Truth + Conversation

Truth + Excuses

You don’t experience your excuses as excuses. You experience them as reality—and this episode confronts the line where you decided you could no longer be on the hook for your life being different.

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Truth + Self-forgiveness

When does taking responsibility become a lifetime of punishment? A mother’s struggle with self-forgiveness opens a conversation about guilt, our fascination with the past, and the question that asks something new of us: who are you now?

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Truth + What Matters

Through one listeners deeply personal struggle, we explore how the worlds we live in can consume us with fear, guilt, and regret, until we lose sight of the very thing that matters most.

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Truth + Story

After a serious health crisis leaves a listener mourning who she used to be and uncertain how to begin again, Gary unpicks the story she believes is simply a description of what happened. This episode explores how language creates the world you experience—and why your future must begin with possibility rather than what happened to you.

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Truth + Relationship

You can’t create a future relationship while remaining organized around the past. Gary explores who you’ve been, who you now say you are, and what it takes to live with integrity when old patterns return.

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Truth + Being Complete

You say you're over it, you're past it, maybe even that it made you who you are. Or did it? This episode takes on the incompletions you’ve learned to live with, the rightness that keeps them alive, and the choice between being right about your past and being free to live your life.

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Truth + Reconciling

You say you want to reconcile. But what exactly are you trying to get back? This conversation might change everything you think you know about putting a relationship back together.

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Truth + Acceptance

Acceptance isn't approval, surrender, or saying it was okay. It's confronting what happened without everything you've added to it—and finally taking responsibility for what happens next.

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Truth + Resentment

Resentment has a payoff—and that’s part of why you keep feeding it. This conversation gets underneath the righteousness, resistance and indulgence that keep resentment alive—and confronts the things you do to keep yourself trapped there.

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Truth + The Past

When the past becomes the thing holding your life together, calling it bullshit won’t set you free. In this episode, Gary responds to a listener who can see the old explanation no longer works, but is now confronted by who she has become. A raw conversation about ontology, self-deception, vulnerability, and the truth required to stop living in the image of what happened.

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Truth + Justifications

It's much easier to justify yourself than deal with yourself. This week, we get into why we do it, how those justifications follow us long after the damage is done, and what it actually takes to clean up the self-imposed messes we make.

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Truth + Crisis

What happens when the life you built no longer works? In this episode, Gary explores the crisis that comes when relationships, careers, purpose and the things through which we've known ourselves run out of road—and why what looks like the bankruptcy of self might actually be the greatest possibility of your life.

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Truth + Shame

Most people ask, "Why do I feel shame?" This episode asks a far more dangerous question: "Why shame now?" Through a listener's email, Gary explores how shame quietly becomes certainty, familiarity, and a way of life. This isn't about fixing your feelings. It's about exposing the world those feelings have built - and the simple course of action that begins to take you beyond it.

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Truth + Making Choices

Choice isn't simply picking the future you prefer. It's also embracing the future you cannot control. This episode explores inauthenticity, the explanations doing the heavy lifting in our lives, and why trying to guarantee tomorrow often keeps us trapped in the life we already have.

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Truth + Results

You've been working hard. You've been doing everything you know to do. So why isn't it working? This episode explores the hidden conversation that turns effort into desperation, why reality is never arguing with you, and the one question that opens the door to new possibilities.

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Truth + Being Ready

What if you've confused feeling ready with being ready? In this episode, a listener's question opens the door to a deeper conversation about fear, uncertainty, and the hidden cost of waiting for yourself to become someone else before you begin.

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Truth + Conversation - The Beginning

New to Truth + Conversation? Start here. No matter which episode brought you to the podcast, this is the conversation that sets the foundation for everything that follows.

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