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Dr. Diane Mueller

If your marriage still looks fine from the outside but something has quietly disappeared — this podcast is for you. Dr. Diane Mueller, Board Certified Sexologist, goes deep on what's really happening and what works

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May 28 · 32 min· Video
Feel Sexy Again In Bed and In Your Own Skin with Rebecca Whitman
If you've tried everything and your bedroom is still quiet, this episode is going to feel like someone finally said the thing out loud. You'll walk away understanding why focusing on your partner's behavior is actually what's keeping you stuck and what you can start doing today that's entirely within your own control. If you're ready to stop waiting and start shifting, grab the free "Yes, No, Maybe Checklist" at mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe, it's a small, low-pressure step you and your partner can do together tonight. About the Guest: *Rebecca Whitman Expertise: Rebecca Whitman, the Abundance Mentor, an international best-selling author, graduated with honors from Princeton University. She received the awards of Mindset Coach of the Decade and Empowered Woman of the Year by International Association of Top Professionals. “USA Today” rated her in the top 5 entrepreneurs to watch in 2024.? ?Host of the top 1% globally ranked “Balanced, Beautiful, and Abundant” podcast that won the Positive Change Award. Her philosophy divides life into 7 Pillars of Abundance which include: spiritual, physical, emotional, romantic, mental, social, and financial. She coaches people to achieve alignment within these seven areas, so they can experience a life of joy and freedom. Http://pillar.io/rebeccaewhitman Balanced Beautiful Bundle: https://link.meetyourva.co/widget/form/MlMHCyc0SlifQJIduDPS Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction and Rebecca Whitman’s romantic challenges 3:00 Rebecca’s journey to finding her soulmate 6:20 What it means to be "romantically challenged" 7:11 The four A's of transformation 10:23 Applying the four A's to performance anxiety 11:49 Acceptance and its role in personal growth 14:18 Effective use of affirmations 16:28 Self-interest and improving relationships 19:09 Affirmations vs. limiting beliefs 22:39 Creating personalized affirmations 24:29 Working on multiple pillars of abundance 27:33 Applying success across life pillars 27:42 Scheduling intimacy and social interactions 28:50 Framework for daily, weekly, and interconnected activities 28:57 Sponsor: Balanced Beautiful Bundle 30:13 Rebecca Whitman’s mentorship programs 31:06 Closing strategies and final encouragement 31:27 Subscribe, share, and where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online (0:00) Introduction and Rebecca Whitman’s romantic challenges (3:00) Rebecca’s journey to finding her soulmate (6:20) What it means to be "romantically challenged" (7:11) The four A's of transformation (10:23) Applying the four A's to performance anxiety (11:49) Acceptance and its role in personal growth (14:18) Effective use of affirmations (16:28) Self-interest and improving relationships (19:09) Affirmations vs. limiting beliefs (22:39) Creating personalized affirmations (24:29) Working on multiple pillars of abundance (27:33) Applying success across life pillars (27:42) Scheduling intimacy and social interactions (28:50) Framework for daily, weekly, and interconnected activities (28:57) Sponsor: Balanced Beautiful Bundle (30:13) Rebecca Whitman’s mentorship programs (31:06) Closing strategies and final encouragement (31:27) Subscribe, share, and where to find Dr. Diane Mueller online
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May 21 · 27 min· Video
Why He Can't Stay Hard (And How To Actually Fix This) with Jeff Nuziard
You've been lying there wondering if this is just... what marriage becomes now — and that quiet resignation is the most unfair thing, because this episode makes the case that what's happening in your body has a name, a mechanism, and a 97% fix rate. You'll understand, maybe for the first time, that the slowdown isn't about attraction or effort — it's about collagen, blood flow, and testosterone shifts that started in your 30s without anyone warning you. If you want to understand what's actually going on in your body before your next appointment, take Dr. Diane's free "Why Is My Desire Low?" quiz at mylibidodoc.com/freebies — it covers both the physical and emotional side and points you toward real solutions. About the Guest: *Jeff Nuziard Expertise: Jeff Nuziard is the founder of Sexual Wellness Centers of America and the innovator of REGENmax®, the only patented protocol proven to cure and prevent erectile and vaginal dysfunction. More than 3,000 patients have completed the program, with outcomes that consistently reflect the remarkable 97.2% success rate first demonstrated in his clinical trial.??His work began with personal experience. At 40, Jeff faced erectile dysfunction himself and found that pills eventually stopped working. Instead of accepting decline as inevitable, he approached the problem differently. Free from the confines of traditional medical training, he asked questions others weren’t asking, which led to 15 years of digging into white papers, conducting cadaver studies, and testing ideas with physicians willing to challenge convention. His persistence paid off: Jeff uncovered why dysfunction happens, why standard treatments fail, and how a multi-layered protocol could restore natural function and prevent decline before it begins. In recognition of this work, he was later awarded an honorary PhD. https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeff-nuziard-24930920b/ https://www.instagram.com/regenmax_ed/?igsh=MTRhdHZuZThmYzFwbQ%3D%3D https://www.facebook.com/people/REGENmax/61557429745690/ https://regenmax.com/ Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction and Jeff Nuziard’s background with erectile dysfunction 1:31 Age-related sexual dysfunction and common misconceptions 4:39 The role of testosterone, collagen, and discovering root causes 11:12 Development of new protocols and laser treatments 14:49 Addressing root causes of sexual dysfunction 15:02 Introduction of the LUXIS device for sexual wellness 17:22 Importance of pelvic floor health 21:02 Accessing resources and preview of part two 23:58 Understanding "sexual dysfunction" and its impact on men 24:58 Encouraging men to seek help with age-related changes 25:35 Introduction of the Lioness device for tracking female orgasms 26:16 Further resources, part two, and closing remarks 26:48 Connecting with Dr. Diane Mueller (0:00) Introduction and Jeff Nuziard’s background with erectile dysfunction (1:31) Age-related sexual dysfunction and common misconceptions (4:39) The role of testosterone, collagen, and discovering root causes (11:12) Development of new protocols and laser treatments (14:49) Addressing root causes of sexual dysfunction (15:02) Introduction of the LUXIS device for sexual wellness (17:22) Importance of pelvic floor health (21:02) Accessing resources and preview of part two (23:58) Understanding "sexual dysfunction" and its impact on men (24:58) Encouraging men to seek help with age-related changes (25:35) Introduction of the Lioness device for tracking female orgasms (26:16) Further resources, part two, and closing remarks (26:48) Connecting with Dr. Diane Mueller
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May 14 · 20 min· Video
He Lost His Drive. Is It His Testosterone? with Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS
You've watched him pull away and wondered if something is actually wrong with his body — and you were right to wonder. Dr. Arthur Burnett, Johns Hopkins urologist, breaks down exactly what testosterone does (and doesn't) do for men's drive, erections, and mood — and why a basic blood test isn't the whole picture. If your husband has quietly gone cold and neither of you knows why, take the free "Why Is My Drive Low?" quiz at mylibidodoc.com/libido-quiz — it takes three minutes and points you toward real answers. About the Guest: *Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS Expertise: Arthur L. “Bud” Burnett II, MD, MBA, FACS is a globally recognized Johns Hopkins urologist, researcher, and educator whose pioneering work in men’s health and erectile function has transformed care worldwide. Dr. Burnett's website: https://drarthurburnett.com/ For interviews, commentary, speaking engagements, or professional inquiries, listeners are encouraged to visit Manifest Greatness Media at https://manifestgreatnessmedia.com/contact/ to get in touch or contact Dr. Burnett directly through his website at https://drarthurburnett.com Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction, hormones, and testosterone's link to libido 1:19 Testosterone's effects on libido, cognition, and physical function 3:30 Testosterone replacement therapy: effectiveness and considerations 4:55 When and why to test testosterone levels 5:54 Testosterone and erectile dysfunction 7:16 Lab tests recommended for testosterone evaluation 9:17 Treatment options and delivery methods for testosterone 14:48 Lifestyle factors affecting testosterone therapy (0:00) Introduction, hormones, and testosterone's link to libido (1:19) Testosterone's effects on libido, cognition, and physical function (3:30) Testosterone replacement therapy: effectiveness and considerations (4:55) When and why to test testosterone levels (5:54) Testosterone and erectile dysfunction (7:16) Lab tests recommended for testosterone evaluation (9:17) Treatment options and delivery methods for testosterone (14:48) Lifestyle factors affecting testosterone therapy
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May 7 · 22 min· Video
Why She Goes Cold When You Try to Flirt with Maureen Pound
If you've stopped flirting with your partner because it never lands — or you feel like you need a manual just to send a text — you're not broken, and neither is she. In this episode, you'll learn why a non-response to a flirty message isn't rejection, and how to read the real signal so you stop pulling back at exactly the wrong moment. And when things do start moving again, make sure you're set up for success — grab Dr. Diane's free Lube Guide at mylibidodoc.com/lube-guide, because not all lube is created equal and the wrong one can kill the mood before it starts. About the Guest: *Maureen Pound Expertise: Maureen Pound is committed to supporting people with sex, relationships and money. ??From her dating book where she provides practical steps for men to connect with women for fun or relationships to her viral TikTok videos where she shares how she became a millionaire and what women do wrong during sex. ??She is said the things that people are thinking but too afraid to say. http://howtogetlaidontinder.com/ Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction, Maureen Pound’s background, and today’s topic 3:02 Maureen’s research and writing her book 4:01 Key learnings from Maureen’s book 7:07 Compliments and their impact in relationships 9:46 Communicating sexual desires with specificity 10:42 Mistakes men make when initiating sexting 12:20 Tips for sexting in long-term relationships 15:00 How to handle receiving a sext 17:20 Responding to sexts when feeling unsure 19:41 Managing sexting amidst a busy day 21:22 Preview of part two and concluding thoughts (0:00) Introduction, Maureen Pound’s background, and today’s topic (3:02) Maureen’s research and writing her book (4:01) Key learnings from Maureen’s book (7:07) Compliments and their impact in relationships (9:46) Communicating sexual desires with specificity (10:42) Mistakes men make when initiating sexting (12:20) Tips for sexting in long-term relationships (15:00) How to handle receiving a sext (17:20) Responding to sexts when feeling unsure (19:41) Managing sexting amidst a busy day (21:22) Preview of part two and concluding thoughts
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April 30 · 19 min· Video
She Never Finishes. He Finishes Too Fast. Here's Why With Dr. Diane Mueller
She's been faking it. He's been finishing too fast. And neither of you has said it out loud yet. After this episode, you'll understand the exact arousal technique that trains your body to build longer, reach deeper, and actually close the gap — for both of you, using the same method. If you want to go further, take Dr. Diane's free Orgasm Perception Quiz at https://mylibidodoc.com/orgasmic-perception-questionnaire/ — many women are already having orgasms and don't know it. (0:00) Introduction, welcome, and importance of sexual satisfaction (1:15) Addressing the orgasm gap, desire mismatch, and oxytocin's role (3:18) Trust adaptation and its impact on relationships (4:31) Benefits of regular sex for health and relationships (5:16) Ancient Chinese sexual practices for health (6:27) Invitation to take the libido quiz (7:10) The arousal scale for men and women (8:55) Techniques for men to last longer and women to enhance orgasm (13:06) Importance of blood flow and genital health (14:03) Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan (16:34) Holistic approach to improving sexual health (17:57) Lifelong sexual activity and maintaining genital health (18:36) Invitation for feedback and guest recommendations (18:56) Outro and contact information
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April 23 · 27 min· Video
She's Not Broken. He Just Doesn't Know How Yet with Dr. Saida Désilets & Aaron Michael
If sex has started to feel like something that works for him and not really for you or you're the one quietly wondering why she never seems to get there you're not broken, and you're not alone. In this episode, Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael reveal why the orgasm gap has almost nothing to do with effort and everything to do with a system nobody taught you including why lasting longer actually means feeling more, not less. Take the free Orgasm Perception Quiz at mylibidodoc.com/orgasmic-perception-questionnaire to find out what your body might already be doing that you're missing. About the Guest: *Dr. Saida Désilets & Aaron Michael Expertise: Dr. Saida Désilets wants to live in a world filled with audacious, sexually sovereign people, living life on their own terms. As a Tedx speaker, counter-culture creatrix, and author, her scientifically proven work on sexual sovereignty globally impacts professionals and the public. When not facilitating transformational programs, Dr. Saida enjoys leading Wilderness Safaris in South Africa and swimming in the Aegean Sea. Aaron Michael is your coach’s coach, helping others discover, explore and integrate their sex life by providing a no BS, pleasure-based sex education. He’s the author of medical & therapeutic protocols, the book Optimal Sex Life, creator of Bedroom Masterclass, and Founder of SuctionSexTM—an Enactive Sexual method that’s changing how the world makes love and how sex therapy and coaching is done. YeahFap.com 9NaughtyNights.com AwakenSensualWoman.com EmbodiedLoveUniversity.com Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction, orgasm gap statistics, and guest welcome 1:14 The orgasm gap and intimacy 2:26 Defining and understanding the orgasm gap 3:07 Orgasm rates and relationship status 4:22 Root causes of the orgasm gap 5:34 Pleasure anatomy and mutual pleasure 7:00 Misconceptions about lasting longer 10:33 Overview of the AFAP program 14:23 Motivation, performance anxiety, and breaking the cycle 15:46 Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's penis pumps 17:44 Strategies to address performance anxiety 20:30 Active receivers and adaptive givers 21:38 Mental arousal and psychological triggers 22:10 Phases of engorgement and sexual response 23:48 Clever cock and clever pussy concepts 24:27 Preview of part two and upcoming topics 25:07 Techniques for deeper connection and couple’s toys 26:05 Free resources, Embodied Love University, and foundational videos 26:56 Closing remarks, appreciation, and reminders (0:00) Introduction, orgasm gap statistics, and guest welcome (1:14) The orgasm gap and intimacy (2:26) Defining and understanding the orgasm gap (3:07) Orgasm rates and relationship status (4:22) Root causes of the orgasm gap (5:34) Pleasure anatomy and mutual pleasure (7:00) Misconceptions about lasting longer (10:33) Overview of the AFAP program (14:23) Motivation, performance anxiety, and breaking the cycle (15:46) Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's penis pumps (17:44) Strategies to address performance anxiety (20:30) Active receivers and adaptive givers (21:38) Mental arousal and psychological triggers (22:10) Phases of engorgement and sexual response (23:48) Clever cock and clever pussy concepts (24:27) Preview of part two and upcoming topics (25:07) Techniques for deeper connection and couple’s toys (26:05) Free resources, Embodied Love University, and foundational videos (26:56) Closing remarks, appreciation, and reminders
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April 16 · 24 min· Video
We Never Said What Cheating Was — And That Was the Problem with Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S
You've been stewing over something your partner did — or maybe you're the one who did something and keeps telling yourself it didn't count — and either way, nobody in this marriage ever actually wrote the rules down. After listening, you'll understand that most betrayals don't start with a choice to cheat; they start with two people who assumed their definitions of "faithful" were the same without ever checking. If this episode made you want to start rebuilding that physical connection, Dr. Diane's free video e-book gives you a step-by-step strategy to get there — grab it at mylibidodoc.com/libido-video-ebook. About the Guest: *Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S. Expertise: Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S., is a therapist-turned-relationship coach, writer, and speaker whose work centers on love, desire, and authenticity. Courtney is the author of Not Tonight Honey and Opened. She has been featured in The New York Post, Cosmopolitan, The Huffington Post, and BBC Radio Live. Drawing on her background in mental health and sex therapy, she brings a unique blend of professional expertise and lived experience to conversations around relationships and identity. When she isn’t writing or coaching, Courtney can be found chasing joy—traveling, reading, or savoring delicious coffee and deep conversation. She is passionate about helping women break free from shame, reclaim their bodies and voices, and create relationships rooted in honesty and autonomy.?Courtney lives in Germany with her husband and three children, where she is still learning, unlearning, and writing the next chapter of her story. https://linktr.ee/coachcourtneyboyer https://tr.ee/2ofFKmEhSK Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction and overview of infidelity with Courtney Boyer 2:43 Misunderstandings, definitions, and emotional responses to infidelity 5:17 Assessing motivation and investment in repairing relationships 7:14 First steps: Creating emotional safety after infidelity 8:28 The role of initial agreements and assumptions in monogamy 11:29 Navigating conversations about boundaries and agreements 17:35 Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's penis pumps 19:30 Setting up successful conversations and maintaining emotional safety 22:33 Preview of part two and communicating boundaries 23:11 Courtney Boyer's free resources and pleasure practices 24:04 Encouragement to explore Courtney Boyer's work 24:18 Farewell, subscribe reminder, and how to connect with Dr. Diane Mueller (0:00) Introduction and overview of infidelity with Courtney Boyer (2:43) Misunderstandings, definitions, and emotional responses to infidelity (5:17) Assessing motivation and investment in repairing relationships (7:14) First steps: Creating emotional safety after infidelity (8:28) The role of initial agreements and assumptions in monogamy (11:29) Navigating conversations about boundaries and agreements (17:35) Sponsor: Dr. Joel Kaplan's penis pumps (19:30) Setting up successful conversations and maintaining emotional safety (22:33) Preview of part two and communicating boundaries (23:11) Courtney Boyer's free resources and pleasure practices (24:04) Encouragement to explore Courtney Boyer's work (24:18) Farewell, subscribe reminder, and how to connect with Dr. Diane Mueller
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April 9 · 31 min· Video
She Used Fantasy to Finish. Here's How She Stopped with Sharon Marie Scott
If you've ever needed your mind to "go somewhere else" to finish or you feel weirdly absent from your own pleasure you are not broken, and you are not alone. Sharon Marie Scott reveals why the brain hijacks arousal and walks through the surprisingly simple technique she used to get back into her body, plus the one Wednesday night rule that saved her marriage's physical connection. If you want to bridge the gap between you and your partner, start with the free Yes, No, Maybe Checklist at https://mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe/ — it’s a conversation starter that feels more like foreplay than homework. About the Guest: *Sharon Marie Scott Expertise: Sharon Marie Scott is an author, erotic mystic, and respected voice in kink, BDSM, and alternative lifestyle communities, where she has spent nearly two decades exploring the intersections of desire, consent, psychology, and spiritual growth.?Her forthcoming book, Forbidden Alchemy: Transmuting Taboo Into Erotic Medicine, traces her journey from early erotic shame to erotic sovereignty — offering a nuanced look at how taboo exploration, somatic awareness, and self-devotion can catalyze profound personal transformation.??Sharon is also the creator of The Pleasure Renaissance, a broader cultural initiative that reframes pleasure as a form of physiological intelligence and emotional wellbeing. Her work helps people cultivate a healthy relationship to pleasure by approaching it with presence, integrity, and self-respect. Forbidden Alchemy: Transmuting Taboo Into Erotic Medicine (available anywhere books are sold, but here's the Amazon link): https://www.amazon.com/dp/1966346492 Website: www.sharonmariescott.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/sharonlifeturnedon/ YT: https://www.youtube.com/@lifeturnedon Substack: https://substack.com/@sharonmariescott Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeturnedon Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Sharon Marie Scott on taboo, orgasm, and mental barriers 1:26 Introduction to today's topic and guest's journey 3:27 The impact of childhood trauma on adult sexuality 5:19 Techniques for disconnecting fantasy from climax and being present 7:22 The role of breath and body awareness in sexual pleasure 8:18 Understanding and addressing shame in sexuality 9:11 Applying techniques to partner play 13:38 Non-penetrative sex nights and their benefits 15:00 Sponsor: Mystery Vibes 18:27 Sponsor: Mature Allure 19:01 Balancing fantasy, real-life play, and BDSM 21:28 Addressing desire mismatch in long-term relationships 25:00 Overcoming erectile dysfunction in BDSM play 26:07 Rope play and taking responsibility for arousal 28:09 Using dance and kink to connect with your erotic self 29:31 Extending foreplay and non-traditional approaches 29:59 Announcement of part two with Sharon Marie Scott 30:21 Sharon Marie Scott's books and upcoming releases 31:39 Closing remarks and gratitude (0:00) Sharon Marie Scott on taboo, orgasm, and mental barriers (1:26) Introduction to today's topic and guest's journey (3:27) The impact of childhood trauma on adult sexuality (5:19) Techniques for disconnecting fantasy from climax and being present (7:22) The role of breath and body awareness in sexual pleasure (8:18) Understanding and addressing shame in sexuality (9:11) Applying techniques to partner play (13:38) Non-penetrative sex nights and their benefits (15:00) Sponsor: Mystery Vibes (18:27) Sponsor: Mature Allure (19:01) Balancing fantasy, real-life play, and BDSM (21:28) Addressing desire mismatch in long-term relationships (25:00) Overcoming erectile dysfunction in BDSM play (26:07) Rope play and taking responsibility for arousal (28:09) Using dance and kink to connect with your erotic self (29:31) Extending foreplay and non-traditional approaches (29:59) Announcement of part two with Sharon Marie Scott (30:21) Sharon Marie Scott's books and upcoming releases (31:39) Closing remarks and gratitude
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March 26 · 30 min· Video
Tips on How to Dirty Talk without Being Embarrassed with Dr. Stacy Friedman
Discover the ultimate secret to talking dirty with confidence. Talking dirty can be a great way to spice up your relationship and create a deeper connection with your partner. However, there's one major mistake that can make or break the experience. In this video, we'll dive into the biggest mistake people make when talking dirty and provide you with tips and tricks to avoid it. Whether you're looking to reignite the spark in your relationship or simply want to improve your communication skills, this video is for you. Learn how to talk dirty with confidence and take your intimacy to the next level. About the Guest: *Dr. Stacy Friedman Expertise: Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist and certified sex and intimacy coach who helps individuals and couples of all genders and orientations discover deeper connection, pleasure, and confidence—inside and outside the bedroom. With over 26 years of experience in the medical field and more than two decades working in the sexuality field, she brings a rare mix of clinical expertise and specialized training in sexual health, intimacy coaching, communication, and relationship dynamics.??Dr. Stacy works with all aspects of sexuality but specializes in helping clients with mismatched sex drives, supporting women who experience painful sex, guiding those exploring alternative lifestyles, and working with the LGBTQ community. She guides people through intimacy blocks, desire differences, and sexual wellness challenges with practical strategies, humor, and a no-shame approach to sex education.??She is also the creator and host of The Purple Passion Project podcast—where real conversations meet just the right amount of spice. Each episode dives into sex, intimacy, relationships, and everything in between, with raw, playful, and insightful talks designed to help people feel less alone and more empowered in their intimate lives.?? Stay connected with me beyond the show! ?Grab your FREE pdf of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore my sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and if you’re ready to take your intimacy to the next level, I offer a complimentary 15-minute coaching consult worldwide.?Find it all at drstacyfriedman.com and follow me on socials @drstacyfriedman.??"My passion is to help you create yours." https://drstacyfriedman.com/ - wait for the pop up on this page to get a free download of.....10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud)” Instagram.com/drstacyfriedman Tiktok.com/drstacyfriedman, Youtube.com/@drstacyfriedman Facebook.com/drstacyfriedman Our Advocacy: Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family. 💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass: https://mylibidodoc.com/masterclass 💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community 💥 Whenever we talk about products, we try to get you discount codes. Sometimes companies change the codes on us. To get the most up to date working coupon codes on products we recommend always go here: https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Products Get stronger better erections and grow in both length in size by getting the top of the line penis pump here: https://bit.ly/3Nn4J0h. Make sure to use the code to get a 10% discount LibidoDoc10 To get part 2 of this conversation including how to have the right kind of sex, how to have more pleasure and how to have conversations about sex that make women want more of it register for our libido club! https://MyLibidoDoc.com/Club More Libido Lounge ✨ Website: https://mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mylibidodoc ✨ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/ ✨ Join the Libido Club: https://mylibidodoc.com/Club/ ✨ Health Store: https://store.mylibidodoc.com/ ✨ Take Our Libido Quiz! https://t.ly/quoNU Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction and flirting as a learned skill 0:36 Misconceptions and overview of dirty talk 1:47 Tools for dirty talk and addressing embarrassment 3:54 Common mistakes and the role of laughter in sex 7:14 Techniques and suggestions for dirty talk 10:26 Flirting techniques for different situations and internal motivation 12:24 The art of flirting outside the bedroom 13:18 Sponsor: Mystery Vibes 16:16 Sponsor: Mature Allure Podcast 16:50 Building foreplay, desire, and teasing examples 19:14 Flirting with memes, GIFs, and habit stacking 21:01 Practicing dirty talk with sex toys (0:00) Introduction and flirting as a learned skill (0:36) Misconceptions and overview of dirty talk (1:47) Tools for dirty talk and addressing embarrassment (3:54) Common mistakes and the role of laughter in sex (7:14) Techniques and suggestions for dirty talk (10:26) Flirting techniques for different situations and internal motivation (12:24) The art of flirting outside the bedroom (13:18) Sponsor: Mystery Vibes (16:16) Sponsor: Mature Allure Podcast (16:50) Building foreplay, desire, and teasing examples (19:14) Flirting with memes, GIFs, and habit stacking (21:01) Practicing dirty talk with sex toys and responding to texts (23:49) Overcoming fear of rejection and setting boundaries (27:41) Dr. Stacey Friedman's free gift and ebook introduction (30:03) Outro and subscription reminder
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