The Next Man Up

Coral Osborne

Next Man Up explores the contradictions of modern masculinity, where success and self-optimization still leave many men unfulfilled. Through candid conversations, the podcast examines the tension between freedom and connection, power and purpose, fear and fulfillment. It bridges the growing gap between men and women, fostering empathy and deeper relationships. Featuring diverse guests—including authors, comedians, and even host Coral’s personal connections—the show creates a judgment-free space for men to explore vulnerability, identity, and the evolving male experience.

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S1 · E21
Thursday · 58 min
Dave Asprey: Biohacking, Kink, BDSM & Semen Retention
On this episode of The Next Man Up, Dave Asprey and Coral discuss Taoist longevity teachings on ejaculation frequency and orgasm, arguing orgasms benefit men but frequent ejaculation can reduce energy and life satisfaction via testosterone drops and prolactin rises. He describes tracking sex/ejaculation for a year, learning techniques for non-ejaculatory orgasm, and framing “conscious sex” as attunement and partner-focused surrender. The conversation links kink/BDSM and “brief intentional conscious exposure to pain” to dopamine sensitivity and trauma resetting, referencing Stan Grof’s birth-trauma model and parallels with neurofeedback and psychedelics. They discuss ego as survival imperatives, intuition and safety, yoni massage, finding ethical partners, and addressing sexual shame via therapy/EMDR, his “reset process,” and supportive partners or sex workers. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Biohacking through sex 📌 Semen Retention Science 📌 The Importance of Pain 📌 Yoni Massage 📌 Kink & BDSM EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/pod ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH DAVE 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dave.asprey CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E20
September 17 · 1 hr 12 min
Rick Andstrom: From Navy SEAL to Healing, Psychedelics, and Performance
On The Next Man Up, Coral Osborne interviews her friend Rick Andstrom about masculinity, trauma, and healing. Rick introduces himself as a dad and retired Navy SEAL (25 years in the Navy, 20 as a SEAL), describing post-military work including facilitating psychedelic-assisted therapy, time in Ukraine, and founding Mercury Human Performance, a “human performance lab” blending synthetic shooting, fitness, and wellness practices. He recounts a difficult childhood, what drew him to SEALs, multiple medical washouts from BUD/S, and how mindfulness training helped him succeed. Rick discusses the psychological and neurological toll of war, repetitive blast injury, taboo around mental health care, anger, suicidality, and losing friends to suicide. He explains how MERT/TMS led him to psilocybin, then VETS and a supervised ibogaine program in Mexico, including insights about his life, addiction, and reconciliation with his mother. They emphasize integration, meditation, non-judgmental awareness, and uncertainty in intimacy, and Coral shares how Rick facilitated psychedelic sessions for her and her family, leading to greater honesty, acceptance, and connection. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Healing the Mother Wound 📌 Mindfulness Through Pain 📌 War Trauma Invisible Wounds 📌 Nonjudgment and Nonduality 📌 Psychedelics and Spiritual Bypassing EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/pod ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH RICK 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rick_andstrom/ CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E19
September 3 · 1 hr 33 min
Garrain Asé: Radical Truth, Inner-Child Healing, and Rebuilding Intimacy
Coral Osborne of The Next Man Up interviews personal development coach and speaker Garrain Asé about identity as something fluid, creating spaces where “the child inside the adult is happy,” and how radical vulnerability became his life’s purpose. Garrain shares his hero’s-journey background - his father’s murder at 12, feeling racially in-between, juvenile detention and prison, over two years of homelessness, and $250,000 debt, before committing to personal development, repeatedly reading The Power of Positive Thinking, and publicly confessing hidden truths online, which he says led to messages from suicidal people and eventually to bestselling books, global speaking, and financial success. They discuss why humans crave “real,” how unspoken resentments explode in relationships, and how his separation with his wife led to deeper intimacy through accountability and truth, including co-parenting strategies to maintain a unified signal for their children. Garrain offers practices for shifting mindset through action, community, meditation, and sensory exercises to build intuition, and outlines current projects: an album (A Signal of Truth), Tribe Mind mastermind, and an Austin event (The Magical Unlock), plus his name change from Jones to Asé. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 The Power of Positive Thinking 📌 How To Reverse The Aging Process 📌 Male Intuition 📌 Cultivating Presence 📌 Saving Your Marriage EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/pod ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH GARRAIN 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/garrainase The Magical Unlock: https://go.artistpower.com/explore-magical-unlock-day-1?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E18
August 20 · 1 hr 24 min
David Sutcliffe: From Hollywood to Dark Night of The Soul
In this episode of The Next Man Up, Coral Osborne interviews David Sutcliffe, a former actor (Rory’s dad on Gilmore Girls) who transitioned in his late 40s/50 to become a core energetics practitioner, describing the modality’s somatic, psychospiritual roots and how group work helped him access rage, grief, and deeper connection. They discuss shadow integration, sexuality as a portal to unconscious material, and the importance of boundaries, proper qualifications, and humility for facilitators amid performative social-media “authenticity.” Sutcliffe explains why he interviews and “humanizes” figures like Andrew Tate, arguing society needs provocateurs to expose distortions, and shares his nonjudgmental approach and impressions of Tate. The conversation explores leadership, tolerating being misunderstood, spiritual acceptance of light and dark, partnership dynamics, men’s integrity and “frame,” women’s projections, and how mothering in relationships functions as control. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Sex As Shadow Portal 📌 The Dark Side of the Spiritual Community 📌 Dominance Beyond Bedroom 📌 Power Dynamics 📌 The Manosphere EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH DAVID 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidsutcliffe33 CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E17
August 6 · 1 hr
Stirling Cooper: Situationships, and What Makes Men Commit
Stirling Cooper returns to The Next Man Up with Coral Osborne to discuss modern dating, commitment, and intimacy. Stirling explains how men often sort women into “wifey,” “situationship,” or “secret” categories, noting a man’s readiness to commit depends on whether his “door” is open, often tied to financial stability and life stage. They explore how women can move between categories via accumulated green/red flags, and argue men primarily want peace, appreciation, respect (especially in public), and to feel useful, rather than drama or “challenges.” They critique waiting too long to define intentions, suggest asking direct questions before sex, and discuss sexual chemistry, teasing/anticipation, and enthusiasm as key to desirability. They cover social proof, status dynamics, “what do you bring to the table,” vulnerability vs trauma dumping, and announce Sterling’s upcoming guides for women, including a blowjob guide and “Wifey Formula Decoded.” EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Teaching Bedroom Performance 📌 Optimal Courtship Formula 📌 Secure vs Anxious Women 📌 Cuckold Fetish Theory 📌 The Art of Teasing EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH STIRLING 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stirlingcooper CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E16
July 23 · 1 hr 6 min
King Noire: Fetish, Fantasy & Non-Monogamy
On The Next Man Up, Coral interviews adult performer, activist, artist, and master fetish trainer King Noire, co-founder of Royal Fetish Films with Jet Setting Jasmine. King recounts being kicked out at 17, homelessness, and entering adult work through paid shoots and underground New York BDSM/swinger scenes, learning kink hands-on and emphasizing consent and safety. He discusses fetish exploration, shame, fantasy vs. reality, and how trauma shifted his boundaries after being beaten by police while restrained. King explains Royal Fetish’s mission to create better-produced work and avoid fetishization, rejects race play, and names off-limits content like age play involving minors and incest/step themes. He describes his non-monogamous relationship with Jasmine, co-parenting with age-appropriate sex-positive communication, and current projects including his album “Holistic Medicine,” new scenes, and a 10-year fetish-quiz data study unveiling desires among Black and brown participants. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Why Sex Work Matters 📌 Madonna Whore Healing 📌 Raising Sex Positive Kids 📌 Non Monogamy Done Right 📌 What Counts as a Fetish EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/pod ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ CONNECT WITH KING NOIRE 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealkingnoire Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/album/5BBL5TC5T4JpEa46ccWZGp?si=3M6_J5caTQaIxtu95JRiPw Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/album/sellinit-celibate/6776832505?i=6776832506 YouTube: https://youtu.be/TgCGsRpFzPk?is=imMco40Wa9uDH_-s Website: https://www.kingnoire.com/ CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E15
July 9 · 1 hr 24 min
Rory Christopher: Male Magnetism, Passion & Attunement
Coral Osborne hosts Rory Christopher on The Next Man Up to unpack modern masculinity, attraction, and “male magnetism,” which Rory frames as two traits: power (groundedness, steadiness, direction) and passion (emotional aliveness, expression, attunement). They discuss why attraction collapses when men become dependent on a woman’s responsiveness, lack intimacy skills, or treat women transactionally, and why “simping” often reflects covert contracts. Through stories (missed bids for connection, sexual rushing, situational confidence), they emphasize micro-moments, curiosity, and authenticity over performance. Coral shares her background in sex work and how nonjudgmental presence revealed men’s hidden selves; Rory shares his shift from insecurity to relaxed confidence. They cover dating apps as a “video game,” fail-fast voice notes/FaceTime, women’s testing for steadiness, sexual communication frameworks, and Rory’s upcoming free blind-spot quiz at malemagnetism.com. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Attunement In Practice 📌 The Key To Male Magnetism 📌 Eight Intimacies Framework 📌 What Men and Women Truly Desire 📌 Pam And Tommy Lessons EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/pod ⁠⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH RORY 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rorygoodlife Magnetic Man: https://docs.google.com/document/d/17jrVD7tqLDqHpdxkWbgrfTtQtoSTimHMjy_oFn7l0GU/edit?tab=t.otqcf4kqoaq4#heading=h.r9k0qw7m55iw CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E14
June 25 · 1 hr 14 min
Aaron Michael: Unmasking Intimacy & The Cervix–Heart Connection
In this episode of The Next Man Up, host Coral Osborne interviews Aaron Michael, a sexologist and intimacy coach, about modern masculinity, sexual shame, and how disconnection can block pleasure. Aaron shares his evangelical missionary upbringing, early curiosity about sexuality, and career shift from helping people overcome dating anxiety to teaching “embodied love” and practical protocols for deeper intimacy. They discuss how people can lack concordance between psychological arousal, emotions, and physical response, and how taboo and power dynamics can trigger shame and shutdown. Coral describes her difficulty orgasming with a male partner, rooted in control and sex-work conditioning, and recounts a bodywork session with Aaron focused on embodied consent, active receiving, breathing, and regulation. Aaron explains mental arousal triggers, the erotic landscape, and a cervix–heart connection that led to Coral’s emotional release and “heartgasm.” EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Agency Versus Bypass 📌 Prince To King Tease 📌 Erotic Landscape Map 📌 Heartgasm Explained 📌 Truth Responsibility Cycle EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/pod ⁠⁠CONNECT WITH AARON 📩 Instagram Awakened Woman 2.0 CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E13
June 11 · 1 hr 6 min
David Ley: Cuckholding, Pornography & Sexual Communication
In this episode of The Next Man Up, host Coral Osborne sits down with renowned clinical psychologist and sex therapist David Ley for a candid and thought-provoking conversation about sexuality, pornography, relationships, desire, shame, and the misconceptions that continue to shape modern sexual culture. Drawing from decades of clinical work and research, David challenges popular narratives around porn addiction, sexual shame, monogamy, infidelity, kink, and sexual diversity while offering a nuanced perspective on what actually drives healthy sexual behavior. Together, they explore the psychology behind cuckolding, hotwifing, and stag-vixen dynamics, the role of attachment and trust in unconventional relationships, why shame often fuels sexual struggles more than sexuality itself, and how society's failure to teach sexual communication leaves many people navigating intimacy without the tools they need. The conversation also dives into porn literacy, male emotional health, modern dating, rejection, consent, sexual negotiation, and the importance of approaching sexuality with curiosity rather than judgment. What unfolds is a fascinating examination of the ways sex, identity, relationships, and personal growth are deeply intertwined. EPISODE THEMES 📝 📌 Porn Addiction Myths & Sexual Shame 📌 Cuckolding, Hotwifing & Stag-Vixen Dynamics 📌 Attachment, Jealousy & Relationship Security 📌 Sexual Values, Personal Growth & Self-Acceptance 📌 Why Sexual Literacy Matters More Than Ever EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/pod ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH DAVID 📩 Website: https://www.davidleyphd.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidleyphd/ CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E12
May 28 · 1 hr 13 min
Will Blunderfield: Sexual Kung Fu, Semen Retention, and Bro Bonding
In this episode of The Next Man Up, Coral interviews yoga teacher Will Blunderfield about modern masculinity, sexual shame, and practices he teaches such as sexual kung fu, semen retention, sexual transmutation, and “solo cultivation” as an alternative to NoFap-style abstinence. Will links frequent ejaculation and porn habits to low energy and describes techniques for staying below orgasm, moving arousal through the body, sounding, and “dearmoring” the penis and testicles to build a shame-free self-sensory system. They discuss gay panic, male bonding, hazing as a distorted initiation ritual, historical examples of same-sex bonding, and how Abrahamic religious influence suppressed genital-based spirituality. Coral shares her background in sex work, celibacy, embodiment work, and vulnerability, while Will demonstrates Daoist “six healing sounds,” outlines in-person men’s rituals, and lists where to find his work online. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Semen Retention 📌 Fear Trauma And Male Loneliness 📌 How Religion Shamed The Body 📌 Six Healing Sounds Practice 📌 Bro Bonding History EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/pod ⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH WILL 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notwillblunderfield CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E11
May 15 · 1 hr 36 min
Connor Beaton: Men’s Work, Rejection, and Real Intimacy
In this episode of The Next Man Up, host Coral Osborne sits down with Connor Beaton, founder of ManTalks, for a raw and wide-ranging conversation about men’s work, shame, vulnerability, relationships, sex, purpose, and the hidden emotional lives many men are carrying. Connor shares how hitting rock bottom, lying, infidelity, addiction-adjacent patterns, and a life of moral incongruence led him into deep therapeutic and Jungian work that eventually became the foundation for helping men build more honest, grounded lives. Together, they explore why confession is often the first step toward real change, why men may resist vulnerability, how shame shapes desire and intimacy, the Madonna/Whore complex, the mother wound, attachment trauma, initiation, male loneliness, rejection, commitment, and what women often misunderstand about men. What unfolds is part men’s work masterclass, part relationship autopsy, and part honest reckoning with the stories men inherit, the truths they hide, and the work required to become more whole. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 The Madonna/Whore Complex 📌 The Mother Wound & Attachment Trauma 📌 Rejection, Commitment & Modern Dating 📌 Male Loneliness & Feeling Replaceable 📌 Purpose, Performance & What Men Are Really Seeking EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/pod ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH CONNOR 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mantalks Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ManTalks CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E10
April 30 · 1 hr 35 min
Neil Osborne: Coral’s Dad on Fatherhood, Psychedelics, & Family Truths
In this episode of The Next Man Up, host Coral Osborne sits down with her father, Neil Osborne, for a raw, funny, and unexpectedly tender conversation about fatherhood, family patterns, psychedelics, emotional inheritance, and what it means to truly know each other as adults. Together, they explore their experience doing psychedelics together as a family, coming out to her parents about sex work, reflections on childhood, Jungian psychology as a pathway to meaning, humor as a family language, and the strange beauty of being both parent and person. What unfolds is part father-daughter roast, part spiritual debrief, and part honest reckoning with love, distance, fear, vulnerability, and the stories families carry forward. EPISODE THEMES📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📌 Fatherhood & Radical Acceptance 📌 Psychedelics, Integration & Emotional Release ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📌 Humor as a Theraputic Modality 📌 Hypocrisy as a Human Metric 📌 The Father Wound in Real Time 📌 Seeing Your Parent as a Person EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/pod ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ CONNECT WITH NEIL 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/5440singer54-40: https://www.5440.com/ CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E9
Dec 4, 2025 · 55 min
Dr. Chris Donaghue: Sexual Healing, Therapy, and Personal Growth
Dr. Chris Donaghue, a clinical therapist specializing in human sexuality, discusses managing conflicts and needs in relationships, the complexities of sex addiction, and the normalization of diverse sexual practices. He emphasizes the emotional components of men's sexuality, the therapeutic use of porn, and integrating lived experiences into sexual education. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Journey into Sex Therapy 📌 Challenges in Sexology Education 📌 Men's Sexuality and Erectile Disappointment 📌 Clinical Experience vs. Research 📌 Sexual Bypassing and Deeper Connections 📌 Healthy Porn Use and Masturbation EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 Download Coral’s FREE Yes, No, Maybe List: https://www.coralosborne.com/yesnomaybe ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH CHRIS 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdonaghue/ CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E6
Nov 13, 2025 · 1 hr 26 min
Shaun Galanos: Embodiment, Polarity & The Hero’s Journey
Shaun Galanos, a seasoned love coach, delves into the intricate dynamics of modern relationships, intimacy, and vulnerability in this insightful conversation. He shares his journey from driving a taxi in San Francisco to becoming a renowned love coach, including his experiences as an erotic masseur. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Challenges in Modern Dating Dynamics 📌 Understanding Human Connection and Rejection 📌 Shaun’s Experience as an Erotic Masseuse 📌 Relationship Equanimity & Who Pays for the Date 📌 Emotional Sensitivity and Coping Mechanisms 📌 Authentic Vulnerability vs. Trauma Dumping EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 Download Coral’s FREE Yes, No, Maybe List: https://www.coralosborne.com/yesnomaybe ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH SHAUN 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelovedrive Substack: https://shaungalanos.substack.com/ CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E7
Oct 30, 2025 · 1 hr 19 min
Adrian Grenier: From Hollywood to Healing and Family
In this heartfelt episode, Adrian opens up about his struggles with family ideals, personal identity, and emotional repression during his early years. He reflects on his tumultuous relationship with his father and the impact of his feminist mother's influence. Adrian recounts the making of his documentary 'Shot in the Dark,' a raw exploration of fatherhood. The conversation shifts to his period of personal transformation, exploring the significance of grounding through nature and meaningful men's work. Finally, Adrian shares the emotional journey that led to the reunion with his now-wife, Jordan, and their life transformation into a family-oriented, farmstead community living. His story is one of deep introspection, growth, and the pursuit of a grounded, authentic existence. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Reflections on Feminism and Masculinity 📌 Stages of Manhood: From Paige to King 📌 Awakening and Self-Discovery 📌 Holotropic Breathwork and Spiritual Awakening 📌 Fatherhood and Family Life EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH ADRIAN 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriangrenier Kintsugi Ranch: https://kintsugiranch.com/ CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E6
Oct 16, 2025 · 1 hr 20 min
Stirling Cooper: The Psychology of Attraction
In this candid conversation, former high-class male companion and adult film performer Stirling Cooper discusses the intricacies of sexual dynamics, seduction, and the importance of psychological insight in sexual relationships. Sterling shares his journey from being a male escort to becoming a YouTuber and sex advisor, offering valuable advice on customer satisfaction, intimacy, and the differences between sex work and real-world relationships. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Techniques and Tips for Better Intimacy 📌 Journey into the Swinger Scene 📌 Erotic Blueprints and Dynamics 📌 Hotwifing and Psychological Healings 📌 The Role of Status in Attraction EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH STIRLING 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stirlingcooper CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E5
Oct 2, 2025 · 58 min
Nicholas Velotta: Exploring The Dynamics of Modern Masculinity
In this episode, the host speaks with Nicholas Velotta, a relationship scientist and sexologist, about the complexities of modern masculinity. They discuss the stereotypical ideas of strength and leadership associated with masculinity, the lack of evolution compared to femininity, the impact of feminist movements, and the possibility of a non-toxic men's movement. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Changing Trends in Monogamy 📌 Understanding Men's Struggles 📌 Gender Roles and Attachment Styles 📌 Misogyny vs. Misandry 📌 Egalitarian Relationships and Financial Power EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast CONNECT WITH NICHOLAS 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mind_on_love CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
S1 · E8
Sep 18, 2025 · 1 hr 16 min
Luke Cook: The Intersection of Acting and Relationships
In this episode, Coral Osborne and actor/comedian Luke Cook dive deep into the complexities of modern relationships, intimacy, and personal growth. They discuss the challenges men and women face in dating, the impacts of social media on relationships, and the societal expectations placed on each gender. Luke shares his concept of how self-expansion is on the other side of “cringe”. EPISODE THEMES📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📌 Vasectomy and Recovery 📌 Relationship Dynamics and Intimacy 📌 Introverted Men and Affection 📌 Dating Apps and Modern Dating Culture 📌 Physical Touch and Love Languages EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH LUKE 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelukecook CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
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Sep 4, 2025 · 2 hr 35 min
Rollo Tomassi: Red Pill Philosophies and The Manosphere
In this episode, Rollo Tomassi, the author of the Rational Male series, delves deep into his journey, starting from his days on pickup artist forums to becoming a key figure in the manosphere. Joined by host Coral Osborne, they explore Tomassi's concepts about relationships, attraction, and human behavior. EPISODE THEMES📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📌 Red Pill and Manosphere Explained 📌 Sexual Chemistry in Relationships 📌 The Concept of Frame in Relationships 📌 Education on Arousing Women 📌 Digital Media and Relationship Expectations EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 ⁠https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast⁠ ⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH ROLLO 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rational_male Substack: https://rationalmale.substack.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@RolloTomassi CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
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Aug 21, 2025 · 51 min
Aaron Thompson: From Preacher’s Son to Adult Star and Musician
In this episode of The Next Man Up, Coral interviews Aaron Thompson, also known as Small Hands, an adult performer, musician, producer, and DJ. They discuss the differences and synergies between love and sex, exploring how connection and authenticity play significant roles in both his professional and personal life. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Redefining Masculinity ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📌 Sex Education and Religious Upbringing 📌 Transforming Pain into Art 📌 Power Dynamics in Sexual Experiences 📌 Burnout in Hedonism EXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣 ⁠https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast⁠ ⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH AARON 📩 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesmallhands CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️ Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoral Substack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne

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