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Pour Minds Podcast

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Two single Houstonians residing in Atlanta, Drea and Lex are navigating their way through life, friendships and dating. Discussing all the hot topics while getting lit on their favorite wine along the way! Just like having a good ol' drunk therapy session with your friends, pull up a chair, join the convo and wine down!

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  • Avg 1 hr 35 min
  • English

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  • S2 · E15
    Friday · 1 hr 59 min

    Above A Ball Ft. Akeem Ali

    This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are sitting down with rapper, singer, and songwriter Akeem Ali, and from the second he steps into the room, the energy instantly turns into pure, top-tier comedy. Akeem keeps it 100 on the harsh realities of independent touring, why slow ticket sales will make an artist rethink their whole strategy, and the very specific (and hilarious) target audience he relies on to keep his shows packed. Things get nostalgic as Akeem takes the ladies on a hilarious trip down memory lane, opening up about his alter ego, his high school days, and the unexpected setbacks that shaped his hustle. The crew doesn't hesitate to press him on toxic relationship dynamics, either—debating whether men ever truly regret losing a good woman. Akeem stands on business with his "facts over feelings" philosophy, insisting nobody is irreplaceable, while Lex and Drea call out the wild delusion men fall back on when they miss out on a real one. And, of course, things get completely out of hand when they tackle an "expert" claim that men should bring a woman to climax twice before penetration. Between whole-house inspection analogies, "carpet rug burn" arguments, and hilarious audience advice, the room devolves into pure chaos. Pour up and get ready, because before you start inspecting the "back of the house," you definitely need a drink in your hand for this one! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S2 · E14
    October 2 · 1 hr 19 min

    Miss American Dream ft. Ms. Pat

    This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are sitting down with comedy legend Ms. Pat, and absolutely NOTHING is off limits! From her early days in Atlanta comedy to becoming a household name in Hollywood, Ms. Pat gets candid about the hustle, hard work, and business mindset that helped her build the career she has today. Ms. Pat opens up about navigating fame while staying true to herself, setting boundaries with friends and family, protecting her peace, and why everybody doesn't need to know your next move. She also gets personal about raising seven children, breaking generational cycles, redefining the American Dream, and the inspiration behind her new memoir, Miss American Dream. And, of course, things take a few unexpected turns as the ladies get into marriage, dating, bedroom conversations, and why Ms. Pat has absolutely no filter! Pour up and tune in because when Ms. Pat pulls up, you already know it's going to be a time! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S2 · E13
    September 25 · 1 hr 50 min

    Ripping and Running

    This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are getting real about growing older, becoming more like their parents, and the things they understand differently now than they did in their younger years. The ladies talk about Lex’s experience visiting the Martin Luther King Jr. museum in Atlanta and why revisiting Black history as an adult gave her a completely different perspective. They also recap Lex’s birthday celebration, including a disappointing restaurant experience, a night at Visions, and why sometimes the people around you can turn a bad experience into a great night. Plus, the conversation gets into the proper way to sneak food into the movie theater, Lex’s lifelong love for Taco Bell, and the things they used to judge people for that they now understand differently. From spending money on luxury items to being emotional and vulnerable, Lex and Drea reflect on growth, self-awareness, accountability, and learning to give people—and themselves—a little more grace. Pour up and tune in. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S2 · E12
    September 18 · 1 hr 56 min

    Nutly and Cheese

    This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back with a solo episode talking life after tour, getting back into their routines, taking time to decompress and entering a new era for Pour Minds. The ladies also get into business, finances, delegation and the lessons they’ve learned while building their brands and preparing for what’s next. Then, the ladies sit down with hairstylist and entrepreneur Shara Laurie for a Business Spotlight. Shara opens up about starting her hair career at a young age, building a loyal clientele in Atlanta and eventually taking a leap of faith to move her business to Dubai. She shares what it took financially to make the move, how she built an international clientele and how her career has evolved from working behind the chair to traveling the world to service clients. Plus, Lex and Drea get into dating, relationships, independence, different dating cultures and the importance of having the freedom to live life on your own terms. Pour up and tune See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S2 · E11
    September 11 · 1 hr 37 min

    Shabang ft. Jordyn Lucas

    This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are joined by streamer and internet personality Jordyn Lucas for an episode that goes completely off the rails before they can even make it to the first topic. Jordan gets real about breaking into the male-dominated streaming world, building her community, investing thousands into her production, dealing with viral clips and learning how to survive when everything you say can become a headline. She also opens up about leaving Atlanta for Miami, starting over on her own, outgrowing friendships and betting on herself. Of course, the ladies have to get into Jordan’s viral moment with Drake, the six-figure Kelly bag, flying private for the first time and manifesting some of the biggest moments of her career. But somewhere between the drinks, roommate horror stories, BBL talk, reasons they could NEVER go to war and dragging internet trolls, the conversation turns into pure chaos. Pour up and get ready, because this is definitely one you might want to have a drink before watching. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S2 · E10
    September 4 · 1 hr 26 min

    In Those Jeans

    Lex P and Drea Nicole are back with another hilarious solo episode, and as usual, the conversation goes everywhere. The ladies kick things off debating whether you can really tell what type of person somebody is just by looking at them, from facial features and eye contact to the random physical traits that immediately make them suspicious. The conversation turns to dating as Lex and Drea break down the careers and lifestyles that would make them think twice about being with a man. From police officers and politicians to men making their money in the streets, the ladies get real about what they’re willing to deal with at this stage in their lives and why stability and legitimate income matter more than ever. Later, they get into beauty, skincare, makeup, and how their relationships with their appearance have changed over the years. They talk about feeling more comfortable going makeup-free, learning to appreciate their natural skin, and eventually take the conversation into plastic surgery, tummy tucks, breast reductions, scars, and some of the unexpected things that can happen when you go under the knife. Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without the conversation getting completely out of pocket along the way. Between hilarious surgery stories, body talk, dating opinions, and plenty of side conversations, Lex and Drea ultimately get real about body confidence, embracing your imperfections, and why being comfortable in your own skin matters more than worrying about what anybody else thinks. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S2 · E9
    August 28 · 1 hr 59 min

    Grind For It ft. Navv Greene

    This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are joined by fan favorite Nav Green, and as expected, the conversation goes completely off the rails. 😂 Nav catches the ladies up on his latest wins, including stepping into the writer’s room for the BET Awards, how his career has evolved, and why staying consistent matters more than comparing your success to everybody else’s. Of course, it wouldn’t be a Nav episode without some wild stories. They get into his dating life, using humor to get the ladies, knowing how to handle your liquor, old tour memories, friendships, money, success, and learning to actually enjoy the life you worked for. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S2 · E8
    August 21 · 1 hr 28 min

    A Lil Lextra

    It’s Lex’s birthday, and the girls are celebrating Chapter 37! 🥂 Lex reflects on entering a new year feeling happier, more at peace, and more confident than ever, while she and Drea talk about getting older, protecting your joy, and finally being okay with people being wrong about you. The conversation gets into low-maintenance birthday girlies vs. Birthdayzillas, expectations from friends versus your partner, surprise gifts gone wrong, and why some “gifts” are really just new bills and responsibilities. In The Bed, the ladies discuss how intimacy changes as you get older and why emotional connection matters more in relationships. Plus, they answer a messy Pour Your Heart Out about a best friend wanting to reconnect with a man her friend already slept with. Of course, it wouldn’t be a Pour Minds birthday episode without a few drinks, plenty of laughs, and a very tipsy karaoke finale! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S2 · E7
    August 14 · 58 min

    King Of R&B Ft. Jacquees

    Jacquees pulls up on Pour Minds for a conversation full of R&B, relationships, fatherhood, and plenty of laughs. The Atlanta native opens up about knowing he was a star from an early age, how becoming a father changed the way he moves, and why he still stands behind calling himself the King of R&B. He also talks about the lost art of the remix, his latest music, dream collaborations, and why he wants to work with Drake. Then the conversation gets into love: dealing with a partner's family not liking you, setting boundaries with parents, choosing between your relationship and your family, spinning the block on an ex, and whether there's really such a thing as "the one that got away." Jacquees shares his perspective on love today and why family will always play a major role in the relationships he chooses. And of course, Pour Your Heart Out gets WILD when a listener asks what to do about her boyfriend only lasting two minutes in bed—and the crew debates how long sex should actually last. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S2 · E6
    August 7 · 1 hr 22 min

    Love Taps ft. Lucky Daye

    This week, Lex and Drea are joined by Grammy Award-winning singer, songwriter, and producer Lucky Daye for an episode full of R&B, relationships, and plenty of laughs. Lucky opens up about his journey in music, the emotional moment he won his Grammy, his new single “Nowhere Fast,” and what fans can expect from his upcoming album and tour. The conversation gets into the current state of R&B, AI music, why 30-song albums need to go, bringing back real album rollouts, and whether artists are making music for TikTok instead of making music that actually lasts. Lucky also weighs in on the very important debate of Sisqó vs. Michael Jackson. Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without the conversation going completely left. The trio gets into whether men are judged by the women they date, why men care what other men think, dating celebrities, the hierarchy of athletes and rappers in the dating world, and whether your past can mess up something good with somebody new. Plus, the ladies get into Bop of the Week, answer some wild listener letters—including one woman wondering if dating her former favorite “horse’s” homeboy is already over before it started—and close things out with a little karaoke. Pour up and tune in. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S2 · E5
    July 31 · 1 hr 16 min

    Ooh La La

    This week, Lex and Drea are keeping it in-house for a solo episode packed with real conversations, hot takes, and plenty of laughs. The ladies kick things off by venting about the current state of social media—from censorship and rage bait to why the internet just isn't fun anymore—and ask whether we've forgotten how to simply live in the moment. They also debate the rise of celebrity tell-all documentaries, discussing where the line is between exposing the truth and chasing attention. From Michael Jackson and R. Kelly to America's Next Top Model and reality TV culture, they break down who deserves accountability, who gets unfairly blamed, and why every documentary has a narrative. Later, the conversation turns more personal as Lex and Drea reflect on growing up in predominantly white spaces following the tragic death of Nolan Wells. They open up about tokenism, identity, safety, Black community, and why being surrounded by people who understand your lived experience matters more than many realize. Pour up and tune in for an episode full of laughs, perspective, and the unfiltered conversations only Pour Minds can have. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S2 · E4
    July 24 · 1 hr 29 min

    Crazy Minds ft. Savannah James and April McDaniel

    This week, Lex and Drea are joined by entrepreneurs, podcasters, and longtime friends Savannah James and April McDaniel from Everybody's Crazy for a conversation about friendship, business, and what it really takes to build something that lasts. From launching a podcast with a prepaid phone to creating multiple successful businesses, Savannah and April share the realities of stepping into the spotlight, protecting their friendship, and building a legacy on their own terms. The ladies get into the pressure of podcasting, dealing with internet opinions, balancing business with real life, and why consistency is the key to longevity. They also discuss leadership, entrepreneurship, building teams, healing, fashion, personal growth, and the importance of creating opportunities for other Black women in media. With plenty of laughs, behind-the-scenes podcast stories, and honest conversations about success, this episode is a reminder that the strongest brands are built on authenticity, resilience, and showing up—even when it's hard. Pour up and tune in. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S2 · E3
    July 17 · 1 hr 26 min

    The Lady And The Tramp

    This week, it's just Lex and Drea back on the couch, and the conversations go everywhere. The ladies kick things off by breaking down Netflix's The Polygamist, debating revenge, cheating, and whether some people stay in toxic relationships for far too long. They also share hilarious family stories from tour, reflect on getting older, leveling up, and why they're officially entering their "lady" era. Later, Lex and Drea get honest about the best season of their lives so far. From career milestones and financial goals to dating, being single, and seeing years of hard work finally pay off, they talk about embracing growth without losing themselves. They also discuss the rise of "soft life" and luxury dating content online, why women should never stop making their own money, and how social media has distorted expectations around relationships and success. With plenty of laughs, unfiltered opinions, and the kind of conversation that only happens when it's just the two of them, this episode is a reminder that building your own life will always be the greatest flex. Pour up and tune in. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S2 · E2
    July 10 · 1 hr 32 min

    Rafiki's Aura

    This week, Lex and Drea are back with another hilarious solo episode straight from LA. From debating whether Caesar from Planet of the Apes was fine to asking if animals have celebrities in their own communities, the conversation goes completely off the rails—in the best way. The ladies catch up on life on tour, adjusting to nonstop travel, moving plans, weight gain, and why they're both ready to get back into their routines. They also share stories from their time in Los Angeles, talk about celebrity encounters, true crime obsessions, and why Lex is convinced she could solve a murder. Later, they introduce a new segment breaking down iconic song lyrics, debating everything from 50 Cent's relationship questions to the real meaning behind Next's "Too Close." As always, the laughs are nonstop, the stories are unfiltered, and the conversations somehow end up everywhere except where they started. Pour up and tune in. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S2 · E1
    July 3 · 1 hr 42 min

    Green Bean String Bean  ft. YK Niece

    This week, Lex and Drea are joined by Atlanta's own breakout star YK Niece for an unfiltered conversation about overnight success, friendship, money, and staying true to yourself. From revealing how "Wham" became the very first song she ever recorded to opening up about losing jobs before music changed her life, YK Niece shares the mindset that's helped her navigate fame without losing herself. The ladies also get into the viral fallout behind her former friendship, why she refuses to let betrayal change the way she loves people, and the real story behind that headline-making festival moment that had everyone convinced a reunion was happening. Plus, they talk about friendships in business, keeping your word, building wealth instead of chasing designer labels, investing for the future, and why personality can be just as powerful as talent. It's a hilarious, honest conversation full of Atlanta energy, plenty of laughs, and a few exclusive stories you haven't heard anywhere else. Pour up and tune in. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S1 · E52
    June 26 · 1 hr 48 min

    I’m So Icy

    This week, Lex and Drea are back for a solo episode full of laughs, hot takes, and the kind of conversations only they can have. From witnessing fake flexing at the strip club to debating fake jewelry, designer dupes, and why so many people are obsessed with looking rich, the ladies unpack the pressure of keeping up appearances in today's culture. They also share hilarious stories from the Still Sippin Tour, discuss hygiene horror stories, beauty standards, and whether society really treats attractive people differently. Along the way, they get into authenticity, confidence, and why having money and looking like you have money aren't always the same thing. With plenty of random tangents, unfiltered opinions, and nonstop laughs, this episode is a reminder that being yourself will always outshine pretending to be somebody else. Pour up and tune in. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S1 · E51
    June 19 · 1 hr 55 min

    One Margarita ft. The Chick Angel

    This week, Lex and Drea are joined by the hilarious, unfiltered, and always authentic That Chick Angel. From turning a freestyle into a viral hit with One Margarita to building a successful career across comedy, acting, podcasting, and content creation, Angel shares how betting on herself changed everything. The ladies get into balancing motherhood and ambition, working with their husbands, building businesses online, and why women shouldn't have to dim their personalities to be considered desirable. They also discuss natural hair, beauty standards, authenticity in the social media era, and the freedom that comes with showing up exactly as you are. With plenty of laughs, real talk, and a few margarita-fueled moments, this episode is a reminder that confidence, success, and joy look different for everybody—and that's exactly the point. Pour up and tune in. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S1 · E50
    June 12 · 1 hr 30 min

    Swallowed It

    Fresh off the first stops of the Still Sippin Tour, Lex and Drea are back with stories to tell. From sold-out shows and tour shenanigans to seeing people on the internet make up whole storylines from a 30-second clip, the girls are clearing a few things up. They get into what it's really like building a business with your friend, why people swear women can't be happy for each other, and how exhausting it is being constantly compared. Lex and Drea keep it real about jealousy, loyalty, celebrating each other's wins, and why they've stopped feeling the need to explain themselves to people committed to misunderstanding them. Of course, it's plenty of laughs, a little mess, and a lot of truth. So pour up and tap in as the ladies talk friendship, success, protecting your peace, and why real life will always hit harder than the comments section. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S1 · E49
    June 5 · 1 hr 11 min

     Let It Go Ft. Jess Hilarious

    This week on Pour Minds, Lex and Drea sit down with comedian, actress, radio personality, author, wife, and mother Jess Hilarious for an honest conversation about relationships, co-parenting, marriage, success, and personal growth. Jess opens up about the inspiration behind her new book, Till Death Do We Parent, sharing the real-life journey that took her from a toxic relationship with her son's father to building a healthy co-parenting partnership rooted in respect and accountability. She discusses the boundaries that helped protect her marriage, lessons learned from past relationships, and why so many people struggle to let go of unhealthy dynamics. The ladies also dive into comedy culture, cancel culture, social media relationships, dating in your 30s, and whether successful women should share their platforms with their partners. With plenty of laughs, personal stories, and unfiltered opinions, this episode is packed with gems about love, healing, parenting, and knowing when to choose peace over pride. Grab a drink and tune in—because this conversation is one every grown woman (and man) needs to hear. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S1 · E48
    May 29 · 1 hr 25 min

    Love Is The New Gangsta Ft. 6LACK

    The girls are back with another can’t-miss episode of Pour Minds, and this week they’re sitting down with R&B heartthrob 6lack to talk music and all the things the girls LOVE to debate. From his new album “Love Is The New Gangsta” to keeping real R&B alive, the vibes are smooth, funny, and a little messy in the best way possible. But baby… the real gag is finding out that 6lack does NOT eat white foods, so of course Lex and Drea had to ask the real question: could you date somebody with eating habits that give you the ick? The conversation gets even juicier when the crew talks about the signature scents coming out the strip club, whether working with your friends is a blessing or a disaster waiting to happen, and why women can be so shy about initiating sex. Should women start making the first move more, or are we standing beside our femininity? The girls get ALL the way into it. This episode feels like late-night girl talk with your funniest friends, full of laughs, opinions, and moments that will have you talking back to the screen. Trust, you do NOT want to miss this one. And don’t forget, the Pour Minds “Still Sippin” Tour is outside! The girls are coming to a city near you, so grab your tickets now at pourminds.com Go to https://www.ro.co/POURMINDS to see if your insurance covers GLP-1s—for free. Salt.xo offers pH-balanced feminine care that works with your body—not against it—helping you stay fresh, balanced, and confident from the inside out. Visit https://www.saltxo.com and use promo code XOPOURMINDS for 15% off. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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