Why Leaders Give Power Away | Nicole Saunders, Higher Logic
Summary Nicole Saunders has spent 15 years studying how people connect, why they engage, and what gets them to move together. She joins David Suson to take apart a belief most leaders never examine: that leading means having the strongest point of view in the room. Nicole is Senior Director, Customer Experience Strategy at Higher Logic, and her path there ran through journalism, freelancing, startups, and community leadership at Zendesk. Her argument is that the real work is handing power away, and that almost everything good she has built came from getting out of her own way first. Takeaways Show up with a service mindset. Nicole walks into cross-functional rooms saying she is not precious about the outcome, which dissolves the defensiveness that kills collaboration before it starts. Ask what someone does outside of work before you ask what they do for work. People tell her no one has ever asked them that, and it makes them memorable to you. Level set at the top of every conversation. Here is why I asked you here, here is what I hope to cover, does that sound good? She uses it in board rooms and when she calls her mother. True leadership is getting out of the way. Create the conditions for collaboration, let the good ideas happen, then pull the threads back together and confirm the next steps. A no is usually a not now. Nicole pitched one project every year for six years before it was approved, and nothing about the idea had changed. The timing had. Disagree and commit is part of being a good team player. Say why you disagree, support the initiative anyway, and be ready to learn from the outcome either way. People want to say yes far more than you expect. Nicole learned this recovering from hip surgery, when accepting help deepened her friendships instead of burdening them. Lean into strengths instead of repairing weaknesses. Moving someone from a one to a four still leaves you a four. Moving a seven to a ten gives you a ten. Humans are messy. Design the ideal program, then treat hitting 70 percent of it as a win. As AI makes written content harder to trust, face to face contact becomes the thing people can verify. Nicole expects community to become the new moat. Soundbites "I am not precious about the outcome. I want to understand what you're working towards, and I want to figure out how I can help you." "Most leaders feel this need to come in and put their stamp on something. I think true leadership is actually getting out of the way." "Everyone is more interesting than you think they are when you first meet them." "Somebody going from a one to a four, they're still only a four after all that effort. But going from a seven to a ten, well, now they're a ten." "The only thing that people really know that they can trust is talking to another actual human face to face." "It's impossible to get alignment if you don't know what you're aligning people to." Contact links for the guest LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicoledsaunders/ Email: nsaunders@higherlogic.com Website: www.higherlogic.com Keyword tags leadership, community building, customer experience, cross-functional collaboration, influence without authority, disagree and commit, building trust, employee engagement, customer retention, AI and human connection, servant leadership, Higher Logic, Nicole Saunders, David Suson, Inside the Leader's Mind













