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Lautenberg Part 2: Domestic Violence and Gun Rights | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep41

In Part 2 of our discussion of the Lautenberg Amendment, the Lawyers Without Billboards team turns from what the law does to the practical question: How can a domestic violence case affect your gun rights, and what can happen before a federal firearms prohibition is triggered? Steve, Patty, Jimmy and Alexa discuss the important differences between criminal domestic violence charges and civil protective orders, how temporary protective orders can affect firearm possession, and why the way a criminal case is resolved can have consequences far beyond the courtroom. The team also digs into diversion programs, dismissals, plea negotiations, and United States v. Hayes, including why the factual basis behind a plea can matter even when the name of the offense does not sound like a domestic violence charge. As always, the discussion comes with an important reminder: serious domestic violence allegations require serious legal attention, and avoiding Lautenberg starts with avoiding domestic violence in the first place. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Part 2 begins 01:38 Lautenberg and the Second Amendment 02:48 How do you avoid Lautenberg? 03:09 Criminal convictions vs. civil protective orders 05:14 Protective orders and unintended consequences 08:17 When protective orders expire 10:03 Temporary protective orders 11:39 When prosecutors get involved 13:00 Diversion and dismissal 16:20 The domestic violence threshold 18:50 Ex parte vs. adjudicated protective orders 20:11 Arrests, bonds and military consequences 22:45 Criminal charges and Lautenberg 23:04 United States v. Hayes 25:24 Plea negotiations and alternative charges 28:32 Federal law vs. state law 31:35 State firearm restrictions 33:21 Final thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/1wFoeFgJMGA or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA #LautenbergAmendment #GunRights #DomesticViolence #DomesticViolenceLaw #FamilyLaw #ProtectiveOrder #SecondAmendment #CriminalLaw #GeorgiaLaw #LawyersWithoutBillboards #ShewmakerLewis

Courtroom Objections Part 3: Who’s Telling the Truth? | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep40

When two people walk into court with completely different versions of what happened, how does a judge decide who to believe? In Part 3 of our courtroom objections series, the Lawyers Without Billboards team tackles character evidence, credibility, relevance, and the rules that determine what a court should and shouldn’t hear. We break down when a witness can testify about someone’s reputation for truthfulness, why specific bad acts usually can’t be used simply to prove bad character, and how cross-examination can sometimes open the door to evidence that otherwise wouldn’t come in. The conversation also covers relevance in family law, including why something that happened years ago may have little bearing on the case today, plus objections involving misstating testimony, assuming facts not in evidence, and questions that aren’t being asked in good faith. Then we get into Rule 403 and the balancing act between evidence that is genuinely probative and evidence that may be unfairly prejudicial, cumulative, confusing, or misleading. Plus, the team shares a few courtroom stories, including gruesome crime-scene evidence, a defendant posing with guns, and why lawyers sometimes need to cross-examine their own clients before anyone ever gets near a c ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 00:41 – The New Georgia Family Law Book 03:53 – Courtroom Objections Part 3 04:20 – Improper Character Evidence 07:01 – When It Becomes a “Swearing Contest” 08:43 – Character Witnesses and Truthfulness 10:05 – Cross-Examining a Character Witness 11:59 – Reputation and the Hearsay Exception 13:06 – What Counts as Relevant Evidence? 14:08 – When Old Misconduct Stops Mattering 16:38 – Why Lawyers Cross-Examine Their Own Clients 17:45 – Legal Advice From Family, Friends…and ChatGPT 20:06 – Misquoting Witnesses and Misstating Evidence 23:15 – Rule 403: Probative Value vs. Unfair Prejudice 24:23 – When Evidence Is Too Prejudicial 27:58 – The “Jesse James” Gun Photo 30:28 – Coming Up: Privilege 31:25 – Closing 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/dbctyPG_2m8 or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA #LawyersWithoutBillboards #CourtroomObjections #FamilyLaw #GeorgiaLaw #Evidence #CharacterEvidence #LegalPodcast #TrialLaw #ShewmakerAndLewis

When Divorce Meets Bankruptcy with Guest Shayna Steinfeld | LWB S2-Ep39

What happens when a divorce settlement collides with bankruptcy law? Bankruptcy attorney Shayna Steinfeld joins Steve, Jimmy, and Alexa to unpack the surprisingly complicated intersection between family law, debt, property settlements, support obligations, and bankruptcy. Shayna explains why a divorce decree may determine obligations between former spouses but does not necessarily prevent a bankruptcy trustee or creditors from pursuing assets later. The conversation covers everything from jointly owned homes and business debt to indemnification clauses, Chapter 7 versus Chapter 13, and the difference between a property settlement and an obligation considered “in the nature of support.” They also discuss practical ways family lawyers can better protect clients when drafting settlement agreements, what happens when one spouse files bankruptcy after divorce, and why bankruptcy issues often require specialized counsel. Along the way, Shayna shares her path into bankruptcy law, her experience as one of the relatively few attorneys working at the intersection of bankruptcy and family law, and how her career developed during a time when women were still significantly underrepresented in legal practice. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – Introduction 00:41 – Meet bankruptcy attorney Shayna Steinfeld 03:28 – World War II history, travel, and books 05:21 – A Family Lawyer’s Guide to Bankruptcy 06:00 – Shayna’s bankruptcy practice and specialties 07:02 – When business debt and divorce collide 09:43 – How bankruptcy courts view divorce settlements 11:05 – Can a trustee claw back property transferred in divorce? 13:38 – Does indemnification protect a spouse? 15:55 – Chapter 7 vs. Chapter 13 and property settlements 17:18 – A real-world contempt and bankruptcy problem 18:41 – Is “in the nature of support” language enough? 21:35 – Drafting divorce agreements with bankruptcy in mind 22:51 – When family lawyers should call bankruptcy counsel 24:04 – Shayna’s career and professional accomplishments 25:15 – Women entering the legal profession in the 1980s 27:40 – What happens when a former client files bankruptcy? 29:59 – Can attorneys protect their own unpaid fees? 31:05 – Why every lawyer needs trusted referral relationships 31:51 – World War II travel and what’s still on Shayna’s bucket list 32:44 – Closing thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/s9_on2FKaSc or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

From Diaries to Deathbed Statements: The Exceptions to Hearsay | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep38

Hearsay is one of the most misunderstood concepts in the courtroom, but the rule comes with a long list of exceptions. In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Alexa, Steve, Patty and Jimmy dig into the hearsay exceptions lawyers actually use, from present sense impressions and excited utterances to medical statements, recorded recollections, property records, ancient documents and even deathbed statements. The team also talks about how these exceptions show up in real family law cases, why admissibility and credibility are two very different things and why good trial lawyers should always assume the other side is going to object. And yes, somehow diaries, light bulbs and 20-year-old emails all make an appearance. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 00:59 Hearsay Exceptions: Why They Exist 02:37 Georgia’s Two Hearsay Exception Statutes 03:41 Present Sense Impression 06:20 Present Sense Impression vs. Excited Utterance 08:44 Existing Mental, Emotional or Physical Condition 11:21 Statements for Medical Diagnosis or Treatment 13:15 Recorded Recollection and Diaries 14:13 When a Journal Is Created for Litigation 16:57 Records of Vital Statistics 17:58 Religious Records and Certificates 19:01 Ancient Documents 20:39 Using Old Financial Records in Divorce Cases 22:21 Property Records and Real Estate Documents 22:59 How Trial Lawyers Prepare for Hearsay Objections 26:02 Prior Criminal Convictions 27:40 When the Declarant Is Unavailable 28:59 Former Testimony 29:09 Dying Declarations 29:28 Statements Against Interest 30:33 The Bottom Line: Assume They’ll Object 30:47 Closing 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/bmQSc27RZEQ or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Is Child Support Unconstitutional? Lawyers Debunk the Internet Myth | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep37

Can child support really be unconstitutional? According to some corners of TikTok, Instagram and the internet, the answer is yes. There’s just one problem: that isn’t what the law says. In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy and Alexa dig into one of the stranger child support claims circulating online: that a Minnesota Supreme Court case supposedly ruled child support unconstitutional. Patty explains what the case actually decided, why the claim has been badly distorted online and how misinformation can turn into very expensive legal trouble when people try to use it in a real courtroom. The team also takes a look at a $279 “child support discharge” packet complete with courtroom scripts, “living man” language and arguments that sound suspiciously familiar to the sovereign citizen world. They also discuss: • Where child support laws came from • What the Minnesota Supreme Court actually ruled • Why child support itself was not declared unconstitutional • Whether child support can be legally “discharged” • Why internet legal scripts can backfire badly in court • Common misconceptions involving VA disability and child support • Why people often search online for the answer they want instead of the law that actually applies If you’ve ever seen a reel, video or website promising a secret legal loophole that makes child support disappear, this episode is worth a listen. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 00:51 Is child support unconstitutional? 02:45 Where did child support come from? 03:52 Child support and English canon law 05:21 The origins of child support enforcement 06:36 Child support enters federal law 07:25 The Minnesota Supreme Court claim 09:05 Holding vs. dicta 10:58 What the Minnesota case actually said 12:36 The internet’s courtroom “magic words” 12:52 The $279 child support discharge packet 15:30 Why the discharge packet won’t work 16:28 Reading the courtroom script 19:04 Child support is constitutional 20:47 The danger of online legal misinformation 21:39 VA disability and child support myths 23:03 Asking ChatGPT if child support is constitutional 24:20 Searching for the answer you want 25:01 Final takeaway 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/bmQSc27RZEQ or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

The Lautenberg Amendment: When Domestic Violence Costs You Your Gun Rights | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep36

A misdemeanor does not always mean minor consequences. In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy and Alexa break down the Lautenberg Amendment and how a domestic violence conviction can affect a person’s right to possess firearms under federal law. The conversation starts with the Second Amendment and the broader question of how far the government can go in regulating firearm ownership. From there, the team traces the law from the Gun Control Act of 1968 through the 1996 Lautenberg Amendment, which expanded federal firearm restrictions to certain misdemeanor domestic violence convictions and eliminated exemptions that had previously applied to members of the military and law enforcement. They also discuss constructive possession, why the exact name of the criminal charge may not determine whether federal firearm restrictions apply, and the importance of the U.S. Supreme Court’s decision in United States v. Hayes. For military members, law enforcement officers, attorneys and anyone facing a domestic violence charge, the consequences can extend far beyond the courtroom ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 00:41 – Meatballs, marriage and a Chick-fil-A burrito 05:52 – Introducing the Second Amendment 07:25 – Does the Second Amendment protect an individual right? 08:47 – Can the government restrict what weapons you own? 13:24 – When can the government take away firearm rights? 13:50 – The Gun Control Act of 1968 15:42 – The original military and law enforcement loophole 18:49 – The Lautenberg Amendment of 1996 21:07 – How Lautenberg changed firearm restrictions 21:40 – 18 U.S.C. § 922(g) and who it applies to 22:19 – Constructive possession explained 23:28 – Felony convictions and firearm possession 25:29 – Misdemeanor crimes of domestic violence 27:22 – Where domestic, criminal and military law intersect 28:19 – Does the charge have to be called “domestic violence”? 29:48 – United States v. Hayes 32:10 – Why the factual basis of a plea matters 33:27 – Key takeaways from the Lautenberg Amendment 33:47 – What future episodes will cover 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/Fzs2MaX01pQ or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Judge Robert Walker on Family Law, Fairness and Life on the Bench | Lawyers Without Billboards S2 Ep35

What does a judge really want to see when attorneys and litigants walk into the courtroom? In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve Shewmaker, Jimmy Lewis and Alexa Lewis sit down with Judge Robert Walker of Gwinnett County for a candid conversation about family law, courtroom professionalism and nearly two decades on the bench. Judge Walker shares his path from the University of Florida College of Law to eight years as an Air Force JAG officer, where he worked both prosecution and defense, followed by time in the Fulton County District Attorney’s Office and private practice before becoming a Gwinnett County magistrate judge in 2008. The conversation turns to the realities of domestic cases, why resolving issues before trial matters, when mediation makes sense and what Judge Walker wants attorneys to remember when emotions run high in family court. Plus, Jimmy recalls one of his earliest hearings in front of Judge Walker, the group talks about what makes the Gwinnett County courts unique, and Judge Walker weighs in on A Few Good Men, My Cousin Vinny, Animal House, Star Trek vs. Star Wars and life outside the courtroom. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 00:49 Meet Judge Robert Walker 03:31 The role of Gwinnett County magistrate judges 04:43 Why family law matters 05:30 From law school to Air Force JAG 08:53 Leaving the Air Force and coming to Atlanta 11:16 Prosecuting in Fulton County 12:00 Private practice and becoming a judge 13:24 Judge Walker’s current caseload 14:43 Family, law school and the next generation 17:53 Would Judge Walker move to Superior Court? 18:33 What lawyers can do to make a judge’s job easier 20:39 When should parties mediate? 21:46 Jimmy’s first hearing with Judge Walker 23:47 What Judge Walker wants people to know about Gwinnett courts 25:54 The Gwinnett courthouse experience 27:16 Steve’s unusual Berlin Wall story 28:46 Judge Walker’s favorite movies 30:43 Life outside the courtroom 33:04 Final thoughts with Judge Walker 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here:https://youtu.be/urYUOzeIlv4 or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Bankruptcy During Divorce: What Happens to Support, Property and Debt? | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep34

What happens when bankruptcy crashes into a divorce case? Bankruptcy attorney Ian Falcone joins Steve, Patty and Alexa to explain how bankruptcy can affect divorce proceedings, support obligations, property settlements, attorney’s fees, joint debt and real estate. Ian breaks down the differences between Chapters 7, 11, 12 and 13, then explains one of the most important concepts in bankruptcy law: the automatic stay. The group discusses what may pause when bankruptcy is filed during a divorce, what can continue and why the answer often depends heavily on the facts. They also explore whether child support, alimony, extracurricular expenses, car payments, attorney’s fees and other divorce-related obligations can be discharged. Ian explains why simply labeling something “support” may not make it support in bankruptcy court and why carefully drafted settlement agreements and indemnification provisions matter. Finally, Ian shares a critical warning for divorce attorneys and spouses dealing with real estate: when a house is titled in only one spouse’s name, filing a lis pendens early may help protect the other spouse’s interest if bankruptcy is later filed. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:10 Meet bankruptcy attorney Ian Falcone 04:40 From “threshold law” to bankruptcy practice 07:20 When divorce and bankruptcy intersect 10:17 Understanding Chapters 7, 11, 12 and 13 12:46 Why people with assets sometimes file bankruptcy 15:05 What happens when bankruptcy is filed during divorce 15:36 The automatic stay explained 16:40 What divorce issues may continue despite bankruptcy 18:52 Why violating the automatic stay can be risky 21:58 Criminal actions, civil actions and contempt 24:40 Why bankruptcy answers are often fact-specific 27:18 Can divorce-related debt be discharged? 28:10 What counts as a domestic support obligation? 29:44 Cars, insurance, college expenses and attorney’s fees 31:00 Drafting agreements to protect support obligations 33:17 Why labels do not control in bankruptcy court 35:19 Why indemnification language matters 37:17 Chapter 7 versus Chapter 13 divorce debt 39:17 Protecting a home with a lis pendens 41:34 Rising bankruptcy filings and struggling businesses 43:14 Final thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. Connect with bankruptcy attorney Ian Falcone: https://www.falconefirm.com/ 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/BNnEoXfG-58 or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com | (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Parenting Plans Explained: Custody Schedules, 50/50 and What Works | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep33

A parenting plan is more than a calendar. It determines how parents will make major decisions, where children will spend their time and how everyday parenting will work after a divorce. In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy and Alexa break down what goes into a Georgia parenting plan, including legal custody, final decision-making authority, regular parenting schedules and the growing variety of 50/50 custody arrangements. They explain the differences between week-on/week-off, 2-2-5-5 and 2-2-3 schedules, why some arrangements create more confusion than stability and how work schedules, school locations, commuting distances and a child’s age can affect what is practical. The team also discusses why there may be no true “standard” parenting schedule and why parents should focus less on counting days and more on creating a plan that genuinely works for their children. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 02:09 – Is a parenting plan required in Georgia? 03:38 – The paperwork involved in a divorce with children 05:20 – Why self-represented parents often struggle with the process 08:13 – What a parenting plan actually covers 09:01 – Understanding legal custody 10:40 – Final decision-making authority 11:08 – The four major areas of parental decision-making 11:51 – Technology, smartphones and social media 12:45 – Dividing medical, educational and other decisions 13:42 – When parenting plans become too complicated 15:50 – Regular parenting time versus holiday parenting time 17:09 – What is considered a “standard” custody schedule? 17:28 – How parenting schedules have changed over time 18:36 – When judges favor 50/50 custody 20:48 – Why parenting schedules must fit real life 21:45 – Work schedules, commuting and distance between parents 23:16 – The trend toward expanded parenting time 23:36 – Why living near your co-parent can matter 25:28 – Different versions of 50/50 custody 25:36 – How a 2-2-5-5 schedule works 25:55 – How a 2-2-3 schedule works 27:21 – Week-on/week-off custody 27:41 – Parenting schedules for younger children 28:49 – Focusing on what is best for the child 29:54 – More parenting-plan topics still to come 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/w-0pd0MJ_ko or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com | (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Asked, Answered and Overruled: Courtroom Objections Part 2 | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep32

The Lawyers Without Billboards team returns for Part 2 of its discussion about courtroom objections. Steve, Patty, Jimmy and Alexa break down asked and answered, argumentative questions, assumes facts not in evidence, authentication, foundation, best evidence, counsel testifying, compound questions, cumulative evidence, speculation and leading questions. They also explain why an objection must be made at the right time, how emails and text messages are authenticated, when repetitive witnesses become cumulative and why lawyers are sometimes allowed to ask leading questions. Naturally, the episode also includes childhood candy, a military office prank and one highly memorable poop emoji introduced into evidence. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:26 Childhood candy favorites 02:40 A military office prank 06:33 Courtroom Objections Part 2 07:12 Waiving an objection 08:23 Ambiguous questions 09:09 Argumentative questions 11:15 Asked and answered 13:14 Assumes facts not in evidence 15:48 Authentication 17:05 Authentication vs. foundation 18:34 Authenticating emails 21:15 Authenticating text messages 23:27 The best evidence rule 25:17 Summaries and financial records 26:38 Counsel testifying 27:54 Compound questions 28:43 Cumulative evidence 30:26 Speculation 32:27 Leading questions 36:17 Closing thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/bcmmcNyrIZY or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com | (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Georgia’s New Laws: Service Dogs, Signal Jammers & Political T-Shirts | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep31

Georgia has a fresh batch of laws on the books, and some are more surprising than others. In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy, and Alexa break down several notable new Georgia laws, including expanded protections for service dogs, changes to the Safe Haven law, new rules for cash rounding if pennies disappear, tougher penalties for signal jammers, and a publicly searchable animal cruelty database. The conversation also covers increased penalties for gift card fraud, human trafficking, and improper sexual conduct by clergy, along with Georgia’s new protections for political expression by public school students. As always, the team explores what the laws actually say, why lawmakers may have passed them, and the practical questions that could arise once they are enforced. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 01:02 Why many Georgia laws take effect July 1 02:33 New protections for service dogs 06:45 Penalties for harming a service dog 09:30 How the podcast is reaching potential clients 10:08 Georgia’s expanded Safe Haven law 11:32 Georgia’s new cash-rounding law 14:49 Magistrate Court limits increase 15:17 Signal jammers become a felony 16:42 New criminal provisions involving clergy 18:13 Georgia’s animal cruelty database 21:13 Human trafficking and pimping penalties 21:37 New gift card fraud offenses 23:38 Political expression in Georgia public schools 25:53 Political clothing, school dress codes, and free speech 30:12 Final thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/QjjqbTgCDMM or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com | (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Cybersecurity for Lawyers: Is Your Law Firm a Disaster Waiting to Happen? | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep30

One bad click can create a very expensive problem for a law firm. Steve, Alexa, and Jimmy welcome attorney and cybersecurity professional Lawton Brown of Exigent to discuss the growing cyber threats facing law firms of every size. Lawton explains why compromised law firm email accounts can spread malware to clients and opposing counsel, how artificial intelligence is making phishing attempts more convincing, and why attorneys may have an ethical duty to take reasonable steps to protect confidential client information. They also discuss cyber liability insurance, ransomware payments, cloud security, compromised charging cables, the risks of placing client information into free AI tools, and the potentially devastating cost of a data breach. Lawton shares the story of a small company that faced nearly $1 million in expenses following a ransomware attack and explains why cyber insurance may deny coverage when a business has failed to follow the security requirements contained in its policy. The conversation eventually turns to Shewmaker & Lewis’s ongoing devotion to WordPerfect, unrealistic computer hacking scenes in movies, WarGames, The Matrix, Star Wars, and the urgent need for a system that automatically deletes Steve’s browser history. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Welcome and introductions 00:41 Meet Lawton Brown 03:13 Lawyer turned cybersecurity professional 06:09 The old law firm server and the move to the cloud 09:55 When hacked law firms send dangerous emails 10:42 Cybersecurity negligence and legal ethics 12:20 Practical email security protections 15:42 The limitations of cyber liability insurance 17:40 Ignoring known security vulnerabilities 19:53 Why small firms are attractive targets 21:31 Cloud servers versus local servers 23:51 What a data breach can cost 25:27 The realities of ransomware 27:00 The battle over WordPerfect 31:57 Hacking in movies versus real life 33:33 Real-world hacking techniques 36:16 Why most attacks begin with email 37:35 Movies the hosts cannot stop watching 40:32 A serious Star Wars technology debate 41:33 Final advice for law firms 📩 Connect with Lawton Brown: Lawton Brown is an attorney and cybersecurity professional with Xogent, helping law firms and businesses protect their systems, confidential information, and day-to-day operations. Website: www.xogent.com Office: (678) 208-8866 To learn more about Xogent’s cybersecurity and managed IT services, visit the website or contact Lawton directly. 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/gQl6xcSkRt8 or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com | (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Divorce Discovery: The Questions You Can’t Afford to Ignore | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep29

What can your spouse ask for during divorce discovery, and what happens if you refuse to answer? Discovery is the process attorneys use to gather documents, sworn answers, testimony, and other information that could affect a divorce, custody, alimony, child-support, or modification case. Although it can sound dry, discovery is often where a case’s most revealing evidence emerges. In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, the attorneys at Shewmaker & Lewis explain: • What discovery means in a divorce case • How soon discovery should begin • Georgia’s general discovery timeline • Requests for production of documents • Interrogatories and the 50-question limit • Requests for admission and what happens if you miss the deadline • How admissions can be used during cross-examination • When depositions are worth the expense • Whether depositions are sometimes used to intimidate • When a discovery request is overly broad, irrelevant, or privileged • How protective orders can limit improper discovery • What must happen before filing a motion to compel The discussion includes real cases involving vehicle trackers, staged photographs, hundreds of requests for admission, expensive depositions, copy-and-pasted discovery demands, and disagreements over what qualifies as a proper discovery conference. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:42 Is discovery really a “necessary evil”? 01:15 What is discovery? 01:51 When discovery begins and how long it lasts 03:43 Tracking discovery deadlines 04:36 Requests for admission explained 06:18 Trackers, photographs, and strategic admissions 08:18 Can someone send hundreds of admissions? 11:01 Using admissions for impeachment 11:39 Document requests and interrogatories 14:59 What happens during a deposition? 17:11 Can a deposition be used to intimidate someone? 19:14 Can you object to discovery? 20:21 Privilege, burden, relevance, and time limits 22:19 When to seek a protective order 24:34 Motions to compel and Rule 6.4 conferences 28:44 Final thoughts and the next episode 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/C3JsQdPcXZU or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com | (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA Edit This Episode Episode is Live Published: Jul. 09, 2026 @ 5AM Edit Add a Transcript Add Chapter Markers Create a Visual Soundbite Mid-Roll Placements Share Link to Episode Episode Share URLCopy View in website Direct Link to Audio Copy Download MP3 Embed Audio Player

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Your Divorce Is Final... Now What? The Critical Steps Most People Miss | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep28

Welcome back to Lawyers Without Billboards! Many people think the divorce is over once the judge signs the final decree. In reality, that's often when some of the most important work begins. In this episode, Steve, Patty, Jimmy, and Alexa discuss the critical post-divorce steps that can make the difference between a smooth transition and years of unnecessary headaches. From transferring property and dividing retirement accounts to handling military pensions, refinancing vehicles, and selling the marital home, they explain why "done" doesn't always mean done. They also discuss what options may exist if you're unhappy with a final divorce order, including motions for new trial, motions to set aside, and appeals, along with the strict deadlines that can affect your rights. Whether you're going through a divorce or simply want to understand what happens after the courtroom, this episode offers practical insights from attorneys who deal with these issues every day. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:47 Why the End of a Divorce Isn't Really the End 02:50 The "Post-Divorce Cleanup" Checklist 04:03 QDROs, Military Pensions & Property Transfers 05:00 Selling the Marital Home After Divorce 08:18 Questions Every Client Should Ask Their Attorney 09:27 Creating a Post-Divorce Action Plan 10:40 Common Mistakes That Create Future Problems 12:44 Managing Post-Judgment Tasks Efficiently 14:15 What If You Disagree With the Judge? 15:05 Motions for New Trial Explained 16:32 Motions for Reconsideration & Term of Court 18:25 Motions to Set Aside a Divorce Judgment 20:20 Appeals and Critical Deadlines 21:47 Final Takeaways for Attorneys and Clients 24:01 Closing Thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/wwbE9BYRgRI or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com | (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What Does "I Object!" Really Mean? What Lawyers (and TV Viewers) Should Know | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep27

What does it actually mean when a lawyer stands up and says, "Objection"? In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, the attorneys at Shewmaker & Lewis explain one of the most recognizable parts of any courtroom proceeding. They discuss why objections exist, how they protect the fairness of a trial, and what judges consider when deciding whether to sustain or overrule an objection. The conversation covers several of the most common objections, including relevance, hearsay, leading questions, and questions that assume facts not in evidence. Along the way, the hosts share memorable courtroom stories, practical trial tips, and insights into how experienced litigators use objections strategically without disrupting the flow of a case. Whether you're preparing for law school, actively practicing law, or simply fascinated by courtroom procedure, this episode provides a practical introduction to one of the most important tools in trial advocacy. In this episode: Why courtroom objections exist What makes an objection valid Sustained vs. overruled explained Common evidentiary objections Relevance Hearsay Leading questions Assumes facts not in evidence Trial strategy and objection techniques Real courtroom stories from experienced litigators ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:26 What is an objection? 03:32 Why lawyers object in court 04:40 What makes a valid objection? 05:40 Sustained vs. overruled 08:56 A courtroom story about objecting 11:15 Common objections every lawyer knows 11:35 Relevance 15:35 Leading questions 17:35 Assumes facts not in evidence 18:20 Should lawyers cite the rule number? 22:25 When objections rely on case law 24:20 A practical trial strategy 25:20 Judge Greg Adams' famous "I sustain the objection" 28:35 Final thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/UyRn2v5SiuI or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com | (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Hearsay: What It Is and Why Courts Hate It | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep26

What exactly is hearsay, and why do courts spend so much time arguing about it? In this episode, the attorneys of Shewmaker & Lewis tackle one of the most confusing concepts in the legal world. They explain how hearsay is defined, why courts generally exclude it, and what makes certain out-of-court statements reliable enough to be admitted as evidence. The conversation covers practical courtroom examples, the importance of cross-examination, common hearsay exceptions, business records, admissions by a party opponent, and the strategic decisions lawyers face when deciding whether to object. Whether you're involved in a legal case, interested in trial strategy, or simply curious about how courts determine what evidence can be trusted, this episode provides a clear and entertaining introduction to the law of hearsay. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:28 What Is Hearsay? 04:22 Breaking Down the Legal Definition 06:12 Why Courts Distrust Hearsay 08:03 Jimmy, Porky the Pig, and a Hearsay Example 12:23 When Hearsay Comes In Anyway 15:07 Prior Statements and Witness Testimony 18:22 Admissions by a Party Opponent 22:22 Why Hearsay Exceptions Exist 24:08 Present Sense Impression 26:31 Excited Utterance 28:47 Business Records Exception 31:16 Real-World Courtroom Practice 32:31 Wrapping Up and Hearsay Part 2 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/UyRn2v5SiuI or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com | (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Inside Family Court: Judge Scott Kaye Explains What Really Happens | Lawyers Without Billboards - S2 Ep25

What exactly does a judicial officer do in Fulton County Family Court? In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, and Jimmy sit down with Judge Scott Kaye, one of Fulton County's most experienced judicial officers, to pull back the curtain on how family court really works. Judge Kaye explains the purpose of 30-day, 60-day, and 120-day status conferences, how temporary hearings and contempt actions are handled, and why Fulton County's specialized Family Division often moves cases much faster than other courts. The conversation also explores what qualifies as a true family law emergency, how Zoom hearings changed the court system, and some of the most memorable courtroom moments Judge Kaye has witnessed along the way. Along the way, the group dives into legal movies, divorce stories, bad movies, courtroom decorum, and why showing up to court from your bathtub is never a good idea. In this episode: ✅ What a judicial officer does ✅ How Fulton County Family Court operates ✅ 30-day, 60-day, and 120-day status conferences ✅ Temporary hearings and contempt actions ✅ Emergency motions in family law cases ✅ Zoom court etiquette and courtroom decorum ✅ Common mistakes litigants make ✅ Why Fulton County cases often move faster ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:42 Meet Judge Scott Kaye 02:57 From Emory to Family Law 05:35 What Is a Judicial Officer? 07:08 Why Fulton County Has a Family Division 09:53 Understanding Status Conferences 11:24 What Cases Judicial Officers Hear 13:15 What Litigants Need to Know About Court 14:00 Zoom Court Horror Stories 15:13 Courtroom Decorum for Attorneys 18:55 How Fulton County Created Zoom Court 19:48 Why Fulton Handles So Many Family Law Cases 20:18 Judge Kaye's Life Outside the Courtroom 21:15 Favorite Legal and Divorce Movies 24:00 Is Kill Bill the Ultimate Baby Mama Drama? 25:51 The Best Judicial Officers in Fulton County 27:30 Memorable Family Law Cases 31:00 Children of the Underground & Family Court Emergencies 33:00 What Really Qualifies as an Emergency? 35:10 The Famous Fulton County 1000-4 Rule 39:50 Fulton vs. Gwinnett Family Court 41:40 What Attorneys Should Know About Judge Kaye 44:05 Final Thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/RGv9SBr_N1g or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com | (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Real Estate and Divorce: Protect Equity and Reduce Conflict with Jill Heineck | Lawyers Without Billboards S2- Ep24

For many divorcing couples, the marital home is their largest asset and often one of the most emotionally charged parts of the divorce process. In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve Shewmaker, Alexa Lewis, and Jimmy Lewis sit down with certified divorce real estate expert Jill Heineck to discuss how specialized real estate guidance can help families protect equity, reduce conflict, and navigate the sale of a home during divorce. Jill explains what makes divorce real estate different from a traditional home sale, why involving a divorce real estate expert early can save time and money, and how proper planning can prevent costly disputes down the road. The conversation covers everything from drafting settlement language and managing difficult parties to handling occupied homes and maximizing the value of the marital residence. Whether you're going through a divorce, considering one, or simply want to understand how real estate issues are handled in family law cases, this episode offers practical insights you won't want to miss. In This Episode: ✔ What a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE) does ✔ Why timing matters when selling a marital home ✔ Protecting equity during divorce proceedings ✔ Common mistakes attorneys and clients make ✔ Handling difficult co-owners and contested sales ✔ Expert testimony and property valuations in divorce cases ✔ How specialized real estate guidance can reduce conflict and delays About Our Guest Jill Heineck is a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE) serving the Atlanta area. She specializes in helping divorcing couples navigate the sale of marital property while protecting equity and minimizing conflict throughout the process. 🌐 Learn more: HeineckAndCompany.com ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:42 Meet Jill Heineck 01:45 What Is a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert? 03:13 How Divorce Real Estate Differs from Traditional Home Sales 05:49 Protecting Equity in the Marital Residence 06:47 Why Earlier Involvement Leads to Better Outcomes 08:22 Managing Difficult Parties and Communication Challenges 10:09 Occupied Homes, Showings, and Court Orders 12:12 Why Divorce Real Estate Requires Specialized Expertise 13:13 Reviewing Settlement Language Before It's Finalized 15:23 Attorney Communication Protocols and Client Compliance 17:25 Geographic Coverage and Working Across Georgia 20:58 Property Valuations and Testifying as an Expert 23:47 Family Law Institute and Final Thoughts 25:13 How to Contact Jill Heineck 25:57 Closing Remarks 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/TMfSy2SP6hs or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com | (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

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What If Your Ex Runs Away with Your Child? | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep23

What happens when a parent takes a child and disappears? In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, the attorneys at Shewmaker & Lewis tackle one of the most frightening concerns parents face during custody disputes: child abduction by a parent or family member. The discussion explores real-world cases of domestic and international child abduction, the controversial story of Faye Yager and Children of the Underground, and the legal tools available to help prevent a parent from fleeing with a child. From custody orders and passport alerts to travel restrictions and court-imposed safeguards, the hosts explain what parents can do when they fear a child may be taken. You'll also learn how Amber Alerts actually work, why most family abduction cases don't qualify, and what courts can realistically do when concerns about child abduction arise. Whether you're navigating a custody dispute or simply want to understand your rights, this episode offers practical insights into one of family law's most serious issues. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:55 What Is Family Child Abduction? 02:15 The Story of Faye Yager & Children of the Underground 07:10 Family Abductions vs. Stranger Abductions 10:15 Real Cases of Parents Taking Children Across State Lines 12:10 International Child Abduction Concerns 13:25 How Courts Can Help Prevent Child Abduction 14:15 Passport Alert Programs & Do-Not-Depart Orders 16:10 Habitual Residence and Hague Convention Considerations 17:30 Why a Custody Order Is Your Best Protection 18:20 Are Amber Alerts Effective? 22:40 Using Bonds to Deter Child Abduction 25:35 Can Child Abduction Ever Be Justified? 27:50 Final Thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/9y0vPomVCn8 or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com | (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

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QDRO Nightmares: Divorce Retirement Mistakes to Avoid | Lawyers Without Billboards S2-Ep22

Retirement accounts can become one of the most confusing and expensive parts of a divorce… especially when QDROs are involved. In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, the team at Shewmaker & Lewis dives deep into the world of QDROs (Qualified Domestic Relations Orders), retirement account divisions, pensions, gains and losses, plan administrator headaches, and the costly mistakes attorneys and divorcing parties make all the time. Jimmy, Patty, and Alexa break down practical QDRO “practice points” that can save people thousands of dollars and months of frustration, while Steve provides comic relief and repeatedly declares this “the most boring podcast ever.” 😄 From pre-approval mistakes to undividable retirement plans, delayed QDRO disasters, and confusion over gains and losses, this episode is packed with real-world insights for anyone navigating divorce and retirement division issues. 🎧 Whether you're divorcing, practicing family law, or just enjoy hearing Steve slowly unravel during technical legal discussions, this episode delivers. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 01:06 – What are QDRO practice points? 02:44 – Why pre-approval matters 05:41 – Understanding model language 09:21 – Retirement plans that cannot be divided 10:50 – Gains and losses explained 15:17 – Problems with old valuation dates 17:17 – Why lawyers aren’t financial planners 20:35 – Doing your homework during discovery 23:22 – “Troublemaking provisions” to avoid 24:15 – Why parties should always review QDROs 26:30 – Steve declares this the “worst podcast ever” 27:29 – Closing thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. 🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here:https://youtu.be/NcprnTFIObQ or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more. 📩 Contact: pshewmaker@shewmakerandlewis.com | (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

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