
Rejection
Romans 8:38-39 For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. I would venture a guess that just about everyone has had a time in their lives when they have felt the sting of rejection. Whether the rejection was actual or just perceived, we all know how hurtful, isolating, and defeating it can be. When we are rejected, we lose confidence in ourselves and we feel less likely to engage with others. It is no surprise, then, that when pressed for a favorite scripture passage, these verses from Romans immediately stick out at the top of the list for many people, myself included. There is profound comfort in Paul’s repudiation of reasons we might contrive that God could stop loving us: a rejection of rejection. I think that this passage feels particularly profound for an important reason though. Many of us grew up in loving homes with parents that told us how proud they were of us, who built us up. But even if we did, we probably knew someone who did not. And even if we had wonderful parents, there probably was a time in our lives when we remember a parent not being as proud of us as we had hoped for, or choosing something else over us. Parents are human, after all. But a parent’s rejection is a different kind of pain. Rejection from those who gave us life strikes deep into one’s soul. It sears its way into our heart’s memory. So, when Paul says that nothing — not anything imaginable — can separate us from the love of God our Father, I think it brings us comfort and assurance that we children are always going to have that love, no matter what comes. Because the truth is that we will screw up — children are human, too, after all. And when we screw up, it will be okay. But there is one more piece to this. During the Last Supper, as found in the Gospel of John, chapter 13, Jesus says to the disciples (and to us) “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this, everyone will know that you are my disciples if you have love for one another.” Friends, we are to take that radically inseparable love that Paul describes that we have been and continue to be shown and spread it to others. We, too, are to reject rejection. To be known as followers of Jesus, we must do what is not in our nature as humans and certainly isn’t common in society. It feels vulnerable sharing love with others; it can be downright scary! But the amazing thing is this: the love that God the Father pours out onto us is enough. When we feel vulnerable or afraid, nothing can separate us from God’s love, and through that love, we can have the confidence to love others. Thanks be to God. Let us pray. For your boundless, unending love, dear God, we give you thanks. When we have trouble sharing it with others, help us remember your presence with us, your love for us, and your assurance to us. May the only rejection we ever make be one of rejection itself. We pray this in the name of Christ, Love himself. Amen. This devotion was written and read by Dwight Dockery Grace for All is a daily devotional podcast produced by the members of the congregation of First United Methodist Church in Maryville, Tennessee. With these devotionals, we want to remind listeners on a daily basis of the love and grace that God extends to all human beings, no matter their location, status, or condition in life. If you would like to respond to these devotionals in any way, we would enjoy hearing from you. Our email address is: podcasts@1stchurch.org. First United Methodist Church is a lively, spirit-filled congregation whose goal is to spread the message of love and grace into our community and throughout the world. We are located on the web at https://1stchurch.org/.