How To Stop Being A Loser

How to Get your S*** Together and Do Everything You Said You Would

Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor. This week, we're getting our s* together - talking productivity, consistency, and building systems that help you succeed instead of relying on motivation. We're getting into maintaining to-do lists, time-management strategies, balancing your lifestyle, and becoming someone who actually does everything they said they would. Then, it's time for Non-Loser Behavior, where Bella picks a weekly habit to incorporate into your routine that answers the question: What would the healthiest, most self-respecting version of me do? And finally, we get into The Gold Line, where listeners can leave their questions, stories, latest disasters, or simply call to complain. All of it is welcome on Bella's voicemail - and naturally, she has thoughts New episodes every Thursday on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts. Have a confession, question, or story for Bella to react to? Leave us a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/HowToStopBeingALoser or write in at https://forms.gle/CgkMTqDfN1nyrb4j9 - and you might just hear yourself on a future episode. Nothing is off the table, so go ahead and spill. We can't wait to hear from you! Follow us on IG: @howto.stopbeingaloser Hosted by @beedane A little disclaimer: Everything shared on the show is intended for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional, medical, legal, financial, or other expert advice. Do your own research and consult a qualified professional when appropriate.

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WTF is Neuroplasticity

Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor. This week: We're getting into neuroplasticity - the brain's incredible ability to change, adapt, and rewire itself. Then, it's time for Non-Loser Behavior - because knowing better is great, but actually doing better? Even better. Press play. Your brain will thank you. New episodes every Thursday on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts. Have a confession, question, or story for Bella to react to? Leave us a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/HowToStopBeingALoser or write in at https://forms.gle/CgkMTqDfN1nyrb4j9 - and you might just hear yourself on a future episode. Nothing is off the table, so go ahead and spill. We can't wait to hear from you! Follow us on IG: @howto.stopbeingaloser Hosted by @beedane A little disclaimer: Everything shared on the show is intended for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional, medical, legal, financial, or other expert advice. Do your own research and consult a qualified professional when appropriate.

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Season 2 Trailer

Welcome to How to Stop Being a Loser, hosted by Bella Dane - where curiosity meets self-improvement, with a healthy dose of humor. Bella may not be an expert in every topic she tackles, but she's committed to doing the homework. She learns from industry professionals and digs into science, evidence, and real-life lessons to bring you information that's actually worth your time. From science for curious minds to health and wellness, practical advice, unexpected deep dives, and everything in between - Bella's sharing it all. New episodes every Thursday on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts. Have a confession, question, or story for Bella to react to? Leave us a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/HowToStopBeingALoser or write in at https://forms.gle/CgkMTqDfN1nyrb4j9 - and you might just hear yourself on a future episode. Nothing is off the table, so go ahead and spill. We can't wait to hear from you! Follow us on IG: @howto.stopbeingaloser Hosted by @beedane A little disclaimer: Everything shared on the show is intended for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional, medical, legal, financial, or other expert advice. Do your own research and consult a qualified professional when appropriate.

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How to Build a Science Backed Skincare Routine

In this episode, we'll talk about skincare products that actually work and explain how to build an effective, sustainable routine! I'll explain how and why sunscreen is so important, how to pick a cleanser, how to actually hydrate your skin, and ingredients that have been proven to do what they say they do versus trendy, not as effective ones. There is so much information available about skincare, I highly recommend getting most of your information from dermatologists! I'd love to do more specific videos on skincare and wellness trends in the future, so let me know what you want to see next. This information is for general learning only. It is not medical advice. Do not use it to diagnose or treat health problems. Always talk to a doctor for medical care.

Q+A: navigating relationships, building confidence, social skills, wellness habits

In this episode, I answer your questions about relationships, how to make friends, what truly builds confidence, my wellness routine, etc. Thank you so much for listening and supporting the show!

A Guide to Becoming a High Achiever

In this episode, we'll talk about how to get over caring what others think of you to achieve your goals, how to manage being someone who has big dreams, work ethic, discipline and how to be a high achiever when your goals feel unreachable

How To Be Unbothered

In this episode, we'll talk about practical tools you can use to stop letting useless things drain you and treat your energy like your currency, the difference between setting boundaries and cutting people off, and how to truly be unbothered.

How I Became My Own Boss: Content Creating, Influencing + Entrepreneurialism

In this episode, I wanted to talk a little bit about how I became a full time content creator, my career path, what I've learned and share a little bit of my story with y'all. Idk if this is boring or not... basically I'm just talking about myself for 45 minutes which, I thoroughly enjoyed, but. Hopefully some of my advice and story is helpful and interesting, I'd love to share more of it and hear feedback if it is <3

Neuroscience of Relationships, Attractiveness and Confidence: Q+A

In this episode we'll discuss healthy relationship dynamics, the rolls different neuro chemicals can play in dating, how to get out of toxic relationships and general dating tips. I'll also be answering your questions about learning, confidence, beauty and much more. Thank you so much for listening and please follow!

The Neuroscience of Resiliency and Controlling Burnout

In this episode, we'll discuss how to manage burnout, increased stress levels, controlling feelings of being overwhelmed and anxiety, how to stay resilient and consistent with your goals and persevere through tough situations.

A Q+A With Michael Smoak

In this episode, we have our first ever guest on the show Michael Smoak or Higherup Wellness. We did a follower Q+A and answered questions about dating, fitness, mindset, etc. This was my first time ever crying on the internet so lucky you for witnessing this very vulnerable and slightly embarrassing but also iconic moment of mine. I was incredibly excited to have Michael on the show and I hope y'all enjoy listening as much as we enjoyed recording it! Apologies for the imperfect audio.... I literally spent days on this so listen to it anyways and deal with it thank you. Thank you for listening and supporting the show it means more to me than I can say!

Building Emotional Discipline and Self Regulation

In this episode, we'll talk about controlling reactions, emotional intelligence, managing our perceptions, how to self regulate and navigating relationships with emotional discipline!

How to Rewire Your Brain

In this episode, we'll talk about neuroplasticity, the science behind our brains ability to rewire itself, clear up common misconceptions, and explain how we can alter our perceptions, habits and behaviors for a better life.

Social Magnetism + How to Make Friends

In this episode, we'll talk about the importance of social connection, how to be socially magnetic and how to make friends as an adult.

How to Balance Lifestyles and Maximize Productivity

In this episode, we'll talk about how to balance hobbies, work, relationships, productivity, self care and all of the many things we all try to accomplish during the week.

How To Invest In Your Appearance

In this episode, we'll talk about why investing in your appearance is important, investing vs. obsessing, science backed tools for beauty, confidence and wellness, red light therapy, vitamins , collagen, skincare, posture, etc.

How to Stop Overthinking

In this episode, we'll cover how to rewire the brain to stop overthinking, learn to control the mind through practical strategies and psychological tricks, detach from situations and let go of things.

How To Unrot Your Brain With Science

In this episode, we'll talk about how to improve and maintain cognitive function, keep the brain sharp and focused, and support neuroplasticity in everyday life! I am not a neuroscientist or a neuroscience student this is just something I research for fun.

How To Start Liking Yourself Again

In this episode, we'll talk about how to get your spark back, how to get out of a slump and start feeling like yourself again.

How to Become Disgustingly Well-Spoken: Mastering Communication

My best communication, persuasion and articulation tips to help you stop communicating like a loser.