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Friendship Rules We Used To Build A Village

In this episode, we’re talking about the friendship rules we live by and the things we believe have helped us build strong, genuine, long-term friendships. We chat about showing up even when life gets busy, being the friend you want to have, communicating instead of assuming, celebrating your friends without comparison, making time for each other, knowing when to give grace, and understanding that good friendships require effort from both sides. We also unpack how friendships change as you get older, why your village doesn’t just magically appear, and the importance of intentionally creating the kind of community you want around you. If you’ve ever wanted deeper friendships, struggled with friendships changing in your late 20s and 30s, or realised you need to put more effort into your own village — this one’s for you. More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠ You can find Kate here: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/thekatemorris/ https://www.instagram.com/katemorrispt/ https://katemorriscoaching.com/ You can find Gemma here: ⁠ https://www.instagram.com/coachgemma/ https://www.instagram.com/upliftmvmt/ https://www.upliftmovement.com.au/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Social Media Has Changed & This Is What You Need To Know

Melbourne besties, we're doing a meet up. 👀 Community walk, Sunday 11th October, 8am, Melbourne. Register so we know you're coming and get all the info here: https://oiletstalkpodcast.com/hgw NEW SERIES ALERT 🚨 Episode 1 of our Social Media Series! You asked, we listened. After our last few social media episodes flooded our DMs with questions, we knew we had to go deeper. So here's part one: what has actually changed? Remember when it was all about the follower count? When everyone had a perfectly curated grid? Yeah... that era is dead, besties. Social media isn't about who has the most followers anymore, it's about attention and connection. In this episode we get into: – How people are consuming content differently (short-form video vs static vs stories)– Why your follower count doesn't necessarily reflect your business– Why going viral does not equal business growth (sorry)– The rise of the personal brand, and why personality and relatability matter more than ever– Why people are getting sceptical of polished, influencer-style content– How educational content became oversaturated– The shift from "How do I get followers?" to "How do I get people to care?"– Why AI making content easier to produce makes being human more valuable than ever Your opinion, your story and your perspective are your competitive advantage now, nobody else can copy those! So tell us in the comments: what's the one thing you're still doing on social media that you know isn't working anymore? Got a question for us? Let us know in the group chat (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FA...) If you liked today’s episode don’t forget to like/comment/subscribe to stay up to date!!! More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠ You can find Gemma here: ⁠@coachgemma ⁠ ⁠@upliftmvmt ⁠ ⁠www.upliftmovement.com.au⁠ You can find Kate here: ⁠@thekatemorris⁠ ⁠@katemorrispt⁠ ⁠www.katemorriscoaching.com⁠ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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How to Figure Out What You Actually Want in Life

Melbourne besties, we're doing a meet up. 👀 Community walk, Sunday11th October, 8am, Melbourne. Register so we know you're coming and get all the info here: https://oiletstalkpodcast.com/hgw This week's ep is a life update, a bit of catch up on what's been happening (because you know we love a life update), and the announcement that we're getting IN PERSON with you again. We're also launching a new segment: THE GROUP CHAT. You know that question that's been living rent-free in your head? The one you're too scared to ask your actual friends? Send it to us. We're answering the ones you really want to know (not the polished, socially acceptable ones). We also dug into your community questions so far: What's been the biggest contributor to the growth of the podcast? One of our fails that turned out to be a blessing and pushed us forward Career advice: how do you figure out what you want to do, and how do you turn manifestations and goals into actual action? Deficits: how long should they be, how do you come out of one, and how do moderate vs light deficits affect your ability to build muscle? Do we ever up the weight too fast and realise our form's gone to shit? Is form supposed to wobble at the end of a set when you train to failure? And what do we STILL struggle with in the gym after all these years? So what's the question you've been sitting on that you'd only ask the group chat? Let us know here (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4psuQ4BB9YzzZy9zVlVe3GIqmavBzm0olb61F5VkXjrnmZw/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=101809739818519687710) If you liked today’s episode don’t forget to like/comment/subscribe to stay up to date!!! More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠ You can find Gemma here: ⁠@coachgemma ⁠ ⁠@upliftmvmt ⁠ ⁠www.upliftmovement.com.au⁠ You can find Kate here: ⁠@thekatemorris⁠ ⁠@katemorrispt⁠ ⁠www.katemorriscoaching.com⁠ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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5 Easy Ways To Build Self Discipline

In this episode we’re breaking down 5 tangible things you can actually do to become more disciplined, stop relying on motivation and start following through on the goals you keep setting for yourself.Because wanting a better body, business, relationship or life is one thing. Having the discipline to do what’s required to get there is another.Discipline isn’t about being perfect or having your shit together every day. It’s about learning to trust yourself, building consistency & becoming the woman who actually does what she says she’s going to do.If you’re ready to stop waiting for motivation and start taking action, this episode is for you.Grab your coffee, like comment & sub & come have a chat with us!! More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠You can find Kate here: ⁠@thekatemorris⁠⁠@katemorrispt⁠⁠www.katemorriscoaching.com⁠You can find Gemma here:⁠@coachgemma ⁠⁠@upliftmvmt ⁠⁠www.upliftmovement.com.au⁠ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Lock In To Your Health FOR GOOD!

How do you stop starting over with your health and finally build a lifestyle you can actually maintain? In this episode, we’re talking about what it really takes to lock into your health for good. No more jumping from diet to diet, obsessing over the perfect workout plan or waiting for Monday to start again. We’re breaking down the mindset shifts, habits and realistic strategies that help you create lasting results without making your entire life revolve around your health. Because looking after yourself shouldn’t be something you do for a few weeks before falling off the wagon. It should be a part of your life. if you loved todays episode don't forget to like, comment rate this podcast 5 stars!! we love you!! More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠You can find Kate here: ⁠@thekatemorris⁠⁠@katemorrispt⁠⁠www.katemorriscoaching.com⁠You can find Gemma here:⁠@coachgemma ⁠⁠@upliftmvmt ⁠⁠www.upliftmovement.com.au⁠ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How To Make Discipline Feel EASY!

This episode is proudly sponsored by GoHighLevel. Sign up now for your FREE trial (⁠http://www.gohighlevel.com/oiletstalk ) & download our template https://oiletstalkpodcast.com/social-media-planner Discipline Series Pt. 3 Discipline isn't some magic personality trait some people just have and others don’t, it's a system. And today we're breaking down exactly how to build one that makes doing the hard thing the easy thing. In this episode we get into: The alarm + reminder tricks that take willpower completely out of the equation Laying your clothes out the night before (sounds small, changes everything) How scheduling and actually having a plan removes 90% of the decision fatigue that's keeping you stuck Why goal setting only works when it's paired with less thinking, more action Eating the frog, tackling the thing you're dreading first, before your brain talks you out of it If you've ever felt like discipline is something you struggle with, this one's going to change how you see it completely. If you liked today’s episode don’t forget to like/comment/subscribe to stay up to date!!! More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠ You can find Gemma here: ⁠@coachgemma ⁠ ⁠@upliftmvmt ⁠ ⁠www.upliftmovement.com.au⁠ You can find Kate here: ⁠@thekatemorris⁠ ⁠@katemorrispt⁠ ⁠www.katemorriscoaching.com⁠ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

STOP Caring What People Think & LIVE Your Dream Life

This episode is proudly sponsored by GoHighLevel. Sign up now for your FREE trial (⁠http://www.gohighlevel.com/oiletstalk ) & download our template (https://oiletstalkpodcast.com/social-media-planner). Ever feel like you're living your whole life around what other people might think? In this episode, we're pulling apart what it actually takes to stop performing for others and start building a life that's genuinely yours. We get into: Crafting your environment (yes, that includes what you're consuming daily) Building real internal confidence instead of borrowed validation Figuring out what YOU actually enjoy, not what looks good from the outside Being intentional with whose feedback and opinions you let in Knowing what you want and what you're passionate about (non-negotiable) Backing yourself (a skill you build, not a personality trait you're born with) Getting uncomfortable in the process of building your dream life Leaving situations, relationships, and versions of yourself you've outgrown If you liked today’s episode don’t forget to like/comment/subscribe to stay up to date!!! More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠ You can find Gemma here: ⁠@coachgemma ⁠ ⁠@upliftmvmt ⁠ ⁠www.upliftmovement.com.au⁠ You can find Kate here: ⁠@thekatemorris⁠ ⁠@katemorrispt⁠ ⁠www.katemorriscoaching.com⁠ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How To ACTUALLY Become More Disciplined

What if the thing holding you back isn’t a lack of motivation, strategy or opportunity… but your inability to wait for the result?We live in a world that constantly rewards instant gratification. We want the money now, the body now, the business growth now, the validation now.But some of the biggest transformations in your life require you to keep going long before you have proof that it’s working.In this episode, we’re talking about **delayed gratification** and why learning to sit in the uncomfortable middle — where you’re putting in the work but haven’t seen the payoff yet — is one of the most valuable skills you can develop.Because the people who build extraordinary lives aren’t necessarily the ones who are more talented.They’re the ones who can keep showing up when the reward is still far away.If you loved todays episode don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to our chanel so you can stay up to date! we love you!! More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠You can find Kate here: ⁠@thekatemorris⁠⁠@katemorrispt⁠⁠www.katemorriscoaching.com⁠You can find Gemma here:⁠@coachgemma ⁠⁠@upliftmvmt ⁠⁠www.upliftmovement.com.au⁠ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Top 5 Content Strategies to Grow FAST

You guys LOVED our last epsisode about content… so obviously we’re here with MORE. 😂but first, this episode is proudly sponsored by GoHighLevel. Sign up now for your FREE trial (⁠http://www.gohighlevel.com/oiletstalk ) & download our template (https://oiletstalkpodcast.com/social-media-planner). In this episode, we’re breaking down the top 5 content strategies we'd use if we wanted to grow FAST on social media without constantly jumping onto new trends or overcomplicating your strategy.We’re talking about creating content that gets attention, builds your personal brand, attracts the RIGHT people and actually converts into business.If you’re posting but not seeing the growth, leads or sales you want, this one’s for you. If you loved todays episode don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to our chanel so you can stay up to date! we love you!! More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠You can find Kate here: ⁠@thekatemorris⁠⁠@katemorrispt⁠⁠www.katemorriscoaching.com⁠You can find Gemma here:⁠@coachgemma ⁠⁠@upliftmvmt ⁠⁠www.upliftmovement.com.au See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How to ACTUALLY become CONSISTENT

This episode is proudly sponsored by GoHighLevel. Sign up now for your FREE trial (⁠http://www.gohighlevel.com/oiletstalk ) & download our template (https://oiletstalkpodcast.com/social-media-planner). New series alert, discipline series 🎯 Why can't I seem to stay consistent? This one kicks off the series by tackling the biggest myth holding you back: that discipline = motivation. In this episode: Why motivation is unreliable and discipline is a decision, not a feeling Why you're "consistent" when things are exciting but disappear the second it gets boring The real difference between wanting the outcome and being willing to do the boring work Why you keep changing your strategy, routine, or direction (hint: it's not the plan that's wrong, it’s your tolerance for discomfort) The myth that disciplined people "feel like doing it" How discipline is actually built: one small kept promise to yourself at a time Stop asking "do I feel motivated?" Start asking "what did I say I was going to do?" That one shift changes everything. If you liked today’s episode don’t forget to like/comment/subscribe to stay up to date!!! More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠ You can find Gemma here: ⁠@coachgemma ⁠ ⁠@upliftmvmt ⁠ ⁠www.upliftmovement.com.au⁠ You can find Kate here: ⁠@thekatemorris⁠ ⁠@katemorrispt⁠ ⁠www.katemorriscoaching.com⁠ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What Successful Women Do Differently (That You Can Start Today)

This episode is proudly sponsored by GoHighLevel. Sign up now for your FREE trial (⁠http://www.gohighlevel.com/oiletstalk ) & download our template (https://oiletstalkpodcast.com/social-media-planner). We're back from 2 weeks in Bali and this one is a bit of everything a funny (and slightly chaotic) massage story, our retreat recap, and a real conversation about what it actually looks like to build a business and a life you're proud of. Kate talks about taking a full week off work, what it's taught her about building a business that doesn't rely on her every day. Gemma shares her renewed sense of motivation coming off a mid-year break stepping back from training on purpose, refocusing on fitness with a new gym program, and feeling excited about the podcast and business again. We also break down the common traits we've noticed in successful women thinking Krissy Cela, Oner Active, Shelby Sapp, Emma Grede, Grace Beverley and why being unapologetic, relentless, thick-skinned and resilient might matter more than any strategy or hack. If you needed a reminder that rest, boundaries and backing yourself are part of the success formula too, this episode is for you. If you liked today’s episode don’t forget to like/comment/subscribe!!! More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠ You can find Gemma here: ⁠@coachgemma ⁠ ⁠@upliftmvmt ⁠ ⁠www.upliftmovement.com.au⁠ You can find Kate here: ⁠@thekatemorris⁠ ⁠@katemorrispt⁠ ⁠www.katemorriscoaching.com⁠ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How To ACTUALLY Lock Into Your Fitness Goals

This episode is proudly sponsored by GoHighLevel. Sign up now for your FREE trial (⁠http://www.gohighlevel.com/oiletstalk ) & download our template (https://oiletstalkpodcast.com/social-media-planner). If you’ve ever started a fitness goal feeling motivated, only to find yourself back at square one a few weeks later… this episode is for you.We’re breaking down what it actually takes to lock into your fitness goals — and spoiler alert, it has very little to do with motivation.Your goals don’t require you to be perfect. They require you to become someone who can follow through, even when motivation disappears.If you’re ready to stop starting over and finally build a sustainable approach to your fitness, press play & don't forget to subscribe to our channel so you never miss an episode!! More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠You can find Kate here: ⁠@thekatemorris⁠⁠@katemorrispt⁠⁠www.katemorriscoaching.com⁠You can find Gemma here:⁠@coachgemma ⁠⁠@upliftmvmt ⁠⁠www.upliftmovement.com.au⁠ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How to Find Your Ride or Die Friends

This episode is proudly sponsored by GoHighLevel. Sign up now for your FREE trial (⁠http://www.gohighlevel.com/oiletstalk ) & download our template (https://oiletstalkpodcast.com/social-media-planner). Making friends as an adult is HARD. Gone are the days of becoming best friends with someone simply because you sat next to them in Year 9 English.In this episode, we’re talking about finding your ride or die people as an adult — the friends who genuinely celebrate your wins, show up when life gets messy, call you out when you need it, and make you feel completely yourself.If you loved todays episode don't forget to like, comment and rate this podcast 5 starts, so you can stay up to date!we love you!! More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠You can find Kate here: ⁠@thekatemorris⁠⁠@katemorrispt⁠⁠www.katemorriscoaching.com⁠You can find Gemma here:⁠@coachgemma ⁠⁠@upliftmvmt ⁠⁠www.upliftmovement.com.au⁠ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

4 Nutrition Myths Killing Your Gains

Part 3 of our Fitness Series This week we are getting into the nutrition side of training because you can lift all you want, but if you're not fuelling properly, you're leaving results on the table. We're covering: - How much protein you actually need (the number might surprise you) - Are carbs really the enemy? Spoiler: no. - Why fibre deserves way more attention than it gets - What to eat before and after training for best results - The recovery basics most people skip If you've ever stood in the kitchen wondering whether you're eating "right" for your training, this one's for you. New episodes every Sunday & Thursday make sure you're subscribed so you don't miss Part 4! Tell us in the comments, what's your biggest nutrition confusion right now? If you liked today’s episode don’t forget to like/comment/subscribe!!! More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠ You can find Gemma here: ⁠@coachgemma ⁠ ⁠@upliftmvmt ⁠ ⁠www.upliftmovement.com.au⁠ You can find Kate here: ⁠@thekatemorris⁠ ⁠@katemorrispt⁠ ⁠www.katemorriscoaching.com⁠ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

5 Micro Habits To Become More Productive

This episode is proudly sponsored by GoHighLevel. Sign up now for your FREE trial (⁠http://www.gohighlevel.com/oiletstalk ) & download our template (https://oiletstalkpodcast.com/social-media-planner). Feeling busy but not actually productive? In this episode, we break down the small, unglamorous habits that actually move the needle, no extreme routines required. You'll learn: Why time blocking works (and how to actually stick to it) Setting boundaries and holding the line when they get tested The "hardest task first" rule and why it kills decision fatigue before it starts How to cut down on mindless social media scrolling The power of doing things at the same time each day Why "busy" isn't the same as productive and how to spot procrastination in disguise Our system for organising and calendar-planning each week If your to-do list is full but your progress feels slow, this episode gives you five simple shifts to change that. If you enjoyed this episode don't forget to comment, like & subscribe to our channel!! More from us here: www.instagram.com/oiletstalkYou can find Kate here: @thekatemorris@katemorrisptwww.katemorriscoaching.comYou can find Gemma here:@coachgemma @upliftmvmt www.upliftmovement.com.au See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How To Tell If You're Training Hard Enough

This episode is proudly sponsored by GoHighLevel. Sign up now for your FREE trial (⁠http://www.gohighlevel.com/oiletstalk ) & download our template (https://oiletstalkpodcast.com/social-media-planner). Everyone wants results, but very few people are actually training in a way that creates them.In this episode, we're breaking down what it really takes to build muscle, get stronger, and transform your physique. We talk about the biggest mistakes people make in the gym, why simply "showing up" isn't enough, and how to start training with purpose instead of just going through the motions.If you've been stuck, feel like you've hit a plateau, or you're unsure if you're pushing yourself hard enough, this episode is for you.More from us here: www.instagram.com/oiletstalkYou can find Kate here: @thekatemorris@katemorrisptwww.katemorriscoaching.comYou can find Gemma here:@coachgemma @upliftmvmt www.upliftmovement.com.au See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How To Grow On Social Media FAST

This episode is proudly sponsored by GoHighLevel. Sign up now for your FREE trial (⁠http://www.gohighlevel.com/oiletstalk ) & download our template (https://oiletstalkpodcast.com/social-media-planner). Everyone wants to grow on social media... but most people are focusing on the wrong things.In this episode, we're breaking down what actually moves the needle when it comes to building an audience that converts into clients—not just followers.If you've been posting consistently but feel like you're shouting into the void, this conversation will help you understand why growth has stalled and what you need to change.Whether you're a coach, service provider or online business owner, this episode will help you simplify your content strategy and focus on what actually creates momentum.If you enjoyed this episode don't forget to comment, like & subscribe to our channel!! More from us here: www.instagram.com/oiletstalk You can find Kate here: @thekatemorris@katemorrisptwww.katemorriscoaching.com You can find Gemma here:@coachgemma @upliftmvmt www.upliftmovement.com.au See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Your Fitness Results Start Here

Your Fitness Results Start Here, Episode 1/4 Building the Foundation Stop training like you're trying to burn calories! Welcome to a brand new series built around one goal: real, lasting results. In episode one, we're laying the foundation starting with the mindset shift that changes everything. In this episode: 1️⃣ Why strength training changes everything (and why cardio only isn't the answer) 2️⃣ Progressive overload, explained simply 3️⃣ The shift from losing weight → building strength 4️⃣ How to measure progress beyond the scale 5️⃣ Working through gym anxiety so you can walk in with confidence If you're ready to stop chasing numbers and start building results that actually last, this episode is where it begins. This episode is proudly sponsored by GoHighLevel. If you're ready to simplify your business, GoHighLevel brings your CRM, automations, emails, funnels, calendars & client communication into one platform. Enjoy your free OLT FREE trial and see what the fuss it about ⁠http://www.gohighlevel.com/oiletstalk⁠ If you liked today’s episode don’t forget to like/comment/subscribe!!! More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠ You can find Gemma here: ⁠@coachgemma ⁠ ⁠@upliftmvmt ⁠ ⁠www.upliftmovement.com.au⁠ You can find Kate here: ⁠@thekatemorris⁠ ⁠@katemorrispt⁠ ⁠www.katemorriscoaching.com⁠ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How To Stop Over-Consuming For A More Peaceful Life

REMINDER, NEXT WEEKEND OUR AUGUST BALI WALK 7:30am, register your interest here: ⁠https://oiletstalkpodcast.com/hgw⁠ This week we get into our life updates, Bali prep, and the mental load of over-consumption. In this episode: - Life updates (Kate's 8 weeks post nose job, house hunting, and deficit updates from both of us) - Bali is 1 week away (what we're doing there + a reminder for the HGW walk) - Gemma shares her Endo + Adenomyosis diagnosis and what it means Then we get into 3 ways we're over-consuming (and how to stop): Social media & constant comparison Overspending on clothes/activewear (and getting smarter with money) Why 10 minutes of silence a day changes everything This episode is proudly sponsored by GoHighLevel. If you're ready to simplify your business, GoHighLevel brings your CRM, automations, emails, funnels, calendars & client communication into one platform. Enjoy your free OLT FREE trial and see what the fuss it about ⁠http://www.gohighlevel.com/oiletstalk⁠ If you liked today’s episode don’t forget to like/comment/subscribe!!! More from us here: ⁠www.instagram.com/oiletstalk⁠ You can find Gemma here: ⁠@coachgemma ⁠ ⁠@upliftmvmt ⁠ ⁠www.upliftmovement.com.au⁠ You can find Kate here: ⁠@thekatemorris⁠ ⁠@katemorrispt⁠ ⁠www.katemorriscoaching.com⁠ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How To Create A Successful Mindset

This episode is proudly sponsored by GoHighLevel. If you're ready to simplify your business, GoHighLevel brings your CRM, automations, emails, funnels, calendars & client communication into one platform, helping you work smarter, not harder!! Sign up now for your FREE trial ⁠http://www.gohighlevel.com/oiletstalk📌 PSA OLT is going INTERNATIONAL, join us for a walk & brunch in Bali 2nd August, 7:30am, register your interest here (⁠https://oiletstalkpodcast.com/hgw⁠)In our FINAL episode of the business series we are diving into the more IMPORTANT tool for success, your mindset. Everyone wants the strategy. The perfect content plan. The exact steps. The shortcut.But the truth? Most people don’t have a strategy problem, they have a mindset problem.In this episode, we’re breaking down what it actually takes to build a mindset that can handle success, growth, money, visibility, and the uncomfortable decisions that come with building a business.We talk about the habits, thoughts, and behaviours that keep people stuck in the same place year after year, even when they say they want more.More from us here: www.instagram.com/oiletstalkYou can find Kate here: @thekatemorris@katemorrisptwww.katemorriscoaching.comYou can find Gemma here:@coachgemma @upliftmvmt www.upliftmovement.com.au See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.