The Backdoor Podcast

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The Backdoor Podcast with Steph & Kayls is where no question is off-limits. The viral duo behind TikTok’s hit “question series” take their raw, hilarious chemistry to the mic — diving deep into relationships, social media, and the realities of being viral creators, parents, and OnlyFans personalities.
Expect unfiltered conversations, hot takes, and the kind of honesty everyone thinks but never says.
Because sometimes, the real talk happens through the backdoor.

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#87
Thursday · 26 min
The Things We Pretend Don't Hurt... But Actually Do | Ep 87
In this episode, we’re getting real about the things we pretend don’t hurt—from rejection and relationships to friendship, self-worth, and the feelings we bury deep. We’re talking about the pain we minimize, the emotions we hide, and what happens when we finally admit that something actually hurt.
#86
Monday · 27 min
Silent Turn On's For Women | Ep. 86
In this episode, we're diving into the subtle things that make women feel attracted, connected, and desired —without having anything to do with looks. From confidence and initiative to emotional safety and the little everyday actions that often go unnoticed, we're uncovering the silent turn-ons women rarely talk about but never forget.
#85
September 24 · 21 min
The Things We Do When We're Feeling Unloved | Ep. 85
When we start feeling unloved, it can change the way we act without us even realizing it. In this episode, we talk about the behaviors, reactions, and relationship habits people fall into when they feel disconnected, unwanted, or like they’re no longer getting the love and attention they need.
#84
September 17 · 32 min
Things We Judge Our Partners For But Not Ourselves | Ep. 84
We all have standards for our partners that we don’t always hold ourselves to. In this episode, we unpack the double standards, habits, and behaviors we judge in our relationships while overlooking them in ourselves.
#83
September 10 · 27 min
Are We Actually Sexually Compatible? | Ep. 83
Are you and your partner actually sexually compatible, or is compatibility something that can be built over time? We discuss attraction, intimacy, mismatched libidos, communication, and the role sex plays in long-term relationships. Plus, we break down common misconceptions and the signs couples should pay attention to when it comes to physical and emotional connection.
#82
September 3 · 25 min
Things Men Secretly Need But Rarely Admit | Ep. 82
Men are often expected to be strong, independent, and unbothered—but what do they actually need from their partners and relationships? In this episode, we unpack the things men secretly crave but rarely ask for, from reassurance and appreciation to affection, support, and feeling understood. It’s an honest conversation about the needs men may struggle to communicate and how recognizing them can create a stronger, healthier relationship.
#81
August 27 · 20 min
What Your Partner Wishes You Knew But Will Never Tell You | Ep. 81
In today’s episode, we talk about What Your Partner Wishes You Knew But Will Never Tell You — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • What Your Partner Wishes You Knew But Will Never Tell You • Rapid fire. Would you tell your partner? • Easy wa
#80
August 20 · 27 min
The Relationship Double Standards We All Have.. | Ep. 80
In today’s episode, we talk about The Relationship Double Standards We All Have — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • The Relationship Double Standards We All Have • double standard reasoning • protective vs controlling
#79
August 13 · 26 min
The Habits That Make Someone Fall Out Of Love | Ep. 79
In today’s episode, we talk about The Habits That Make Someone Fall Out Of Love — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • The Habits That Make Someone Fall Out Of Love • Growing together vs growing apart • How to repair a disconnect in a relati
#78
August 6 · 23 min
The Green Flags We Ignore.. | Ep. 78
In today’s episode, we talk about The Green Flags We Ignore.. — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • What matters more? Green flags vs. Red flags • The Green Flags We Ignore • Green flag or bare minimum
#77
July 30 · 22 min
Awkward Questions We Don't Ask Our Partners | Ep. 77
In today’s episode, we talk about Awkward Questions We Don't Ask Our Partners — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • Awkward Questions We Don't Ask Our Partners • Would you rather? • Rapid fire
#76
July 27 · 24 min
What's Something You'd Never Tell Your Partner | Ep. 76
In today’s episode, we talk about What's Something You'd Never Tell Your Partner — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE • What's Something You'd Never Tell Your Partner • What the DM's said • Rapid fire yes or no
#75
July 23 · 29 min
The Biggest Myths From Social Media | Ep. 75
In today’s episode, we talk about The Biggest Myths From Social Media — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE - What are social media myths - Hustle culture - Perfect relationships on social media
#74
July 20 · 24 min
The Lies Social Media Tells Us About Relationships | Ep. 74
In today’s episode, we talk about The Lies Social Media Tells Us About Relationships — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online. We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors.
#73
July 16 · 23 min
The Relationship Dealbreakers That Aren't Obvious | Ep. 73
In this episode were breaking down deal breakers in relationships that aren't typically talked about.. We dive into our own deal breakers and things we have heard from people all around the world through our social media pages.
#72
July 13 · 30 min
The Things We Never Thought We'd Argue About... | Ep. 72
In today’s episode, we talk about The Things We Never Thought We'd Argue About... — from real relationship conversations and first-time parenting, to OnlyFans, social media life, and what it’s actually like being viral creators online.
July 9 · 17 min
The Truth About Modern Dating | Ep. 71
Modern dating has changed, bringing more options, more mixed signals, and more challenges than ever before. In this episode, we unpack how dating apps, social media, and shifting expectations have reshaped relationships—and what it really takes to build a genuine connection today.
July 6 · 21 min
The Most Attractive Thing Someone Can Do That Has Nothing To Do With Looks | Ep. 70
What makes someone truly attractive has very little to do with their appearance. This episode explores the qualities, habits, and behaviors that build lasting attraction and why they're often more powerful than looks alone.
#69
July 2 · 24 min
Our Followers Told Us The Icks Men And Women Have | Ep. 69
Our followers shared the biggest "icks" that instantly change how they see someone, and we're reacting to the funniest, most relatable, and most controversial ones. From harmless habits to major turn-offs, we debate which icks are valid, which are ridiculous, and what they reveal about modern dating and attraction.
#68
June 29 · 19 min
Things We Pretend Don't Affect Us... But Do | Ep. 68
In this episode, we talk about the things we swear don't bother us—rejection, criticism, comparison, lack of attention, feeling left out—but secretly carry with us longer than we'd like to admit. We explore how these hidden emotions affect our relationships, confidence, and everyday interactions more than we realize.

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