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Highly Official

Highly Official Podcast will be bringing you raw and uncut realness from four stoner best friends in Los Angeles. We will be uploading bi weekly episodes encompassing friends, relationships, drama, dating, music, and more! We also have advice columns where listeners can send in topics, questions, or anything that they need help with in life.

Please feel free to reach out to us with any life problems or advice that you need if you would like to see it anonymously revealed on our next episode: highlyofficialpod@gmail.com

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  • S3 · E7
    October 10 · 1 hr 22 min

    Highly Official EP 7: Letters to Our Younger Selves | Fears, Growth & Girlhood Advice

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. #HighlyOfficialPodcast #Podcast #DearYoungerMe #GrowingPains #BigSisAdvice #Paybae #GirlTalk This week on Highly Official, we’re getting personal and reflecting on the girls we used to be 🥹💗 We’re talking about the qualities our younger selves had that we hope we never lose, the fears we had growing up that did or didn’t come true, and the lessons life has taught us along the way.We’re also getting into the things we would apologize to our younger selves for, the mistakes we’ve made, and the moments that helped shape us into the women we are today. If we could sit down with our younger selves, what would we tell them? What advice would we give our little sisters, and what do we wish someone had told us sooner?From growing pains and self-forgiveness to learning to trust ourselves and giving ourselves grace, we’re having the kind of big sis conversation we all need sometimes. 💌Grab your drink, get comfortable, and let’s get into it. 🥂 FOLLOW HIGHLY OFFICIAL 🎙️ New episodes coming soon 📺 Watch the video version on YouTube 💬 Let us know: What would you tell your younger self if you could go back in time? Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod Connect with us ☀️ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/highlyofficialpod/ Twitter | https://x.com/_highlyofficial TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@highly.official For any serious business inquiries or to send us your life problems, personal stories, or advice topics that you’re interested in having anonymously discussed on our next episode, email us at highlyofficialpod@gmail.com 💌

  • S3 · E6
    September 19 · 1 hr 8 min

    Highly Official EP 6: Pick a Side | Girl Code, Double Standards & Streamer U Drama

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. This week on Highly Official, we’re getting into the conversations that always seem to cause a little drama 👀 When your friends are fighting, do you pick a side or stay neutral? We’re talking friendship loyalty, girl code, dating someone your friend used to talk to, and whether there are actually rules when it comes to dating within your circle. We’re also getting into long distance relationships, living together and having kids before marriage, relationship expectations, and whether you should follow the “traditional” timeline at all. And of course, we’re talking about Streamer University, with yours truly... We get into our host's experience, the people, the drama, and everything that came with it. Grab your drink, get comfortable, and let’s get into it. 🥂 FOLLOW HIGHLY OFFICIAL 🎙️ Watch the video version on YouTube 💬 Let us know: Are you picking a side or staying neutral? Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod Connect with us ☀️ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/highlyofficialpod/ Twitter | https://twitter.com/_highlyofficial Tik Tok | https://www.tiktok.com/@highly.official For any serious business inquiries or to send us life problems or advice topics that you are interested in having anonymously revealed on our next episode: highlyofficialpod@gmail.com

  • S3 · E5
    July 13 · 1 hr 25 min

    Non-Negotiables | We All Have Dealbreakers… Until We Really Like Them

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. #HighlyOfficialPodcast #Podcast #UnpopularOpinions #Relationships #friendships #nonnegotiables Welcome back to the Highly Official Podcast! 🎙️ This week we're talking all about non-negotiables, boundaries, and the things we refuse to compromise on. 😭 From relationship dealbreakers and public embarrassment to alone time, work schedules, financial responsibility, and emotional control, we're sharing our personal non-negotiables and debating whether some rules are meant to be broken when you really like someone. Let us know in the comments what your biggest non-negotiable is, which one you might be willing to bend, and whether a dealbreaker is really a dealbreaker if you make exceptions. Subscribe to ⁠ @HighlyOfficialPodcast ⁠ Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod For any serious business inquiries or to send us life problems or advice topics that you are interested in having anonymously revealed on our next episode: highlyofficialpod@gmail.com

  • June 20 · 1 hr 19 min

    Highly Official S3 EP 4: Unpopular Opinions That Might Get Us Canceled | Bills, Boundaries & Baby Mamas

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. Welcome back to the Highly Official Podcast! 🎙️ This week we're sharing some of our most unpopular opinions and debating the takes that might get us canceled. 😭 From splitting bills and relationship closure to respect for elders, modern dating, and whether baby mothers can be deadbeats too, nothing is off limits. We discuss: • Why splitting the bill isn't always fair • Is closure in relationships overrated? • Why more people should focus on building their lives instead of dating • Should elders automatically receive more respect? • Can baby mothers be deadbeats too? • And plenty more controversial takes Let us know in the comments which opinion you agreed with, which one you hated, and what unpopular opinion we should discuss next. Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod Connect with us ☀️ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/highlyofficialpod/ Twitter | https://twitter.com/_highlyofficial Tik Tok | https://www.tiktok.com/@highly.official For any serious business inquiries or to send us life problems or advice topics that you are interested in having anonymously revealed on our next episode: highlyofficialpod@gmail.com

  • S3 · E3
    June 20 · 56 min

    Highly Official S3 EP 3: Are Men Falling Behind? | Women, Power & Modern Relationships

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. Women are earning more degrees, entering male dominated industries, and becoming financially independent at higher rates than ever before, but what does that mean for society, relationships, and the future of gender roles? We are Highly Official Podcast and we're back with another episode of Season 3 with your co-hosts: Reanan, Payton, Kayla, and Paris. In this episode, we discuss women in male-dominated fields, changing dating dynamics, financial independence, and whether women are "taking over" or simply gaining opportunities that were once out of reach. Please don't forget to like, comment topics you'd like us to discuss, and subscribe for more episodes! Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod Connect with us ☀️ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/highlyofficialpod/ Twitter | https://twitter.com/_highlyofficial Tik Tok | https://www.tiktok.com/@highly.official For any serious business inquiries or to send us life problems or advice topics that you are interested in having anonymously revealed on our next episode: highlyofficialpod@gmail.com

  • May 2 · 1 hr 9 min

    Highly Official S3 EP 2: The Truth Is Public… But Still Hidden | Epstein, Power & Quiet Cover-Ups

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. Everybody’s heard about the Jeffrey Epstein files… but nobody wants to talk about what they really reveal. We are Highly Official Podcast and we are back with another episode of our third season with your co-hosts: Reanan, Payton, Kayla, and Paris. In this episode, we dive into the deeper conversation around government transparency, powerful influence, and the questions that still remain unanswered. From what’s been exposed to what may still be hidden, we’re unpacking the uncomfortable truths and the conversations people tend to avoid. Please don’t forget to like, comment new topics you all would like to hear us chat about, and subscribe for more episodes! Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted... Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod

  • S3 · E1
    March 26 · 1 hr 23 min

    Highly Official S3 EP. 1: Support Black Businesses… But Let’s Be Honest | The Conversations We Avoid

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. Everybody says "support Black businesses"… but nobody wants to talk about what’s actually going wrong. We are Highly Official Podcast and we are back with our first episode of our third season with your co-hosts: Kayla, Reanan, Payton and Paris. In our first episode of the new season, we are uncovering the dark truth about black businesses, why they end up failing, and what needs to be done to succeed better in the industry. Please don’t forget to like, comment new topics you all would like to hear us chat about, and subscribe for more episodes! Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod Connect with us ☀️ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/highlyofficialpod/ Twitter | https://twitter.com/_highlyofficial Tik Tok | https://www.tiktok.com/@highly.official For any serious business inquiries or to send us life problems or advice topics that you are interested in having anonymously revealed on our next episode: highlyofficialpod@gmail.com

  • S2 · E13
    Dec 11, 2025 · 1 hr 8 min

    Highly Official EP 13: Mindful But Messy | Emotional Intelligence & Control and Regulating Emotions

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. Have you ever noticed the difference between people with emotional intelligence, and those without it? Welcome to another episode of Highly Official Podcast! We are back with another episode with your four honorable co-hosts: Kayla, Reanan, Payton and Paris. In today's episode, we celebrated Paybae's birthday 🎂 We also discussed how we process emotions, the chaos of the internet, digital drama, and dating partners who can or can’t navigate their emotions. Please don’t forget to like, comment new topics you all would like to hear us chat about, and subscribe for more episodes! P.S. Kayla did have to step out towards the end because of an emergency, so please be kind 💗 Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod Connect with us ☀️ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/highlyofficialpod/ Twitter | https://twitter.com/_highlyofficial Tik Tok | https://www.tiktok.com/@highly.official For any serious business inquiries or to send us life problems or advice topics that you are interested in having anonymously revealed on our next episode: highlyofficialpod@gmail.com

  • S2 · E12
    Sep 17, 2025 · 1 hr 2 min

    Highly Official EP 12: Real Ones Show Up | Birthday Drama and Expectations vs Reality

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. Is your girl really fake for not attending your birthday dinner are you just expecting too much from her? Welcome to another episode of Highly Official Podcast! We are back with another episode with your four favorite co-hosts: Reanan, Kayla, Paris, and Payton. In today's episode, we discussed birthday drama, male vs. female expectations in showing up, and the reality of why women take birthdays so seriously. Please don’t forget to like, comment new topics you all would like to hear us chat about, and subscribe for more episodes! Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod Connect with us ☀️ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/highlyofficialpod/ Twitter | https://twitter.com/_highlyofficial Tik Tok | https://www.tiktok.com/@highly.official For any serious business inquiries or to send us life problems or advice topics that you are interested in having anonymously revealed on our next episode: highlyofficialpod@gmail.com

  • S2 · E11
    Aug 22, 2025 · 1 hr 7 min

    Highly Official EP 11 Is Love Island Even REAL? | Finale Recap, Unpopular Opinions, Fake or Fate?

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. Is Love Island Even REAL? Welcome to another episode of Highly Official Podcast! We are back with another episode with your four favorite co-hosts: Reanan, Kayla, Paris, and Payton. In today's episode, we recapped Love Island drama, discussed the reality of love behind the TV show, and gave you all some of our unpopular opinions towards the entire season. Please don’t forget to like, comment new topics you all would like to hear us chat about, and subscribe for more episodes! Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod

  • S2 · E10
    Aug 2, 2025 · 47 min

    Highly Official EP 10 Are Black Women Really the Problem? | Interracial Dating, Family & Cultural Pressure

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. Are Black women really the problem? Welcome to another episode of Highly Official Podcast! We are back with another episode with your four favorite co-hosts: Reanan, Kayla, Paris, and Payton. In today's episode, we discussed interracial relationships, the effect of dating outside of your race with friends and family, and also societal pressure and expectations on these relationships. We also touched base on the reasons why black men go after women outside of their race. Please don’t forget to like, comment new topics you all would like to hear us chat about, and subscribe for more episodes! Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod

  • S2 · E9
    Jul 4, 2025 · 1 hr 17 min

    Highly Official EP 9: Is The Friendship Real? | Social Climbing, Outgrowing Friends, Loyalty Loss

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. Are We Choosing Friends For The Right Reasons? Welcome to another episode of Highly Official Podcast! Your four favorite co-hosts: Reanan, Kayla, Paris, and Payton are back at it again. In today's episode, we discussed social climbing and clout chasing in friendships and outgrowing friends because of social differences. We also touched base on pretty privilege having an impact in making friends as well. Please don’t forget to like, comment new topics you all would like to hear us chat about, and subscribe for more episodes! Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod Connect with us ☀️ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/highlyofficialpod/ Twitter | https://twitter.com/_highlyofficial Tik Tok | https://www.tiktok.com/@highly.official For any serious business inquiries or to send us life problems or advice topics that you are interested in having anonymously revealed on our next episode: highlyofficialpod@gmail.com

  • S2 · E8
    Apr 20, 2025 · 1 hr 34 min

    Highly Official EP 8: You Working or Winning? | 9 to 5 vs Entrepreneurs, Pros & Cons, Wage Slavery

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. Which one is harder a 9 to 5 or being an entrepreneur? We are Highly Official Podcast and we are back with another episode with your co-hosts: Reanan, Kayla, Paris, and Payton. In today's episode, we discussed the the pros and cons of 9 to 5 jobs versus entrepreneurship, the glamorization of entrepreneurship, wage slavery, and more. Please don’t forget to like, comment new topics you all would like to hear us chat about, and subscribe for more episodes! Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod

  • S2 · E7
    Mar 14, 2025 · 43 min

    Highly Official EP 7: The BBL Trend is Dead | Clean Girl Aesthetic, Rise of Modesty, Pick Me Culture

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. THE BBL TREND IS DEAD! Consumerism is influences a large majority to slowly transition into modesty and the clean girl aesthethic. We are Highly Official Podcast and we are back with another episode of the second season with your co-hosts: Reanan, Kayla, Paris, and Payton. In today's episode, we discussed the death of the BBL trend, the rise of the clean girl aesthetic and modesty, and fashion trends that we believe should end as soon as possible. Please don’t forget to like, comment new topics you all would like to hear us chat about, and subscribe for more episodes! Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod

  • S2 · E6
    Feb 28, 2025 · 45 min

    Highly Official EP 6: Mind of A Woman | The Comparison Trap, Seeking Male Validation, Self-Love

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. As a woman, what would it take for you to feel whole? And is Male validation something we truly don't care about? We are Highly Official Podcast and we are back with our sixth episode of the second season with your co-hosts: Kayla, Payton, Reanan, and Paris. In today's episode, we discussed what it takes to feel whole as a woman, comparing yourself to other women in person and offline, and the idea of women liking male validation more than we make it seem. Please don’t forget to like, comment new topics you all would like to hear us chat about, and subscribe for more episodes! Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod

  • S2 · E5
    Feb 14, 2025 · 49 min

    Highly Official EP 5: Valentine’s Day | Lust vs Love, Gifting Your Man, Putting Yourself First

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. We are excited to bring you all this gifting campaign with BB Outlet and we invite you all to get free sex toys by clicking the link below!EVERY SINGLE ONE of you gets a FREE TOY! Weʼre partnering with BB Outlet to make pleasure accessible for all, sign up here: https://shopbboutlet.com/giveaway/highlyofficialyt-out It's Valentine's Day ladies, does he love you or does he love you not?? We are Highly Official Podcast and we are back with our fourth episode of the new season with your co-hosts: Kayla, Payton, Reanan, and Paris. In today's episode, we discussed gifting your man in relationships, lust versus love, putting yourself first, and more! Please don’t forget to like, comment new topics you all would like to hear us chat about, and subscribe for more episodes! Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod Connect with us ☀️Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/highlyofficialpod/ Twitter | https://twitter.com/_highlyofficial Tik Tok | https://www.tiktok.com/@highly.official For any serious business inquiries or to send us life problems or advice topics that you are interested in having anonymously revealed on our next episode: highlyofficialpod@gmail.com

  • S2 · E4
    Jan 22, 2025 · 1 hr 2 min

    Highly Official Ep 4: Prayers For LA | Tik Tok Ban, New Orleans Shooting, LA Wildfires, ESPN Lawsuit

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. We've been getting a lot of y'all reaching out about our safety in Los Angeles and we appreciate the concern and support so much! We are blessed and fortunate enough to be safe right now in California but there has been a lot of damage done. We are Highly Official Podcast and we are back with our fourth episode of the new season with your co-hosts: Payton, Kayla, Reanan, and Paris. In today's episode, we discussed some horrific current events in the world right now such as the LA wildfires, the New Orleans shooting, the Tik Tok ban, and the ESPN Lawsuit that has put Joy Taylor in a negative light. Please don’t forget to like, comment new topics you all would like to hear us chat about, and subscribe for more episodes! Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod

  • S2 · E3
    Nov 29, 2024 · 1 hr 24 min

    Highly Official Ep 3: The Friendship Fix | Jealousy, Friendship Breakups, In-Group Favoritism

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. Are you a girl's girl? A lot of you all have opened up to us about struggling with friendships or making friends. As women, it's often difficult to navigate where our friends go wrong and make mistakes without knowing how to come back to a good place. We are Highly Official Podcast and we are back with our third episode of the new season with your co-hosts: Payton, Kayla, Reanan, and Paris. In today's episode, we discussed struggling with jealousy in friendships, bully friends, letting go of trauma, and in-group favoritism. Please don’t forget to like, comment new topics you all would like to hear us chat about, and subscribe for more episodes! Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod

  • S2 · E2
    Nov 15, 2024 · 1 hr 3 min

    Highly Official EP 2 Broke Men Should Never Laugh | Going 50/50, Traditional Men, Setting Boundaries

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. Have you ever thought that broke men should never laugh?! In today's episode, we unpack 50/50 relationships vs. traditional men, setting boundaries, and dating outside of your tax bracket. The topics discussed in this episode are commonly discussed within the black community, but we never seem to come to an end. Please don’t forget to like, comment new topics you all would like to hear us chat about, and subscribe for more episodes! Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod Connect with us ☀️ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/highlyofficialpod/ Twitter | https://twitter.com/_highlyofficial Tik Tok | https://www.tiktok.com/@highly.official For any serious business inquiries or to send us life problems or advice topics that you are interested in having anonymously revealed on our next episode: highlyofficialpod@gmail.com

  • S2 · E1
    Nov 1, 2024 · 1 hr 15 min

    Highly Official EP 1: STOP Zeus Network | Dark Side of Reality TV, Dating Shows, & Baddies Downfall

    Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. Should we abolish Zeus Network? We are Highly Official Podcast and we are back with our first episode of our second season with your co-hosts: Payton, Kayla, Reanan, and Paris. In our first episode of the season, we are discussing the dark sides of reality television, going on dating shows for love, and the downfall of Zeus Network and Baddies. Please don’t forget to like, comment new topics you all would like to hear us chat about, and subscribe for more episodes! Subscribe to @HighlyOfficialPodcast Donate down below ⬇️ Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ZUK4YTF4U5MCJ Donorbox: https://donorbox.org/highly-official-pod

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