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TORISSTORY & FITWITHLILY

Empowering you to do & be better with our big sister chats on all things life, health & business. From our own experiences (the good, the bad, and the ugly) to interviews with inspiring, game-changing guests, we’re here to challenge you to live authentically, embrace vulnerability, and take bold risks.

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  • July 15 · 21 min

    Reset Series | Stop Romanticising perfection

    Halfway through the year doesn't mean it's too late, it means you have a choice. In this episode, we're talking about why your reset doesn't need to be dramatic. You don't need a new version of yourself. You need consistency from the version of you that already knows what works. We dive into the power of returning to your fundamentals, creating your own "Back to Me List," and why the all-or-nothing mindset is probably the biggest thing holding you back. We also chat about minimum vs. maximum standards, why momentum matters more than perfection, and how the smallest habits are often the ones that create the biggest change. If you've been waiting for the "perfect" Monday, the "right" motivation, or a complete life makeover before starting again, this episode is your reminder that consistency will always beat perfection. Because six months from now, your life won't be different because of one massive decision. It'll be different because of the small choices you repeated every single day. 2026 Notion template Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/ **https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template** Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=web Find us below: @rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw @ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/ @fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/ Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

  • S6 · E192
    July 12 · 47 min

    How To Build A Body You're Proud Of

    #192 In this episode, we're talking about why confidence has so much less to do with having the "perfect" body than we think. We dive into comparison culture, social media, and why constantly measuring yourself against someone else will always leave you feeling behind. We also chat about shifting your focus from aesthetics to performance, why strength training and nutrition are the biggest game changers, and how balance looks in real life when you're working towards your goals. Most importantly, we unpack why consistency will always beat perfection. The body you're proud of isn't built through extreme diets or starting over every Monday. It's built through the small habits you repeat every day. We finish by talking about self respect, your relationship with your body, and how creating a lifestyle that supports your goals is what leads to lasting confidence. If you're ready to stop chasing perfection and start building a body that supports the life you want, this episode is for you. 2026 Notion template Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/ **https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template** Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=web Find us below: @rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw @ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/ @fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/ Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

  • July 8 · 44 min

    Reset Series | Get Your Life Back On Track With Bec Stewart

    Feeling stuck? Unmotivated? Like you've completely fallen off track?You're not alone and you're definitely not too far gone.In this week's episode, we're joined by Bec Stewart for an honest conversation about what it really feels like to be in a slump, why so many of us end up there, and how to stop waiting for motivation and start creating momentum instead. We talk about the warning signs of a slump, what causes us to lose momentum, the difference between protecting your energy and avoiding effort, and why trying to completely overhaul your life overnight usually does more harm than good.We also share the practical habits, mindset shifts and "bare minimum" standards that help us reset when life feels overwhelming, along with a rapid-fire round of advice to help you lock back in.If you've been waiting for Monday, next month, or the "right time" to start showing up for yourself again, this episode is your reminder that your reset starts today. Because you don't need a whole new version of yourself, you just need to start being consistent with the one you already are. 2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

  • S6 · E191
    July 5 · 39 min

    The Boyfriends Take Over…

    #191 The boys are finally taking over the podcast! After collecting your burning questions, we handed them the mic to answer everything from relationships and red flags to living with us, funny stories, and the questions you've all been dying to know.Expect plenty of laughs, honest opinions, a little chaos, and a whole new side of the boys. This is one episode you won't want to miss. 2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

  • July 1 · 24 min

    Reset Series | The Mid Year Reality Check

    Halfway through the year and feeling like you've lost your spark? You're not alone. In this episode, we're having the mid-year reality check we all need. Whether you've fallen off your routines, lost motivation, slipped back into old habits, or simply feel disconnected from the goals you set in January, this conversation is for you. We unpack why the mid-year slump happens, how bad habits quietly creep in, and walk you through a simple reset formula to help you rebuild momentum without the guilt. Because here's the truth: you haven't ruined the year. July to December is enough time to completely change your life you just have to choose to start. 2026 Notion template Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/ **https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template** Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=web Find us below: @rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw @ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/ @fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/ Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

  • S6 · E190
    June 28 · 41 min

    Why Your 20s Feel So Confusing

    #190 Are we actually having a quarter-life crisis... or are we just growing up? This week we're unpacking the weird, confusing and hilarious stage of life where everyone seems to have it figured out... except you. From questioning our careers and friendships to suddenly caring about protein, gut health and homewares, we're diving into the identity shifts that come with your 20s.We chat about the pressure of society's timeline, changing priorities, existential spirals, and why feeling uncertain might actually be more normal than we think. If you've ever wondered, "Am I behind?" or "Should I completely reinvent my life?"... this one's for you. Tune in for a conversation that will make you laugh, reflect, and hopefully remind you that you're not the only one figuring it out as you go.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

  • June 24 · 59 min

    Pregnancy Series | Home Birth vs Hospital Birth Ft. A Midwife

    In this week's Pregnancy Series episode, we sit down with private midwife Tarlia from Avenir Midwifery to discuss home birth vs hospital birth, birth plans, common interventions, and how women can make informed choices throughout pregnancy and labour.From inductions and epidurals to C-sections and home births, we unpack the realities of birth, debunk common myths, and share practical advice to help women feel empowered, educated, and supported in their journey into motherhood.No matter your birth preferences, this episode is a reminder that there is no perfect birth—only the birth that feels right for you. 2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

  • S6 · E189
    June 21 · 1 hr 5 min

    Give us an hour to change your life ft. Cooper Chapman

    #189 This week on Raw Reality, we sit down with Cooper Chapman, ex-professional surfer, mental health advocate, and founder of The Good Human Factory. Cooper shares his journey from chasing success in elite sport to building a movement that helps make mental health conversations more approachable, practical, and accessible for everyday people. We dive into the pressures of professional surfing, tying self-worth to performance, and the life experiences that ultimately shaped his mission to help others. Together, we unpack the power of small daily habits, the 1% Good Club, gratitude, mindfulness, purpose, and why mental health isn't just something we focus on when we're struggling it's something we need to nurture every day. A conversation full of perspective, wisdom, and actionable takeaways that everyone can benefit from. Join our exclusive community group chat with our community and The Good Human Factory community to share our gratitude together https://ig.me/j/Abb_xgWKwdgUmyap/ 2026 Notion template Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/ **https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template** Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=web Find us below: @rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw @ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/ @fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/ Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

  • June 17 · 58 min

    Pregnancy Series | Avalons birth story and how she created her reality

    This week on Raw Reality, we sit down with Avalon for an honest conversation about conceiving, pregnancy, motherhood, body image, and the transition into becoming a stay-at-home mum.Avalon shares her journey to motherhood, opening up about the realities of trying to conceive, the pressures and emotions that can come with fertility, and the expectations she had before becoming a mum. We also dive into pregnancy, navigating a changing body, confidence, social media pressures, and the conversations many women don't hear enough about.Together, we explore the identity shifts that come with motherhood, how relationships and friendships evolve, the challenges and rewards of being a stay-at-home mum, and what finding purpose looks like in this season of life.Whether you're a mum, hoping to become one someday, or simply curious about the realities behind motherhood, this episode is full of honest reflections, reassurance, and wisdom from someone living it every day.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

  • S6 · E188
    June 14 · 50 min

    5 Steps to Becoming Unstoppable

    #188 Confidence is something almost everyone wants more of, yet so many people believe it's something you're either born with or without. In this episode, we're breaking down the truth about confidence and sharing 5 practical ways to build it in your everyday life.We chat about the importance of keeping promises to yourself, why confidence comes after action (not before it), how comparison can quietly destroy self-belief, the role discomfort plays in personal growth, and why the way you speak to yourself matters more than you think.If you've ever felt held back by self-doubt, waited until you felt "ready," or struggled to trust yourself, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts to start building genuine confidence from the inside out.2026 Notion TemplateRaw Reality[https://rawreality.com.au/](https://rawreality.com.au/)Life Upgrade System Notion Template[https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template](https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template)Between Us Connection Cards[https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=web](https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=web)Find us below:@rawreallity[https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw](https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw)@ttorisstory[https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/](https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/)@fitwithlilyy[https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/](https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/)Community Facebook Group[https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/](https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/)

  • June 10 · 1 hr 26 min

    Pregnancy Series | The Birth Conversation Every Woman Should Hear

    Birth is one of the most natural things the body is designed to do, yet for so many women it feels overwhelming, feared, or misunderstood. In this episode, we’re joined by Shari from Belly2Birth to break down what hypnobirthing actually is, the stages of labour, and what’s really happening in the body during birth. We also dive into fear, mindset, and how they can shape the birth experience. We discuss hospital interventions, inductions, epidurals, informed consent, and the cascade of interventions, giving you a clearer understanding of your options so you can feel informed and empowered. This isn’t about a “perfect” birth it’s about understanding your body, your choices, and feeling confident no matter how your journey unfolds. This is the birth education every woman should have access to. 2026 Notion template Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/ **https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template** Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=web Find us below: @rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw @ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/ @fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/ Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

  • S6 · E187
    June 7 · 43 min

    Girl Club💌 Boys, Uni and Partying Sober

    #187 Welcome back to Girl Club 💌This week, we're putting our big sister hats on and diving into your dilemmas.From situationships and relationship uncertainty to navigating fitness motivation, first kisses, friendships, confidence, and figuring out what you want to do with your future, we're answering some of the questions that have been weighing on your minds lately.We chat about knowing when to have the relationship conversation, getting back on track after losing your routine, handling the opinions of others when it comes to dating, and the pressure of feeling "behind" compared to everyone around you. We also share our thoughts on choosing a career path when you're not quite sure what's next and how to stay true to yourself when your values don't always align with the people around you.As always, this episode feels like a catch-up with your girlfriends — honest advice, personal experiences, plenty of laughs, and reminders that you're not alone in what you're going through.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Find us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

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