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figuring IT out

Myles Grey

figuring IT out is a raw, honest, and sometimes unfiltered look at what happens when the life you thought you were building suddenly changes.

This podcast is about relationships, heartbreak, dating, sex, identity, growing up, starting over, and all the messy moments in between. There won’t always be answers, and there definitely won’t always be a neat ending.

Just real conversations, real experiences, a little humor, and one person trying to figure out what comes next.

Because maybe none of us really have it figured out.

Maybe we’re all just figuring IT out.

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  • 5 episodes
  • Avg 19 min
  • English

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  • S1 · E4
    September 13 · 1 min

    BONUS: How Do You Unlearn Someone You Grew Up Knowing?

    Sometimes the hardest part isn’t losing someone. It’s realizing you still know them by heart while questioning whether you still belong in their life. A short preview of Episode 4 of figuring IT out with Myles Grey — I Don’t Know Who I Am Without Us.

  • S1 · E3
    September 12 · 48 min

    When Love Isn’t Enough

    Love doesn’t always mean forever. Sometimes you can love someone deeply and still reach the end of a relationship. In this episode of figuring IT out, Myles talks about what happens when love isn’t enough to repair what’s been broken—when history, memories, and commitment can’t erase the ways two people have changed. This is a conversation about loss, acceptance, and the painful space between wanting to fight for something and realizing the other person may already be done. It’s about questioning whether love can survive without trust, compatibility, or the same vision for the future—and learning that letting go doesn’t mean the love wasn’t real. No perfect answers. No clean ending. Just an honest conversation about what it means to lose someone you still love—and keep figuring IT out.

  • S1 · E3
    September 5 · 3 min

    BONUS: How Do You Miss Someone Who’s Still There?

    What do you do when you still love someone who feels completely out of reach? A short preview of Episode 3 of figuring IT out — When Love Isn’t Enough. New episodes every Saturday. 🎙️

  • S1 · E2
    September 5 · 33 min

    I’m Tired of Being Strong

    August was fucking rough. Somewhere along the way, “being strong” stopped feeling like a compliment and started feeling like an expectation. This week, I’m talking about what happens when life keeps going, you keep functioning… and nobody realizes how exhausted you actually are. I don’t know how to fix all of this yet. I just know I’m still here. What if, just for a moment, you didn’t have to be strong? Maybe we’re all just figuring IT out. figuring IT out with Myles GreyNew episodes every Saturday. 🎙️

  • S1 · E1
    August 29 · 9 min

    Okay…Now what?

    What happens when the life you’ve known for nearly half of your existence suddenly isn’t going to be your life anymore? In the first episode of Figuring It Out, I’m starting at the beginning—or maybe the end. At 32, after 15 years with the same person, I’m facing divorce and trying to understand what comes next. Not just after a relationship, but for me. Who am I without being someone’s boyfriend, constant, or husband? How do you learn to be alone when you’ve spent your entire adult life with someone? And how do you fall in love with yourself when you’re not even sure you recognize who you’ve become? I talk about the strange mix of heartbreak, fear, excitement, uncertainty, and even humor that comes with starting over—and why two completely opposite emotions can sometimes be true at the same time. I don’t know what the next six months will look like. I don’t know who I’ll be on the other side of this. For once, maybe I don’t need to. No roadmap. No perfect answers. Just figuring IT out.

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