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Welcome to the Girls Gone Gritty Podcast! In this show, we will engage in authentic, unscripted conversations that span a spectrum of  different subjects, all seen through three unique lenses. 

Dive into real, raw, and often humorous discussions between two sisters-in-law and their closest friend. We offer the kind of advice we'd give our younger selves, revealing the lessons our mothers never taught us but we wish they had. 

Our goal is to inspire, empower, enlighten, and educate our listeners by sharing our unfiltered life experiences. 

Join us as we explore a wide range of topics that have profoundly influenced our identities and shaped us into the individuals we are today.

Let's Get Gritty! 

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  • September 24 · 23 min

    #135 - It’s YOUR Money: Is Any of It Unclaimed?

    What if thousands of dollars with your name on it were sitting somewhere, just waiting for you to find it? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer share how a simple search for unclaimed property led to some surprising discoveries, including forgotten insurance money, an old bank account, and other assets that had been sitting untouched for years. They explain how money can end up with a state’s unclaimed property program, from old checks and utility deposits to pensions, brokerage accounts, insurance proceeds, and forgotten bank accounts. More importantly, they discuss how to search safely, use official government resources, verify your identity, and avoid scams that may ask for sensitive personal information. The conversation also covers mental health and addiction, Princess Diana’s legacy, unusual weather patterns, and the episode’s Dot Grit honorees, Gauchos del Mar, whose adventures turned into environmental activism. Sometimes what is lost is not really gone. You just have to know where to look. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (1:37) Mental health and addiction struggles (3:25) Princess Diana and the revenge dress (5:25) Atlantic and Pacific storm patterns (6:21) Discovering thousands in unclaimed money (10:49) Pensions and forgotten family assets (13:31) Avoiding unclaimed property scams (17:01) Gauchos del Mar and conservation (20:24) Sade and the episode’s music pick (23:21) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • September 17 · 31 min

    #134 - Sex, Sports and Bets: Where Marketing, Money, and Choice Collide

    What happens when sex, sports, politics, celebrity, and money all collide in the same conversation? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer tackle several headline-making topics before turning their attention to Sydney Sweeney’s controversial Novig campaign. They discuss whether choosing to use sexuality in advertising can be empowering, objectifying, or somehow both, and why the campaign has sparked a wider debate about women, athletes, advertising, and the idea that “sex sells.” The conversation also looks at how prediction markets and sports betting have become easier to access, how provocative marketing can pull attention away from the product itself, and why personal choice still comes with long-term consequences. Later, the hosts discuss Bernie Sanders’ public concerns about AI, concentrated technological power, job displacement, and what could happen to workers as companies automate more tasks. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (1:34) Security concerns and accountability (3:46) Nike and women’s sports debate (5:22) Politics inside music and entertainment (8:58) Sydney Sweeney’s controversial campaign (12:58) Sexualization versus female empowerment (16:10) Marketing distracts from gambling (18:21) Sports betting and instant access (20:28) Empowered, objectified, or both (23:53) Bernie Sanders on AI power (28:49) AI automation and job displacement (31:28) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • September 10 · 42 min

    #133 - Grief and Healing: Choosing Life After Loss

    Sometimes grit is not about fighting harder. Sometimes it is choosing to keep living when life has changed forever. In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, the hosts sit down with author, speaker, mentor, and longtime chaplain Lanie Larrua for a heartfelt conversation about grief, loss, faith, and finding purpose after life’s hardest moments. Lonnie shares how facing brain tumors changed the way she viewed fear and inspired her personal motto to live life fully enough that it “overflows” onto others. The conversation also looks at the many forms grief can take, from losing a spouse or parent to major life transitions and unexpected tragedy. Lonnie discusses her years supporting families and law enforcement as a chaplain, the value of hospice care, and why practical preparation can make loss a little less overwhelming. At its core, this episode is about choosing hope when circumstances feel hopeless, having deeper conversations with the people you love, and remembering that life can still hold meaning after loss. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (7:32) Meeting Lanie Larrua and redefining grit (9:42) Choosing life in the midst of hopelessness (11:01) Finding strength after brain surgery (14:45) Helping women through difficult situations (16:47) Becoming a police department chaplain (18:03) Finding hope after tragedy and loss (19:31) Preparing financially for losing a spouse (21:41) How hospice can support families (23:37) Finding help during grief and transition (27:01) Why choosing life is a decision (28:25) Learning to live while grieving (32:23) Faith, hope, and the will to continue (33:53) Having deeper conversations and seeking help (36:41) Where to connect with Lanie (42:36) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • September 3 · 31 min

    #132 - Why We’re Addicted to Being Busy

    When did being busy become something we brag about instead of something we question? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer take a closer look at our culture’s obsession with staying constantly occupied. They share their own struggles with packed calendars, endless to-do lists, multitasking, and the guilt that can show up when they finally slow down. The conversation gets especially real around the difference between being busy and actually being productive. Farley and Jen discuss how busyness can make us feel important, needed, and in control, while sometimes keeping us distracted from ourselves. They also talk about phones, notifications, overcommitting, and how nonstop activity can quietly cost us rest, creativity, relationships, attention, and presence. Before the main conversation, they cover travel laws in Texas, changes surrounding LIV Golf and the PGA Tour, and rising US Open ticket prices. The episode closes with a tribute to Dolly Parton and a reminder that self-worth does not have to come from how full your calendar looks. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (2:03) Texas travel laws and restrictions (3:37) LIV Golf and PGA uncertainty (7:43) US Open ticket prices surge (10:09) When busyness becomes your identity (17:51) Why being busy feels important (18:54) Are we distracting ourselves? (20:08) The hidden cost of busyness (24:19) Honoring Dolly Parton’s grit (30:57) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • August 27 · 27 min

    #131 - Trad Wife? For Better Or Worse? Freedom of Choice or a Step Back?

    What does it really mean for women to have freedom of choice? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer take on the growing “trad wife” conversation and what it says about feminism, family, work, and modern relationships. They discuss why some younger women are choosing homemaking and raising children over traditional career paths, while also looking at the financial realities and risks that can come with depending on one income. The conversation goes beyond choosing between career and home. Farley and Jennifer talk about the invisible work of parenting, the pressure many women feel to “do it all,” and how social media can make traditional family life look easier and more glamorous than it really is. They also stress the importance of talking openly about money, responsibilities, expectations, and long-term plans before marriage. Later, the episode shifts to Erin Brockovich’s efforts to track AI data centers and the environmental concerns surrounding their rapid growth. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (1:48) Top 3 stories of the week (6:19) The return of traditional homemaking (8:44) How generations view work and family (10:14) Social media glamorizes the trad wife life (12:42) Is trad wife culture anti-feminist? (15:33) The pros and risks of financial dependence (16:47) Choosing homemaking without losing independence (19:06) Money, roles, and marriage conversations (20:49) Erin Brockovich takes on AI data centers (24:54) Song of the week (26:44) Appreciation, partnership, and closing thoughts (27:26) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • August 20 · 33 min

    #130 - Pass or Fail? Are Colleges Canceling Failure?

    What happens when we become so afraid of failure that we start removing it altogether? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley Boyle and Jennifer Brenius take on the growing debate around pass-fail grading for college freshmen. Using the University of Michigan’s announced approach as a starting point, they question whether reducing academic pressure helps students adjust or takes away an important opportunity to build accountability, resilience, and grit. The conversation looks at both sides. College students face real pressure from grades, parents, social media, tuition costs, internships, and the expectation to be perfect. A softer first semester could give students room to adjust and try more challenging courses without being overwhelmed. But Farley and Jennifer also argue that mistakes, disappointing grades, and setbacks can teach time management, responsibility, and how to recover when things do not go as planned. Failure can become part of the story that helps someone grow. The episode also covers bone broth, postpartum mental health, women’s sports, the White House Press Corps, and the importance of having tough conversations and using your voice. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (1:15) Bone broth as a morning alternative (3:48) Postpartum psychosis and accountability (7:22) Debate surrounding women’s sports (9:21) Are colleges canceling failure? (10:16) Collaboration versus academic competition (12:11) How grades can create accountability (14:29) The case for reducing freshman pressure (17:20) What students learn from bad grades (19:33) Perfectionism and academic anxiety (22:05) Failure, resilience, and building grit (24:33) Preparing students for college pressure (26:19) Got Grit Award: White House Press Corps (29:28) Music, connection, and being seen (32:52) Having an opinion and using your voice (33:31) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • August 13 · 47 min

    #129 - Living with AI: How to Use It Without Losing the Human Touch

    What happens when AI stops feeling like a new technology and simply becomes part of everyday life? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer look at how quickly artificial intelligence is changing the way we work, plan, communicate, learn, and make decisions. They discuss practical ways AI can help with everything from trip planning and meal prep to home design, job searches, fitness, and workplace productivity. They also break down popular AI tools and explain an important difference between bots that respond to questions and AI agents that can actually perform tasks. But convenience comes with real concerns. Farley and Jennifer talk about privacy, misinformation, scams, job disruption, overreliance on technology, and the risk of letting AI replace real human connection. Their message is simple: AI can be a powerful resource, but it should never become the final authority. Stay curious, protect your information, check what you are told, and keep people at the center of the conversation. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (1:00) How AI entered everyday life (6:04) Fact-checking AI-generated social media (6:26) Learning to use AI wisely (13:21) Comparing popular AI tools (20:59) AI bots versus AI agents (22:25) Protecting your personal information (25:44) Practical AI uses at home (30:09) AI changes hiring and resumes (34:17) When AI replaces human connection (36:46) Using AI with greater caution (41:16) Got Grit Award: Canva founders (47:26) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • August 6 · 33 min

    #128 - Doppelgängers! Best Friend or Evil Twin? The Strange Truth About Lookalikes

    What would you do if you came face-to-face with someone who looked almost exactly like you? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer explore the strange, funny, and sometimes unsettling world of doppelgängers. They unpack the term’s sinister origins, share the celebrities they have been compared to, and discuss famous Hollywood lookalikes who could easily pass as twins. The conversation also examines how genetics, facial structure, styling, plastic surgery, and social media can make unrelated people appear nearly identical. From “copy-paste faces” to artificial intelligence and facial recognition, the hosts question what happens when admiration turns into imitation, and whether technology now knows our faces better than we do. Before the main topic, they weigh in on confusing food expiration labels, paid access to reliable news, and athletes investing in American farmland. The episode closes by honoring the USS Abraham Lincoln crew and the servicemembers showing incredible resilience far from home. The central reminder is simple: someone may look like you, but nobody can truly be you. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (1:41) The truth about food expiration dates (3:44) Should reliable news require a subscription? (5:59) Athletes investing in American farmland (7:25) Meeting your real-life doppelgänger (9:34) The dark origin of “doppelgänger” (12:46) Why Hollywood creates familiar faces (14:52) Plastic surgery and copy-paste faces (19:00) Photographing unrelated lookalikes (19:40) AI, facial recognition, and digital cloning (21:54) Social media imitation and identity (23:24) Celebrity doppelgängers you cannot unsee (28:24) Why individuality still matters (29:20) Got Grit: USS Abraham Lincoln crew (31:30) Song of the week and closing thoughts (33:11) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • July 30 · 46 min

    #127 - How Much Is Social Media (Vs Your Doctor) Influencing Your Health And Wellness Decisions?

    What happens when health advice starts looking more like entertainment than medicine? In this episode, Farley and Jennifer examine the growing influence of social media on the way people approach wellness, beauty, supplements, fitness, and medical treatments. They explain how influencers, celebrity endorsements, discount codes, and carefully designed algorithms can make a product feel trustworthy, even when the person promoting it has no medical expertise. The conversation covers peptides, GLP-1 medications, supplements, wearable health trackers, dangerous viral trends, and the risks of buying unregulated products through gray-market sources. Listeners will learn why a personal success story is not the same as scientific evidence, how health data can become an unhealthy obsession, and why no wellness protocol works for everyone. Farley and Jennifer encourage listeners to research ingredients, understand possible side effects, get baseline bloodwork, and give a qualified medical professional the chance to weigh in. The episode closes by honoring Paris Hilton for turning her influence into advocacy and reminding us not to judge someone solely by their public image. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (1:12) Why social media health advice is risky (4:41) Celebrity influence and questionable brand deals (7:22) The appeal of instant wellness solutions (8:51) How Paris Hilton shaped influencer culture (12:21) Peptides, GLP-1s, and online health products (14:09) How algorithms turn attention into sales (16:47) When health technology becomes an obsession (19:12) Why wellness is never one-size-fits-all (24:33) Bloodwork, research, and medical guidance (28:12) Dangerous health trends affecting young people (32:28) How to judge wellness endorsements (38:39) Paris Hilton’s advocacy and Got Grit Award (45:40) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • July 23 · 32 min

    #126 - What Are Your Guilty Pleasures And Summer Obsessions?

    What if the reset you need this summer is hiding inside a book you cannot put down? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer celebrate summer guilty pleasures, from beach reads and reality television to cocktails, comfort food, and taking time to escape everyday stress. They share their favorite reading habits, discuss why physical books still feel special, and recommend popular memoirs, self-help titles, and page-turning novels. The conversation also covers trending headlines, including food safety concerns, Netflix’s growing interest in live programming, and the environmental impact of AI data centers. Farley and Jennifer remind listeners to stay informed about changes happening in their local communities. They also discuss the value of financial awareness, the importance of helping children enjoy reading, and why sharing a meaningful book can be a simple but powerful gift. The episode closes by celebrating six women recognized for environmental leadership and reflecting on Don Henley’s “The Heart of the Matter,” forgiveness, loss, and healing. Pick up a book, pass one along, and give yourself permission to pause. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (1:12) Summer guilty pleasures and personal resets (1:59) Food safety concerns and contaminated produce (3:53) Netflix brings back live television (5:57) AI data centers and energy use (8:34) Why summer reading offers an escape (12:09) Books that start important conversations (14:21) Favorite beach reads and book adaptations (19:48) How summer reading has changed (22:57) Give someone the gift of a book (24:32) Farley shares her heart book idea (26:05) Women leading environmental change (28:43) Forgiveness and “The Heart of the Matter” (32:01) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • July 16 · 31 min

    #125 - Carbon Monoxide The Silent Killer Every Family Needs to Know and Prepare For

    A single alarm may have saved an entire family from a silent killer they could not see, smell, or taste. In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer share a frightening firsthand experience with carbon monoxide after severe storms caused a power outage and triggered a home generator. When the carbon monoxide alarm sounded early in the morning, the family initially wondered whether it was only a low battery. A fire department inspection revealed dangerously high carbon monoxide levels inside the house. The hosts explain why every alarm must be taken seriously, the common appliances and equipment that can produce carbon monoxide, and the symptoms people often mistake for exhaustion or illness. They also discuss where detectors should be placed, why older units need to be replaced, and how smart or hardwired systems may provide added protection. Listeners are encouraged to check their homes, help family members do the same, and carry a portable carbon monoxide detector when staying in hotels or rental properties. This episode is an important reminder that preparation can protect your family, guests, and pets before an emergency becomes a tragedy. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (1:04) America’s 250th birthday celebrations and tall ships (3:40) A high-profile wedding at Madison Square Garden (6:05) Prediction markets and the risks of easy gambling (8:21) France’s Statue of Liberty light show (10:56) Severe storms, flooding, and power outages (11:36) A carbon monoxide alarm wakes the family (13:11) Firefighters discover dangerously high CO levels (14:01) Why carbon monoxide is called a silent killer (15:14) Replacing old alarms and recognizing symptoms (16:11) How the generator may have caused the leak (18:09) Why travelers should carry portable CO alarms (19:48) Headaches, dizziness, confusion, and other warning signs (21:26) Where carbon monoxide detectors should be installed (23:28) Essential carbon monoxide safety reminders (26:10) The Wall of American Heroes traveling exhibit (29:48) Lyric of the week: “Lean on Me” (30:59) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • July 9 · 37 min

    #124 - How To Identify The Newest Drug Trends

    One honest conversation could save someone’s life. In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer take on a hard but necessary topic: the changing drug landscape and why parents, teens, college students, and adults need to stay alert. They talk about how today’s drugs can look harmless, smell sweet, or hide in familiar forms like pills, powders, drinks, gummies, and gas station products. From fentanyl and pink cocaine to GHB, ketamine, MDMA, Kratom, spice, and other dangerous substances, the hosts explain why “just trying it once” is no longer a casual risk. The biggest takeaway is clear: talk to your kids early, often, and honestly. Ask what they have seen. Teach them about peer pressure, party safety, social media exposure, and why they should never trust an unknown pill, drink, powder, or product. This episode is not about fear for fear’s sake. It is about awareness, protection, and having gritty conversations before the world has them first. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (2:44) Top three current events and Supreme Court discussions (10:44) Why today’s drug risks feel more dangerous for this generation (12:09) Fentanyl, opioids, and why one exposure can be deadly (14:55) Pink cocaine, ketamine, MDMA, and misleading packaging (16:09) “Go fish” parties and prescription pills from medicine cabinets (17:31) Ketamine, Special K, and the danger of K-holes (18:31) GHB, party settings, and odorless substances (22:13) Talking to kids about peer pressure and social media exposure (23:26) Gas station drugs, Kratom, Phenibut, and legal gray areas (27:08) Spice, fake weed, vaping, and synthetic substances (28:30) Scopolamine, “devil’s breath,” and personal safety awareness (31:08) Questions parents should ask their kids about drugs (33:11) Why gritty conversations can protect families (33:41) Got Grit Award: FEMA Urban Search and Rescue Task Force (35:33) Song of the week: “Into the Fire” by Bruce Springsteen (36:42) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • July 2 · 29 min

    #123 - Dating Drama All For Ratings? What Reality TV Is Teaching Our Kids

    Dating drama may be entertaining, but what happens when kids start learning love from shows built for ratings? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer take on the wild world of reality dating shows, from Love Island to the long history of televised romance. They question what these programs are really teaching young viewers about chemistry, loyalty, temptation, physical attraction, and self-worth. The conversation moves beyond judgment and into something more useful: awareness. Instead of ignoring what kids are watching, they encourage parents to watch with them, ask questions, and turn entertainment into honest conversations about dating, values, and real connection. They also talk about how fame, followers, brand deals, and shock value have changed the way people show up on screen. The episode ends with a powerful contrast through Sabrina Pasterski, a young physicist whose story celebrates focus, curiosity, and purpose over attention. It is a reminder that grit often grows quietly, far from the spotlight. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (1:02) 4th of July memories and family traditions (3:18) Top three pop culture stories (8:30) Why reality dating shows are worth talking about (10:31) The rise of Love Island and dating show culture (11:18) Chemistry, kissing, and mixed messages (12:24) Bombshells, temptation, and manufactured drama (14:10) The history of dating shows (15:06) Why today’s dating culture feels different (20:23) What kids may take from these shows (21:53) The cash prize twist and ratings-driven conflict (23:40) Reality TV as curated entertainment (24:11) Watching with kids and starting better conversations (25:15) Got Grit Award: Sabrina Pasterski (27:46) Song of the Week: “Unwritten” by Natasha Bedingfield (29:07) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • June 25 · 34 min

    #122 - 6-7 Stupidity? Or Fun And On Trend?

    What does it say about us when a phrase that means almost nothing can take over an entire generation? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer unpack the wild world of viral slang, short-form video culture, and why trends like “6-7” catch fire even when nobody can fully explain them. From TikTok phrases and “brain rot” to acronyms, outfit checks, and kids speaking in shorthand, they explore how social media has changed the way young people talk, connect, and chase belonging. The conversation also moves through their top three current stories, including Caitlin Clark’s long-awaited Nike shoe, J.D. Vance’s faith-focused memoir, and Elon Musk’s growing power in tech, AI, and space. Along the way, they ask bigger questions about attention spans, instant gratification, culture, and whether today’s viral moments are harmless fun or a sign that substance is getting lost. They close with a Got Grit award for Japanese World Cup fans who clean up after themselves, proving that some trends are worth copying. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (1:04) Recording apart, summer colds, travel, and masks (3:06) Caitlin Clark’s Nike shoe and signature collection (4:45) J.D. Vance, faith, politics, and his new memoir (5:59) Elon Musk, trillionaire status, AI, and global power (11:14) The “6-7” trend and why kids love it (15:14) Slang breakdown: Chud, low key, FR, BDE, ASMR, cuffed, mogging (18:20) Fit checks, OOTD, short-form video, and kids’ screen culture (24:28) Likes, followers, influencers, and the loss of substance (26:18) More slang: tea, 4-1, whip, and trend language (28:45) Got Grit award: Japanese fans cleaning stadiums (32:36) Song lyric segment: “Closer to the Sun” by Slightly Stoopid (33:51) Final thoughts and next episode tease (34:15) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • June 18 · 26 min

    #121 - Dynamic Pricing Makes It A Seller’s Market

    What happens when the price of everyday life starts feeling like a luxury tax on regular people? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer take on dynamic pricing, inflation, and the growing feeling that people are being priced out of experiences, homes, and even simple fun. From Knicks tickets and World Cup seats to real estate bidding wars and fundraising scams, they break down how demand, algorithms, and money are changing the way we buy, give, and live. The conversation also touches on the return of penmanship in New Jersey schools, why handwritten skills still matter, and how fine motor challenges can reveal deeper learning needs. They also warn listeners to be careful with online fundraising platforms and to check where their money is really going before donating. The episode closes with a powerful Got Grit Award for Emma Kok, a young singer with a paralyzed stomach whose voice reminds us that grit is not always loud. Sometimes, it sings. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (3:21) New Jersey brings penmanship back (5:27) GoFundMe, GiveSendGo, and donation risks (9:20) Sports tickets and luxury-level pricing (11:35) What dynamic pricing really means (13:44) Real estate bidding wars and buyer pressure (17:13) The cost of living beyond your means (18:40) Lottery systems, fairness, and access (20:45) Girls Gone Gritty in-person events (21:13) Got Grit Award: Emma Kok (24:27) “Forever Young” and closing reflection (25:42) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • June 11 · 37 min

    #120 - Do You Feel Alone? Finding Connection and Support with Dr. Ariella Soffer

    What if loneliness isn’t just about being alone, but about losing the ability to feel connected? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jen sit down with Dr. Ariella Soffer for a simple, honest conversation about loneliness, depression, therapy, and the power of human connection. Dr. Soffer explains the key difference between temporary loneliness and depression, including how changes in sleep, appetite, behavior, social habits, and self-talk can be signs that someone may need help. The episode also offers practical guidance for checking in on someone you care about without judgment. Instead of labeling the person, Dr. Soffer suggests speaking from your own concern and noticing changes from their normal behavior. She also explains why getting diagnostic clarity from a trained mental health professional can be a smart first step, not a weakness. Farley and Jen also reflect on grief, signs from loved ones, technology’s impact on connection, and the inspiring story of Mandy Horvath, whose resilience is a powerful reminder of grit in action. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (1:06) Grief, family, and meaningful dates (4:38) Loneliness versus depression (5:01) AI vaccines and medical trust (8:36) Future skills kids need (11:28) Meet Dr. Ariella Soffer (12:41) Loneliness and depression explained (15:33) Warning signs and behavior changes (18:22) Finding the right mental health help (24:09) Technology, COVID, and isolation (28:32) Virtual therapy and connection (31:04) Dr. Soffer’s practice and resources (32:21) Mandy Horvath’s grit story (36:46) Reaching out to someone lonely (37:25) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • June 4 · 26 min

    #119 - Out of Here! It’s Escapism! Finding Healthy Ways to Step Away Without Losing Yourself

    What are we really trying to escape from? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer talk about escapism, from movie nights and travel dreams to social media, remote work, influencer culture, gaming, AI, and the quiet pull to disappear from everyday pressure. They explore why people are craving a different kind of life, especially in a world where everyone else’s highlight reel can make your own routine feel small or stuck. The conversation also looks at the difference between healthy escape, like reading, exercising, watching a movie, or spending time with loved ones, and unhealthy escape that becomes avoidance, financial risk, or disconnection. Listeners will walk away with a simple reminder: escaping is not always bad, but it matters what you are escaping from and whether it brings you back stronger or leaves you further away from real life. The episode ends with a moving Got Grit Award story about kindness, loneliness, and the power of helping someone feel seen. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (0:58) Celebrating birthdays, milestones, and summer (2:38) Blue Origin, Starlink, and space competition (4:19) Tomato prices, tariffs, and grocery costs (5:37) Spielberg nostalgia and movie theater memories (7:31) Why escapism is everywhere right now (9:12) When influencer dreams become risky (10:50) Remote work and changing life expectations (12:33) The hidden reality behind influencer life (14:18) AI, gaming, and virtual escape (15:45) Healthy vs. unhealthy escapism (17:38) When distraction turns into avoidance (18:40) Escapism, loneliness, and depression (20:04) The Got Grit Award kindness story (24:13) Fragile lyrics and final reflection (25:48) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • May 28 · 25 min

    #118 - Smart Car Shopping - A Buying Guide For Women And Men Too!

    Buying a car should not feel like entering a battlefield, but for many women, it can. In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer bring humor, honesty, and practical grit to the car-buying process. From insurance costs and dealership pressure to recalls, warranties, financing, and the emotional side of choosing the right vehicle, they break down why walking into a dealership prepared matters. They also talk about how men and women often approach cars differently, with some leaning toward status and performance while others think about safety, lifestyle, practicality, and family needs. The episode offers useful reminders for anyone shopping for a car: know your credit score, research APR rates, check the VIN, compare Carfax with NHTSA recall information, and do not be afraid to “phone a friend” before signing anything. It is a fun, real-world conversation about confidence, preparation, and making smart choices without letting pressure take the wheel. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (0:59) Buying a car as a woman (1:49) Top three news stories (5:00) Needing another family vehicle (5:33) Why car lots feel intimidating (7:21) Men, women, and car choices (10:55) Picking one car for many needs (12:35) Helpful car safety technology (14:34) Financing, warranties, and hidden costs (16:00) Checking recalls with NHTSA (18:47) Credit scores, APR, and lease math (20:34) Negotiation and phoning a friend (22:18) Got Grit Award for oyster restoration (24:09) Song of the week: “Confident” Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • May 21 · 27 min

    #117 - The Love of Pet Influencers: Why Animals Own the Internet

    What if the thing making you smile online is also the thing keeping you scrolling? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer talk about the unexpected power of pets on social media, from viral dog videos to the way algorithms use feel-good content to keep people engaged. Farley shares how Moose’s Instagram account quickly gained huge views, likes, and shares, proving that people connect deeply with simple, joyful animal moments. But the episode also looks at the other side of online attention. The hosts talk about short-form video, privacy settings, location sharing, AI content permissions, and why people need to be more careful about what they post. Along the way, they celebrate the love pets bring, highlight Croatia’s dog lifeguards, and reflect on how music and animals can help people feel comforted when life feels heavy. It’s funny, honest, and a little eye-opening. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (1:17) Recapping Last Week’s Conversation (3:02) Top Three Headlines Begin (8:37) Why Pet Content Feels So Good (9:21) Moose Goes Viral Online (10:46) Algorithms, Dopamine, and Doom Scrolling (12:29) The Reel That Took Off (15:12) Pet Influencers and Product Offers (17:32) TikTok, AI, and Content Permissions (18:42) Privacy Risks and Location Settings (21:32) Croatia’s Dog Lifeguards Get Gritty (24:36) Creating a Family Pet Instagram (25:24) Music, Comfort, and “Fix You” (27:34) Outro Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

  • May 14 · 37 min

    #116 - Porn, Toys & Truth: What Is Cheating?

    What counts as cheating when no one else is technically in the room? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer get honest about boundaries, secrecy, sex, technology, and the conversations many couples avoid. They start with lighter updates, from graduation season and family milestones to NCAA eligibility changes and Elizabeth Smart’s powerful reinvention through bodybuilding. Then the episode shifts into a bold and uncomfortable question: where is the line between personal privacy and betrayal? The hosts talk through emotional affairs, porn, sex toys, masturbation, and how technology has changed intimacy, trust, and access. They question whether secrecy is the real issue, why emotional connection outside a relationship can feel more painful than physical cheating, and how couples need clearer conversations around what feels respectful or hurtful. The episode also honors Lulu Gribbin with the Got Grit Award for turning trauma into a safety initiative, then closes with a reminder to trust your gut, speak up, and keep communication honest. Episode Highlights: (0:00) Intro (1:06) Celebrating graduations and family milestones (2:40) Top three stories of the week (5:08) NCAA changes athlete eligibility rules (8:14) Elizabeth Smart’s bodybuilding comeback (10:07) Setting up the cheating conversation (11:49) Statistics around men, women, and infidelity (13:26) Why emotional affairs can hurt deeply (15:16) Do sex toys and porn cross a line? (18:50) Technology, porn, and blurred boundaries (22:17) The 80-20 rule of infidelity (23:13) Sex toys, privacy, and personal choice (28:11) Protecting innocence in a digital world (30:16) Got Grit Award: Lulu Gribbin (32:47) Song of the week: “Madeline” Send us Fan Mail Support the show Follow us: Web: https://girlsgonegritty.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonegritty/ More ways to find us: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonegritty

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