
Leaving Crazy Town With Dr. Sarah Michaud
Have you ever thought, “If they would just understand me… change… listen… THEN I could finally feel okay”? Yeah. That might be codependency. In this episode of The Skirts Up Show, I sit down with Dr. Sarah Michaud — addiction and codependency psychologist, author of Co-Crazy, and co-host of Leaving Crazy Town — to unpack what codependency actually looks like in relationships, addiction recovery, parenting, people-pleasing and everyday life. Spoiler: it’s a hell of a lot sneakier than I thought. Sarah explains how fears of being misunderstood, rejected, abandoned or not being “enough” can quietly shape the way we communicate, over-function, control, rescue and build resentment. We talk about emotional triggers, childhood wounds, boundaries, relapse, addiction, marriage and the exhausting habit of making somebody else responsible for our happiness. And yes, I had several “oh shit… I do that” moments. One of the biggest came when Sarah described codependency as focusing all your energy on changing someone else instead of deciding what YOU need and what YOU are responsible for. That immediately took me back to a difficult season in my own marriage, when I was desperate to make my husband understand me instead of asking myself what I needed to feel fulfilled. We also get into codependency in parenting — including the uncomfortable ways our own fears and past experiences can become rules we place on our kids — plus why unprocessed anger, grief, fear and resentment can build long before unhealthy behaviors or relapse show up. The bottom line? You are responsible for your thoughts, feelings and behaviors. Other people are responsible for theirs. Simple? Yep. Easy? Absolutely not. If you’ve ever struggled with codependency, people-pleasing, boundaries, relationships, addiction recovery, emotional triggers or wondering, “Am I the crazy one here?” — this conversation might be for you. Check out Leaving Crazy Town Curious Hypnosis or Rapid Transformation Therapy (RTT)? Check out Sweet Soul Wellness Please Please Rate and Share Mentioned in this episode: Sweet Soul Wellness- Gift to the SQUAD