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SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

Transformational Teacher and National Best-Selling Author

SoulTalk is a thought-provoking podcast about what really matters in life. It is a deep exploration into life's biggest questions: who we are, why we are here, and where we are going? Kute Blackson will get personal, sharing practical wisdom on how to live your most authentic life, as well as deep dialogues on purpose, health, love, money, sex, spirituality and success with special guests like Barbara De Angelis, Dr. Shefali, Mike Dooley, Geneen Roth and more.

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Today · 50 min
480: Dr. Bradley Nelson On How To Release Your Trapped Emotions For Abundant Health, Love And Happiness
"Our greatest privilege in this world is to be able to communicate with the higher power." What if some of what you've been carrying emotionally never truly left you? We often think that because an experience is over, we've moved on. But what happens to the grief, anger, fear, heartbreak, or pain we never fully processed? In this fascinating episode of SoulTalk, I sit down with Dr. Bradley Nelson, creator of The Emotion Code, to explore what he calls "emotional baggage": Emotional energy from past experiences that he believes can remain trapped within us and continue influencing how we feel, react, and experience life. Bradley shares the experiences that led him into healing work, why he learned to look beyond symptoms and search for what might be underneath them, and how prayer became an unexpected part of his journey. But this conversation goes deeper than releasing emotions. We talk about listening to the subtle ways God may guide us, what it means to surrender rather than control, and why unconditional love may be one of the greatest lessons we are here to learn. If you've ever felt that you've "moved on" from something yet a part of you is still carrying it, this conversation may invite you to ask a different question: What are you ready to finally let go of? TIMESTAMPS (00:01:41) — Dr. Bradley Nelson's Journey Into Healing (00:06:28) — What Is Your Body Trying to Tell You? (00:09:27) — The Emotional Baggage We Carry (00:11:48) — When Emotions Become Trapped (00:19:23) — The Connection Between Emotions and the Body (00:25:15) — Prayer, Healing, and Divine Guidance (00:29:06) — How to Recognize Guidance From God (00:32:19) — Can Everyone Heal? (00:41:27) — How to Begin Releasing Trapped Emotions (00:43:21) — The Life Lessons That Matter Most SOME QUESTIONS I ASK What first led you into the world of healing? Could our symptoms be trying to communicate something deeper? How can past emotions continue affecting us years later? Are certain emotions connected to specific areas of the body? How do you recognize guidance from God when it comes? Can everyone heal, or are some experiences part of our life path? How can someone begin releasing emotional baggage on their own? What are the most important lessons you would pass on to the next generation? IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN Why unresolved emotions may stay with us longer than we realize. What Dr. Nelson means by a "trapped emotion." Why he believes symptoms can sometimes point to deeper imbalances. How emotional baggage may influence the way we respond to life. Why divine guidance is often quieter than we expect. How to become more aware of God's presence in everyday life. Why surrender can be more powerful than trying to control everything. How unconditional love can change the way we experience life. GET IN TOUCH: Dr. Bradley Nelson Release the emotional baggage that stands between you and the health, love, and abundance you're meant for. https://drbradleynelson.com/ Create a life that is a masterpiece Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
September 30 · 23 min
479: The Hidden Cost of Seeking Validation And How To Finally Know You Are Enough
"If praise defines you, then criticism will destroy you." Who are you still trying to prove yourself to? Maybe you've achieved, worked hard, helped others, and done everything you thought would make you worthy. Yet beneath it all, there may still be a quiet voice asking: Am I enough now? In this deeply personal episode of SoulTalk, I unpack one of the most subtle addictions we carry: the need for approval. Often, it begins early, when we learn which versions of ourselves receive love, attention, and belonging. So we adapt. We perform. And eventually, we can become so focused on being accepted that we lose touch with who we truly are. But approval comes at a cost. Every time you silence your truth, betray a boundary, or choose what others expect over what feels true, you abandon a part of yourself. This episode is an invitation to stop outsourcing your worth and start choosing yourself. Because real freedom begins when you no longer need the world's permission to know: You are already enough. You have nothing left to prove. TIMESTAMPS (00:00:54) — Who Are You Trying to Prove Yourself To? (00:04:35) — The Hidden Addiction to Approval (00:07:06) — How Approval Seeking Begins (00:09:46) — The Identity You Learned to Perform (00:12:56) — Breaking Free From Praise and Criticism (00:14:20) — Choosing Your Truth Over Their Expectations (00:17:08) — The Power of Radical Self-Acceptance (00:20:00) — Nothing Left to Prove SOME QUESTIONS I ASK Who are you still trying to prove yourself to? Who did you learn to become in order to be loved? Where are you choosing approval over your truth? Would you still want it if nobody knew? What is your need to be liked costing you? Who could you become if you stopped performing? IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN Why approval seeking can become a hidden addiction. How childhood belonging shapes who you become. When adapting for love turns into abandoning yourself. Why praise and criticism can both keep you trapped. How the "invisible audience" quietly runs your life. The real price you pay for being accepted. Why self-acceptance restores your inner freedom. What changes when you have nothing left to prove. GET IN TOUCH: Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
September 26 · 53 min
478: Alisha Das on How to Connect With Your Angels & Hear Divine Guidance
"The purpose of life is to learn about loving so that you choose love against all odds." What if you have never been as alone as you thought you were? In this deeply moving episode of SoulTalk, I sit down with spiritual teacher and angelic channeler Alisha Das to explore our connection to the unseen and what she calls our angelic ancestry. But this conversation goes far beyond angels. It's about remembering who you are beneath the fear, the noise, and the struggles of being human. Alisha shares how we can open ourselves to divine guidance while staying grounded in discernment, and why surrender may be one of the most powerful ways to reconnect with something greater than ourselves. If you've been moving through uncertainty, questioning your path, or simply longing to feel supported, this episode is a beautiful reminder: you don't have to have all the answers. You may be more guided, loved, and supported than you realize. TIMESTAMPS (00:02:18) - How Alisha began communicating with angels (00:05:50) - "How do you know you're not making this up?" (00:08:58) - What are angels, and does everyone have one? (00:14:03) - Were we angels before we became human? (00:17:41) - How to connect with your guardian angel. (00:29:16) - A powerful message from the angelic realm (00:33:47) - The simplest way to ask for divine help (00:41:45) - Why are we here? The deeper purpose of human life SOME QUESTIONS I ASK How did you first discover that you could communicate with angels? How do you know that spiritual guidance is real and not simply your mind creating it? What are angels, and does every person have a guardian angel? If someone has never felt an angelic presence before, how can they begin connecting? How can we discern genuine spiritual guidance from something that may not be for our highest good? According to the angels, why are we here, and what is the deeper purpose of human life? IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN How to recognize when divine guidance is speaking to you. Why you may be more connected to the angelic realm than you realize. A simple way to connect with your guardian angel. How to tell intuition from the noise of your mind. Why surrender can open the door to unexpected guidance. What angels reveal about our purpose here on Earth. Why being human may be more sacred than we remember. How to feel supported even when you can't see the way forward. GET IN TOUCH: Alisha Das " You Came From Somewhere Extraordinary! It's Time To Remember". Click here to know how: https://alishadas.com Create a life that is a masterpiece Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
September 23 · 1 hr 3 min
477: Dr. Cheryl Fraser on The Truth About Sex, Desire & Long-Term Love
"Scheduling sex doesn't sound very sexy, but you know what's less sexy? Never having sex." What if losing the spark doesn't mean you've lost the love? In this powerful conversation, Kute sits down with clinical psychologist and relationship expert Dr. Cheryl Fraser to challenge some of our deepest beliefs about sex, desire, and long-term love. We're taught that passion should happen naturally, that if we're with the right person, desire will always be there. But what happens when the person you love becomes your best friend, your partner, your co-parent… and somewhere along the way, you stop being lovers? Dr. Cheryl reveals why fading desire doesn't necessarily mean something is wrong with you or your relationship. She explores the shame and conditioning that shape our sexuality, why waiting to "feel in the mood" can quietly kill intimacy, and what it actually takes to bring passion back after years of disconnection. This isn't simply a conversation about having more sex. It's about reclaiming a part of yourself you may have forgotten. Because passion isn't something you either have or lose. It's something you learn how to create. TIMESTAMPS (00:03:16) - The sexual messages we inherit without realizing it (00:06:00) - The biggest myths about sex and desire (00:15:15) - Why female sexuality has been suppressed (00:25:29) - How important is sex in a relationship? (00:33:48) - Why desire disappears in long-term love (00:40:46) - Rebuilding intimacy after years without sex (00:43:23) - How to reignite the spark when you feel like roommates (00:49:13) - Fantasy, novelty, and bringing passion back SOME QUESTIONS I ASK What are the biggest myths we still believe about sex and desire? Why has female sexuality historically carried so much shame? How important is sex in a healthy long-term relationship? Why does spontaneous desire disappear and what do we do when it does? Can couples truly reignite passion after years of feeling like roommates? What does great sex actually have to do with the mind, presence, and spirituality? IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN Why losing desire doesn't necessarily mean you've lost love The hidden conditioning shaping your sexuality Why waiting to "feel in the mood" may be killing your sex life How to move from roommates back to lovers Why great intimacy requires intention, not just chemistry How fantasy and novelty can awaken desire Why your sexual self deserves to evolve as you do How sex can become a doorway to connection, vulnerability, and aliveness GET IN TOUCH: Dr. Cheryl Fraser Create a passionate love relationship. I'll show you how. Click on the link: https://drcherylfraser.com Create a life that is a masterpiece Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
September 18 · 18 min
476: What Is Your Soul Asking You To Do?
What if deep down, you already know what you need to do? The real challenge isn't always knowing. It's having the courage to trust what you know and follow it. When I was 14, my father ordained me as a minister and announced that I would eventually take over his spiritual organization. My future was set, yet deep inside, I knew it wasn't my path. At 18, my soul gave me a clear directive: Go to America. No guarantees. No elaborate plan. Just a knowing. Following that knowing changed the trajectory of my life. In this special episode of SoulTalk, I share why your soul will often ask you to leave the familiar before showing you what comes next, how fear and conditioning keep us negotiating with what we already know, and why sometimes transformation requires stepping outside your normal life to reconnect with who you really are. I also share a very personal invitation. After 15 years and 25 journeys, December 5–16 will be the final Boundless Bliss Bali journey I lead. Boundless Bliss is a 12-day transformational immersion designed to help you identify the hidden blocks keeping you stuck, heal old wounds, release what you've been carrying, reclaim your power and self-trust, and gain clarity about who you are and what you are truly here to do. If you know there is another level of your life waiting for you, this episode is for you. Your soul may not give you the entire map. Sometimes it simply gives you the next step. Are you willing to listen? Learn more, watch the special video, and apply for an interview at www.boundlessblissbali.com. In this episode, you'll learn: · Why following your soul requires courage · How fear and conditioning keep you stuck · Why transformation sometimes requires interruption · How to stop negotiating with what you already know · What makes Boundless Bliss Bali a unique transformational experience Get in Touch: Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
September 16 · 31 min
475: How To Navigate The Dark Night Of The Soul: What To Do when Your Old Life Falls Apart?
"A dark night of the soul is not the end of your life. It's the end of your life as you know it." What happens when the life you worked so hard to create no longer feels like your life? There are seasons when the old answers stop working. What once gave you meaning feels empty. The person you used to be no longer fits, yet you have no idea who you're becoming. You're caught between what was and what's next; and that space can feel terrifying. In this episode of SoulTalk, Kute Blackson explores the dark night of the soul not as something to fix or escape, but as a profound invitation to let go. He shares why some seasons of loss, confusion, and uncertainty are not asking you to rebuild your old life, but to surrender the identity that created it. And why the void you're so desperate to escape may be the very space where something deeper and more authentic is being born. Perhaps the question isn't, "When will my old life come back?" Perhaps it's, "Who is life asking me to become now?" TIMESTAMPS (00:05:12) — Are you losing your life or your old identity? (00:06:12) — What is the dark night of the soul, really? (00:10:45) — The first crack: when your old life stops feeling right. (00:12:59) — The collapse: when old strategies stop working. (00:15:37) — The void: who are you when you no longer know? (00:19:16) — Surrender: stop fighting what is. (00:20:53) — The return: meeting life as someone new. (00:24:47) — How to move through the dark night without losing yourself. SOME QUESTIONS KUTE ASKS What if you're not losing your life, but an identity you've outgrown? Who are you without the things that used to define you? Can you sit in the unknown without rushing for an answer? What is this phase asking you to learn? What is life revealing to you through this loss? Who is life asking you to become now? IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN How to recognize a true dark night of the soul. Why what once fulfilled you may suddenly feel empty. What happens when your old identity stops working. Why the void may be creating space for something new. How surrender changes your relationship with uncertainty. Why alignment can dismantle the life you've outgrown. How to move through transformation without numbing yourself. Get in Touch: Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
September 9 · 1 hr 3 min
474: Howard Martin on The Hidden Intelligence of Your Heart: How to Stop Overthinking and Trust Your Inner Guidance
"Your heart is your own best friend and your most reliable guide of how you live life." In this powerful episode of SoulTalk, Kute Blackson sits down with Howard Martin, one of the original leaders behind HeartMath, to explore the extraordinary intelligence of the heart and how learning to access it can transform the way you navigate your life. Howard reveals why the heart is far more than an emotional center. It can become a powerful source of intuition, clarity, resilience, and inner guidance. Together, they explore how to distinguish intuition from ego, move from stress into heart coherence, and stop allowing fear, overthinking, and even "over-caring" to disconnect you from yourself. Howard also shares a simple practice for shifting your internal state and reconnecting with the deeper wisdom already within you. If you've been searching for answers, questioning your next step, or struggling to trust yourself, this conversation may change where you look for guidance. Maybe you don't need to think harder. Maybe you need to listen deeper. Timestamps (00:02:25) — Howard Martin's Journey to the Heart. (00:09:06) — What Does It Mean to Follow Your Heart? (00:14:59) — When Following Your Heart Feels Wrong. (00:19:55) — Is It Intuition—or Your Ego? (00:22:23) — Ambition vs. Heart. (00:26:09) — The Science of Heart Coherence. (00:36:55) — How to Shift Into Coherence. (00:45:03) — What Changes When You Live From the Heart. (00:53:31) — When Caring Becomes Too Much. (00:59:03) — 3 Powerful Lessons for Life. Some Questions I Ask: What does it actually mean to live and make decisions from the heart? How can we distinguish true intuition from fear, ego, desire, and ambition? Can you be deeply ambitious and successful while still living a heart-centered life? What is coherence, and how can we access it when life feels stressful or chaotic? Can changing our emotional state influence the way we experience and interact with the world around us? When does caring for someone cross the line into "over-care," worry, and emotional exhaustion? In This Episode You'll Learn: Why your heart may know what your mind can't figure out. How to tell intuition from ego, fear, and desire. The science behind heart coherence and inner clarity. A simple 3-step practice to shift out of stress. How appreciation and gratitude can change your internal state. Why over-caring can quietly become worry and exhaustion. How to stay centered without absorbing the chaos around you. What it really means to trust and follow your heart. GET IN TOUCH: Howard Martin https://heartmathsymposium.com/howard-martin/ Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
September 5 · 53 min
473: Mingtong Gu on How to Come Home to Your Body and Feel Alive Again
"Unless we learn how to slow down, we're going to lose ourselves; lose humanity." What if the healing you've been searching for isn't somewhere outside of you, but inside the body you've learned to disconnect from? In this deeply grounding episode of SoulTalk, Kute Blackson sits down with internationally recognized Qigong Master Mingtong Gu, founder of The Chi Center and author of Coming Home to Embodied Awakening, to explore what he believes is one of humanity's greatest crises: our growing disconnection from our own bodies. After a difficult childhood, years of searching, and living with health conditions he had been told were incurable, Mingtong discovered Qigong, and something even more profound than physical healing. He discovered home within himself. Together, Kute and Mingtong explore why living almost entirely in the mind keeps us trapped in anxiety, reactivity, and endless seeking; why technology is intensifying that disconnection; and how returning to the body can reconnect us with our energy, emotions, humanity, and deepest spiritual nature. Mingtong also challenges the way we think about healing. Instead of asking only, "How do I get rid of this pain?" he invites us to ask something deeper: Can I recover myself? This conversation is an invitation to stop running from what you feel, slow down enough to hear your body again, and discover the intelligence, energy, and aliveness that have been waiting inside you all along. Because perhaps awakening isn't about transcending the human experience. Perhaps it's about finally inhabiting it. TIMESTAMPS (00:02:12) — How Mingtong's search for healing led him to Qigong and self-discovery. (00:08:35) — The realization that changed everything: your body can become your home. (00:09:58) — Why disconnecting from your body may be disconnecting you from yourself. (00:18:15) — A powerful embodied practice to reconnect with your physical and spiritual presence. (00:22:05) — What to do when you hate, judge, or feel betrayed by your own body. (00:28:50) — Stop asking only how to heal the disease. Ask how to recover yourself. (00:36:58) — How to move through fear, anger, and emotional pain without getting lost in the story. (00:42:57) — Why slowing down may be one of the most important acts of resistance in the age of AI. SOME QUESTIONS I ASK How do we begin coming home to our bodies? What if I hate or feel betrayed by my body? Can anything truly be healed? How do we release difficult emotions? Why is practice more powerful than a quick fix? How do we stay human in the age of AI? IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN Why you may feel disconnected even when your life looks fine. How to stop living entirely inside your head. Why your body may be the doorway to deeper healing. How to meet pain and emotion with radical acceptance. Why slowing down can help you reclaim your power and presence. How to come home to the energy and wisdom already inside you. GET IN TOUCH: Mingtong Gu GET IN TOUCH: To learn more about Master Mingtong Gu visit, https://mingtonggu.com For a free chapter of Master Mingtong Gu's book, "Coming Home to Embodied Awakening," click here: https://chicenter.pages.ontraport.net/t?orid=280601&opid=2 Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
September 2 · 28 min
472: What If Life Is a School? The Perspective That Can Change How You See Everything
"The goal is not what you get. The goal is who you became while you were here." What if the hardest parts of your life aren't happening to you, but are trying to teach you something? In this powerful episode of SoulTalk, Kute Blackson offers a perspective that can completely change how you see heartbreak, rejection, family wounds, recurring relationship patterns, failure, and the challenges that simply don't make sense. What if life is a school and every season has a curriculum? Kute explores why the same lessons can keep showing up in different people, relationships, jobs, and circumstances until something within you changes. He reveals how shifting from "Why is this happening to me?" to "What is this trying to teach me?" can move you from powerlessness into responsibility, awareness, and freedom. If you've been stuck in a repeating pattern, questioning why life feels so difficult, or wondering what your current season is asking of you, this episode may help you see your entire journey differently. Because maybe the goal of life isn't simply getting what you want. Maybe it's becoming who you were meant to be. TIMESTAMPS (00:04:09) — What if life is actually a school? (00:06:37) — Why challenges may be part of your soul's curriculum. (00:07:44) — Stop asking, "Why is this happening to me?" (00:10:43) — Why harder seasons don't always mean you're failing. (00:13:41) — What are the major lessons of your life? (00:15:29) — The problem may not be the real problem. (00:16:38) — Why life keeps repeating the same lesson. (00:20:57) — The five core subjects of the human experience. SOME QUESTIONS KUTE ASKS What is this experience trying to teach you? Where have you lived this lesson before? What pattern keeps repeating in your life? Who is this situation asking you to become? What would it look like to finally graduate from this lesson? Are you trying to change the situation or learn what it came to teach you? IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN Why the same life lessons may keep showing up in different forms. How to stop seeing every challenge as punishment. What your recurring patterns may be revealing about you. Why your biggest "problem" may actually be your greatest lesson. How responsibility can help you reclaim your power. The five core lessons Kute believes we are here to master. Why changing the person, job, or city doesn't always change the pattern. How to recognize what your current season is asking you to become. Get in Touch: Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
August 26 · 53 min
471: Arielle Ford on Stop Forcing Your Life: The Power of Surrender
"Surrender is releasing your plan to discover what life has planned." What if the life you're trying so hard to manifest is actually smaller than the life waiting for you? In this powerful and refreshingly honest conversation, bestselling author and transformational teacher Arielle Ford challenges one of the biggest ideas in modern self-help: that if you think positively enough, visualize clearly enough, and raise your vibration, you can manifest anything you want. After years of teaching the Law of Attraction herself, Arielle came to a radically different realization: some of the greatest things that ever happened to her weren't things she manifested at all. They arrived when she stopped forcing, surrendered control, listened to her intuition, and allowed life to reveal the next step. We explore the difference between desire and destiny, intention and control, action and surrender and why not getting what you want may sometimes be life redirecting you toward something far greater. Arielle also opens up about choosing happiness, healing core wounds, trusting life through uncertainty, and learning to recognize the quiet inner nudges that can change everything. If you've been exhausting yourself trying to make your life happen, this conversation may invite you to ask a completely different question: What if you stopped forcing and started listening? TIMESTAMPS (00:02:49) — Why Arielle stopped believing in manifestation the way she once did. (00:05:29) — The realization that changed everything: surrender instead of control. (00:09:03) — Can you have goals and still surrender? (00:18:15) — How do you trust life after life has hurt you? (00:24:37) — The dangerous side of "you create your reality." (00:25:57) — Is your intuition actually your destiny speaking? (00:32:13) — Healing your past without living in it. (00:36:52) — When surrender creates something you never could have planned. SOME QUESTIONS I ASK Are we manifesting our destiny or blocking it? How do you surrender without becoming passive? What if life hasn't given you a reason to trust it? Can we really manifest anything we want? How do you know when your intuition is speaking? What would you tell your 20-year-old self about life, success, and surrender? IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN Why forcing your future can block your destiny How to know when intuition is guiding you Why surrender is power, not passivity How to trust life when you can't see what's next Why not getting what you want may protect you How to chase big dreams without gripping the outcome GET IN TOUCH: Arielle Ford https://www.arielleford.com Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
August 18 · 26 min
470: You're Not Behind in Life: How to Trust Your Timing and Stop Comparing Your Journey
"Sometimes what you might call a delay is actually the universe preparing you." Do you ever look at your life and quietly wonder, "Shouldn't I be further along by now?" Maybe you thought you'd have the relationship, the money, the success, the healing, or the clarity by now. And the more you compare your life to everyone else's, the more it feels like you're falling behind. In this powerful episode of SoulTalk, Kute Blackson reveals why that feeling may be one of the biggest lies keeping you stuck. He breaks down the hidden timelines we unconsciously live by, the danger of measuring our lives against someone else's journey, and why some of your greatest growth may be happening where no one can see it. You'll discover the difference between trusting divine timing and avoiding your life, why certain delays may actually be preparing you, and how to stop forcing what isn't ready without becoming passive. If you've been questioning your path, fearing you've missed your chance, or wondering when your life will finally begin, this episode will change the way you see where you are right now. Maybe you're not behind. Maybe you're being prepared. TIMESTAMPS (00:02:54) — Why do you feel behind in life? (00:05:20) — Who created the timeline you're living by? (00:07:16) — When comparison becomes destructive. (00:10:34) — What's really making you feel behind? (00:12:03) — The growth no one else can see. (00:15:34) — What is this season asking of you? (00:17:39) — Divine timing or avoidance? (00:19:13) — Can you trust life without controlling the outcome? SOME QUESTIONS KUTE ASKS Whose timeline are you living by? Are you growing in ways you haven't learned to value? What is this season of your life asking you to learn? Are you trusting life or simply avoiding action? Can you trust life even if it doesn't go according to plan? IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN Why you may feel behind, even when you're not. How comparison disconnects you from your own path. Why you may need to grieve the life you imagined. The invisible growth you might be overlooking. When "divine timing" becomes an excuse for inaction. How to release deadlines without giving up on your dreams Get in Touch: Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
August 15 · 56 min
469: Elisabeth Carson on You Can't Create a New Life With an Unhealed Nervous System. (Here's Where to Start)
"When you jump over the fear fence, you find the power on the other side." What if the life you keep trying to create isn't being blocked by a lack of effort, but by patterns your body is still holding onto? In this powerful episode of SoulTalk, Kute sits down with global speaker and entrepreneur Elisabeth Carson, founder of Enhanced Flow, for a raw conversation about trauma, nervous system regulation, forgiveness, manifestation, and what it really takes to rebuild your life from the inside out. Elisabeth's wisdom isn't just theoretical. Her own journey took her through addiction, jail, heartbreak, burnout, and ultimately losing nearly everything; before consciously rebuilding her life and becoming a bestselling author and international speaker. Elisabeth reveals why simply thinking positively may not be enough when your nervous system is still living in survival mode, how your triggers can expose the wounds still running your life, and why healing requires more than changing your thoughts. You have to work with what's happening in the body. She also shares her approach to forgiveness, breaking free from victim mentality, and embodying the person you want to become before your external reality changes. If you've been doing the work but still feel stuck, repeating the same relationships, emotions, or limitations, this conversation may challenge the way you've been approaching healing altogether. Her message is simple but powerful: stop running from what hurts, reclaim responsibility for your life, and move toward what makes you come alive; even when it scares you. TIMESTAMPS (00:01:34) — How Elisabeth's darkest experiences led her to healing and spirituality. (00:04:24) — Why unresolved trauma may be keeping you stuck in the same patterns. (00:12:20) — The missing first step when healing just doesn't seem to work. (00:23:36) — How Elisabeth stopped being a victim of her past and reclaimed her life. (00:30:00) — How to feel painful emotions without letting them take over. (00:33:29) — The forgiveness practice that helped Elisabeth finally release the past. (00:38:39) — How to find your purpose when you have no idea what you're meant to do. (00:45:06) — From losing everything to creating a completely new reality SOME QUESTIONS I ASK Why do we keep repeating the same painful patterns? Can you truly manifest from a dysregulated nervous system? How do you heal trauma without staying trapped in the past? How do you forgive someone who never apologized? How do you know what your true purpose is? What does it really take to create a completely new life? IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN Why your nervous system may be keeping you stuck How your triggers reveal what still needs healing Why positive thinking alone may not change your life How to feel your emotions without becoming consumed by them A powerful approach to forgiveness and letting go How to embody your future self before life changes GET IN TOUCH: Elisabeth Carson https://www.elisabethunlimited.com Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
August 12 · 55 min
468: Phil Cousineau on How to Navigate The Dark Night of The Soul and Find Your Way Home
"The real journey begins when the life you knew no longer has the answers." What if feeling lost, confused, or broken isn't a sign that your life is falling apart, but the beginning of your real journey? In this profound episode of SoulTalk, Kute Blackson sits down with bestselling author and pilgrimage expert Phil Cousineau to explore the timeless wisdom hidden inside Homer's Odyssey and why this ancient story speaks so powerfully to the struggles we face today. Phil reveals that the journey home is not simply about finding your way back to a place. It is about finding your way back to yourself. Drawing from The Odyssey, Joseph Campbell's Hero's Journey, mythology, pilgrimage, and his new book The Wisdom of the Odyssey, Phil explores what happens when the identity that once carried us through life no longer works. He explains why the "dark night of the soul" can be a necessary passage toward transformation, why we sometimes need to surrender the illusion that we can do everything alone, and how reconnecting with the deepest parts of ourselves can reveal the strength we thought we had lost. This is a conversation about suffering, courage, humility, healing, purpose, and love and ultimately about one of life's most important questions: Have you lost your way, or are you finally being called home? Timestamps (00:02:16) — How Phil's journey with Joseph Campbell shaped his understanding of The Odyssey. (00:04:18) — Why feeling lost may be the beginning of your real journey. (00:07:22) — Why you were never meant to figure everything out alone. (00:12:14) — The Dark Night of the Soul and why you can't skip the darkness. (00:16:22) — How to hear the inner voice that can guide you home. (00:21:03) — The three stages that turn darkness into transformation. (00:35:39) — Why telling your story may be the healing you need. (00:47:04) — How to stop losing yourself and finally find your way home. Some Questions I Ask: What do you do when you feel completely lost in life? How do you trust the journey when everything is falling apart? Is suffering necessary for real transformation? How do you navigate the Dark Night of the Soul? Why does doing the right thing sometimes feel like losing? How do you find your way back to your true self? In This Episode You'll Learn: Why feeling lost may be where your real journey begins. How to navigate the Dark Night of the Soul. Why suffering can become a doorway to transformation. How to hear your inner voice when life gets noisy. Why telling your story can set something inside you free. How to find your way home to your true self Get in Touch: Phil Cousineau https://www.philcousineau.net Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
August 7 · 27 min
A Special Invitation to Transform Your Life: Why This Is the Last Boundless Bliss Bali
"Your next level will often require you to release the version of yourself that created your current life." There are moments in life when you know that the life you are living is too small for what your soul is seeking to become. Something inside you begins to stir. You feel the call for more truth, more freedom, more purpose, more of the life you know you're capable of living. And at some point, the question is no longer, "Am I ready?" The question becomes, "Am I willing to walk through the door?" In this special episode of SoulTalk, Kute Blackson shares why, after more than 15 years and 25 transformational journeys, he has decided the upcoming Boundless Bliss Bali December, will be the final one he personally facilitates. He reflects on what these 12-day journeys have meant, why true transformation requires more than information, and why the next level of your life often asks you to let go of the version of yourself that got you here. If you know you were put here for something bigger, if you can feel that an old chapter is complete, or if there is a part of you that has been waiting for the right moment to say yes to yourself, this episode is an invitation to listen deeply. Because there are moments when one decision changes everything. And if Bali has been calling you, this may be that moment. Some Questions I Ask • What part of your life do you already know has reached completion? • What would become possible if you stopped waiting to feel ready? • What version of yourself must you be willing to release for your next chapter to begin? • If you knew one courageous decision could change the trajectory of your life, what would you choose? • What is life asking of you right now that you can no longer ignore? In This Episode, You'll Learn • Why true transformation often begins with a decision before you feel completely ready • What 25 Boundless Bliss Bali journeys have taught Kute about human transformation • Why your next chapter may require releasing the identity, patterns, and limitations of your past • The difference between learning about transformation and actually living through it • Why this final Bali represents the closing of a profound 15-year chapter • How to recognize when life is asking you to stop waiting and walk through the door Create a life that is a masterpiece! Join me on a life-changing journey from Dec. 5th to 16th : www.boundlessblissbali.com What if today was your last day? : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y6BzFzBqFBU
August 5 · 33 min
467: Why You're Blocking Money (And How to Finally Receive More)
"You don't have a money problem. You have a relationship with money problem." What if your biggest financial struggle has nothing to do with money? In this eye-opening episode of Soul Talk, Kute Blackson explores the invisible beliefs that quietly shape your relationship with wealth, success, and abundance. Rather than offering budgeting tips or investment strategies, he invites you into a deeper conversation. one that uncovers the subconscious stories, emotional wounds, and spiritual conditioning that may be keeping you stuck in scarcity. Drawing from his own personal journey, Kute reveals how childhood experiences can silently influence our ability to receive, hold, and create wealth. He explains why money itself is never the problem, why affirmations alone often fail, and how true abundance begins by transforming your relationship with value, service, and self-worth. If you've ever wondered why you keep hitting the same financial ceiling despite doing "all the right things," this episode may completely change the way you think about money and yourself. This isn't just an episode about making more money. It's about becoming the person who is finally available to receive it. Timestamps (00:04:00) – Why your money story may be controlling your life. (00:06:14) – The hidden relationship between money, identity, and self-worth. (00:17:21) – Why manifestation alone isn't enough to create abundance. (00:19:03) – The biggest money blocks spiritual people unknowingly carry. (00:24:04) – The one principle that changes how wealth is actually created. (00:26:48) – The essential skills every financially free person develops. (00:28:58) – Why serving more people is the fastest path to greater abundance. Some Questions I Ask What emotions arise when you think about money? What story have you inherited about wealth? Are you unconsciously rejecting abundance? What problem are you truly solving for others? How can you create more value every day? Who must you become to receive more? In This Episode You'll Learn Why your subconscious, not your income, is shaping your financial reality. The hidden childhood beliefs silently blocking abundance. Why affirmations fail when your identity hasn't changed. The surprising reason spiritual people often struggle financially. How creating value naturally attracts wealth and opportunity. The inner shift that makes you available for lasting abundance. Get in Touch: Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
July 29 · 49 min
466: Mark Wolynn on The Hidden Family Wounds That Shape Your Life And How to Finally Set Yourself Free
"The pain you're carrying may not belong to you, but your healing can change generations." Have you ever wondered why certain fears, relationship patterns, or emotional struggles seem to follow you no matter how much inner work you've done? In this profoundly eye-opening conversation, Kute Blackson sits down with bestselling author and inherited family trauma expert Mark Wolynn, whose groundbreaking work has transformed the way thousands of people understand healing. What if the anxiety you've carried your entire life didn't actually begin with you? What if your deepest fears, recurring patterns, or even physical symptoms are echoes of unresolved experiences passed down through generations? Together, Kute and Mark explore the fascinating intersection of neuroscience, epigenetics, attachment theory, and spirituality to reveal how family trauma can silently shape our lives, and, more importantly, how we can stop passing it on. Mark shares the deeply personal story that led him to this work, explains how hidden family secrets continue influencing future generations, and offers practical tools to identify inherited patterns, reconnect with your authentic self, and begin healing at the root. This isn't simply a conversation about understanding your past. It's about reclaiming your future. Because when you heal yourself, you don't just change your life, you transform the lives of generations that follow. Timestamps (00:01:09) — Why inherited family trauma may be shaping your life without you realizing it. (00:02:31) — Mark's remarkable healing journey and how resolving ancestral trauma restored his eyesight. (00:05:57) — What inherited trauma actually is, and the science explaining how it's passed across generations. (00:10:43) — How to recognize whether your fears, anxiety, or emotional patterns truly belong to you. (00:19:49) — Family secrets, hidden histories, and why what remains unspoken continues to affect future generations. (00:30:30) — Practical tools for uncovering ancestral patterns and beginning the healing process. (00:36:04) — Can you really break generational cycles? The practices that help rewire your nervous system. (00:44:17) — Why healing yourself may be the greatest gift you'll ever give your children and generations yet to come. Some Questions I Ask: What exactly is inherited family trauma, and how does it affect our lives? Can emotional pain really be passed down through generations? How do we know whether a struggle belongs to us or to our family history? What role do hidden family secrets play in shaping our relationships and identity? Can we truly break generational cycles of trauma and suffering? What is the greatest legacy we can leave the next generation? In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why your deepest struggles may not have started with you. How inherited trauma silently shapes your life and relationships. The hidden family patterns that keep repeating and how to break them. How to reconnect with your true self beyond your family's pain. Simple practices to heal your nervous system from the inside out. How your healing can transform generations to come. Get in Touch: Mark Wolynn https://markwolynn.com Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
July 22 · 23 min
465: How to Trust Yourself and Make Powerful Decisions
"Every extraordinary life begins with one ordinary act of self-trust." How many times have you told yourself, "I just need more time..." or "I'm still trying to figure it out"? But what if you're not actually confused? What if the life-changing answer you've been searching for has been quietly living inside you all along and fear has simply convinced you not to trust it? In this powerful episode, Kute Blackson challenges one of the biggest lies we tell ourselves: we don't know what to do. He reveals why confusion is often nothing more than fear disguised as uncertainty. You'll discover the hidden difference between confusion and inner conflict, why your intuition rarely shouts, how fear keeps you endlessly searching for more signs, and why every day you ignore your deepest knowing comes at a cost. Kute also shares his powerful Four G Framework for making aligned decisions; one that has guided some of the biggest turning points of his own life, from moving across the world to creating Boundless Bliss Bali. If you've been waiting for certainty before taking the next step... this conversation may be the sign you've been asking for. The truth is, your soul already knows. The only question is... Will you trust it? Timestamps (00:05:37) – Why you're probably not confused, you already know the answer (00:08:48) – The four hidden layers that keep you stuck in indecision (00:11:22) – Stop asking, "What should I do?" Ask yourself this instead (00:13:01) – The hidden cost of betraying your own truth (00:14:00) – Why waiting for certainty is keeping you from your destiny (00:16:01) – The first courageous step that changes everything (00:17:00) – Kut's Four G Framework for making soul-aligned decisions: Gut, God, Growth & Grief (00:20:32) – Living with no regrets: the perspective that will transform every decision you make In This Episode, You'll Learn Why confusion is often fear wearing a convincing disguise. The simple shift that will instantly change how you make decisions. How to recognize the quiet voice of your intuition even when fear is screaming louder. The hidden emotional cost of ignoring what you already know to be true. Kute's Four G Framework for making courageous, soul-aligned decisions with confidence. Why the biggest regret isn't making the wrong choice; it's never trusting yourself enough to choose. Some Questions I Ask Are you truly confused... or are you avoiding a truth you already know? What decision have you already made in your heart but haven't admitted to yourself? What conversation are you pretending you don't need to have? Who are you afraid of disappointing if you choose yourself? What would change if you stopped waiting for certainty and started trusting your soul? If today were your last day, would you regret the decision you're making or the one you're avoiding? Get in Touch: Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
July 18 · 58 min
464: Celinne da Costa on The Story That's Secretly Running Your Life (And How to Rewrite It)
What if the greatest obstacle standing between you and the life you're meant to live... is the story you've been telling yourself? In this deeply moving conversation, Kute Blackson sits down with Celinne Da Costa, author of The Burning Ground, to explore what happens when life falls apart, not as a punishment, but as an invitation from the soul. Through heartfelt storytelling and profound spiritual insight, Celine shares how burnout, heartbreak, loss, and unexpected synchronicities became the catalysts for awakening to a life of deeper purpose, freedom, and alignment. Together, Kute and Celine unpack how our greatest wounds can become our greatest teachers, why the soul speaks in whispers while fear shouts, and how rewriting the meaning of our past has the power to transform our future. This is more than a conversation about healing. It's an invitation to trust life's unfolding, surrender what no longer serves you, and remember who you truly are beneath the stories you've carried for so long. If you've been feeling stuck, disconnected, or quietly wondering whether there's something more waiting for you, this episode may be exactly the message your soul has been waiting to hear. Timestamps (00:02:15) – The invisible story that was quietly shaping Celine's entire life (00:07:07) – What if your greatest crisis is actually your greatest awakening? (00:12:31) – The radical decision that changed the course of her life forever (00:18:06) – How to leap into the unknown without blowing up your life (00:24:33) – How to tell the difference between fear... and the voice of your soul (00:32:00) – The mysterious encounter in Indonesia that awakened her true calling (00:41:43) – Rewrite your story, reclaim your power, and discover your deepest gift (00:54:40) – A final invitation to trust the unfolding of your soul's journey Some Questions I Ask Why do some people seem unstoppable while others remain trapped in the same cycles? What finally gave you the courage to stop living the life everyone expected of you? How can someone tell the difference between the voice of the soul and the voice of fear? What happened during your journey that completely changed how you see life? How do we stop identifying with painful stories we've carried for years? What would you say to someone who knows they're meant for more, but feels too afraid to take the first step? In This Episode You'll Learn Why the story you've been telling yourself may be the very thing keeping you stuck. The surprising reason life's biggest breakdowns often become your greatest breakthroughs. How to tell the difference between fear speaking... and your soul calling. The hidden emotional addictions that quietly shape your choices and relationships. A powerful framework for transforming pain into purpose and reclaiming your authentic life. Why your greatest wound may actually hold the key to the life you were born to live. Get in Touch: Celinne da Costa https://celinnedacosta.com Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
July 15 · 1 hr 9 min
463: Dr. Cheryl Fraser on The Biggest Lie About Love (That's Quietly Destroying Your Relationship)
"Great love isn't found. It's created by two imperfect people willing to do the work." What if the relationship you're longing for isn't created by finding the perfect person, but by learning how to love imperfectly, consciously, and courageously? Why do so many relationships begin with passion... only to end in distance, disappointment, or disconnection? In this deeply eye-opening episode of Soul Talk, Kute Blackson sits down with renowned Buddhist psychologist, relationship expert, and author Dr. Cheryl Fraser to challenge some of the biggest myths we've been taught about love. From the illusion of soulmates to the belief that the right partner should make us happy, Cheryl reveals why these stories quietly sabotage even the strongest relationships. Blending modern psychology with Buddhist wisdom, she shares a radically different approach to lasting love: One built on conscious communication, emotional intimacy, shared adventure, and intentional sensuality. Rather than searching for someone new when the excitement fades, Cheryl explains why the deepest relationships are created when two imperfect people choose to grow together, embrace discomfort, and make love itself a spiritual practice. If you've ever questioned your relationship, wondered whether you've found "the one," or felt the spark slipping away, this conversation may completely change the way you love and the way you see your partner. Key Timestamps (00:03:10) — Why we suffer when we expect our partner to make us happy (00:12:20) — The Passion Triangle: the three pillars of lasting love (00:29:50) — Why the soulmate myth quietly destroys relationships (00:38:40) — Should you stay or leave? Knowing when love is worth fighting for (00:49:40) — Why relationships are one of life's greatest spiritual practices (00:50:20) — The hidden truth about sexless relationships (00:56:30) — Why scheduling intimacy can actually deepen passion (00:01:07) — The one lesson every couple needs to hear about lasting love Some Questions I ask What if your partner was never meant to make you happy? Have you mistaken chemistry for compatibility? Are you waiting for love to feel effortless instead of learning how to build it? Could the relationship you're ready to leave be the one that's asking you to grow? What if the problem isn't your partner, but the expectations you've placed on them? Are you searching for "the one"... or becoming the partner your relationship needs? In This Episode You'll Learn Why finding "the one" isn't the secret to lasting love The hidden beliefs that slowly erode even great relationships How to rebuild intimacy when the spark begins to fade Why your relationship can only grow as much as you do The daily choices that create extraordinary love over time How to stop waiting for love to happen and start creating it Get in Touch: Dr. Cheryl Fraser https://drcherylfraser.com Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com
July 7 · 27 min
462: The Hidden Addiction To Being Needed
"What if the reason you're exhausted isn't because you're doing too much... but because you've built your identity around being needed?" You help. You give. You support. You show up when everyone else falls apart. From the outside, it looks selfless. But what if beneath all the helping, fixing, rescuing, and taking care of everyone else is a deeper need you've never fully questioned? In this powerful episode of Soul Talk, Kute Blackson explores one of the most socially rewarded yet emotionally draining patterns many people carry: the addiction to being needed. From childhood conditioning to relationship dynamics, he reveals how many of us unconsciously learn to earn love through usefulness, build our identity around helping others, and mistake being needed for being loved. Kute unpacks the hidden cost of constantly rescuing, carrying, and fixing everyone around you and why true love isn't about making others dependent on you. It's about trusting their journey, honoring your own needs, and recognizing that your worth has never depended on what you do for others. If you've ever felt responsible for everyone, struggled to receive support, or found yourself exhausted from always being the strong one, this episode may help you discover a deeper truth: You don't have to earn your value. You are already worthy. Timestamps (00:03:25) – The surprising reason being needed feels so good (00:07:04) – Where the need to earn love really begins (00:09:15) – The Emotional Caretaker: carrying everyone's emotions (00:11:02) – The Rescuer: when helping becomes a trap (00:14:45) – The hidden rewards keeping this pattern alive (00:17:37) – Why receiving love can feel uncomfortable (00:21:12) – Helping vs. rescuing: a life-changing distinction (00:24:16) – The path from proving your worth to knowing your worth Some Questions I Ask Who would you be if nobody needed you? Have you confused being needed with being loved? How much of your identity is built around taking care of everyone else? Are you helping people or preventing them from learning their own lessons? What would change if you stopped trying to earn your worth through sacrifice? Can you allow yourself to receive the same love and support you so freely give to others? In This Episode, You'll Learn Why constantly helping others can become a hidden form of emotional dependency. The four archetypes of people addicted to being needed and which one you might be. How childhood survival strategies can quietly shape your adult relationships. Why rescuing others often creates exhaustion, resentment, and disconnection. The crucial difference between being loved and being needed. How to reclaim your worth, receive support, and experience healthier, freer relationships. Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com

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