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We Were Fighting Before This

Disguised Toast & Yvonnie & Studio71

Welcome to We Were Fighting Before This: a podcast hosted by Disguised Toast and Yvonnie where these two best friends bicker, banter, and battle it out over both everything and nothing. It’s unfiltered, unhinged, and unexpectedly wholesome.

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  • #64
    Thursday · 1 hr 3 min

    How Yvonne went on an accidental date | EP 64 | We Were Fighting Before This 

    Yvonne's accidental date might have been a blessing in disguise... This week, Toast forces the pod to play pickleball, stay tuned... Thanks to our Sponsors: Sign up for your free trial at ⁠https://www.shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps: 00:00 intro 1:13 The podcast lives on 3:01 Toast thinks Yvonne is going through it 4:28 Does Toast have friends for Yvonne? 5:50 Guys going for the same girl… 8:03 Yvonne and Leslie hypotheticals 11:00 Can a woman or man be bumped up to a 10 12:01 Rewatching older clips 13:20 Chelsea reviews if she is biased 16:35 Fighting women on a public platform 19:22 Fighting men on a public platform 21:42 Yvonne’s rude date 25:02 Creators feeling privileged 27:11 Being direct 30:28 Chelsea’s animation friend 31:33 Who’s the funniest OTV member 37:40 What Toast is consuming these days 38:52 Peak OTV days 40:20 Creative rut 44:45 Predicting life 45:55 Toast wants to play pickleball 48:44 Toast comments on Yvonnes weight 53:10 Yvonne’s been working out! 55:04 Chelsea invites Scarra to play pickleball… 57:20 Tune in when we all play pickleball… Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #63
    September 17 · 1 hr 1 min

    Toast is being squished into a little ball again | EP 63 | We Were Fighting Before This

    The trio is back together and Toast and Yvonne need to address the past couple of episodes... Timestamps: 00:17 Intro 1:04 Singapore trip + tournament drama 7:06 Is AI more accepted in Asia? 8:32 Toast’s mom watches the podcast 9:24 Is Toast being “squished into a ball”? 10:38 Does Toast need more backup? 12:56 Toast admits to rage baiting 15:04 How Toast & Yvonne handle tension 18:23 Chelsea is scared of the YouTube comments 20:05 Nate is secretly rage baiting?? 21:11 Content creators vs pro gamers 24:22 Toast's Collab with Yunjin 28:50 OTV x SB19 Fear Pong 34:25 Team Toast vs Team Yvonne in Singapore 36:28 Pickleball + badminton in Singapore 37:37 Traveling with Toast’s mom 38:58 What relationships have taught us 50:21 Dating app openers 51:48 Our upcoming blind dating episode… 53:44 Has the podcast affected our relationships? 57:02 Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #62
    September 10 · 1 hr 36 min

    Chelsea’s master plan for Scarra’s dating life | EP 62 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Scarra and Chelsea are back together for round 2! This time Chelsea needs answers. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at https://www.shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:45 Scarra’s here!! Again… 2:18 Are Chelsea and Scarra friends now? 3:10 Getting Scarra to play tennis 5:32 Chelsea on the courts… 7:30 How Scarra REALLY felt playing tennis again 16:04 Being a tennis influencer… 18:17 Updates on Scarra’s dating life 20:12 When did Scarra know he was straight 21:45 Female allies 25:55 Is Chelsea an ally to Scarra? 29:43 Chelsea proposes a NEW friend! 32:27 Are streamers socially awkward? 34:15 Scarra loves pickleball 37:28 Finding Scarra’s perfect woman 49:00 Scarra doesn’t think Yvonne is a pro gamer 53:12 Intelligent dream woman? 54:25 Paying your therapist to laugh 55:10 Having a close family 1:01:25 Complimenting a guy 1:05:48 Chelsea is here to help Scarra 1:10:27 Toast and Scarra’s relationship 1:14:31 Why Chelsea became friends with Scarra 1:21:20 Fakefans is back! 1:24:20 The don and the diva… Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #61
    September 3 · 1 hr 20 min

    How Leslie and Nate reconnected after 30 years | EP 61 | We Were Fighting Before This

    The Fu siblings are here! Leslie and Nate share how they reunited as siblings and past memories they had apart from each other. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 1:20 the Fu Siblings! 1:55 Who is Nate Fu 4:54 Toast is being squished… 8:10 Does Toast needs backup? 10:10 The reality of Yvonne and Toast 11:22 Leslie’s OG streaming days 14:35 Nate’s streaming POV 16:25 Being a female streamer 20:40 OTV parties 24:34 Leslie on Ryan Higa’s Influence 26:15 Nate Films with Ryan Higa in Hawaii 29:54 The Canceled HyperX Commercial 32:08 Leslie and Nate Discover Similarities 37:49 Leslie and Nate’s 30-Year Estrangement 40:13 Lost Hamster Story 41:46 How Leslie and Nate Reconnect 48:54 Leslie on Being Vulnerable Online 52:04 Yvonne's 4D Movie Date 1:03:56 Nate’s First Time Going Live 1:08:50 Nate Makes Aluminum Trophies 1:12:53 Icing Toast in Calgary Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #60
    August 27 · 1 hr 17 min

    OTV's most expensive purchase ever 💸 | EP 60 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Streamers are low maintenance, and we're here to prove it to you. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 1:20 Big 60th episode 2:42 Toast doesn’t want to be on a team with Yvonne 8:01 Toast is a yapper 10:43 Chelsea ranked in Brawl Stars 12:27 Faker of Brawl Stars 12:48 Craziest purchases by streamers 17:03 Streamers are low maintenance 20:08 Toast loves to sleep on the floor 23:40 Yvonne is in with the kids 24:58 Toast has a gripe with OTV 26:03 Scarra like it COLD 30:10 OTV master bedroom… 32:12 Toast’s bedroom makeover 33:07 Chelsea’s interaction with Jeremy 35:31 Yvonne is getting back into League 36:52 Can you lose and still be happy? 41:34 Toast’s role as a uncle 45:01 Having kids as content creators 48:10 Giving kids balance 49:58 Nepo babies 52:12 Child cheat code 57:01 Yvonne’s school bullies 59:55 Going to Chinese school 1:07:52 Asian culture being more celebrated 1:10:55 Netflix Avatar the Airbender was a flop? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #59
    August 20 · 58 min

    This OTV video wasn't supposed to come out | EP 59 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Yvonne runs into a dilemma in the early dating stage and Chelsea makes an apology.. Timestamps: 00:00:00 Intro 00:00:26 Chelsea's Brawl Stars Update 00:01:27 Gaming and ranked anxiety 00:03:51 Drake vs 20 00:05:30 Scrapped Yvonne vs 10 video 00:12:04 Love is Blind: Yvonne edition 00:13:55 Age appropriate.. 00:15:33 Chelsea is setting up the dating game 00:16:53 Dating exclusivity 00:17:15 When to disclose you're seeing other people 00:24:17 You should tell em 00:34:30 Best places to cry 00:35:43 Dont be afraid to hurt their feelings 00:37:32 They might be watching.. 00:41:50 Yvonne’s standards 00:42:08 Yvonne's dating standards and the Android debate 00:43:52 Chelsea apologizes to Android users 00:46:14 Scarra and Chelsea go to Tennis 00:48:32 Yvonne's board game night 00:50:38 Toast's reflections on his family Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #58
    August 13 · 58 min

    Is this cheating or just being too nice? | EP 58 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Give a man a break sometimes or maybe not... 👀 Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 01:00 - The competitive card game grind 02:51 - Yvonne's sushi date 10:04 - Dating seriously for marriage 12:42 - Trying to set up Yvonne 13:45 - Stop trying to train your boyfriend 14:46 - The perilla leaf debate 19:52 - Giving your company prize to another girl 25:33 - Would you take a free trip to Hawaii? 26:18 - Driving your coworker home 29:20 - Building furniture for a random girl 35:29 - Buying personalized souvenirs for coworkers 40:38 - What would your death row meal be? 46:08 - Would you want to know when you’re going to die? 47:19 - Using fame to skip the line 51:33 - Why celebrities get special treatment 52:26 - The fake acting career prank 54:16 - Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #57
    August 6 · 56 min

    Testing our dating standards | EP 57 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Yvonne and Toast are back and this week they're finding out how high and low some of their dating standards are 👀 Turns out you don’t need a real job. Build your own business with a free trial at shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:23 Recap of previous episode (Scarra & Chelsea) 03:23 Yvonne's Collective Con experience 07:37 Scarra’s raffle and booth 10:28 Selling cards and cash management 12:13 Fan interactions and giving back 14:41 Yvonne's dating update 16:32 "He's a 10 But..." 40:48 Getting scammed on MapleStory and Neopets 42:28 The tea scam 43:49 Street scams, CDs, and mascots 44:33 Valorant tournament recap 47:22 League of Legends Classic tournament 51:57 Discussing League ranks 52:37 Wrap-up and tea for next week Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #56
    July 30 · 1 hr 28 min

    Chelsea helps find Scarra love | EP 56 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Yvonne and Toast are away this week but Chelsea continues to fight to find Scarra love! 00:00 Intro 1:28 Are Scarra and Chelsea friends? 2:30 Scarra’s podcast 4:30 Did Chelsea sabotage Scarra? 6:31 Scarra’s belief and plan for dating 10:48 Chelsea wants to set Scarra up 14:45 Hypothetical first date 20:35 The “perfect” date 23:17 Dating a fan? 26:51 Deal breakers for Scarra 28:15 She’s a 10 BUT…. 45:14 Is living in LA actually worth it? 46:20 Introvert vs extrovert 50:42 Life is short 52:50 Scarra wants a crazy ex 53:10 We want love for Yvonne 55:21 Meeting a girl at the club? 56:30 Do we believe in love at first sight? 57:56 Learning how to set boundaries 1:04:20 How do you stay hopeful? 1:07:00 Dealing with hate online 1:11:10 The truth about creator burnout 1:17:23 Toast’s content strategy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #55
    July 23 · 58 min

    Would we survive Streamer University? | EP 55 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Should we join Stream U next year? 👀 Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:45 Toast plays pickleball 7:20 Yvonne’s Pokémon passion 10:05 Toast is triggered by someone… 11:20 Womens intuition 12:55 Toast didn’t want to be on the same team as this person 14:45 Valorant tournament thoughts 19:10 Yvonne is killing at Valorant 20:38 Yvonne kills s0m 23:31 Toast isn’t doing as hot 25:30 Streamer university thoughts 33:04 Toast become a professor at Streamer U 35:01 Would we apply to Streamer U 41:03 Is Toast chopped? 42:20 What makes someone “chopped” 49:51 Hi from Faker Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #54
    July 16 · 55 min

    Our friends were betting we'd date... | EP 54 | We Were Fighting Before This

    We've heard crazy rumors and even crazier ones from our own friends... Start your free trial at https://SHOPIFY.COM/beforethis Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:23 Yvonne rates her own trip 2:45 Thoughts on the Calgary trip 3:03 Yvonne forced Toast to go raving 6:28 Toast takes over Yvonne’s hometown 8:44 Meeting Yvonne’s mom 9:53 Yvonne’s friends defend her from Toast 12:40 The craziest things they saw in Calgary 15:17 Who has more pull? 18:36 Toast gets iced for the first time 20:58 Meeting Yvonne’s childhood friends 23:04 Peak Asian Canadian childhood 28:05 The craziest rumors about Toast and Yvonne 28:49 Lily thought Toast would date Yvonne 30:22 How rich is Toast actually? 31:14 The truth about the podcast’s money 32:30 Did Yvonne and Brodin date? 32:52 Would Yvonne date someone in the friend group? 33:33 Chelsea went to an all girls college 34:44 Love and Deepspace 42:28 What race would you choose to be? 50:31 Would they ever move back home? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #50
    July 9 · 1 hr 1 min

    Do women ACTUALLY understand men? | EP 53 | We Were Fighting Before This

    This week we're asking if men actually know what women want? Do women know what women want? Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:40 Toast is into Love Island 3:25 Testing men 5:18 Big SO fight 7:30 Complimenting another’s partner 12:24 Badminton Open 14:15 Yvonne has PULL 19:12 LIVE PODCAST SHOW! 21:32 Toast is Ryan Higa... 22:54 Toast doesn’t want Yvonne on his team 26:38 PRO VS JOE 31:20 Toast breaks it down for Chelsea 34:25 Marvel Rivals drama 36:00 Tournament dynamics 39:18 Recovering from losing 45:35 Is “NORMIE” derogatory 47:06 When did we realize we were straight 50:02 Would you love me if I was a worm 52:45 Experience with he opposite gender Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #52
    July 2 · 58 min

    Yvonne's dad reaches out | EP 52 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Yvonne finds messages from her dad 🥺 Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:30 Pickleball movie… 3:10 Yvonne Dad reaches out 9:02 Yvonne’s thoughts on her dad :( 17:50 Reconnecting and getting clarity 26:11 Abg and abb event 30:34 Toast’s is insecure about his hair 33:55 Yvonne’s hairdresser 36:30 Meccha Chameleon 40:31 Toast doesn’t want to give up 45:00 How long Mecca Chameleon will last 47:23 Taking bets Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #51
    June 25 · 1 hr

    The time OTV and 100 Thieves wanted the same creator | EP 51 | We Were Fighting Before This

    TGC Cafes, Disney Adults, and finding Scarra true love? Timestamps: 00:00 Fighting Before This.... 2:15 Toast vs Yvonne's 50/50 Debate 5:18 Chelsea Gets Dragged Into It 8:12 Who Actually Owns the Podcast? 11:50 Brodin Interrupts Another Argument 12:42 The Creator OTV Couldn't Get 16:25 OTV vs 100 Thieves 19:08 The Robert Downey Jr. Incident 21:35 Being Known as "OTV" Instead of Yourself 24:55 Yvonne's Imposter Syndrome 28:45 Yvonne Finds Her Footing 31:30 The New OTV Camping Video 34:20 Toast's Worst Camping Experience 36:55 Doomscrolling Has Gone Too Far 39:30 Toast's ChatGPT Sessions 42:10 Yvonne's Dream TCG Cafe 45:25 Adult Hobbies After 30 48:30 Would Yvonne Go Camping With Her Future Boyfriend? 50:15 Red Flag or Green Flag? 55:10 Chelsea Tries Setting Up Scarra Again 55:36 Will We Get A Scarra Date Update? 56:17 Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #50
    June 18 · 1 hr 5 min

    The worst brand we’ve ever worked with | EP 50 | We Were Fighting Before This

    To celebrate 50 episodes of WWFBT, we're eating the spiciest chip in the world while answering the spicy questionable questions Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:22 Yvonne’s million dollar idea 2:21 is “nerd” derogatory? 4:18 Chelsea plays League… 5:37 Present for Toast! 7:16 Knicks in 5! 12:43 Spending for sports teams 14:30 Sports betting and morals… 16:22 Toast at the Richmond night market 18:56 Toast really wants to be mayor 23:10 Online vs Offline filming 29:05 SPICY CHIP CHALLENGE QUESTION GAME 51:31 the FAKER QUESTION… 54:55 Chelsea crashes out again Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #49
    June 11 · 1 hr 5 min

    Responding to our haters... | EP 49 | We Were Fighting Before This

    We're mad and we all have something to say! Timestamps:00:00:00 Intro 00:00:30 The Pickleball Problem 00:04:15 Why Pickleball Took Over 00:05:18 Is Pickleball Actually Hard? 00:06:43 When the New Thing Replaces the Old Thing 00:09:30 Chelsea Tries Pickleball 00:12:04 Men vs. Women: Who Has It Worse? 00:13:00 Is It Easier to Be a Woman Content Creator? 00:14:40 The DEI Conversation 00:16:15 The Reality of Being a Woman 00:17:35 How Do You Support Your Partner on Their Period? 00:19:15 Why Couples Rage Bait Each Other 00:21:30 Do Women Start Arguments on Purpose? 00:24:13 How Much Fighting Is Normal? 00:26:00 Is Checking Your Partner's Instagram Toxic? 00:28:08 50 Episodes Later... 00:29:16 Why Everyone Thinks We're Fence Sitters 00:32:48 People Pleaser or Just Nice? 00:37:32 Toast Explains His Face Reveal 00:40:16 The Insecurity Toast Can't Shake 00:43:18 Learning Confidence the Hard Way 00:44:59 We Need to Leave Our Comfort Zone 00:46:15 Toast's 100-Day Streaming Challenge 00:47:38 Why Being Real Beats Being Negative 00:49:15 Why Outdoor Boys Wins Every Time 00:52:42 We Wouldn't Last a Week in Alaska Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #48
    June 4 · 1 hr 25 min

    we made our producer CRASH OUT 👀 | EP 48 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Toast gets 2v1'd again? Chelsea's back and she breaks down. timestamps: 00:00 Chelsea's Return & The "2v1" Dynamic 03:05 Reflecting on the past episodes 04:28 Chelsea breaks down 11:43 Asian Canadian Identity 12:55 Thoughts on FOB’s 16:40 Toast and Yvonne road trip 22:06 Empathy & Podcast Dynamics 34:08 The Reality TV "Male vs. Female Gaze" 38:16 The "Club Comment" Incident 40:48 Flight Reimbursement 45:21 Road trip to vancouver 46:27 Vegas trip 51:23 OTV "PR Training" Tier List 54:49 Gambling Sponsorship Ethics 1:05:00 Online Thirst Traps 1:09:20 Ethics of Leaking Information 1:12:03 Yvonne's Gaming Performance 1:18:23 Forced Compliments & Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #47
    May 28 · 1 hr 27 min

    Being annoying is an art, and we've mastered it | EP 47 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Are war movies sexy? And how did Toast trick Yvonne to be her sidekick...? Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:51 Nate’s last thoughts on Yvonne 3:03 Toast questions Yvonne 4:41 Yvonne’s behavior gets her into trouble 7:02 Bid for attention? 9:05 War movies 12:50 Doing it during war movies… 13:35 Toast blames Yvonne on deflecting 17:38 “I’m Ugly” 22:24 Yvonne believed she was ugly 28:01 Toast’s POV on being unattractive 29:55 When Toast locks in 36:02 Dream physique 38:38 Pivoting lifestyles 42:44 Is Yvonne a supporting character? 44:42 Thoughts on OTV 50:25 Being consistent 54:04 How willing are you to clip farm 56:24 How do you have a friendship with an EX 1:00:42 Who’s the better league player 1:10:00 Still fighting over league…. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #46
    May 21 · 59 min

    The Perfect Relationship Doesn't Exist | EP 46 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Dating is HARD. It's even harder when you're oldge Start your business today with the industry’s best business partner, Shopify. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at https://SHOPIFY.COM/beforethis Timestamps: 00:00:00 Intro 00:00:34 Toast is late..? 00:02:03 Coconut 00:02:27 We read the incel comments 00:05:14 Reading comments as a streamer 00:08:39 Toast looked for these comments 00:09:59 Unbiased Nate pt 2 00:10:48 Clocking each other’s tea 00:12:26 Nate does the intro jingle 00:13:35 Yvonne’s dating update 00:15:29 Would Yvonne date any of her peers? 00:17:33 Should Yvonne lower her standards? 00:18:49 When ur partner isn’t that self-aware 00:22:00 The 90/10 rule 00:23:04 What have we learned from each other? 00:24:42 What we thought when starting this pod 00:27:24 Toast strat of finding topics 00:28:24 Perfect relationships don’t exist 00:32:05 Yvonne’s vibecheck 00:34:02 Nate’s dating life 00:35:57 Dating when you’re getting older 00:39:09 James Charles tea 00:41:22 Fans asking for money 00:42:35 Celebrities not getting cancelled 00:44:06 Kick streamers going to jail 00:46:47 Prank era of YouTube 00:47:44 How to get attention on social media 00:49:47 Streamer fatigue 00:53:05 Unlimited guests on the pod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  • #45
    May 14 · 1 hr 32 min

    This Podcast Broke our Friendship | EP45 | We Were Fighting Before This

    What are actual good compliments, why you should lie to your friends, and did this podcast actually make or break Toast and Yvonne's friendship? Timestamps: 00:00:00 We Were Really Fighting Before This 00:00:24 NATE IS HERE 00:04:05 Yvonne is a Labubu 00:06:14 Chelsea’s projecting questions 00:07:39 Receiving compliments 00:09:32 Totally unbiased moderator 00:11:23 S Tier compliments 00:15:17 Repeating Questions to a Stranger 00:16:40 Lucky Girl Syndrome 00:20:08 How Guys Become Friends 00:23:40 Describing their relationship to an outsider 00:25:26 Did the pod improve their relationship 00:30:22 Acknowledging feelings 00:32:01 Liking other girls’ photos.. 00:34:57 What even is a good guy 00:37:36 How to tank your attractiveness 00:41:15 The Male Heroic Fantasy 00:43:22 Giving your life for someone else 00:45:48 Raising a child is hard 00:47:08 Toast’s existential hospital encounter 00:49:30 The Amazing traits of Disguised Toast 00:52:00 Receiving Compliments & Self-sabotage 00:55:19 Reading Comments as a Streamer 00:56:59 Food Vloggers are FAKE 00:58:32 Lie to your friends 01:01:13 People think Toast is mean 01:03:46 What is Misandry? 01:08:59 Toast’s Deleted Sykkuno Tweet 01:13:05 Things clipped out of context 01:14:26 Taking the Centrist POV 01:18:12 The incels are not gonna like this one 01:19:28 How Internet Drama evolves 01:21:50 Hello Millenials 01:23:00 Creator Labels 01:25:00 Toast is scaring away the Patreon members Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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