIDE to learn more and see if the program is the right fit for you. CONNECT WITH MILLI: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E22
    September 11 · 18 min

    S2 | Episode 22 - Confidence Is Built: How to Trust Yourself When Life Feels Heavy

    What if confidence isn't something you have to chase or force yourself to feel? What if it starts with something much smaller? In this episode, we explore the powerful connection between self-trust, confidence, and the tiny promises we make to ourselves every day. Learn how shifting everyday tasks from burdens into acts of sacred preparation and devotional discipline can change the way we care for ourselves and our future. If you're carrying a heavy load, feeling overwhelmed, or struggling to follow through on the things you know would support you, this episode is a reminder that you don't have to fix everything today. Sometimes, all you need is five minutes of evidence that says: You can rely on me. We chat about: Why self-trust is built through the small promises we keep to ourselves The connection between confidence and trust How repeated self-abandonment can affect the way you see yourself Why tiny actions can create powerful evidence of self-reliance How to shift everyday tasks from resentment into sacred preparation What devotional discipline means and how it can support your future self How to build momentum when a task feels overwhelming Why caring for your future self is an act of self-love How to navigate difficult seasons without putting more pressure on yourself Questions to ask when you're carrying too much Why small moments of consistency matter even more when you're overwhelmed How to create self-trust when you can't immediately solve the bigger problems in your life The importance of leading yourself with both confidence and grace You may not be able to fix your marriage, resolve a difficult situation, or figure out your entire future today. But you can do one small thing that reminds you: I am someone I can rely on. And sometimes, that's where confidence begins. CONNECT WITH MILLI: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E21
    September 4 · 19 min

    S2 | Episode 21 - High Standards Without the Self-Punishment

    As high-achieving women and recovering perfectionists, we're really good at pushing ourselves, setting goals, and getting things done. But what happens when we start learning about self-compassion, rest, nervous system regulation, and softness? We can start wondering: Am I actually loving myself, or am I just letting myself off the hook? In this episode, Milli Fox explores the delicate dance between grit and grace — and why we need both. Because grit without grace can become self-abuse, while grace without grit can become self-indulgence. Milli breaks down the difference between perfectionism and healthy high standards, how shame can secretly drive achievement, and how to recognize when you're honoring a legitimate need versus avoiding discomfort. She also explores the two sides of self-compassion — the soft, nurturing voice and the firm, supportive voice — and why both are essential for real self-leadership. You'll walk away with practical questions to help you discern what you actually need, including: What would I choose if shame weren't involved? Am I honoring a legitimate need, or avoiding discomfort? Is this an isolated incident or a pattern? Which decision will increase my self-trust? What do I need? You don't have to bully yourself into becoming the woman you want to be. And you don't have to abandon your standards to love yourself. You can be both the soft place to land and the person who calls yourself toward a higher identity. If you're a recovering perfectionist learning how to pursue growth without abandoning yourself, this episode is for you. CONNECT WITH MILLI: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E20
    August 28 · 26 min

    S2 | Episode 20 - How I Manifested a Life Better Than the One I Was Afraid to Leave

    What if manifestation isn’t about forcing yourself to think positively or chasing a picture-perfect life? In this episode, Milli shares the deeply personal process she used to transform her life—from leaving behind what no longer felt aligned to building a life filled with more love, freedom, peace, and connection. She breaks down the key questions that have guided her through major life changes and explains why identity, nervous system regulation, self-trust, courage, and compassionate action matter far more than simply “thinking positive.” If you’ve been feeling disconnected from yourself or wondering what your next chapter could look like, this episode is an invitation to reconnect with who you are, what you truly want, and the woman you’re becoming. In this episode, we explore: Why identity comes before manifestation How to identify what you truly want The role of your nervous system in what you’re able to receive Why self-trust and courageous action matter How to stop forcing positivity and start focusing on alignment What to do when you inevitably get off track How compassion, courage, and connection can help you build a life that feels good from the inside out Ready to make a big decision about your marriage or your next chapter? DM DECIDE to Milli on Instagram to learn more about her upcoming beta cohort, Decide. CONNECT WITH MILLI: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E19
    August 21 · 26 min

    S2 | Episode 19 - I Thought I’d Lost My Inner Freak Forever…

    Have you ever wondered where your desire, spark, or sense of connection went? In this honest and spicy episode, we explore why intimacy can fade in long-term relationships and why that doesn't necessarily mean it's gone for good. Learn five key areas that can impact desire, including emotional safety, your relationship with yourself, resentment, connection, individuality, and the willingness to create something different together. In this episode: 💫 Why emotional safety is essential for intimacy 💫 How your relationship with yourself impacts desire 💫 Why couples can accidentally become roommates and managers 💫 The role resentment plays in blocking connection 💫 Why curiosity and individuality can reignite attraction 💫 How communication and repair create deeper intimacy 💫 What it takes to shift an unhealthy relationship dynamic Hear about DECIDE, an upcoming 12-week program for women navigating whether to stay, go, or shift the dynamic in their relationship. If you've been wondering, "Why don't I feel desire anymore?" this episode is an invitation to look beneath the surface—and reconnect with the parts of yourself that feel alive. Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E11
    August 14 · 29 min

    S2 | Episode 18 - The 5 Things That Couldn't Save My Marriage - But Completely Changed My Next Relationship

    What happens when a woman has done everything she can to save her marriage, only to realize that the deeper work was never just about the relationship? This episode explores five transformative lessons that can completely change the way a woman approaches her relationship, herself, and the possibility of creating a healthier partnership. From understanding core values and nervous system regulation to recognizing attachment patterns, codependency, communication dynamics, and masculine/feminine polarity, these are the foundational pieces that can create clarity around whether a relationship can truly be repaired or whether something deeper is asking to change. The episode explores what it looks like to: Identify core values and recognize fundamental compatibility issues Understand the nervous system and expand the window of tolerance Recognize attachment patterns, codependency, and personal relationship patterns Communicate in a way that creates connection instead of defensiveness Understand the four horsemen of the apocalypse and their antidotes Take radical responsibility without taking all the blame Create healthier masculine and feminine dynamics within a relationship Rebuild intimacy, receptivity, playfulness, and desire Gain better information about a relationship before deciding whether to stay or leave Ultimately, the work isn't about blaming one partner or rushing to leave. It's about becoming deeply honest about personal patterns, needs, values, communication, and the dynamics that are shaping the relationship. Because when those pieces become clearer, a woman can make decisions from a much more grounded and empowered place. ✨ Want to go deeper? The Before You Decide challenge is happening August 13–23 inside a free private Telegram group, with voice notes, challenges, and homework designed to help you get clearer before the doors to Decide open. DM Milli on Instagram the word BEFORE to get the details. And don't miss next week's episode, where we're getting a little more spicy and diving into how Milli found the “inner freak” that had been lost for so long. Instagram: ⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E17
    August 7 · 19 min

    S2 | Episode 17 - Getting Out of Indecision

    If you've ever felt stuck between two possible futures, this episode is for you. Whether you're questioning your marriage, considering a career change, or feeling called toward a different life, indecision can be one of the most painful places to live. In this episode, Milli shares why clarity doesn't come from overthinking, but from rebuilding trust in yourself and becoming the woman who knows she can handle whatever comes next. In this episode, we cover: Why indecision feels so emotionally exhausting The fear that's really keeping you stuck How to rebuild self-trust so you can make confident decisions Why understanding your values and needs changes everything How nervous system regulation supports lasting transformation Why clarity comes through action, not endless overthinking If you're tired of living in limbo and ready to reconnect with yourself, this episode will help you take the first step toward moving forward with confidence. Ready to stop second-guessing yourself? I am opening a small 12-week beta cohort for women navigating relationship indecision and major life transitions. Send me a DM with the word "DECIDE" to learn more. Instagram: ⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E16
    July 31 · 19 min

    S2 | Episode 16 - STOP Trying to be perfect!

    One of the biggest lies we've been taught is that if we're perfect enough, we'll finally feel worthy. We'll finally belong. We'll finally be loved. We'll finally feel safe. But perfectionism doesn't create connection. It creates distance, from other people and from ourselves. In this episode, I'm sharing why perfectionism isn't a personality trait. It's a defense mechanism. And how learning self-compassion has completely changed the way I navigate life, relationships, and my own inner world. In this episode, we explore: ✨ Why perfectionism is really a fear of rejection and abandonment ✨ Brené Brown's "please, perform, perfect" cycle ✨ How perfectionism keeps you disconnected from your authentic self ✨ The difference between belonging and simply fitting in ✨ Why vulnerability is the path to genuine connection ✨ The three pillars of mindful self-compassion ✨ Practical tools to quiet your inner critic and soften perfectionism ✨ How to hold yourself to high standards without abandoning yourself ✨ Why embracing your humanity gives others permission to do the same To get details about group or VIP coaching inquire here: https://form.typeform.com/to/ownhkW2v⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E15
    July 24 · 26 min

    S2 | Episode 15 - You've Been Doing Self Worth Wrong

    One of the biggest misconceptions about manifestation is that it's about attracting what you want. But the truth is... You don't manifest what you want. You manifest what you believe you're worthy of receiving. In this episode, we're diving into the relationship that changes everything: the one you have with yourself. If you've spent years chasing achievements, checking every box, and still feeling like you're never enough, this conversation will help you understand why—and show you a different way forward. We'll explore how self-worth isn't something you earn through performance, but something you cultivate through connection, trust, acceptance, and respect. In this episode, we explore: ✨ Why manifestation is ultimately a game of self-worth ✨ The difference between earning validation and feeling inherently worthy ✨ How perfectionism disconnects you from your heart ✨ Why self-worth is a relationship, not an achievement ✨ The three ingredients of lasting self-worth: self-trust, self-acceptance, and self-respect ✨ How to create a genuine heart connection with yourself ✨ Why taking risks builds self-trust ✨ The role of permission and self-acceptance in personal growth ✨ Practical journaling questions to deepen your relationship with yourself ✨ How stronger self-worth naturally leads to greater belief, easier manifestation, and true non-attachment Interested in the upcoming beta program? Beginning in September, I'll be leading a live 12-week beta program for women navigating one of the hardest questions they'll ever face: Should I stay, or should I go? If you're trying to determine whether your marriage can evolve with the woman you're becoming—or whether it's time to trust yourself enough to walk away—this program is for you. We'll explore self-trust, relationship dynamics, emotional safety, feminine leadership, and finding clarity without forcing a decision. Only 10 women will be accepted into this first live round. Send me a DM on Instagram with the word DECIDE to learn more. 💕 Book your JAM SESSION with me: ⁠⁠https://calendly.com/millifox/jam-w-milli⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get details about group or VIP coaching inquire here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://form.typeform.com/to/ownhkW2v⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E11
    July 17 · 32 min

    S2 | Episode 14 - The 3 relationships that dictate the quality of your life

    What if the biggest challenges in your life aren't actually about money, health, your career, or even your relationships with other people? In this episode, Milli shares the one realization that changed everything: every struggle is ultimately a relationship issue. More specifically, it's a reflection of the relationship you have with yourself. She breaks down the three core relationships that determine the quality of your life: your relationship with yourself, your relationship with others, and your relationship with life itself. Through personal stories and powerful insights, you'll discover how your inner world shapes your external reality, why self-trust and self-compassion are the foundation for everything else, and how changing your internal relationship can transform every area of your life. If you've ever felt stuck in repeating patterns, struggled with relationships, or wondered why lasting change feels so difficult, this episode will give you a completely new perspective. In This Episode, We Cover: Why every problem is actually a relationship problem The three relationships that determine your quality of life How your relationship with yourself shapes every other relationship Why your beliefs become the filters through which you experience life The connection between self-trust, nervous system safety, and emotional resilience How changing your inner world transforms your outer world Why healthy relationships begin with self-leadership The role of manifestation as a reflection of your relationship with yourself How to identify the stories and beliefs keeping you stuck Questions to ask yourself if you want lasting change 💕 Book your JAM SESSION with me: ⁠https://calendly.com/millifox/jam-w-milli⁠⁠⁠ To get details about group or VIP coaching inquire here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://form.typeform.com/to/ownhkW2v⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E13
    July 10 · 27 min

    S2 | Episode 13 - How to know if you've outgrown your marriage

    Have you ever wondered if you've outgrown your husband? If you've been doing a lot of personal growth while your partner seems to be staying the same, this episode is for you. It's a question many women ask themselves, and it's often filled with guilt, confusion, and uncertainty. In this episode, we explore what it really means to grow within a relationship and how to find clarity before making any big decisions. We dive into: What it really means to "outgrow" your partner Why personal growth can create tension in a relationship The difference between growing apart and growing differently How resentment can cloud your perspective Why communication isn't always the root issue The role of attachment styles and the nervous system How to know whether you've outgrown your relationship or an old version of yourself Thinking about joining a future group? I'm considering creating a small group for women navigating this exact season. It won't be about fixing your partner. It will be about finding clarity, rebuilding self-trust, and understanding yourself more deeply. If you'd be interested, send me a DM on Instagram with the word CLARITY. If this episode resonated with you, I'd love for you to subscribe, leave a review, or share it with someone who needs to hear it. 💕 Book your JAM SESSION with me: https://calendly.com/millifox/jam-w-milli⁠⁠ To get details about group or VIP coaching inquire here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://form.typeform.com/to/ownhkW2v⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E12
    July 3 · 21 min

    S2 | Episode 12 - The Grief of Aging: Who Are You Beyond Your Appearance?

    Aging is something we all experience, yet very few of us talk about the grief that can come with it. In this honest and vulnerable episode, I share my own experience of navigating the emotional side of getting older—the changing face in the mirror, the comparison trap, the pressure to look younger, and the deeper questions about identity that surface as we move through different seasons of life. This isn't an episode about whether you should get Botox, embrace gray hair, or follow someone else's definition of aging well. It's about learning to separate your worth from your appearance and reconnecting with who you are beneath it all. Because the goal isn't to look 25 forever. The goal is to become more fully yourself with every passing year. This episode dives into: ✨ Why aging can bring unexpected feelings of grief and loss. ✨The pressure women face to stay young—and the internal conflict that creates. ✨How comparison steals our peace at every age. ✨The difference between making choices from your values versus from fear.✨The five self-leadership questions I use to reconnect with myself when my identity feels shaky. ✨Why your appearance is only one small part of who you are. ✨What it really means to become the woman you're meant to be. If this conversation resonated with you and you're ready to reconnect with who you are beneath the expectations, comparison, and pressure to be someone else, the Identity & Capacity Expansion Masterclass is the perfect next step. Inside, I walk you through the same self-leadership framework I mention in this episode to help you come home to yourself with greater clarity, confidence, and compassion. https://youtu.be/o8H9Qt2uwao?si=Yvl83Er0YO6RhgW3 💕 Book your JAM SESSION with me: ⁠https://calendly.com/millifox/jam-w-milli⁠ To get details about group or VIP coaching inquire here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://form.typeform.com/to/ownhkW2v⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E11
    June 26 · 19 min

    S2 | Episode 11 - Unexpected things that happen after you leave an abusive situation

    Leaving an abusive relationship isn't the finish line. It's the beginning of learning how to trust yourself again. In this episode, I'm sharing 15 things I didn't expect to experience after leaving abusive relationships. The thoughts that surprised me. The emotions I wasn't prepared for. And the practices that slowly helped me rebuild my confidence, my identity, and my sense of safety. Whether you've walked away from an unhealthy romantic relationship, friendship, workplace, or family dynamic, this conversation is an invitation to give yourself a little more grace. Healing isn't about getting over it as quickly as possible. It's about creating the conditions for yourself to feel safe enough to become who you really are. In This Episode, I Share: ✨ Why you might question how you didn't see the abuse sooner ✨ The shame, guilt, and self-blame that can surface after leaving ✨ What happens when you lose trust in your own judgment and how to rebuild it ✨ Why peace can actually feel uncomfortable after living in survival mode ✨ Rediscovering your identity when you no longer have to protect yourself ✨ The role nervous system regulation played in my own healing ✨ How relationships become spaces for healing, not proof that you're "fixed" ✨ The mindset shifts that helped me create healthier relationships and a more grounded life If you're in the messy middle of rebuilding after a hard chapter, I hope this episode gives you permission to slow down, soften, and trust that you're becoming the woman you were always meant to be. If you'd like support on your own journey, you can book a Quick Jam Session with me through the link below. We'll explore where you are, where you want to go, and whether working together feels aligned. If this episode resonated with you, I'd love it if you subscribed, left a review, or shared it with someone who needs to hear they're not alone. 💕 Book your JAM SESSION with me: https://calendly.com/millifox/jam-w-milli To get details about group or VIP coaching inquire here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://form.typeform.com/to/ownhkW2v⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E10
    June 19 · 28 min

    S2 | Episode 10 - I Screamed for 45 Minutes and Here's What Came Out

    I recently attended a three-day event in Austin, Texas, and while I expected to learn a lot, I didn't expect to be challenged, stretched, and moved in the ways that I was. This weekend came at a time when I've been navigating a major identity shift. So much of who I used to be has fallen away over the last few years, and I've found myself standing in the space between who I was and who I'm becoming. In this episode, I'm sharing some of the most powerful experiences and insights from that weekend, including a profound breathwork session, conversations around shame and vulnerability, and the reminders I needed most about healing, self-compassion, and personal growth. One of the biggest lessons I walked away with is that transformation is rarely about one massive breakthrough. It's usually a series of small moments, small shifts, and small acts of courage that eventually change everything. I also dive into Brené Brown's three pillars of wholehearted living: courage, compassion, and connection, and why I believe these three qualities are essential if we want to create a life that feels as good as it looks. In This Episode, I Share: ✨ The powerful difference between guilt and shame ✨ What happened when a room full of strangers shared their deepest struggles ✨ My experience with an intense breathwork session and the unexpected emotional release that followed ✨ Why I believe shame loses its power when it's brought into the light ✨ The danger of "silver bullet syndrome" and waiting for one moment to change your life ✨ How lasting transformation is created through small shifts over time ✨ What courage, compassion, and connection really look like in practice ✨ Why community and co-regulation are such important parts of healing If you've been feeling disconnected from yourself, stuck between versions of who you are, or trying to navigate growth on your own, I hope this episode reminds you that you don't have to do it alone. Come connect with me on Instagram @millifox and let me know what resonated most with you. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, share it with a friend, and tag me on social media so I can thank you personally. 💕 To get details about group or VIP coaching inquire here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://form.typeform.com/to/ownhkW2v⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E9
    June 12 · 13 min

    S2 | Episode 9 - How to Stop Making Healing Your Whole Personality

    In this episode, I share the simple question that has been changing everything for me: What do I need? We explore how to support your growth without turning it into another impossible standard, how to process the past without living in it, and why self-compassion may be the missing piece in your journey. I dive into: Why healing isn't the same as making healing your identity The difference between fixing yourself and tending to yourself How to stop turning personal growth into another checklist A powerful way to reframe your past experiences The self-compassion question every high-achieving woman needs to ask What if the next level version of you isn't someone you need to become... but someone whose needs you're finally willing to honor? If this episode resonated with you, I'd love to hear from you. Send me a message on Instagram and let me know your biggest takeaway. 💕 To get details about group or VIP coaching inquire here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://form.typeform.com/to/ownhkW2v⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E8
    June 5 · 19 min

    S2 | Episode 8 - The Only Secret to Getting More of You What You Want

    In this episode, I’m diving into something I see constantly in high-achieving women and something I’ve personally struggled with too. A hyperfixation on self-improvement. On the surface, it looks like growth. Healing. Expansion. Self-awareness. But underneath it can quietly become something else entirely: self-surveillance, perfectionism in disguise, and an exhausting internal pressure to constantly “fix” yourself. We explore: why so many high-achieving women feel stuck even though they’re doing “all the right things” the difference between shame and guilt (and why it matters for healing) how self-improvement can become a form of self-abandonment why focusing on what’s “wrong” with you keeps you looping in the same patterns how your brain reinforces the identity you repeatedly focus on the trap of constantly trying to become “better” instead of becoming more yourself what it actually means to shift from fixing → expanding how to use relief, presence, and self-trust as your real guidance system At the heart of this episode is a simple reframe: You don’t need to constantly fix yourself to create a better life. In fact, the more you obsess over what’s wrong, the more you reinforce it. This is about learning how to lift your head, step out of the microscope, and start living from a place of presence instead of constant self-monitoring. Because the goal isn’t to become a perfected version of you. It’s to become more YOU... fully, freely, and without the pressure to constantly be improving to be worthy. If this episode resonates, share it with someone who needs to hear it, and listen with curiosity about where you might be stuck in self-improvement instead of self-trust. 💕 To get details about group or VIP coaching inquire here: ⁠⁠⁠https://form.typeform.com/to/ownhkW2v⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E7
    May 29 · 34 min

    S2 | Episode 7 - Making Extremely Hard Decisions (Leaving my Marriage)

    In this week’s episode, I’m sharing something deeply personal: the how and the why behind ending my marriage. This conversation is raw, vulnerable, and honest. I’m walking you through the years leading up to my divorce, the perfectionism, the abandonment wounds, the nervous system dysregulation, the people-pleasing, the self-betrayal, and ultimately, the process of reclaiming myself. We talk about: The red flags I ignored from the beginning How motherhood intensified everything I hadn’t healed yet The role self-compassion and self-trust played in helping me leave The fear of starting over Why environment and relational dynamics matter more than we admit The truth about healing before love And how I manifested the relationship I have now This episode is not about blaming anyone. It’s about sharing my lived experience with honesty, compassion, and integrity in the hopes that another woman feels less alone in hers. If you’re currently questioning a relationship, feeling disconnected from yourself, or trying to figure out whether you’re abandoning your truth to keep the peace, I hope this episode gives you permission to get honest with yourself. You already know more than you think you do. And sometimes courage is simply taking the next step before you feel ready. If this episode resonated with you, share it to your stories and tag me so I can connect with you. 💕 To get details about group or VIP coaching inquire here: ⁠⁠https://form.typeform.com/to/ownhkW2v⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E6
    May 22 · 19 min

    S2 | Episode 6 - How to Rebuild Self-Trust

    Join Milli Live for a free Identity & Capacity Expansion Masterclass on May 26th at 2pm EST, all who register will get the replay: ⁠https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/NIrTERzpT5-LEFv-4Q_dgw In this episode, I talk about how to rebuild self-trust, why it is the foundation of every meaningful change you want to make in your life, and how high-achieving women can begin shifting out of self-betrayal, perfectionism, and self-doubt into a more grounded, supported, and self-led way of living. We discuss: Why self-trust is built in small daily “drops” and broken through repeated self-abandonment How overpromising, perfectionism, and unrealistic standards destroy consistency and confidence The three core ways to rebuild self-trust: keeping promises, taking aligned risks, and deepening spiritual trust Why self-compassion and community are essential for nervous system safety and long-term change If you’ve been feeling unsure of yourself, stuck in cycles of starting and stopping, or like you can’t rely on yourself to follow through, this episode will help you understand how self-trust is actually built and begin creating a more consistent, empowered, and self-connected version of you 💕 To get details about group or VIP coaching inquire here: ⁠https://form.typeform.com/to/ownhkW2v⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠ Website: ⁠https://millifox.com

  • S2 · E2
    May 15 · 17 min

    S2 | Episode 2 - Why Your Life Doesn't Feel As Good As It Looks

    Join Milli Live for a free Identity & Capacity Expansion Masterclass on May 26th at 2pm EST, all who register will get the replay: ⁠https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/NIrTERzpT5-LEFv-4Q_dgw In this episode, I talk about why so many high-achieving women feel disconnected from their lives even when everything looks successful on paper, why pressure-based identity creation leads to self-alienation, and how to begin shifting from self-management into self-leadership and presence. We discuss: How “having it all” can still feel empty when it’s built from pressure and perfectionism The difference between living from authenticity versus constant self-management Why nervous system regulation and oxytocin-based presence create more ease and connection How to bring “sacredness” and intentionality into everyday life to feel more alive and grounded If you’ve been feeling like your life looks good but doesn’t feel like yours, this episode will help you reconnect with yourself, soften internal pressure, and begin creating a more present, meaningful, and embodied way of living. 💕 To get details about group or VIP coaching inquire here: ⁠https://form.typeform.com/to/ownhkW2v⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://instagram.com/millifox⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://tiktok.com/@manifestwithmilli⁠ Website: ⁠https://millifox.com

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