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Dear Future Wifey

Laterras R. Whitfield

Journey with me, Laterras R. Whitfield, as I discover, uncover, and recover love. From interviews with singles, married, divorcees, and maybe even those in polyamorous relationships, we promise every episode to be L.I.T. (Living Intentionally Transparent).

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  • S11 · E43
    Today · 1 hr 7 min

    The Power of Petty Prayers (Guest: Nona Jones)

    Have you ever prayed for God to heal your heart while secretly hoping He would humble the person who broke it? In this powerful and refreshingly honest episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield sit down with bestselling author, speaker, and faith leader Nona Jones for a revealing conversation about "The Power of Petty Prayers". What happens when our prayers are fueled by pain, betrayal, resentment, and a desire for revenge? Nona unpacks the tension between wanting God to fight our battles and wanting Him to punish the people who hurt us. Through biblical wisdom and personal insight, she challenges us to confront the motives behind our prayers and discover how God can transform our pain into purpose. Are you praying for healing, or are you praying for payback? This conversation will challenge how you pray, how you forgive, and how you surrender the people who wounded you to God. Because sometimes the greatest breakthrough isn't God changing your enemy. It's God changing your heart. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/nonanotnora CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E42
    October 7 · 1 hr 43 min

    I Stayed Longer Than I Should Have (Guest: Joi-Lin Hunt)

    October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a time to amplify the voices of survivors, bring awareness to the realities of domestic violence, and remind those suffering in silence that they are not alone. Behind closed doors, countless individuals are fighting battles that the world knows nothing about. How do you know when the person you love is the very person you need to walk away from? In this powerful and deeply emotional episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield sit down with Joi-Lin Hunt for a courageous conversation about love, domestic violence, survival, and the difficult journey toward healing. Joi-Lin opens up about the painful realities of a relationship that became something she never imagined. She explores the emotional complexities of staying, the struggle to recognize unhealthy patterns, and the courage it takes to reclaim your identity after losing yourself in someone else. This conversation challenges the question so many people ask: "Why didn't you just leave?” Sometimes the answer is far more complicated than outsiders understand. Fear, manipulation, emotional attachment, and the hope that things will change can make leaving incredibly difficult. For anyone who has ever confused attachment with love, ignored red flags, or struggled to walk away from a relationship that was hurting them, this episode is a reminder that "you should never have to lose yourself to prove your love for someone else." Because sometimes the greatest act of love isn't staying. It's finding the courage to choose yourself. **Content Advisory:** This episode includes discussions of domestic violence and relationship trauma. Viewer discretion is advised. **Need Help?** If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-SAFE (7233) or visit TheHotline.org for confidential support. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/joihunt_esq SEE YOU AT THE BANK CHALLENGE https://seeyouatthebankchallenge.com/challenge?am_id=%3C%3Caffiliate_id%3E%3E CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E41
    September 30 · 2 hr 17 min

    Decoding Toxis Masculinity (Guest: Shawn Best)

    What happens when the man accused of toxic masculinity is also being wounded by toxic masculinity? In this revealing episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, Ashley and Laterras R. Whitfield sit down with Shawn Best of Married at First Sight for an honest conversation about masculinity, intimacy, accountability, rejection, and the moments from his marriage that sparked intense conversation online. Shawn opens up about being criticized for how he communicated with his wife, the controversial conversations surrounding sex and a husband’s “needs,” and why he now acknowledges moments when defending his intentions prevented him from recognizing the impact of his words. But Ashley and Laterras take the conversation even deeper, exploring the other side of toxic masculinity: what happens when a man’s own masculinity and sexuality are questioned because his voice, personality, and emotional expression don’t fit society’s expectations of how a Black man should look, sound, or behave? Can a man reject toxic definitions of masculinity while still carrying toxic behaviors into a relationship? When does confidence become ego? When does desire become entitlement? When does defending yourself become gaslighting? And can accountability lead to transformation without becoming shame? This isn’t a conversation about canceling a man. It’s about decoding the behaviors, beliefs, wounds, and expectations that shape how men show up in relationships. Because sometimes the strongest thing a man can do isn’t defend who he was. It’s confront who he was, heal what created him, and decide who he wants to become. Ashley and Laterras R. Whitfield invite Shawn into a conversation that challenges all of us to reconsider what healthy masculinity really looks like. This is “Decoding Toxic Masculinity.” CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/drshawnbest/ CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E40
    September 23 · 1 hr 33 min

    An Ocean Between Us (Guests: Ryan & Priscilla Ofei)

    What happens when the person who captured your heart at 14 reappears years later with an ocean between you? Ryan and Priscilla Ofei’s love story began as teenagers, but their journey to marriage would eventually stretch across the Atlantic, from Canada to the UK. When Ryan got another opportunity to pursue Priscilla, distance wasn’t his only obstacle. He wrestled with feeling intimidated by a woman who seemed established and thriving while he was still finding his footing. But instead of allowing insecurity, geography, or timing to convince him she was out of reach, he pursued her anyway. This episode is a beautiful reminder that sometimes love requires you to cross more than an ocean. You have to cross the distance between who you are and who you’re becoming. Ryan and Priscilla share how intentional pursuit, faith, patience, and commitment transformed a connection that began at 14 into a covenant built to last. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/ryanofei https://www.instagram.com/prisofei CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E39
    September 16 · 1 hr 49 min

    A Man Is More Than His Salary (Guest: Dr. Tiphanie Hall)

    In a culture where a man’s value is often reduced to the size of his bank account, Dr. Tiphanie Hall challenges the idea that income is the ultimate measure of what a man brings to a relationship. As a successful, high-achieving woman, she shares why she isn’t simply looking for a man who can match her financially—she’s looking for a man who can meet her relationally. Commitment. Emotional intelligence. Security. Character. Communication. The soft skills that money can’t buy. Dr. Hall opens up about wanting a man who is secure enough within himself to stand beside a powerful woman without feeling diminished by her success—a partner who can help her build while allowing her to pour into and help build him, too. This conversation challenges the growing narrative that a man must reach a certain income bracket before he is considered valuable or worthy of love. Because while money can contribute to a life together, it cannot replace the qualities required to build one. A man’s net worth may tell you what he has—but it doesn’t tell you who he is. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/thedrtrap CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E38
    September 9 · 1 hr 47 min

    15 Years To This Moment (Guest: MAJOR.)

    What happens when the man who gave us one of the greatest modern-day love songs finally finds the love he’s been singing about? In this heartfelt episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, Grammy-nominated singer-songwriter MAJOR., the voice behind the timeless anthem “Why I Love You,” opens up about the journey that led him from singleness to marriage. MAJOR. gets candid about choosing to remain a virgin until marriage, navigating dating while staying committed to his faith and convictions, and the lessons he learned about love, patience, purpose, and becoming the man capable of sustaining the relationship he prayed for. He also shares the beautiful journey to his wife and how their love story gave new meaning to so many of the lyrics he’s spent his career singing. Now, MAJOR. is entering a new chapter—both personally and musically—with his new song, “May This Moment Never End.” It’s a sentiment every person who has finally found something worth holding onto can understand: after all the waiting, growing, praying, and becoming… sometimes you just want to stay in the moment. This conversation is about more than finding love. It’s about honoring your convictions while you wait for it, recognizing it when it arrives, and having the courage to fully embrace it when it does. Because sometimes the love worth waiting for becomes the moment you never want to end. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/nowthatsmajor CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E37
    September 2 · 1 hr 30 min

    God Delivered Us From Our Preferences (Guests: Joshua & Courtney Washington)

    Courtney and Joshua Washington had preferences. Strong ones. And according to those preferences, they should have never ended up together. Courtney had made up her mind that she didn’t want Black children, so dating Black men wasn’t part of her plan. Joshua was equally certain about his own non-negotiable: he didn’t want to date a woman with children. Courtney had four. On paper, they were everything the other person said they didn’t want. But sometimes God has to deliver you from your preferences before He can introduce you to His provision. In this powerful episode of "Dear Future Wifey", Courtney and Joshua unpack how God challenged their biases, dismantled their checklists, and revealed how preferences can sometimes become barriers to the very love we’ve been praying for. Their story asks a provocative question: "What if the person God has for you doesn’t look anything like the person you’ve been looking for?" CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/thecourtneywashington https://www.instagram.com/itsjoshuawashington CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E36
    August 26 · 1 hr 41 min

    The Love I Had To Heal For (Guests: Lisa Nichols & Marcellus Hall)

    Lisa Nichols has inspired millions to believe they are worthy of more, but when love finally showed up for her, receiving it became the real work. In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Lisa and Marcellus Hall unpack the eight-year journey that eventually led them to love. Lisa reveals how past heartbreak caused her to prejudge Marcellus for things he had never done, creating scenarios in her mind and nearly self-sabotaging the relationship before giving him the opportunity to show her who he truly was. Marcellus shares what it took to patiently love a woman who was still learning how to receive the very love she deserved. This conversation explores healing, vulnerability, self-sabotage, and the difficult truth that sometimes the greatest obstacle to healthy love isn’t finding the right person. It’s believing you’re safe enough to receive them. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/lisa2motivate https://www.instagram.com/marcellushalloffitness CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEW Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@DearFutureWifey?sub_confirmation=1 🍏 Apple Podcast: bit.ly/4og8tOn 🎧 Spotify: https://bit.ly/4odgHqx FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E35
    August 19 · 2 hr 58 min

    From Betrayal To Becoming (Guests: Tareasa "Reesa Teesa" Johnson)

    Tareasa "Reesa Teesa" Johnson captivated millions with a story that sounded too unbelievable to be true. But behind the viral series was a real woman navigating heartbreak, deception, disappointment, and the painful realization that the person she loved wasn’t who she thought he was. In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Reesa Teesa sits down with Laterras and Ashley R. Whitfield for a conversation that goes beyond the headlines and viral moments. She opens up about the emotional aftermath of her marriage, the red flags that became clearer in hindsight, and what the experience revealed about her own desires, vulnerabilities, and relationship patterns. But this conversation isn’t simply about who lied. It’s about what happens after the truth sets you free. Reesa shares how telling her story publicly changed her life, what healing looks like when millions of people know your heartbreak, and how she’s learning to trust herself again while remaining open to the possibility of healthy love. This is the story beyond the story. It’s a journey from deception to discernment, heartbreak to healing, and becoming wiser without becoming hardened. Because sometimes the greatest lesson from loving the wrong person is finally learning how to recognize and receive the right kind of love. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/reesateesa CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E34
    August 12 · 1 hr 20 min

    The State of Dating (Guests: Pastor Jamaal Bernard, Daryl Richardson Kenyatta Solomon, Jamice Vickers)

    Dating has changed—but has the Church changed with it? In a culture shaped by dating apps, social media, shifting gender expectations, hookup culture, delayed marriage, and an increasing distrust between men and women, Christian singles are navigating a dating landscape unlike any generation before them. "State of Dating" is a candid panel discussion hosted at Christian Cultural Center that brings together diverse voices for an unfiltered conversation about what it means to date, build relationships, and pursue marriage while maintaining Christian values in today's culture. The panel explores some of the questions many singles are already asking: Why does dating feel so difficult? Are our standards helping us or hurting us? Where are the marriage-minded men and women? Has the Church adequately prepared singles for healthy relationships? And how do faith, attraction, purpose, finances, sex, gender roles, healing, and expectations intersect when choosing a spouse? Rather than offering clichés or telling singles simply to "wait on God," this conversation will address the real tensions facing Christian singles and create space for honest dialogue between men and women. It's time for the Church to talk about dating the way people are actually experiencing it. Welcome to "The State of Dating". CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/jamaalbernardsr https://www.instagram.com/dar7rich CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E32
    August 5 · 35 min

    Love Beyond The Cameras (Guests: Charity Lawson & Dotun Olubeko)

    One of reality television's most celebrated love stories, "The Bachelorette's" Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko join Dear Future Wifey for a candid conversation that goes far beyond the cameras. Recorded live at the Christian Cultural Center in Brooklyn, NY, the couple opens up about what it really takes to build a relationship after the final rose. From navigating a highly public engagement to choosing growth over pressure, Charity and Dotun share why they intentionally extended their engagement, the role therapy has played in strengthening their relationship, and how they've learned to prioritize a lasting marriage over public expectations. They also reflect on the unique challenges of finding love on reality TV and whether modern dating has become more about entertainment than genuine connection. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/charitylawson https://www.instagram.com/dotunolubeko CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E33
    August 5 · 46 min

    The Making of A Husband (Guest: Sarkie Ampim)

    Recorded live at Christian Cultural Center in Brooklyn, New York, this unforgettable conversation with Sarkie Ampim peels back the layers of his heart. For months, many people formed opinions about Sarkie based on viral clips and social media debates. But in this candid live interview, he addresses many of the false assumptions people have made about him, revealing the man behind the microphone. With honesty and vulnerability, Sarkie opens up about the painful ending of his last relationship and the healing journey that followed. He reflects on the lessons, growth, accountability, and emotional work that have reshaped his perspective on love, relationships, and what it truly means to become a husband. This isn't just a conversation about dating—it's a masterclass on emotional maturity, self-awareness, and transformation. Whether you've agreed with Sarkie in the past or questioned his viewpoints, you'll walk away with a deeper understanding of the experiences that helped shape the man he is today. If you've ever wondered what it looks like when a man chooses healing over hiding, this episode is for you. You'll be shocked to hear a man share his heart like this. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/sarkieampim CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E31
    July 29 · 1 hr 50 min

    I'm Worthy of Love (Guests; Dayron & Whitney Owens)

    What happens when you believe you're too broken, too flawed, or too unworthy to be loved? And what happens when love finally arrives, but fear won't let you fully embrace it? In this powerful episode of "Dear Future Wifey", Laterras and Ashley R. Whitfield sit down with Dayron and Whitney Owens (Day & Whit) for an honest conversation about healing, trust, and building a blended family God's way. Whitney opens up about the emotional weight of being a single mother and the internal struggle of making room for another man to step into her son's life. After carrying the responsibility of motherhood alone for so long, surrendering that space wasn't easy. She shares how fear, protectiveness, and past experiences made it difficult to trust someone else with the role she had guarded for years. Dayron vulnerably reveals his own battle with feeling undeserving of love and how those deep-rooted insecurities nearly prevented him from embracing the relationship God had for him. Together, they discuss how confronting feelings of unworthiness, extending grace, and choosing vulnerability transformed not only their relationship but their family. If you've ever questioned your value, struggled to trust after heartbreak, or wondered how to successfully blend love and parenthood, this conversation will remind you that healing often begins where fear ends. This is a story of redemption, restoration, and discovering that the love you've been praying for may require you to first believe you're worthy enough to receive it. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/dayandwhit https://www.instagram.com/whitthevibes https://www.instagram.com/dayday_owens CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E30
    July 22 · 2 hr 6 min

    Vulnerability Built Us (Guests: Mondarius & Haley Black)

    What happened next became a testimony of God's faithfulness. This conversation is filled with transparency, hope, healing, and proof that even after devastating loss, God still has the final word. If you've ever wrestled with commitment, endured heartbreak, or wondered whether God still performs miracles, this episode will strengthen your faith and remind you that your story isn't over. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/beefingwiththeblacks https://www.instagram.com/callmecollins.hdc CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E29
    July 15 · 1 hr 37 min

    Why Is Love Hard? (Guests: Pastors Jermone & Erica Glenn, Dallace Tyrae, Careya Pace, Haley & Mondarius Black, Tianna Clark, & Will Johnson)

    Has social media changed love forever? Is marriage still worth pursuing? Can healthy relationships actually survive in today's culture? At the BCI Conference, Laterras R. Whitfield brings together an incredible lineup of voices for one unforgettable conversation featuring Haley & Mondarius Black, Will Johnson, Dallace Tyrae, Jermone Glenn, Lady Erica Glenn, Tianna Clark, and Careya Pace. From dating and singleness to marriage, purpose, healing, and faith, this powerhouse panel doesn't shy away from the hard questions. Together, they discuss red flags, relationship expectations, waiting on God's timing, navigating modern dating, building trust, and what it truly takes to cultivate lasting, Christ-centered love. Filled with transparency, laughter, challenging perspectives, and practical wisdom, this live discussion is for anyone who has ever questioned whether genuine love still exists or wondered how to prepare for the relationship God has for them. Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married, this episode will leave you thinking differently about love, commitment, and God's design for healthy relationships. Panelists: Haley & Mondarius Black Will Johnson Dallace Tyrae Pastor Jermone & Erica Glenn Tianna Clark Careya Pace Watch until the end because one answer just might change the way you view love forever. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/beefingwiththeblacks https://www.instagram.com/iamwill.johnson https://www.instagram.com/dallacetyrae https://www.instagram.com/jermoneglenn https://www.instagram.com/ladyericaglenn https://www.instagram.com/tiannaclark https://www.instagram.com/goldencar__ CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E28
    July 8 · 1 hr 51 min

    Dear Future Business Partner (Guests: Charles & Jonsi McGill)

    What happens when God asks you to leave everything familiar in order to step into everything He promised? This week on Dear Future Wifey, Charles and Jonsi McGill sit down with Laterras & Ashley R. Whitfield for an inspiring conversation that redefines what it means to become your spouse's greatest teammate. In an episode appropriately titled "Dear Future Business Partner," they reveal how obedience to God laid the foundation for both a thriving marriage and a thriving business. Before becoming successful entrepreneurs, Charles served as a school principal while Jonsi embraced the calling of motherhood. Together, they made the courageous decision to leave behind the security of their careers to pursue the vision God placed in their hearts. Along the way, they discovered that the strongest business partnership begins with an even stronger marriage. From navigating the pressures of entrepreneurship to protecting the covenant of their relationship, the McGills share how they refused to let success come at the expense of their love. Their journey proves that when God is the CEO of your life, your marriage can flourish while your purpose expands. Whether you're building a business with your spouse, preparing for marriage, or simply believing God for the courage to follow His calling, "Dear Future Business Partner" is a powerful reminder that the best partnerships are built on faith, obedience, and a shared commitment to God's purpose. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/missjonsi https://www.instagram.com/iamcharlesmcgill CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E27
    July 1 · 1 hr 54 min

    Apply To Marry Me (Guests: Craig & Khadijah Sharif-Drinkard)

    On this episode, we meet Craig and Khadijah Shareef. In their mid-twenties, Khadijah asked Craig to fill out an “application” just to date her. He didn’t have much at the time—working a low-paying job—but she saw his character beyond finances. Now, Craig thrives in his career, and together they’ve built a marriage rooted in intentional choices. We’ll dive into how that initial “application” became a blueprint for their lasting love. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/khadijahdrinkard CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E26
    June 24 · 1 hr 57 min

    Three Times A Charm (Guests: Rico & Monica Davis)

    Rico and Monica Davis have each weathered two previous marriages, but this time, they’re stepping into love together. Just a month after saying "I do" on May 9th, these newlyweds share why, despite past experiences, they feel more aligned than ever. In this episode, they reveal how lessons from their past marriages, combined with newfound wisdom, are making this third marriage—with each other—their most intentional and joyful chapter yet. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/officialricodavis https://www.instagram.com/mothick_fit CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E25
    June 17 · 2 hr 49 min

    A Father's Legacy (Guests: Tay & LaTerria Cosby)

    In this special Father's Day edition of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras and Ashley Whitfield sit down with their daughter, LaTerria, and her husband, Tay, for an intimate conversation about generational fatherhood. Laterras reflects on becoming a teenage father of LaTerria, a grandfather for the first time with baby Claire, while LaTerria and Tay open up about raising Claire and anticipating the arrival of their son. The couple shares their journey from meeting as seventh-grade sweethearts to navigating college together, building a marriage, and now growing their family. Through laughter, heartfelt moments, and lessons learned, this episode celebrates the legacy of love and fatherhood passed down from one generation to the next. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/laterria.razsane https://www.instagram.com/taycosby5 CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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  • S11 · E24
    June 10 · 2 hr 6 min

    Love Delayed But Not Denied (Guests: Kevin & Brittany McIntyre)

    On this heartfelt episode of "Dear Future Wifey", Kevin McIntyre and Brittany McIntyre share a remarkable love story that proves God's timing is often better than our own. After dating for just eight months, the couple went their separate ways and spent six years apart, each growing individually before life brought them back together. In this transparent conversation with Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield, Kevin and Brittany open up about heartbreak, healing, unanswered prayers, and the lessons they learned while waiting. They reveal what changed during their years apart, how they recognized they were ready for each other the second time around, and why their reunion led to the marriage they once thought might never happen. If you've ever wondered whether the right person can return at the right time, or if you've struggled with letting go of someone you loved, this episode is a powerful reminder that "delayed" doesn't always mean denied. In this episode: ❤️ Why they broke up after eight months of dating ⏳ What happened during six years apart 🙏 How faith and personal growth prepared them for reconciliation 💍 Why the second chance led to a forever commitment The lessons every single and married person can learn about timing, purpose, and love **Class is now in session.** Whether you're waiting, healing, dating, or married, this conversation will encourage you to trust the process and believe that what is meant for you doesn't have to be forced. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/mrsbrittanymcintyre CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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