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Respectfully Gabby

Gabby Padron

You're listening to Respectfully Gabby — a podcast about glow-ups, mindset, love, and becoming her.

Formerly known as Way Too Wifey, this is a space for women stepping into their next level. We talk confidence, standards, ambition, healing, and the quiet power that comes from choosing yourself without apology.

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Tuesday · 20 min
Nice People Never Get What They Want
Being a good person and being a people-pleaser are two very different things.In this episode, we’re talking about why the “nice” person so often ends up feeling overlooked, underpaid, overextended, underappreciated, and frustrated that everyone else seems to get what they want.Because when you’re constantly trying to be easygoing, agreeable, understanding, and low-maintenance, you can accidentally train people to expect less from you — while teaching yourself that having wants, standards, and boundaries makes you difficult.GET THE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsrFollow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabbywww.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
September 8 · 22 min
How To Be Unbothered AF
Want to reach Kanye West levels of unbothered? 😂 In this episode, I’m breaking down the 3 mindset shifts that will actually make you unbothered, not the fake “I don’t care” kind, but the kind where you genuinely stop letting other people’s opinions, behavior, rejection, or lack of attention dictate how you feel. If you’re tired of overthinking, overexplaining, seeking validation, or letting one person ruin your entire mood… this one’s for you. Let’s talk about how to become so secure in who you are that not everything gets access to your peace. GET THE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
August 30 · 27 min
Your 6 Months Away From the Life You Want
I’m officially locking in for the next six months and I want to bring you along for it. In this episode, I’m talking about what made me choose six months, what I’m actually changing in my life, and what “locking in” really looks like beyond just going to the gym, eating better, or being more productive. We’re also getting into why we’re so good at waiting for the perfect time to start over, Monday, next month, our birthday, January 1st, and what actually happens when you stop waiting and decide that your life is changing now. GET THE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
August 25 · 18 min
Your Subconscious Is Blocking the Life You Want
GET THE WORKBOOK: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/the-identity-upgrade-workbook-gi3vywsr Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P You can consciously want a new life while subconsciously holding beliefs that keep you from creating it. In this episode, we’re talking about the hidden beliefs that may be conflicting with what you say you want — and why creating your dream life often requires closing doors, outgrowing people, and letting go of what no longer aligns.
August 18 · 29 min
How to Be Delusional & Get What You Want
What if being “delusional” is actually one of the most powerful mindset shifts you can make? In this episode, we’re breaking down the 3 things you need to create the life you actually want: focus, emotional state, and beliefs. I’m talking about the psychology behind getting clear on what you want, training your brain to look for opportunities, regulating your emotional state, and becoming delusional enough to believe your desired reality is possible before you can see it. If you want to manifest your goals, change your mindset, and become the version of yourself who actually gets what she wants, this episode is for you. Start Here: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby
August 11 · 16 min
A Man Is Not Your Business Plan
JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P What if the life you’re dreaming about doesn’t require a man to fund it? In this episode, we’re talking about the uncomfortable truth behind making a relationship your financial plan — waiting for a husband to provide the lifestyle you want, assuming marriage will solve your money problems, or subconsciously choosing men based on what they can give you instead of who they actually are.
August 4 · 18 min
They Moved On.. And You're Still Stuck
JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P Have you ever looked at someone who hurt you and thought, How did they get to move on while I'm still picking up the pieces? In this episode, we're talking about one of the most painful comparisons after heartbreak: watching someone else seemingly move on while you feel like you're standing still.
July 28 · 10 min
Falling for Potential
Why do we get so far ahead of ourselves? We start planning our lives around a person, a career, a city, or an opportunity before we’ve even stopped to ask ourselves, Do I actually want this? Is this even for me? In this episode, we’re talking about the danger of becoming emotionally attached to a future that exists mostly in our heads—and how getting caught up in the potential of something can make us lose sight of what’s actually happening in the present. JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
July 14 · 11 min
Are They Standards... or Just Emotional Walls?
JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P We've all heard the advice to "raise your standards." But what if some of the things you're calling standards are actually emotional walls you've built after being hurt? In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the biggest misconceptions in healing: the difference between healthy standards that attract aligned relationships and protective walls that keep intimacy out altogether. We'll talk about why avoiding vulnerability isn't the same as having self-respect, how unhealed wounds can disguise themselves as empowerment, and the subtle ways fear can convince you you're just "being picky."
July 7 · 13 min
Get Your Spark Back
Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought, Where did my spark go? Whether you've been heartbroken, burnt out, stuck in survival mode, or simply spent too much time centering everyone else, this episode is your reminder that your glow isn't gone—it's just waiting for you to come back to yourself. JOIN THE PROGRAM: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
June 30 · 22 min
The Secret Shift About Detachment They Don't Tell You
Everyone tells you to "just let go." Stop checking his story. Stop overthinking. Stop caring so much. But if it were that simple, you would've done it already. In this episode, we're talking about why detachment isn't something you force—it's something that naturally happens when you change the beliefs keeping you emotionally hooked in the first place. I'll break down why anxious attachment isn't a self-control problem, it's an identity problem, and how your subconscious beliefs about love, worthiness, abandonment, and safety are creating the very attachment you're trying to escape. If you've been trying to detach by using willpower alone, this episode will show you why it hasn't worked—and what actually will. Identity Upgrade Program: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
June 24 · 29 min
Q&A Episode: 4 Years of Respectfully Gabby
Today we're celebrating 4 years of the podcast! 🎉 I'm answering your questions and reflecting on some of the biggest lessons I've learned about confidence, relationships, personal growth, and becoming the woman I am today.Thank you for being part of this journey. Here's to 4 years of growth and what's next. 💖JOIN MY COMMUNITY: ⁠https://stan.store/respectfullygabby⁠Follow for more on social media: ⁠www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby⁠⁠www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby⁠ Grab a copy of my book: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P⁠Passenger Princess Ebook: ⁠stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/from-miss-independent-to-passenger-princess-ebook⁠
June 16 · 21 min
When the Past Returns: Is It a Sign or a Test?
JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P Passenger Princess Ebook: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/from-miss-independent-to-passenger-princess-ebook Have you ever been doing just fine when suddenly an ex texts you, an old friend reaches out, or someone you haven't thought about in years randomly crosses your mind? People often say that once you've fully learned a lesson, you'll never see that person again. But is that actually true?In this episode, we're unpacking why people, patterns, and memories from the past seem to reappear out of nowhere—and what it might really mean. Is the universe testing you? Is there unfinished business? Are you being given a second chance, or simply an opportunity to see how much you've grown?
June 9 · 15 min
From Miss Independent to Passenger Princess
Being independent is a strength—but sometimes it can become a defense mechanism. In today's episode, we're unpacking why so many high-achieving women struggle to receive help, support, love, and care. I'll share how my own journey taught me that femininity isn't about dependence—it's about allowing. This conversation is for the woman who's tired of carrying the entire world on her shoulders. JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P Passenger Princess Ebook: stan.store/respectfullygabby/p/from-miss-independent-to-passenger-princess-ebook
June 2 · 21 min
How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
The Identity Upgrade Now Available! https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P Do you ever feel like everyone else is ahead of you? More successful, happier, prettier, further along in life? In this episode, we're unpacking one of the biggest confidence killers: comparison. I'll share why comparing yourself to others is keeping you stuck, how social media distorts reality, and practical mindset shifts that can help you refocus on your own journey.
May 26 · 23 min
Outgrowing Friendships, Red Flags, & Starting Over
We’re talking about the hard truth of outgrowing friendships, recognizing the red flags we try to ignore, and what it really looks like to start over. From friendship breakups to changing seasons of life, this conversation is about choosing yourself even when it’s uncomfortable. JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
May 19 · 23 min
The Real Reason You Feel Jealous in Relationships
We’re talking about something almost nobody wants to admit to: jealousy. Whether it shows up in dating, relationships, or in dating, jealousy can quietly steal your peace, make you overthink, and have you acting out of fear instead of confidence. In this episode, I’m sharing why jealousy actually happens, what it’s trying to reveal about you, and how to stop letting it control your relationships. Because contrary to what people say, jealousy doesn’t make you “crazy” — but it can be a sign that something deeper needs attention. JOIN MY COMMUNITY: ⁠https://stan.store/respectfullygabby⁠ Follow for more on social media: ⁠www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby⁠ ⁠www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby⁠ Grab a copy of my book: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P⁠
May 12 · 26 min
Be Magnetic: What’s Leaking Your Energy (& What Gives You Aura Points)
JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P Why do some people walk into a room and instantly feel confident, attractive, and unforgettable… while others feel invisible even when they’re doing “everything right”? I’m breaking down the 3 biggest things secretly leaking your energy (and lowering your magnetism) and the 3 habits that actually give you “aura points” — the things that make people naturally gravitate toward you. If you’ve ever wondered why some women just have that energy, this episode is for you.
May 5 · 14 min
Stop Feeling Bad for Wanting It All
Why do so many women feel guilty for wanting a full, expansive life—love, success, money, freedom, and deep fulfillment? In this episode, we’re unpacking the quiet conditioning that tells you to shrink your desires, settle, or choose “just one.” I’m talking about the truth: you’re allowed to want it all—and more importantly, you’re allowed to have it.' JOIN MY COMMUNITY: https://stan.store/respectfullygabby Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P
April 28 · 17 min
I Stopped Thinking This Way… and Everything Changed
JOIN MY COMMUNITY JOIN MY PROGRAM Follow for more on social media: www.instagram.com/respectfullygabby www.tiktok.com/@respectfullygabby Grab a copy of my book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FBN2NS9P This week’s episode is personal—and honestly, a little confronting. I’m breaking down the exact mindset shift that completely changed my dating experience. Because it wasn’t the apps, the men, or “bad luck”… it was the way I was thinking. I used to approach dating from a place of doubt, overanalyzing everything, and expecting things to go wrong. And guess what? That’s exactly what I kept experiencing. But the moment I changed my mind—about myself, about men, and about what I expected—everything started to shift. My experiences, my interactions, and the type of connections I attracted all elevated. In this episode, I talk about: The subtle thought patterns that were sabotaging my dating life How your beliefs shape your reality (especially in relationships) The exact mindset shifts I made and how you can apply them Why changing your mind is more powerful than changing your strategy If your dating life feels frustrating, repetitive, or draining… this might be the perspective shift you didn’t know you needed. Because when you change your mind, you don’t just change your dating life—you change your entire reality.

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