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Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.


Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them—and they have the stories to prove it!


Have a relationship quandary or Am-I-The-Asshole question? Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental advice in their fan-favorite Q&A episodes and Caller sessions.


As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge (combined with Andy's hilarious commentary) to deliver what are hands-down the best Reality TV recaps in the business. They interview reality TV (or reality-adjacent) couples in double-date style episodes called Love Fests. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during TV seasons, twice a week.


Email your questions to: dearshandy@gmail.com

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  • #465
    May 20 · 1 hr 16 min

    Perfect Match S4: Episodes 6-7 Recap & Review - Ep 465

    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 6-7! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose! - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:06 - Episode 6 33:53 - Episode 7 1:12:15 - Shandy's Predictions 1:14:44 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #464
    May 14 · 1 hr 22 min

    Perfect Match S4: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 464

    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-5! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Buy 1 pair of prescription glasses and get 20% off any additional prescription pairs at https://warbyparker.com/SHANDY - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:16 - Episode 1 26:10 - Episode 2 35:32 - Episode 3 56:14 - Episode 4 1:07:53 - Episode 5 1:19:11 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  • #463
    May 7 · 52 min

    U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463

    Today Shandy is joined by fellow podcasters and dating advice givers, Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham from the U Up? Podcast! They chat the most common themes they see in the questions they receive, whether or not dating today is *actually* worse (or if we're just talking about it more), and what it's like to date when you're famous! Watch on for two relationship podcasts' (sometimes very different!) perspectives on apps and modern romance. Thanks to our sponsors: - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! More Jordana & Jared: - The U Up? Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/u.up.podcast - Jordana: https://www.instagram.com/jordanaabraham - Jared: https://www.instagram.com/jaredfreid Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Jordana Abraham & Jared Freid of U Up? Podcast! 0:47 - What Are The Most Common Themes They See In Their Relationship Qs? 9:34 - Is Dating Today Actually Worse Or Are We Just Talking About It More? 11:51 - Number One Piece Of Dating Advice 21:43 - Dating When You’re Famous 25:22 - Leaving The House 31:57 - Advice They Give That They Struggle To Follow 39:06 - Would You Rather If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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