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  • #405
    Monday · 29 min

    Don't Babysit FOOLS #520

    # Don't Babysit Fools > Navigating friendships and financial boundaries with care. In the latest episode, S. Anthony Thomas dives deep into a crucial life lesson: **don’t babysit fools**. He shares compelling stories that highlight the perils of being too nice, especially when money is involved. ## The Danger of Enabling Bad Behavior S. Anthony reflects on his own life choices, proudly stating, "I've never cheated on a girlfriend... I've never stolen anything." However, he warns that having a clean record can sometimes lead to friends expecting more from you—like lending money under dubious circumstances. "If you're known among your friends as the one who doesn’t do dumb stuff, they’ll start to lean on you more, and that can lead to situations where you inevitably have to step in and stop them from making poor choices," he explains. ## A Cautionary Tale One story stands out: a friend who continually lent money to a mutual acquaintance, only to see it returned late or not at all. S. Anthony urges listeners to recognize when helping becomes enabling. > "If lending money doesn’t change their life, maybe it’s time to say ‘no.’" He recounts a troubling incident where his friend put him in the uncomfortable position of being a collection agency for a debt he wasn’t even responsible for. "I didn’t lend the money!" he exclaims, illustrating how quickly boundaries can blur in friendships. ## Setting Boundaries Over time, S. Anthony has learned to set clear boundaries with his friends. He humorously notes how he trained those around him to respect his space during NFL Sundays: "Everybody has been trained. When it’s football Sunday, leave S. Anthony alone." This brings a powerful reminder: you have to communicate your limits. If you let people know what you will and won’t tolerate, it can save you from awkward situations later. ### Final Thoughts The episode serves as a reminder to evaluate your friendships and the expectations tied to them. It’s not just about lending money; it’s about understanding the dynamics of your relationships. As S. Anthony puts it, "You have to train people around you what not to do to you." For more insights and personal anecdotes, be sure to tune in to the full episode.

  • #401
    August 17 · 32 min

    Salt, Pepper, Ketchup, And Good Good Lovin' (#519)

    🎤 Ever feel like your favorite restaurant is taking you for granted? Tag someone who knows that feeling! We all have that one spot we love—where the food is great, and the people know us. But what happens when they start messing up our orders? Just like in relationships, we sometimes take things for granted. When you order something a certain way, and it’s not delivered as expected, it stings. Just like missing relish on a sandwich can ruin the experience! Let’s talk about how expectations in relationships can shift over time. Just like that sandwich, sometimes you need to bring your own ‘relish’ to keep things flavorful. What’s your experience with expectations in relationships? Let’s dive deeper into this topic!

  • #400
    August 11 · 33 min

    Just Because Someone is CLOSE To You Doesn't Mean They're Close To YOU (#518)

    🌟 Just because someone is close to you doesn't mean they truly care. Ever felt like your friends or family aren't cheering for your success? 🤔 Tag someone who needs to hear this! 💬 In life, we often mistake proximity for loyalty. I remember thinking my comedy friends were supportive, but when it came to opportunities, many were silent. Why? Jealousy can lurk in the shadows, even among those we trust. This isn't just about friendships; it's applicable to romantic relationships too. Sometimes, people are drawn to what you have rather than who you are. Think about it! Are they close to you, or just close to what you bring? It’s essential to recognize the difference. Surround yourself with those who genuinely uplift you. Remember, just because someone is close to you doesn’t mean they’re close to you. What’s your experience with this? Let’s talk about it!

  • #399
    August 3 · 20 min

    Good People, Bad Moments (#517)

    Ever trusted someone completely, only to find out they have a hidden side? 🤔 Tag someone who needs to hear this! I’ve seen good people do surprising things. Like the guy at my office who everyone trusted with petty cash. He started by pocketing small amounts, thinking no one would notice. But once he got greedy, it spiraled out of control. You’d never guess he’d risk it all for a few bucks—but it happens. Everyone has a ‘bad spot.’ What’s yours?

  • #398
    July 9 · 18 min

    Back Of The Refrigerator People (#516)

    Many of us have experienced that moment of cleaning out the fridge, discovering old food that's gone bad. You might find a half-eaten sandwich or a juice box that seems to have been there since ancient times. You know you won't eat it again, yet it remains in your fridge, taking up space. This is a reflection of a deeper issue: why do we hold onto things we know we don’t want or need?

  • #396
    April 20 · 1 hr 59 min

    Classics From The Vault

    Ever felt like you’ve broken up with something you love without even realizing it? Here’s my story about stand-up comedy and rediscovery. Tag someone who needs to hear this! I’ve been away from the mic for a while, and it’s wild how easily we adapt to life without our passions. I remember when I was in great shape; I thought it was permanent. But life happened. I got busy, stopped working out, and just like that, I learned to live without it. It's the same with stand-up. After years of being on stage, I let life take me away from performing. I didn’t mean to step back, but I got used to it. Now, four months from stepping back into the spotlight feels like reuniting with an old flame. The love is still there, but I know I’ve got to reconnect and relearn how to perform at my best again. What’s something you’ve stepped back from that you miss? Let’s reignite those passions together!

  • #395
    April 12 · 17 min

    Another Trip To The Emergency Room (#514)

    Another Trip To The Emergency Room #514 Ever been terrified walking into the ER? 😱 Here’s what went down when I had to face my fears. Tag someone who needs to hear this! Going to the ER is scary, even if you think you won’t find anything serious. I found myself sweating—not just from discomfort but from the anxiety of what could be revealed. I thought, "What if they find something else?" After some tests, the doctor explained I just needed to ice and rest due to a minor injury. Phew! The kicker? Health bills can make you think twice about seeking help. Ever been there? It's a huge fear for many, but your health should always come first. Remember, it’s better to be safe than sorry! What’s your take on this? Let’s normalize talking about health fears! #HealthAwareness #EmergencyRoomStories #TakeCareOfYourself #MentalHealthMatters #HealthFirst

  • #394
    April 5 · 17 min

    Life is your biggest bully (#513)

    Life is the biggest bully we face, but I'm not letting it push me around anymore. How about you? 🤔 Tag someone who needs to hear this! I've been bullied before, and I made a vow to never let that happen again. But here's the kicker: the real bully isn't just the kids at school—it's life itself. Whether it's bad relationships, a tough job, or health issues, life has a way of knocking us down. From the everyday frustrations to the bigger challenges, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But remember, just like I fought back against my bullies in school, we can fight back against life too. Start taking control: eat better, exercise, and nurture your relationships. Life’s clock is ticking, but we can run up the score. Make positive impacts, cherish every moment, and leave a legacy that outlasts any bully. How do you plan to fight back against life’s challenges? Much love, and let’s keep inspiring each other! #LifeLessons #Inspiration #SAnthonySays #Podcast #MentalHealth

  • #391
    Nov 11, 2025 · 17 min

    You're the Thing Before You're the Thing (#512)

    Summary This conversation explores the journey of self-discovery, emphasizing the importance of overcoming obstacles, maintaining a positive mindset, taking accountability for actions, and embracing change for personal growth. The speaker encourages listeners to look at themselves objectively and recognize their potential for transformation.

  • #388
    Oct 16, 2025 · 15 min

    Dehumanization in Relationships (#511)

    Summary In this conversation, S. Anthony Thomas explores the theme of indifference in relationships, detailing how it manifests and the emotional consequences it brings. He discusses the gradual decline of feelings in a relationship, leading to indifference, and how this can result in dehumanization of partners. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's humanity and the need for respect in relationships to avoid the pitfalls of indifference. Takeaways Indifference can creep into relationships gradually. Dehumanization occurs when partners stop caring for each other. Indifference leads to a lack of emotional pain, which can be dangerous. When you dehumanize someone, you also damage your own humanity. Conflict can arise from indifference and lack of respect. It's important to communicate and address issues before they escalate. Indifference can lead to infidelity and emotional detachment. Respecting each other's humanity is crucial in relationships. Before acting out of anger, consider the consequences. Ending a relationship respectfully is better than becoming indifferent Sound bites "You don't feel the pain anymore." "You don't become who you're supposed to be!" "Indifference never is." Chapters 00:00 The Journey of Indifference in Relationships 08:05 Dehumanization and Its Consequences 12:33 The Importance of Humanity and Respect

  • #387
    Sep 21, 2025 · 8 min

    THIS is what I do when I'm about to get burned out (#510)

    Yes, BURNOUT is REAL! (#510) Summary In this conversation, S Anthony Thomas discusses the importance of recognizing the signs of burnout before it becomes overwhelming. He shares personal experiences with burnout and food poisoning as analogies for understanding one's limits and the necessity of self-awareness. By taking proactive steps, such as taking breaks and being mindful of one's feelings, individuals can prevent burnout and maintain their passion for their work and relationships. Takeaways Recognizing the early signs of burnout is crucial. Taking breaks can prevent long-term burnout. Self-awareness helps in managing mental health. Communication is key in relationships to avoid burnout. Understanding personal limits can lead to better coping strategies. Proactive measures can help maintain motivation. Burnout can affect various aspects of life, including work and relationships. Learning from past experiences can guide future actions. It's important to take control of your own life decisions. Self-care is essential for sustaining passion and creativity. Titles Preventing Burnout: A Personal Journey The Signs of Burnout: What to Look For Sound bites "You gotta check the signs." "I took a day off." "This guy is back, baby." Chapters 00:00 Recognizing Burnout Before It Strikes 04:49 The Importance of Taking Breaks 07:47 Taking Control of Your Life A Few Minutes With Mr. S. Anthony Thomas: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLlbdSctC_LJ2Jp_Wq74leURVXgZYB9cgH Subscribe to the channel here: https://www.youtube.com/MrSAnthonyThomas?sub_confirmation=1 Don't forget to check these out too! You'll love them! Mr. S. Anthony Thomas has TWO podcasts on YouTube Music: S. Anthony Says: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLlj68RG78OQieykB_cLCnVu3jwJtjPKZi The S. Anthony Thomas Show: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLL7V6HqKs_2ZtTv2Q5Ek0Anm5Tcp7JgDj CHECK THEM OUT! And SUBSCRIBE! 👂🤣👍 🐆🆚 Shorts: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLlbdSctC_LJ3pcCh0eMeNMWh3sh2tPiYEFollow online/subscribe to: Podcasts: S. Anthony Says (#Spotify) https://open.spotify.com/show/1IL82agwuMKCWfJiZPBU4B https://twitter.com/santhonysays The S. Anthony Thomas Show (#Spotify) https://open.spotify.com/show/4dd78p9ywd2rkMjz0oMJee https://linktr.ee/santhonythomas All Video Clips/Photos Herein Used With Permission ALL Other Material Is The Property And/Or Creation Of Mr. S. Anthony Thomas #Podcasts #Comedy #Shorts #YoutubeShorts #ComedyPodcast #MrSAnthonyThomas #SAnthonyThomas #YouTuber #Comedian #ShortVideo #BestShorts #FunnyShorts #Podcaster #Funny #StandUpComedian #Vlogger #youtubemusic Keywords burnout, self-awareness, mental health, coping strategies, personal growth, relationships, food poisoning analogy, creative work, motivation, inspiration

  • #386
    Sep 19, 2025 · 12 min

    I should have just walked away (#509)

    Keywords problems, relationships, red flags, personal growth, decision making Summary In this conversation, S Anthony Thomas discusses the importance of recognizing and addressing problems in various aspects of life, particularly in personal relationships. He shares personal anecdotes to illustrate how ignoring issues can lead to greater complications and regrets. The conversation emphasizes the need to acknowledge red flags and take decisive action to avoid unnecessary pain and wasted time. Takeaways We've all been there, ignoring problems hoping they'll go away. Ignoring a problem can lead to bigger issues down the line. Sometimes, you have to step away from toxic relationships. Recognizing red flags early can save you time and heartache. It's important to acknowledge problems instead of avoiding them. You can't fix something that's already broken beyond repair. Personal growth comes from learning from past mistakes. Don't let others influence your perception of a good relationship. Healing takes time, and it's important to prioritize it. Being aware of red flags can help you make better decisions. Sound bites "I should have just walked away." "Sometimes you just gotta step off." "Don't put up with it." Chapters 00:00 Recognizing Problems in Life 03:11 The Impact of Ignoring Issues 05:51 Personal Relationships and Red Flags 09:10 Learning from Past Mistakes https://linktr.ee/santhonythomas

  • #385
    Aug 7, 2025 · 23 min

    Walking Away From Violence (#508)

    Summary In this conversation, S Anthony Thomas shares his personal experiences with violence, from childhood bullying to adult encounters. He reflects on the impact of violence on his life and the lives of those around him, emphasizing the importance of self-preservation and the lessons learned from navigating violent situations. Thomas advocates for walking away from conflict and understanding that violence is often a poor decision, urging listeners to protect themselves and make wiser choices. https://linktr.ee/santhonythomas Takeaways Violence can arise unexpectedly and has serious consequences. Self-preservation is a natural instinct in violent situations. Childhood bullying can have lasting effects on individuals. It's important to recognize when to walk away from conflict. Anger can lead to poor decisions and escalation of violence. Navigating violence requires wisdom and experience. Protecting oneself is crucial, but violence should be a last resort. Not all confrontations need to be resolved through violence. Understanding the motivations behind violence can help in avoiding it. Choosing to walk away can prevent unnecessary harm. Sound bites "I was bullied, right?" "It's okay to walk away." "That's not your friend." Chapters 00:00 Confronting Violence: A Personal Journey 04:45 The Impact of Bullying and Childhood Trauma 08:48 Navigating Violence: Lessons Learned 13:21 The Importance of Walking Away 17:25 Protecting Yourself: Understanding Violence Keywords violence, bullying, self-preservation, personal stories, conflict resolution, childhood trauma, navigating violence, walking away, self-defense, life lessons

  • #384
    Jul 30, 2025 · 18 min

    When A Friend Lies To Your Face (#507)

    Summary In this conversation, S Anthony Thomas shares personal stories of betrayal from friends, illustrating the pain of being lied to by those we trust. He recounts two significant experiences: one from childhood involving a friend who stole his prized football players, and another from his adult life in sales where a colleague attempted to steal a client. Through these narratives, he explores themes of trust, friendship, and the impact of betrayal on personal relationships. Ultimately, he emphasizes the importance of moving on from those who lie and making space for genuine connections. Takeaways You can love someone and they can still betray you. Betrayal can come from those you trust the most. It's important to learn from past betrayals without letting them affect future relationships. People often lie to maintain their own interests. Friendship should be built on trust and honesty. Not everyone you consider a friend has your best interests at heart. Sometimes, losing a liar can create space for better relationships. You can still treat others well despite past betrayals. Learning to recognize deceit can help protect you in the future. It's essential to move on from toxic relationships. Sound bites "They won't be missed." "It's pretty simple." "You dig? Of course you do." Chapters 00:00 The Pain of Betrayal 07:38 Friendship and Trust in Sales 14:52 Moving On from Liars and Betrayers https://linktr.ee/santhonythomas

  • #383
    Jul 23, 2025 · 16 min

    The Punishment Does Not Fit The Crime (#506)

    Summary In this conversation, S Anthony Thomas discusses his experience with receiving a content warning on YouTube for a video he created, which he believes was unjustified. He explores the broader implications of content warnings, drawing parallels to personal experiences and societal judgments. Through anecdotes, he illustrates how misunderstandings can lead to disproportionate consequences, both online and in personal relationships. The episode emphasizes the theme that often, the punishment does not fit the crime, whether in the context of content creation or interpersonal dynamics. Takeaways I got a content warning for a video I made. Sometimes the crime does not fit the punishment. I didn't do anything wrong according to their own rules. The punishment does not fit the crime. I have never cheated. That's just not who I am. You can't do that. I go through all of that crap. I was kind of punished because I lost someone that I cared about. The internet is forever, my friends. The punishment didn't fit the crime. I still love YouTube and I still love podcasting. Titles The Unjust Content Warning Navigating YouTube's Content Policies Sound bites "The punishment does not fit the crime." "I was dating a lady, right?" "The punishment didn't fit the crime." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Content Warnings 02:48 The Impact of Content Warnings 05:43 Personal Anecdote: Misunderstandings in Relationships 11:27 The Consequences of Misjudgment 14:04 Conclusion: The Ongoing Challenge of Content Creation Summary In this conversation, S Anthony Thomas discusses his experience with receiving a content warning on YouTube for a video he created, which he believes was unjustified. He explores the broader implications of content warnings, drawing parallels to personal experiences and societal judgments. Through anecdotes, he illustrates how misunderstandings can lead to disproportionate consequences, both online and in personal relationships. The episode emphasizes the theme that often, the punishment does not fit the crime, whether in the context of content creation or interpersonal dynamics. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Content Warnings 02:48 The Impact of Content Warnings 05:43 Personal Anecdote: Misunderstandings in Relationships 11:27 The Consequences of Misjudgment 14:04 Conclusion: The Ongoing Challenge of Content Creation https://linktr.ee/santhonythomas Keywords content warning, YouTube, punishment, crime, relationships, misunderstandings, consequences, content creation, podcasting, personal anecdotes

  • #382
    Jul 16, 2025 · 20 min

    We Know You're Lying! STOP IT! (#505)

    Summary In this conversation, S Anthony Thomas explores the complexities of lying, particularly in personal relationships and social situations. He shares anecdotes about people lying in front of others, the dynamics of flirting, and the concept of acceptable lies. Through humorous and relatable stories, he emphasizes the importance of honesty and the often absurd nature of lies, especially when they are transparent to everyone involved. Takeaways People often lie even when it's obvious they're lying. Lying to a doctor is futile; they know the truth. Flirting can lead to misunderstandings in relationships. Acceptable lies exist in certain social situations. Honesty is crucial in maintaining trust in relationships. Eavesdropping can lead to uncomfortable situations. Lies can escalate tensions in personal interactions. Communication is key to resolving misunderstandings. People may lie to protect feelings, but it can backfire. Understanding the context of a lie is important. Sound bites "You dag gone right." "I was a little bit nosy." "We know you're lying. Stop it." Chapters 00:00 The Nature of Lies 08:53 Acceptable Lies and Their Consequences https://linktr.ee/santhonythomas

  • #381
    Jul 9, 2025 · 6 min

    Friends You "Love" vs Friends You "Like" (#504)

    Summary In this conversation, S Anthony Thomas discusses the importance of expressing love for friends and the distinction between liking and loving someone. He emphasizes that true friendship involves a deep emotional connection that compels individuals to stand up for each other, even in difficult situations. The conversation advocates for normalizing the expression of love among friends, particularly in a society where such sentiments can be misconstrued. Takeaways Normalize being able to say that you love your friends. There's a clear difference between liking and loving friends. True friendship involves standing up for each other. People often hesitate to express love due to societal norms. It's important to recognize the emotional depth of friendships. Loving someone means being willing to take risks for them. Friendship can be complicated by societal expectations. Expressing love should not be seen as weakness. Real friends will support each other in tough times. It's okay to love people without it being weird. Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Expressing Love for Friends 02:39 The Difference Between Liking and Loving Friends https://linktr.ee/santhonythomas

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