
Inside SlutCon: The conference teaching tech men how to talk to women
What happens when a group of self-described “sluts” decide men need help with flirting? They create SlutCon, a three-day Bay Area conference where men pay between $3,000 to $18,000 to learn how to flirt, escalate, and date without being seen as too awkward. On this episode of PST, host Emily Dreyfuss talks with SF Standard tech culture reporter Zara Stone, who attended all three days of SlutCon at Lighthaven in Berkeley. The event, co-organized by controversial sex researcher and blogger Aella, featured dozens of “flirt girls” and various training sessions like “Confidence Engineering” and “Physical Escalation." Together with Emily, Zara digs into why so many attendees, most of them from tech and AI, are terrified of being labeled a “creep”. And they explain how SlutCon got caught in the online backlash around AI safety and the rationalist community. Is SlutCon feminist, fringe, or just very Bay Area? For more information and episode transcripts, visit: https://sfstandard.com/pacific-standard-time/ Support this podcast from The San Francisco Standard by becoming a subscriber: https://sfstandard.com/subscriber


















