
The Patterns You Inherit and the Inner- Self Work It Takes to Break Them | Bunmi JBums George
Special thanks to the Entertainment & Media Hubs program by CcHUB Creative EconomyPractice for supporting this podcast. Why do we sometimes repeat the very patterns we promised ourselves we would never repeat?In this conversation, Flourish sits down with Bunmi George to explore the inner work behind building strong relationships, healthy marriages and strong families.Bunmi shares how our childhood experiences, wounds, beliefs, family dynamics and even the relationships we grew up watching can quietly shape who we become — and why simply deciding to “do better” is not always enough to break the cycle.They talk about the journey to self-awareness, healing from past wounds, choosing a life partner, navigating conflict in marriage, breaking unhealthy generational patterns and allowing God to transform the beliefs and behaviours we have carried for years.Bunmi also shares her personal journey with God, the inner work she did before marriage, and why understanding yourself is an important part of choosing and becoming a healthy partner.In this episode, we explore:• Why family patterns repeat across generations • The inner work required to break unhealthy cycles • How childhood experiences can affect adult relationships • Why you can ask the right questions and still choose the wrong person • Healing wounds before they affect your marriage and family • How to choose a life partner with wisdom • Conflict, communication and growth in marriage • What to do when marriage becomes difficult • The biblical picture of a strong woman • Pursuing purpose, marriage and motherhood without sacrificing one on the altar of ambition • Building a relationship with God that transforms every area of your life If you have ever looked at your family and thought, *“I don't want this pattern to continue with me,”* this conversation is for you.Breaking the cycle begins with recognising what you are carrying — and being willing to do the work required to change it.📒 Important LinksGet BEFORE I DO by Bunmi George:www.jbums.comhttps://shorturl.at/GDqbeConnect with Bunmi George (JBums)Instagram: @JBums TikTok: @JBums 🎧 Listen to The Shining Light Show PodcastApple: https://apple.co/3KpJsyxSpotify: https://spoti.fi/3rRBtnjAbout The Shining Light ShowOur mission at The Shining Light Show is to use the power of testimonies to inspire believers to live out their Christian faith in practical, surrendered, and Spirit-led ways.📩 For sponsorship or partnership inquiries:theshininglightshow@gmail.com | flourish.chukwurah@gmail.comConnect with Flourish Ubanyi / shininglight_flo #EntertainmentAndMediaHubs #GenderEquitableStorytelling


















