
Ep 349 - Love in the Room: Why Deals Fall Over (and How to Save Them)
There’s always love in the room until there isn’t. In my view, our job as recruiters is to keep that love, because the moment it leaves, the deal usually goes with it. In this ep, I walk through a scenario from my own team that holds a big lesson for junior recruiters and a timely reminder for the seniors. You know the feeling. The brief looks great, the candidate looks great, they shake hands, and both walk away saying “that felt good.” That’s love in the room. So what ruins it? I cover: 👉 What “love in the room” actually is, and why it’s what makes candidates choose a role 👉 Trust, and the last-minute title or scope change that makes a candidate feel hoodwinked 👉 A live relocation deal, New Zealand to Australia, where the salary expectations are miles apart and no one’s said it out loud yet 👉 Why the exchange rate, tax, cost of living and KiwiSaver vs super all matter in a relocation 👉 The push-back principle: bash the love with money at the final stage and both sides push back with equal force 👉 How to weave the money conversation in over two, three or four days instead of one hit 👉 Why “hit and hope” doesn’t work, and why surprises are the punches that knock the wind out of deals 👉 Why AI can match, automate and email, but can’t protect love in the room (not yet, anyway) Look at your pipeline today. Which deal has the most love in the room, and where are you foggy on clarity? Don’t run from it. Start weaving those conversations in now. If this one helped, share it with a recruiter who needs it and hit subscribe to help the show grow.