
Let's Just Stay Home Tonight: Time use, Technology, and Community
Americans spend almost two more hours a day at home than they did twenty years ago, and only 12% now host friends or family at least once a month, down from more than 40% in the 1970s. Enoch and Tim use the American Time Use Survey to ask whether technology’s real threat isn’t replacing our jobs but replacing our need for each other. Drawing on C.S. Lewis’s The Great Divorce, they compare today’s near-zero switching costs to Grey Town, where anyone can move one street away after a quarrel until everyone ends up isolated. The way out is choosing communities that are costly to leave, like marriage, a church that notices when you’re gone, and friends you’ve invited to call you out. Start simple: invite someone over for dinner this month. Hot dogs over a fire count.