When You Can't Predict The Boss's Behavior
We hear all the time that trust takes years to build and seconds to break. But what actually is trust? One useful way to think about it is as a perception of safety. Not necessarily physical safety, but the sense that the people and environment around us are stable enough to predict. That has important implications for leadership. A boss whose mood changes dramatically from one day to the next may not think they’re doing anything wrong. But employees learn quickly. If bringing a problem to you gets a thoughtful response one day and irritation the next, people may eventually decide it’s safer not to bring you problems at all. In this episode, Dr. Jeremy Pollack explores the connection between trust, predictability, and the brain’s response to uncertainty. He breaks down how inconsistent leadership behaviors can undermine trust, why silence during uncertain times often creates more anxiety rather than less, and how giving people greater agency and choice can help restore a sense of safety. Because leaders can’t always give people certainty. Sometimes, you don’t know what’s going to happen either, but you can control how consistently you communicate, how you respond when people come to you, and whether your team knows what they can expect from you. If you lead a team, manage people, or work in HR, this episode offers a different way to think about how trust is built and how easily everyday leadership behaviors can erode it. This episode draws from Jeremy’s book, Wired for Peace: Using 7 Neuroscience-Based Principles to Resolve Conflicts. 📘 Get Wired for Peace: https://a.co/d/02XFwbCC Dealing with conflict on your team or in your workplace? Learn how Pollack Peacebuilding Systems can help: https://pollackpeacebuilding.com Jeremy Pollack, Ph.D., is a social-organizational psychologist and founder of Pollack Peacebuilding Systems. He helps people and organizations rewire the way they understand and handle conflict. 🎧 Listen now to learn how building conflict competency can transform tension into trust, alignment, and stronger performance. Connect with Me 🌐 Website: PollackPeacebuilding.com 🌐 Dr. Pollack’s Courses: peacefulleadersacademy.com/courses/ 📧 Email: support@pollackpeacebuilding.com 📱 LinkedIn: Jeremy Pollack 📣 Subscribe & Share: If this episode resonated, share it with a colleague or leader. Follow Peacebuilding with Dr. Pollack for practical tools that create healthier, more effective workplaces. Host: Dr. Jeremy Pollack from Pollack Peacebuilding Systems More from Dr. Pollack: Peaceful Leaders Academy Conflict Resolution Playbook: Practical Communication Skills for Preventing, Managing, and Resolving Conflict FREE e-book: The Ultimate 12-Step Guide to Coworker Mediation: Free Ebook - Pollack Peacebuilding Systems Connect with Dr. Pollack on social media: Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | LinkedIn