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We Don't Have Time For This

Gemma Peanut & Kate Reeves

Two full-time working mums with lots of opinions and no time. Featuring childhood besties Gemma Peanut and Kate Reeves.

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  • Thursday · 15 min

    ☎️ Bestie Hotline: My Kid Won’t Talk To Me

    Today’s caller is being stonewalled by her own child. The days of getting the full download are over. - Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Check out our Amazon Storefront Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • #298
    Monday · 1 hr 6 min

    Revz did a thing. Don’t Make It Weird.

    Revz has survived Year 6 camp and frankly deserves a medal and a long nap. Meanwhile, the retrograde bullshit is finally coming to an end and THANK. FUCK. We discuss the great Bali versus Fiji debate. Can't we all just enjoy a tropical holiday without picking a side? Meanwhile, Revz has been quietly getting up to something behind the scenes. Something we're actually very proud of. But she's made it very clear that she doesn't want a big song and dance about it because it's not a thing. Happy Tuesday Besties x #Notspon R: Element Brooklyn G: Arms Of Eve - Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • November 5 · 13 min

    ☎️ Bestie Hotline: Unfollow Your Ex

    Today’s caller is questioning the unspoken rules of the post-breakup unfollow. They’ve left your life, but do they need to leave your Instagram, too? - Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • #297
    November 2 · 52 min

    The Confidence On This Bitch

    It's that time again, a friendly reminder to check your boobs. Give the girls a feel, they deserve the attention. Meanwhile, daylight savings is absolutely fucking with Revz’s relationship schedule, and Gem is coming away from Raffa’s appointment with a few unexpected lessons. We’re talking food as a tool for focus, comfort and self-soothing (neurospicy girls, gather round). Plus, over in #notspons, a new drink to get around, a very handy hack and add some people pleaser behaviour to round out your fav day of the week. x #Notspon G: Pickle juice coke R: Leftover lunchbox smoothies - Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • October 29 · 11 min

    ☎️ Bestie Hotline: Can You Please Discipline YOUR Kids?

    This week’s caller is wondering when it’s acceptable to step in and parent someone else’s kids, or when you should just mind your own damn business. - Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • #296
    October 26 · 53 min

    The ATO Called. We’re Unwell.

    Revz’s flights are booked and the countdown is officially on! Gem’s been to see Maggie Dent and has returned with golden nuggets of parenting wisdom. This is life changing stuff. You’re welcome. Then, we need to talk about the #DramaKings in our lives, the melodramatic sons who are reminding us that boys are, in fact, allowed to cry. And just when we thought we were having a nice time, Revz has a call with the ATO that hits hard, opening up a very real chat about the financial stress so many of us are quietly drowning in. Notspons: R: Flowzy Pet Water Fountain (aff link) G: Zoe Foster Blake on The Imperfects - Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • October 22 · 16 min

    ☎️ Bestie Hotline: I Wanted To Be A Fun Mum 

    Today’s caller bought all the halloween party decorations and now that they have arrived, the vibe has changed. - Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • #295
    October 19 · 1 hr 2 min

    Dance Mum Drama Side Stage

    Gem’s got a new favourite word and leaning in all the associated vibes. And an update on Iggy’s trophy. Kids saving their worst behaviour for their sibling, it’s a scientific fact, but why… no seriously, WHY!? Gem’s diving back into the solo dance competition world with some behaviour she witnessed from a mother, yep you heard that right. Notspons: G: Make Up By Mario Blush Stick (raspberry) R: East of Eden on Netflix Mentions: The Dance Mums Lament - Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • October 15 · 13 min

    ☎️ Bestie Hotline: Were You Really Working Late, Hubs?

    Today’s caller chanced upon her husband’s phone with a text message that read “Your Wife Is Going To Kill You”. - Show Merch (FREE Cream Hat with every order) Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • #294
    October 12 · 58 min

    Gem Needs To Die With The Lie

    First up, life admin! Worm your kids every term cos that’s another thing we simply don’t have time for. Then, Gem has a parenting moment so shameful she’s taking Raffa down with her. Brace yourselves. And finally, we all know Yai is the gold standard of Mums, Grandmothers and Mother-in-Laws, so let’s unpack our own MIL goals despite having absolutely no experience in the matter. Just vibes, delusion and a dream. Happy Tuesday, DLs x Notspons: G: Waterproof dressing R: The Middle on Netflix - Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • October 8 · 21 min

    ☎️ Bestie Hotline: I’m in a One-Sided Friendship

    Today’s caller tried a friendship experiment and wasn’t happy with the results. - Show Merch (FREE Cream Hat with every order) Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • #293
    October 5 · 50 min

    Not-Single Single Mum

    From the podcast that brought you What Menu Item Are You? comes the next instalment nobody asked for but everyone needs: What Weather Are You? And while we’re here… What Sport Are You? Play along at home DLs. Plus, Revz is no longer a single, single Mum, which leads us into a bigger chat, do we expect more from our single friends? Notspons: G: Bus Traffic Fever R: Embryolisse Eclat Du Regard Eye Stick - Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • October 5 · 37 min

    The Fifth Trimester: Sam Wood’s DV Charges & The Myth Of The Good Guy

    This episode discusses alleged domestic violence. If you need help, please call 1800RESPECT Imagine being on death row, only for your execution not to work. That’s exactly what happened to Tennessee woman Christa Pike last week, and we’re certain it’s already being turned into a Netflix true crime documentary. Trigger warning on this one, DLs, as it deals with domestic violence. Former Bachelor star Sam Wood has been charged over an alleged domestic violence incident in Noosa over the weekend. We’re beyond over the problem this country has with violence against women, so where to from here? Then, a silly little palate cleanser. Influencer and Gen Z icon Alix Earle has just claimed she’s never read a book, but fear not! We’ve noticed a micro-trend seeking out tactile media again, and we’re so here for it. Our INs and OUTs include the new quiet luxury symbol, the death of baggy jeans, ugly sunnies and the ultimate beach accessory. - Oakley Eye Jacket sunglasses Arc'teryx Business and Pleasure Co. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • October 1 · 11 min

    ☎️ Bestie Hotline: I’m Never the Mum Who Puts Her Hand Up

    This week's caller is feeling guilty for not volunteering at school. HARD relate. - Show Merch (FREE Cream Hat with every order) LIVE STREAM and BOX SET Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • #292
    September 28 · 1 hr 7 min

    Ask Us (Literally) Anything

    Our 2026 live show, Know Thyself, has officially come to an end. So obviously, we had to do an AMA. We’re spilling some tour tea, talking costumes, getting emotional about the final show and answering the question everyone wants to know… what happens next? Come for the answers. Stay for the oversharing. - LIVE STREAM and BOX SET (extended to Midnight AEST Sunday 4th October) Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • September 24 · 14 min

    ☎️ Bestie Hotline: I Want Our Families To Blend

    Today’s caller has mixed feelings about blending her family. - Show Merch (FREE Cream Hat with every order) LIVE STREAM and BOX SET Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • #291
    September 21 · 45 min

    What Age of Kid Is The Easiest?

    Know Thyself is officially over, the showgirl shoes are off and Gem and Revz are left wondering what the hell they’re going to do with themselves now. In the meantime, stream all four shows on the website before they’re gone forever! Then, the school mum contact naming system “Gemma (Raffa & Iggy’s Mum)” it’s an official thing, right? And Gem wants to freeze her kids at 6 and 8 forever, is this the perfect age? DLs, A little glimmer of hope from the early parenting trenches, because there really is a light at the end of that motherf*cking tunnel. Notspon: G: Tool to dig up Make Up and Skincare Dregs R: Gyoza Girl - LIVE STREAM and BOX SET Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • September 17 · 24 min

    ☎️ Bestie Hotline: I Can’t Deal With Class Parent Politics

    This week’s DL has got more than she bargained for as class parent. - LIVE SHOW TICKETS and MERCH LIVE STREAM and BOX SET Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • #290
    September 14 · 45 min

    Revz’s (Current) Boyfriend in the Hot Seat

    Doron’s on the mic today and honestly, buckle up. We’re getting a little taste of what it’s like to fall in love, move to NYC and chase a Broadway dream… all in the time it takes to get two manicures. Casual. - LIVE SHOW TICKETS and MERCH LIVE STREAM and BOX SET Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • September 10 · 14 min

    ☎️ Bestie Hotline: Postpartum is NOT a Competition, Bestie

    Today's caller is not vibing her competitive postpartum friend. - LIVE SHOW TICKETS and MERCH LIVE STREAM and BOX SET Check out our Amazon Storefront Submit your OTDL Submit your Bestie Hotline Join our Facebook Group Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Subscribe to MORE TIME For This: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Listen to our cool little sister podcast: The Fifth Trimester on Spotify The Fifth Trimester on Apple Send This Episode To Your Friends: I Need A New Podcast (Spotify) I Need A New Podcast (Apple) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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