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Today · 45 min
Why Dating the RIGHT Person Can Feel So WRONG
What if you're dating someone you love, but you can't shake the feeling that something is wrong? One day you're excited about the future. The next you're questioning everything. You're waiting for God to tell you they're the one, wondering whether your anxiety is a warning, and trying to figure out if you should stay or walk away. In this episode, Elles and Daniel share the part of their dating story that wasn't so simple. Daniel opens up about the anxiety that followed him through dating and the decision to get married, while Elles shares what it was like to love someone who kept feeling unsure. Together, we're talking through how to make a wise decision when your feelings aren't giving you a clear answer. We'll talk about: Whether dating anxiety means the relationship is wrong or God is saying no How emotionally intense relationships can shape what you expect love to feel like What helped Daniel make a decision without the clear word from God he wanted Telling the difference between anxious feelings and red flags you shouldn't ignore Looking honestly at someone's character, relationships, and shared values Why a wave of anxiety may not be the best moment to make a big decision Getting wise counsel without handing someone else your decision Talking about your anxiety without making your partner responsible for fixing it Supporting an anxious partner while protecting your own boundaries and sense of worth Writing down what you know, what you don't, and what you still need to figure out If you're struggling with dating anxiety, or you're dating someone who is, this conversation will give you questions to work through together. Our story doesn't mean every relationship is worth pushing through. We hope it helps you look honestly at yours, seek wise counsel, and take responsibility for your next step. Let's talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on the Date Well course here: https://www.stan.store/moralrevolution ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/watch?si=QEtKBFrTVPZ-zQyM&v=xFMQDEdVbL4&feature=youtu.be God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
October 27 · 56 min
Christian Couples Break Down What To Expect Your First Year of Marriage
What if you love the person you married, but the first year looks nothing like you expected? The honeymoon is awkward. Sex isn't what you imagined. One of you is focused on providing while the other is wondering why you feel so far apart. And the things you most need to talk about feel like the hardest things to say out loud. In this episode, Alley and Elijah Vallotton are back with Elles and Daniel for an honest conversation about the honeymoon and the first year of marriage. We're sharing what surprised us, where we got disconnected, and the conversations that helped us find our way back to each other. We'll talk about: What happens when your honeymoon doesn't live up to the expectations Why waiting until marriage doesn't mean sex will feel effortless right away The difference between having sex and being able to talk about it How the pressure to provide can crowd out emotional connection The fears we kept to ourselves and what happened when we finally said them Learning to hear something hard without immediately taking it personally Why repairing after an argument is a skill you have to build How trusted mentors helped us make sense of what we were experiencing Being a safe place for your spouse while having support of your own Where to start if talking about your inner world doesn't come naturally If you're single, dating, or engaged, this is a look at the parts of marriage you might not hear about before the wedding. And if you're newly married and finding it harder than you expected, we hope these stories give you a place to start talking. You don't have to have marriage figured out on day one, and you don't have to figure it out alone. Let's talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on the Date Well course here: https://www.stan.store/moralrevolution ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aLy0m16pvgM God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
October 13 · 50 min
16 Questions Every Couple Should Answer Before Marriage
You both want to get married. But have you talked about what life together will actually look like? Who handles the money? How involved are your families? What happens when one of you is struggling with your faith? And are you quietly hoping something about the person you’re dating will change after the wedding? In this episode, we’re walking through 16 questions every couple should ask before saying “I do,” covering faith, family, finances, everyday life, and sex. These are practical conversations that can help you understand what you’re each expecting before you build a life together. We’ll talk about: What a Christ-centered marriage looks like in everyday life How to talk through differences in beliefs and convictions Supporting each other through seasons of doubt Family patterns you want to keep or change Setting expectations around in-laws, holidays, and parenting Getting honest about debt, spending, and sharing money What you expect your lifestyle to look like after the wedding Dividing household responsibilities and the mental load Making room for time together, friendships, and alone time Talking honestly about sex, pornography, and sexual history Whether you’re secretly expecting your partner to change after marriage If you’re seriously dating or engaged, watch this together. Pause after each section, ask the questions, and give each other room to answer honestly. The more you understand about each other now, the more intentionally you can prepare for marriage. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on the Date Well course here: https://www.stan.store/moralrevolution ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wETmXcL64r8 God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
September 29 · 52 min
How to Date When Your Options Are...Limited
What do you do when your dating pool feels tiny and everyone knows everyone? Your ex is still at church. Your crush is friends with someone you dated. Everyone knows you went out before you’ve even decided if you like each other. And if it doesn’t work out, you’re probably still going to see them next Sunday. Dating in a small Christian community can get complicated fast. In this episode, three single Christians in their twenties get honest about what it’s actually like to date when your options feel limited and your dating life isn’t exactly private. We’ll talk about: Whether the Christian dating pool really is too small Why dating in a tight church community can feel so intimidating What to do when everyone has dated everyone Whether dating a friend’s ex should be off-limits How to handle seeing an ex in the same community Who should actually get a voice in your dating decisions Whether a small dating pool makes people settle or become too picky Why Christians keep saying “there’s no one here” How fear of awkwardness keeps people from ever asking someone out What to do when a date doesn’t work out but you still have to see each other Why you shouldn’t let other people’s opinions keep you from pursuing a good relationship A small dating pool doesn’t have to be a dead dating pool.It might just require more courage, maturity, and willingness to handle relationships with honor. So if you’ve ever looked around your church, small town, ministry school, or friend group and thought, “There is literally no one left,” this episode is for you. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on the Date Well course here: https://www.stan.store/moralrevolution ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/ib2TubrJglo God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
September 15 · 52 min
What Nobody Tells You Before Marriage...
Everyone gives marriage advice. Very few people tell you what they wish they would’ve known before they got married. What surprised them? What got harder than they expected? What got better? What do decades of marriage teach you that dating never could? In this episode, three married Christian men answer the questions they wish someone had answered before they said, “I do.” We’ll talk about: The biggest lies men believe about marriage before they get married Whether the first year of marriage is actually the hardest What every husband loses when he gets married and why it’s worth it The seasons of marriage no one posts about online Whether attraction fades or changes over the years What loving one woman for decades teaches you about commitment Why so many married men struggle alone What they wish someone had told them about sex before marriage How kids completely change your marriage Practical ways to keep your marriage strong after becoming parents What they’d tell the guy who’s been dating for years but won’t propose The qualities every woman should look for in a future husband Marriage isn’t about finding the perfect person. It’s about becoming the kind of person who knows how to love, sacrifice, communicate, and stay committed through every season. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, newly married, or years into marriage, we think this conversation will leave you with a healthier picture of what marriage is really like. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on the Date Well course here: https://www.stan.store/moralrevolution ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/t6zHW7kS000 God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
September 1 · 1 hr 2 min
The Truth About Christian Dating
Everyone says, “Date God’s way.” Almost nobody tells you what that actually looks like. What boundaries did you actually keep? How did you handle physical temptation? When did you have the hard conversations? Did you ever doubt the relationship? And how did you know they were the one? In this episode, we’re joined by another couple who dated God’s way and are now on the other side of it. Together, we’re pulling back the curtain on what Christian dating looked like behind the scenes. We’re not glossing over it, or pretending it was easy. Just sharing honest stories about what worked, what was difficult, and what we’d do all over again. We’ll talk about: The biggest mistakes Christian couples make with dating boundaries Why “How far is too far?” is the wrong question Whether protecting physical boundaries was actually worth it The hardest conversations every dating couple should have How much of your past you should share before marriage What their first major conflict revealed about each other How to tell the difference between chemistry and character Whether God really tells you who you’re supposed to marry What role wise counsel played in their relationships How they knew they had found the person they wanted to marry What they wish they could tell their dating-season selves This episode isn’t about finding a perfect formula. It’s about learning how to date with wisdom, intentionality, and integrity so you can build the kind of marriage you’re hoping for. Whether you’re single, dating, or wondering if doing relationships God’s way is really worth it, this conversation is for you. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on the Date Well course here: https://www.stan.store/moralrevolution ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/VYvzBXidMck God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
August 18 · 49 min
How Christians Should ACTUALLY Pursue Someone They Like
Pursuit isn’t a personality trait, it’s a skill. And so is being pursued. Too many Christian singles think one person should do all the work while the other just waits to be chosen, but healthy relationships aren’t built on passivity. They’re built on intentionality from both people. In this episode, we’re breaking down what it actually looks like to pursue someone well and what it means to receive pursuit without playing games, sending mixed signals, or disappearing into passivity. Whether you’re the one asking someone out or the one deciding whether to say yes, this conversation is packed with practical advice to help you date with clarity and confidence. We’ll talk about: The five biggest mistakes men make when pursuing a woman How women can encourage pursuit without chasing Why “playing hard to get” usually backfires What healthy leadership actually looks like in dating How to show interest without sacrificing your dignity When it’s time to define the relationship Whether women should ever make the first move If the guy should always pay for the date How to know when pursuit becomes pressure What to do when someone pursues you well… but there’s no spark Whether you owe someone an honest “no” instead of fading away This episode isn’t about dating games, it’s about learning the practical skills that lead to healthy relationships, strong marriages, and dating with intention. Because how you date is often how you’ll marry. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on the Date Well course here: https://www.stan.store/moralrevolution ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/h4e9jj_scYE God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
August 4 · 55 min
What Christian Women Get WRONG About Christian Men
Do men really think about sex all the time? Are they actually less emotional than women? Does getting married make lust disappear? And what does “men are visual” even mean? In this episode, we sit down with three Christian men to answer the questions women ask about men when the guys aren’t in the room. No macho posturing. No stereotypes. Just an honest conversation about how men are actually wired and what women often misunderstand. From attraction and temptation to rejection, insecurity, romance, and sex inside marriage, we’re unpacking what it’s actually like to be a man from a biblical perspective. We’ll talk about: Whether men really think about sex as much as people say they do What “men are visual” actually means and where the line is between noticing and lust Whether marriage changes attraction or temptation What actually builds attraction inside of marriage How men experience rejection in dating and marriage The hidden insecurities men carry that women rarely see Whether men are really less emotional than women Why some men hesitate to make the first move What happens when a husband and wife have different sex drives The fears men carry into marriage and even into the bedroom Practical ways women can encourage the men in their lives This episode will help you understand men well enough to love them wisely, communicate better, and build healthier relationships. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, we think this conversation will help you see the men in your life through a different lens. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on the Date Well course here: https://www.stan.store/moralrevolution ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/IU5wZYRUCyA God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
July 21 · 1 hr 2 min
Is Submission in a Relationship Biblical?
When you hear the word submission, what comes to mind? For a lot of people, it’s control. Silence. Inequality. A woman losing her voice. But what if that’s not what the Bible is describing at all? In this episode, we sit down with three Christian women who have lived out biblical submission in marriage and ask the questions people are actually wrestling with. No clichés or stereotypes, just an honest conversation about what Scripture teaches and what it looks like in real life. We talk about why submission has become one of the most misunderstood ideas in Christianity and why God’s design is far more beautiful than most people realize. We’ll talk about: - What biblical submission actually is and what it isn’t - Why Ephesians 5 begins with “submit to one another” - Whether submission means a woman loses her voice or identity - What submission looks like during real disagreements - How to respond when your husband isn’t leading well - Where the line is between honoring your husband and saying “no” - Whether the trad wife movement is biblical or just an aesthetic - What submission looks like when the wife earns more, leads more, or is more spiritually mature - How to know if a man is actually worthy of your trust before marriage - Whether submission has any place in dating and engagement - Why God’s design for marriage is meant to help both husband and wife flourish This isn’t a conversation about making women smaller. It’s about understanding God’s design well enough to discover the freedom that’s actually inside it. Whether you’re married, dating, engaged, or simply trying to understand what the Bible teaches, we hope this conversation brings clarity to one of the most debated topics in Christian relationships. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on the Date Well course here: https://www.stan.store/moralrevolution ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
July 7 · 39 min
If THIS Has Ever Happened to You… You’re in a Situationship
You’re texting every day. Hanging out one-on-one. Sharing your deepest thoughts. Praying together. Maybe even imagining a future together. But you’ve never actually defined the relationship. So… are you really “just friends”? In this episode, we’re taking on one of the biggest blind spots in Christian dating: the almost-relationship. The situationship. The undefined “friendship” that’s functioning like dating without the clarity, commitment, or courage. We unpack why so many Christians end up here, what it costs, and how to know if you’ve been lying to yourself about what this relationship really is. We’ll talk about: The seven biggest signs you’re actually in a situationship Why men and women end up settling for ambiguity Whether daily texting is already dating How emotional intimacy can outpace commitment Why “I’m waiting on God” can sometimes be a cover for fear The difference between being friendly and being flirty How to love someone without leading them on Whether it’s okay to date someone else if you haven’t defined the relationship How to know when it’s time to have the DTR conversation Four practical ways to get out of a situationship with integrity This isn’t a conversation about putting more rules around dating. It’s about choosing clarity over confusion, courage over comfort, and honesty over emotional limbo. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “What are we?”… this episode is for you. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on the Date Well course here: https://stan.store/moralrevolution ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
June 23 · 44 min
How a Christian Can Overcome a Porn Addiction
What if freedom from porn is actually possible? Not behavior management. Not white-knuckling. Not “doing better this time.” Real freedom. In this episode, we sit down with three Christian men who used to struggle deeply with pornography and are now walking in freedom. Three stories. Three different seasons of life. One honest conversation about what actually works. Aaron leads the Whole Man Project and disciples men fighting for sexual integrity every week. Aiden is 22, newly married, and got free before dating his now wife. Judah is 22, single, and learning how to pursue purity while waiting for marriage. We talk about what porn took from them, what finally changed, and what they wish every struggling guy knew. We’ll talk about: The moment porn stopped being accidental and became a secret battle Why “marriage will fix it” is one of the biggest lies Christian men believe The difference between sobriety and actual freedom What finally broke the cycle after countless “I’m done for good” moments The one thing that consistently helps men get free How to fight porn when the struggle started before puberty What to do if you only watch “once in a while” but still feel stuck How to talk to a future spouse about porn without destroying trust How freedom changes dating, intimacy, and marriage AI porn, fantasy chats, deepfakes, and what Gen Z is up against now Whether total freedom is actually possible This episode is not about shame. It is about truth, freedom, and what to do when you are tired of starting over. If you spiraled this week, feel hopeless, or secretly think this is just who you are now, this conversation is for you. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448 ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
June 9 · 59 min
Asking Christian Men WHAT THEY REALLY Look For in a Wife (Part 2)
Our episode with 3 single Christian men answering women’s questions completely blew up. 200K+ views. Hundreds of comments. And one overwhelming response: “PLEASE do a part two.” So we did. This time, we’re going deeper. Responding to your pushback, reacting to the most-liked comments from Part 1, and answering the questions we did not get to the first time. We brought back Mark and Ariel, replaced Sam (RIP to the single men panel, he got a girlfriend 🫡), and added Jye to give a fresh perspective. And yes… this conversation gets more honest than Part 1. We’ll talk about: - Whether women making the first move is actually a turn off - When “getting to know someone” turns into leading them on - If men should date multiple women at once while figuring things out - What guys actually owe a woman if they are not interested anymore - Whether “friendship first” is wisdom or just indecision - The insecurities men deal with that women rarely see - What men actually think about a woman’s past and when it matters - Whether there are sexual histories that become dealbreakers - How to lead someone with shame from their past without becoming their therapist - Where single Christian men actually draw the line physically while dating - What to do when someone wants to push boundaries further than you do - Christian dating hot takes the guys think need to die immediately We also react to your comments from Part 1 in real time, including some very direct pushback from women. So yes… some opinions got challenged. If you are single, confused by Christian dating culture, or just trying to understand what is actually going on inside a Christian guy’s head, this episode is for you. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448 ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/f4nGckoVef0 God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
May 27 · 55 min
Asking Christian Women What TRUE Modesty Looks Like
Is modesty about honoring God… or controlling women? Can you be fashionable, feminine, confident, and still modest? Does what you wear actually matter? And what do we do with all the church baggage around “causing your brother to stumble”? In this episode, we sit down with three Christian women for an honest, nuanced, and probably overdue conversation about modesty. We’re talking about beauty, conviction, femininity, social media, lust, validation, and what modesty actually means from a biblical perspective. We’ll talk about: Whether women are responsible for men’s lust What modesty is actually about if it is not just “covering up” What “don’t cause your brother to stumble” actually means in context The difference between dressing confidently and dressing for validation Whether modesty standards should change when you’re married How Christian women practically think through what they wear If Christian women should dress differently online versus real life Why modesty conversations almost always target women and not men This conversation is not about hiding your body or being ashamed of beauty. It is about conviction, identity, wisdom, and honoring God without fear, shame, or performance. If modesty has ever felt confusing, controlling, legalistic, or honestly just exhausting, this episode is for you. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448 ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/f4nGckoVef0 God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
May 12 · 44 min
Real Christian Answers To AWKWARD Relationship Questions
Does oral sex count as sex? Can you slap a guy if he gropes you? Why didn’t Jesus ever get married? In this episode, we answer some of the most awkward, controversial, and honestly fascinating questions Christians secretly wonder about when it comes to sex, relationships, faith, cheating, gaslighting, and marriage. Nothing is off limits. Some of these questions made us laugh. Some got very serious very quickly. And some are the kinds of questions most Christians think about but are too nervous to ask out loud. We’ll talk about: What is actually happening when you “get the ick” Whether oral sex counts as sex and what the Bible says about sexual boundaries What grace really means and why it is not permission to keep sinning How to recognize and respond to gaslighting How to love someone who believes God hates them because they are gay Whether God chooses your spouse and how much weight to give prophetic words Whether it is okay to physically defend yourself if someone crosses a boundary Why Jesus never got married even though God said it’s not good for man to be alone How to know when cheating should lead to divorce versus reconciliation Whether you have to take your husband’s last name This episode is honest, biblical, practical, and definitely not surface level. If you’ve ever had a question you felt too embarrassed to ask at church, this conversation is for you. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= This is the list of 10 sex acts that Scripture explicitly forbids, as originally compiled by Pastor Mark Driscoll: 1. Fornication — sex before marriage 1 Cor 6:18; 1 Thess 4:3–5; Heb 13:4 2. Adultery — sex with someone outside of your spouse Ex 20:14; Matt 5:27–28; Heb 13:4 3. Polygamy — God designed marriage as one man + one woman; Scripture describes polygamy, it doesn’t prescribe it Gen 2:24; Matt 19:4–6; 1 Tim 3:2 4. Rape Deut 22:25–27; 2 Sam 13 (Tamar); Rom 13:10 5. Incest Lev 18:6–18; Lev 20:11–21; 1 Cor 5:1 6. Homosexuality / same-sex sexual activity Lev 18:22; Lev 20:13; Rom 1:26–27; 1 Cor 6:9–10; 1 Tim 1:10 7. Bestiality Ex 22:19; Lev 18:23; Lev 20:15–16 8. Prostitution Lev 19:29; Deut 23:17; Prov 5:3–5; 1 Cor 6:15–16 9. Sexual immorality (porneia) — catch-all Greek term — lust of the eyes, lusting after anyone who is not your spouse, pornography Matt 5:27–28; 1 Cor 6:18; Gal 5:19; Eph 5:3 10. Pagan sexual activity — sex tied to the worship of false gods or one’s own sexual gratification as an idol Ex 34:15–16; Num 25:1–3; 1 Cor 10:7–8; Rev 2:14, 20 On a recent episode of his podcast where he referenced this list, Pastor Josh Howerton added to the list “anything that harms, degrades or is unwanted.” ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448 ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/cj_YfsT1yl0 God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
April 28 · 1 hr
Asking Older Christian Men (50, 60, 70) What Today’s Dating Culture Gets WRONG
What do men in their 50s, 60s, and 70s see about dating today that we don’t? After hearing from single men and married men, the most requested follow-up was this: bring in men who have actually lived it. Decades of marriage. Decades of mistakes, growth, and faith. So we did. We sat down with three older Christian men who have 30 to 50 years of marriage, ministry, and life behind them and asked them the same questions our generation is asking about dating, love, sex, and commitment. This conversation is less about trends and more about truth that will endure through time. We’ll talk about: How their view of attraction and what really matters has changed over time What romance actually looks like after decades of marriage The biggest mistakes they made that younger people should avoid What they see in today’s dating culture that is harmful or foolish What actually keeps a marriage alive for 30, 40, 50 years How to keep pursuing your spouse long after the honeymoon phase What they would tell their 25 year old selves about relationships What they think about porn, hookup culture, and sexual temptation today How to build a marriage that lasts through hard seasons The most important qualities to look for in a spouse What they are most proud of when they look at their lives now This episode is not fast advice. It is long-view wisdom. If you want a marriage that actually lasts, you need to listen to people who have already done it. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448 ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/if0jJ_KDEsw God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
April 14 · 1 hr 5 min
Gen Z Christians Get Brutally Honest About Waiting For Marriage
In a culture where sex is expected early and often… what does it actually look like to wait? Not as a rule, and not out of fear, but as a real, personal conviction. In this episode, we sit down with three Gen Z Christians who have chosen to wait for marriage. Not because they think they’re better than anyone else, but because they’re trying to live out what God designed for intimacy and relationships. We brought both guys and girls into the conversation on purpose, because this hits differently depending on who you are and what you’ve experienced. And we didn’t keep it surface level. We talked about desire, temptation, dating, boundaries, and the questions most people are thinking but not saying out loud. We’ll talk about: Why they’re actually choosing to wait and how that conviction formed The stereotypes people assume about them when they find out Whether waiting feels unrealistic or like they’re “missing out” How they handle sexual desire, temptation, and intrusive thoughts Porn, masturbation, and navigating grey areas in relationships How to communicate boundaries without making it weird What it’s like dating while holding that line Whether they’ve lost relationships because of it What they’d say to someone who feels disqualified because of their past What they’ve actually gained by choosing to wait This isn’t a conversation about perfection. It’s about real people trying to follow God in a culture that’s going the opposite direction. If you’ve ever felt alone in this, confused about what’s right, or unsure if waiting is even worth it… this episode is for you. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448 ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/iPnbz4UfmZc God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
March 31 · 52 min
Asking Christians WHAT REALLY Made Them Call Off Their Engagement
What if calling off your wedding isn’t failure… but obedience? Broken engagements are one of the most painful and misunderstood experiences in Christian dating. There’s pressure to push through doubts. Pressure from timelines, money already spent, other people’s expectations. And underneath all of it, a quiet question most people are afraid to say out loud: What if this isn’t right? In this episode, we sit down with three Christians who love God, wanted marriage, and still made the decision to call off their engagements. We talk about the slow realization that something was off, the internal wrestle between fear and discernment, and what it actually looks like to walk away when everything in your life is moving toward a wedding. We’ll talk about: The moment they first sensed something wasn’t right Whether they ignored red flags and why The pressure to stay when doubts started creeping in How they knew it was time to call it off instead of “fight for it” The fear of disobeying God by walking away What people said and how they handled the questions The lies they had to fight after everything ended How to trust your ability to hear God again What healing actually looked like in the aftermath How to move forward without fear, shame, or regret This episode is not about shaming anyone. It’s not about creating fear around commitment. It’s for the person who feels uneasy but cannot explain why. The person who feels pressure to move forward but knows something is off. The person wondering if it’s too late to pause. A broken engagement is not a broken future. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= ⏰ Timestamps ⏰ (0:00) — Intro (1:36) — Why we're talking about broken engagements (3:54) — How did you meet the person you were engaged to? (4:55) — How long were you dating before the engagement? (5:10) — How sure were you when you said yes to the proposal? (6:22) — How long were you engaged before it ended? (7:31)— Who made the final call to end it? (7:59) — What was God teaching you in that season? (9:00) — How do you regain trust in your ability to hear God's voice? (14:00) — Did you ever feel like you were disobeying God in the relationship? (16:01) — What lies from the enemy did you have to fight? (18:23) — How to respond when people ask what happened (21:10) — Wisdom on keeping relationships off social media (24:10) — How long does it take to heal after a broken engagement? (27:54) — The role of therapy in healing (29:42) — Breaking inner vows and walking in repentance (31:24) — Overcoming trust issues and fear of vulnerability after heartbreak (35:01) — What to do when your ex moves on quickly39:15 — Stop feeding your pain on social media (40:10) — How to know if you should call it off or stick it out (43:03) — Breaking up vs. breaking an engagement vs. breaking a marriage (44:06) — Anxiety vs. a deep knowing that it's not right (46:28) — The difference between relationship anxiety and needing to end it (49:46) — A broken engagement is not a broken future ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448 ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/1ij2Hl1nGOs God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
March 17 · 30 min
Reacting to Christian Dating HORROR Stories
We’re back with another episode of blind reactions to the most unhinged Christian dating stories our listeners have sent in. If you’ve been following this series, you already know the drill. We read the stories for the first time on the podcast and react in real time. And somehow the stories keep getting crazier. In this episode we react to stories like: The girl who asked God for a sign about a guy… and the next day he got arrested The guy who would only hold hands during worship songs The date that somehow ended with a trip to the dean’s office at a Christian college The man who compared a girl to a 12 passenger van while explaining why he wouldn’t date her The ministry leader who used a Samson Bible verse to try to convince a girl to marry him The relationship that came with a very intense and very prophetic future telling mom The church play that ended with someone leaving their fiancé and marrying the Grinch Some of these stories are hilarious. Some are uncomfortable. And some are genuinely cautionary tales about manipulation, immaturity, and confusing spirituality with wisdom. If you’ve ever wondered whether your Christian dating experience was the weirdest one out there… it probably wasn’t. 🎧 Let’s talk about it ============================= Links: Have an insane Christian dating story that should be read on a future episode? Submit it ⁠⁠here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd2G97mnaDx7C6nqRMNXyL8z0waiOKEwPB3bVF582n9Wa7sTw/viewform Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/dating/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/dating/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448 Connect with us: ============================= ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/outgGe76bOI God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
March 3 · 1 hr 14 min
Asking Christian Women What They WISH They Knew BEFORE Marriage
Before you get married, you think you know what matters. After you get married, you realize what actually does. We sat down with three married Christian women to answer the questions single men and women are quietly carrying about attraction, safety, purity, commitment, and what really makes a marriage last. This is not surface level dating advice. This is what shifts in a woman’s heart after covenant… what feels different, what deepens, what gets harder, and what becomes more beautiful than you expected. We’ll talk about: Whether a woman really “just knows” he’s the one The fears they had before marriage and what actually mattered How their view of physical attraction changed over time What truly makes a woman feel safe and secure long term The difference between healthy pursuit and emotional pressure How wives want husbands to communicate about past sexual struggles Whether expecting sexual integrity is unrealistic What to say to a Christian woman anxious about the wedding night What strengthens emotional safety inside marriage What quietly kills connection When a wife needs empathy instead of solutions What ended up being harder than expected What ended up being far better than expected If you are single, this episode may help you prioritize differently. If you are married, it may help you articulate what your heart has needed all along. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448 ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/ljYiSEmxSRI God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.
February 17 · 1 hr 18 min
Asking Christian Men What They WISH They Knew BEFORE Marriage
What do married Christian men wish someone had told them before the wedding day? Because once you step into covenant, everything shifts. We brought three married Christian men into the studio to answer women’s questions about what marriage is actually like, what changes after the honeymoon phase, and what they did not fully understand when they were single. From attraction and lust to respect, purity, romance, and real life intimacy, this conversation pulls back the curtain on how a man’s perspective evolves inside marriage. We’ll talk about: Whether a man really “just knows” she’s the one The hardest adjustment in the first year of marriage How their view of physical attraction changed after getting married The difference between attraction and lust from a married perspective What respect actually feels like to a husband Whether women are unrealistic for wanting a man who does not watch porn How married men pursue purity during seasons without sex What keeps a marriage strong long term What kills connection the fastest What turned out to be better than expected If you are single and trying to choose wisely, this episode will help you see past chemistry and into character. If you are married, it may help you understand your husband more than you expected. 🎧 Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here.⁠⁠ Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here. ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/FX_nkgivsTo God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

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