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The Internet Is A Funhouse Mirror, Not A Home

Send us Fan Mail The internet can make you feel famous, furious, and insecure before you’ve even finished your coffee. We sit down with Sabrina Ramos, founder and creative director of Pop Spark Agency in New York City, to name what so many of us feel but rarely say out loud: the internet doesn’t love you back, and neither does a system built to monetize your attention. We get into the dopamine loop behind likes and engagement, why “educating” trolls often turns into unpaid emotional labor, and how social media becomes a funhouse mirror that flattens real life into a one dimensional performance. Sabrina shares what changed when she stepped back from posting and why rebuilding offline community through groups and events is more than a cute self care idea, it’s how relationships survive. Then we follow the thread into influencer marketing, ethical promotion, and consumer culture: buy now pay later, planned obsolescence, and the constant pressure to purchase your way to relief. From there, we take on instant reply expectations, remote work boundaries, and the hard truth about “human capital” workplaces that demand loyalty while offering none. Sabrina’s spiciest advice lands with a thud: if you’re overworked, under resourced, and everything depends on you, let it break. We close with a candid conversation on veganism, intersectional feminism, and systems of oppression, plus a realistic look at what vegan meals actually look like day to day. If any part of this hits close to home, share this with a friend, subscribe so you don’t miss the next crash out, and leave a review with the boundary you’re setting this week. Work with Sabrina: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sabrina-ramos-a1a47870/ Support the show

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"Justice" for me, not for thee

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Talent Acquisition is Tired.

Send us Fan Mail The hiring process is not just “broken” right now, it’s starting to feel openly hostile, and that’s the part we can’t ignore. I’m joined by Keirsten Greggs, better known as the Trap Recruiter, to talk about what’s happening inside talent acquisition and recruiting as the job market tilts toward employers. We get into why empathy disappears, why candidates get treated like placeholders, and why TA teams often end up fighting everyone at once: hiring managers, HR, compensation, vendors, leadership, and even each other. We also dig into the internet layer that’s making job search harder: fake job postings, recycled openings, and LinkedIn influencer culture that rewards the loudest take over the truest one. Keirsten breaks down how to vet job search advice, why “guaranteed placement” programs can be predatory, and why anyone claiming they can teach you how to beat the ATS is selling a fantasy. We ground it with real recruiting reality: the ATS is mostly a filing system, rejections at odd hours have boring explanations, and there is no straight line from application to offer. Then we go deeper into the human cost: cliquey TA communities, conference safety, tokenization, and the exhausting cycle of trend chasing from DEI to AI. Keirsten shares what it’s like to be a job seeker while pursuing TA leadership roles, including how an online brand can be treated as a “risk,” and what her dream role looks like across TA ops, storytelling with data, and customer education. If you care about candidate experience, recruiting ethics, and how hiring actually works, this conversation will stick with you. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s job searching, and leave a review with the biggest hiring myth you want us to take down next. Follow Keirsten: https://www.linkedin.com/in/traprecruiter/ Support the show

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We Exist To Belong

Send us Fan Mail Belonging sounds simple until you try to live it. If you’ve ever walked into a room, a workplace, or even your own body and thought, “I don’t think I belong here,” this conversation puts language to that feeling without sugarcoating it. John joins me to unpack why so many of us treat acceptance like something we have to earn through achievement, polish, and overperformance, and what it costs when one small mistake can feel like a permanent label. We draw a hard line between fitting in and true belonging. Fitting in is the exhausting work of becoming the version of you that a room will tolerate; belonging is what happens when you can be known and still be safe. We talk psychological safety at work, why representation and “a seat at the table” are not the same as being able to speak, disagree, and influence decisions, and why corporate culture can hit especially hard for people with marginalized identities. We also get real about the bigger systems underneath it all: capitalism, layoff culture, scarcity mindsets, and the limits of what any one person can fix alone. Then we go wider. Belonging can be healthy, but it can also be weaponized. We explore cult dynamics, internet communities built on exclusion, online radicalization, and how social media creates dopamine loops that simulate connection while pushing us to sand ourselves down into something more “consumable.” We close with practical ways to lower the stakes, make better change decisions, and move toward people and places where you can put the mask down. If you want more honest conversations about belonging, identity, and work, subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave a review so more people can find us. follow john: https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnfgorman/ work with him!: https://saintorange.co/ Support the show

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Hot Flashes, Cold Takes

Send us Fan Mail Your body can change overnight and your calendar still expects you to be sharp, upbeat, and “professional.” Madison Butler is joined by HR consultant Talia Edmondson, founder of HRB Consulting, to talk about the perimenopause stack: irregular cycles, brain fog, insomnia, hot flashes, histamine reactions, and the mental health load of trying to act like nothing is happening. We get honest about how unprepared so many of us are, especially when women’s health was never discussed at home, and why saying it out loud is the first step to getting real support. We also dig into the workplace side, because perimenopause, menopause, anemia, and hormonal shifts are not “personal problems” when they affect focus, memory, energy, and confidence at work. Talia shares how People teams and leaders can introduce practical, non-awkward conversations, build inclusive policies, and design employee benefits that meet actual needs. We cover feedback surveys, using data to win buy-in, health insurance realities like out-of-network specialists, and creative approaches to coverage when care isn’t accessible where employees live. From there, we zoom out to the pressure cooker of diet culture, body image, GLP-1 ads, and social media, plus the very real spiral that happens when clothing sizes are inconsistent and your closet stops feeling safe. You’ll hear tactics for self-advocacy with clinicians (including asking them to document symptoms), thoughts on HRT myths and hormone replacement therapy, and a grounding question for tough days: “Are you good enough for today?” If this conversation helps, subscribe, share it with a friend who’s white-knuckling it, and leave a review so more people can find it. Work with Talia: https://www.hrnbconsulting.com/ Connect with Talia: https://www.linkedin.com/in/taliaedmundson/ Support the show

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Being Loud Does Not Make You Right

Send us Fan Mail The most dangerous voice at work isn’t the angriest one, it’s the confident one who’s wrong and impossible to correct. We sit down with Titara “Tara” Haynes, a People Operations leader and writer, to unpack how “loud and wrong” behavior spreads through workplaces, social media, and even the coaching and consulting world, then lands hardest on Black and brown professionals who can’t afford the fallout. We talk about why the internet rewards certainty over accuracy, how rage bait and follower counts get mistaken for expertise, and what it looks like to opt out without spending your whole life arguing with brick walls. We also get practical about leadership accountability: the power of saying “I don’t know,” building rooms where smart people can challenge decisions, and why “soft skills” are actually the skills that keep teams healthy and businesses profitable. Then we go straight at the grift: how to vet a coach, mentor, or consultant like you’re hiring them, what “show your work” should mean in a saturated market, and why NDAs are not an excuse for zero proof. We also name the patterns of performative allyship and weaponized tears, and how to protect your mental health when being wrong and loud becomes a career strategy for someone else. If this hits home, share it with a friend who’s dealing with a loud-and-wrong boss, and subscribe so you don’t miss the next conversation. After you listen, will you leave a review and tell us the loudest wrong take you’ve heard lately? Connect with T.Tara Turk-Haynes: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ttaraturkhaynes/ Work with her: https://www.equityactivations.com/ Support the show

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Resumes That Get Interviews

Send us Fan Mail Your resume isn’t a scrapbook of everything you’ve ever done. It’s a sales page for your work, and most of us are wasting prime space describing tasks instead of proving value. I’m joined by Tajal (aka “caffeinated Tejal”), a longtime recruiting leader who’s reviewed hundreds of thousands of resumes, and she brings the kind of clarity that cuts through job-search panic fast. We get specific about what recruiters want to see: bullet points that show impact, not vague claims like “results-driven.” Tejal shares her CAFE framework (Cause, Action, Findings, Effect) so you can translate your skills into evidence that works for both humans and applicant tracking systems. We also call out the ATS misinformation machine, why keyword stuffing falls apart in human review, and why tricks like hidden white-font keywords are a dead end. Then we go where people usually won’t: bias and power. If you’ve ever been told to “dumb down” your title to look less intimidating, we explain why that advice is harmful and how to position senior experience with confidence. We also talk about the coaching grift, the red flags behind “guaranteed job placement,” and what to do if you can’t afford expensive resume services. Tejal shares a free resource, getselected.app, plus guidance on LinkedIn profile optimization, employment gaps, and a five-minute approach to tailoring without burning out. If you’re tired of guessing, take these tools and rebuild your resume with proof. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s job searching, and leave a review so more people can find it. What’s the one resume line you wish a recruiter would finally understand? Want to try Get Selected? Try it here. Connect with Tejal. Support the show

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Crash Out With Me: You Do Not Owe Anyone Smaller Dreams

Send us Fan Mail Someone asks you to “be humble,” and what they really mean is “be smaller.” That’s where this conversation starts. I’m joined by Atta Gracia Montilla, a community architect, facilitator, and leadership coach, to name the thing a lot of us feel but rarely say out loud: toxic humility, the explicit or unspoken expectation to shrink yourself, especially when you are exceptional and especially in white-dominant workplace culture. We dig into what it looks like in real life, from being questioned for visible success to being told you can’t be celebrated because it might make other people uncomfortable. We unpack how individualism and comfort politics shape leadership, why talent hoarding is so common, and what a more human-centered leadership model can be instead. Atta also shares how ancestral and Indigenous community norms treat everyone’s gifts as something to be supported, not competed with, and why celebrating yourself and others can be a form of medicine against oppressive systems. Then we zoom out to the pressure women face around beauty standards, weight, and aging, plus the internet-fueled FOMO that turns your real life into a performance. We close with practical tools: curating small moments that feel like yours, tracking your phone habits, using discernment in conflict, and building “conflict bravery” so you know when to engage and when to walk away. If you’re ready to stop dimming your light, hit play, then subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find the show. follow Altagracia: https://www.linkedin.com/in/altagraciamontilla/ work with her: https://altagraciamontilla.com/services/ Support the show

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Crash Out With Me: Privilege Is the Most Protected Class

Send us Fan Mail DEI doesn’t fail because people “don’t get it.” It fails because the people with power won’t share it. Maddie B sits down with award-winning learning development and global talent management pro Jasmine Mosley Beale, founder of Virtue Key Consulting Group, to name what a lot of workplaces avoid saying out loud: diversity, equity, and inclusion without authority, budget, and decision rights is just PR. We talk about the difference between looking diverse and being equitable, why headline diversity numbers can hide a leadership gap, and why attrition tells the truth when culture doesn’t. Jasmine breaks down what to examine beyond the org chart, including who drives strategy, who executes it, and how the “mighty middle” can either reinforce bias or move real change. We also dig into employee resource groups, sponsorship versus mentorship, and why so many DEI roles burn out when they’re set up with titles but no leverage. Then we go where most conversations stop: performative allyship, proximity-as-credibility, getting lowballed for expertise, and the exhausting expectation that marginalized people must overperform while accepting the bare minimum. If you’re building a DEI strategy, leading HR or talent management, or interviewing a company and trying to spot the red flags early, you’ll leave with concrete questions to ask and a clearer lens for what workplace inclusion actually requires. Subscribe for more real workplace conversations, share this with a leader who needs to hear it, and leave a review with the one change you want to see at work next. Follow Jasmine: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jasmine-m-beal-2190b327/ work with Jasmine: www.virtuekey.com Support the show

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Human First, Performance Second

Send us Fan Mail Your calendar is packed, your notifications never stop, and somehow you still feel behind. That isn’t a personal failure. It’s what happens when workplaces treat humans like machines and call it “productivity.” We sit down with Veresh Sita, a transformation leader and founder of vasana.ai, to get honest about what thriving actually means. We talk about why money only buys happiness up to a point, and why high-quality relationships, belonging, and real connection are often the missing pieces in modern work culture. From hustle culture to hyper-independence, we unpack how “success” can quietly break the very community and recovery our nervous systems depend on. We also get practical about the future of work with AI. Veresh shares why AI can generate answers all day long, but it cannot provide wisdom, meaning, or judgment, and why outsourcing your gut to a chatbot can damage communication and conflict skills. We dig into brain science like the amygdala and identity threat, plus a clear progression for growth: self-awareness, self-regulation, situational awareness, and situational flexibility. And we call out a hard truth for leaders: resilience has been weaponized, and well-being cannot be dumped on HR. If you want a more human way to work that still delivers results, this one is for you. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s burnt out, and leave a review with the boundary you’re setting this week. Join our human advantage masterclass: https://vasana.ai/vasana-types-masterclass/ Follow Veresh: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vereshsita/ Support the show

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Crash Out With Me: Hiring Feels Like A Humiliation Ritual

Send us Fan Mail Layoffs are back in the headlines, but the hardest part isn’t the announcement. It’s what happens after: the endless applications, the four-round interviews that end in ghosting, and the quiet pressure to accept jobs that pay a fraction of what your experience is worth. We sit down with Taryn Talley, a marketing leader and LGBTQ2SIA advocate, to talk about the job market in 2024 with zero sugarcoating and a lot of hard-earned perspective from nearly three decades in digital marketing and design. We get into the realities behind “just pivot” advice: how part-time consulting can leave you without healthcare, why unemployment barely touches the bills, and how age bias and DEI backlash can shape who gets seen and who gets sidelined. Taryn shares the kinds of hiring red flags she’s seeing now, from rejection without feedback to bizarre metrics like LinkedIn follower counts being treated like qualifications, plus practical ways to approach the volume problem and the ATS filter game without losing your mind. Then we zoom out to the platform that drives so much career visibility: LinkedIn. We talk about reach dropping, why comments matter more than ever, how AI systems are changing what shows up in the feed, and what “AI slop” means for creators and job seekers trying to stand out with real work. We also touch online harassment, blocking as a safety tool, and the political reality affecting trans people navigating everyday life across state lines. If you’re job searching, hiring, building a personal brand, or just trying to make sense of why everything feels harder, this one will land. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find the conversation. Work with Taryn: https://streamyard.com/xfv46vjrrtcc Support the show

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Crash Out With Me: Be Real, That's The Strategy

Send us Fan Mail The internet keeps handing us the same recycled “insights” with a new filter, and we’re supposed to call it community. Madison sits down with Vanessa Smithers, a narrative consultant, poet, writer, and legacy archivist, to talk about the rise of Substack, the flood of AI-generated writing, and the weird new normal where people copy paste a robot’s voice and charge real money for it. We’re not anti-AI. We’re anti-empty. If you’ve felt your feed getting louder while saying less, you’re not imagining it. We dig into what algorithms reward, especially for Black creators and anyone who gets boxed into a stereotype for views. We talk about the dopamine trap of engagement, why “authenticity” online can become a curated performance, and how to build a personal brand on LinkedIn or Instagram without letting metrics decide your worth. Vanessa shares the practices that help her stay grounded, including treating hobbies as joy instead of output and choosing what stays offline. Then we crash out about privacy and consent in public life: filming strangers at the gym, recording run clubs, documenting every trip for “content,” and the way constant consumption kills tenderness. Vanessa also breaks down why being labeled a “content creator” can feel flattening when the work is art, emotional labor, and lived experience. We close with a hard truth about equity conferences and professional events that ask marginalized speakers to work for exposure or even pay to speak, plus what it really means to value your intellectual property work with Vanessa. https://www.vanessasmithers.com/ Support the show

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Crash Out With Me: Pride Beyond June

Send us Fan Mail The political noise around trans people is loud, but the day-to-day consequences are even louder. Bryce joins us to get brutally honest about what it feels like to live at the intersections as a Black queer transgender man in 2026 while public fear-mongering ramps up and basic safety gets treated like something you have to earn. We talk about Bryce’s last 12 to 18 months, including a sudden layoff from a tech role centered on belonging, ERGs, and equity and inclusion strategy, followed by a job search that stretches far longer than anyone plans for. That path also leads from Seattle to Florida, and we unpack what “access” actually means when trans-affirming healthcare, employment protections, and community support vary wildly by state. Along the way, we challenge the lazy storyline that the South is a monolith and the privileged advice to “just leave.” We also go deep on trans athletes and why sports became a culture-war target, even when the facts do not match the panic. Bryce shares personal experience as a former trans college athlete and as a culture strategist who planned a sellout MLB Pride Night designed to expand visibility and community connection. Then we zoom out to the bigger idea: a lot of anti-trans rhetoric is really about policing gender expression for everyone, rooted in colonial history and rigid norms that harm far more than trans people. If you want a Pride Month mindset that lasts past June, this is your roadmap: humanize, learn the history, and use your power to hire, pay, and protect. Subscribe, share this with a hiring manager or ERG lead, and leave a review so more people find the conversation. Want to work with Bryce? https://forms.gle/VbyMjEZNibUkUaoRA https://www.linkedin.com/in/brycejcelotto/ Support the show

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Crash Out With Me: Toxic Resilience

Send us Fan Mail Your body keeps score, even when your resume says you are thriving. We sit down with Liliane “Lily,” a Dublin-based coach for high-performing women, to talk about toxic resilience and the quiet ways burnout builds when “just push through” becomes your default setting. Lily shares her own experience with burnout after years in tech sales and what she noticed first: stress that was not only emotional, but physical. We get into what chronic stress can look like day to day, from racing thoughts and poor sleep to appetite changes, cortisol spikes, and that constant fight-or-flight feeling that makes rest feel impossible. We also talk about the difference between choosing resilience and being expected to be resilient, especially for women who are repeatedly given more because people assume they can carry it. From there, we move into practical tools for sustainable performance. Lily breaks down her foundation-first approach: nutrition, movement, sleep, breath work, meditation, and the identity work that helps you stop tying your worth to your output. We also unpack self-care beyond shopping, how to get comfortable with boredom in an overstimulated world, and why values and boundaries have to lead the plan if you want results without burnout. If you are a high achiever who wants to keep your ambition without sacrificing your health, hit play, then share this with a friend and leave a review. What is one non-negotiable you are setting this week? Support the show

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Crash Out With Me: Not Everyone Deserves Access to You

Send us Fan Mail Some people don’t want a relationship with you, they want access to you. We sit down with Aubrey Blanche, founder of The Math Path, to talk about the relationships we outgrow and the ones that quietly turn harmful. We get honest about parasocial relationships, why people who barely know you feel entitled to opinions, and how the block button can be an act of clarity instead of drama. We also unpack the “fixer upper” pattern, survivor guilt, people pleasing, and the way privilege guilt can trick you into tolerating behavior you’d never recommend to a friend. Then we zoom out and apply a consent philosophy to real life: friendships, dating, breakups, and workplace boundaries. We break consent into a simple framework (well-being, fully informed, free from coercion, ongoing) and talk about what it looks like to revoke consent early, before things get explosive. We also cover how to handle people who name-drop you professionally, how to stay truthful without doing extra labor, and why “I can’t speak to that” is sometimes the most respectful line. We end with the bigger why: relationship quality is one of the strongest predictors of happiness and health. When you stop chasing approval and start choosing people who genuinely want joy for you, your body notices too. If this hits, subscribe, share it with someone who needs a clean boundary, and leave a review with the one relationship rule you’re adopting next. Support the show

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Crash Out With Me: Build a Biz Instead of Texting Your Ex

Send us Fan Mail A crash out can look messy on the outside, but it usually starts as your nervous system waving a flag. We talk with Karima, founder of Crash Out Diary and Wella, about what happens when workplace stress and “being iced out” pushes you to your limit and why standing up for yourself can become the first step toward real self-trust. Karima breaks down how she used AI for emotional regulation and then vibe coded her way from a funny “don’t text my ex” idea into a real wellness app. We get concrete about what vibe coding actually is (building software with natural language), how non-technical creators can learn while they build, and why privacy and security matter when you’re handling sensitive personal information. If you’ve been curious about AI tools but overwhelmed by jargon, this will make the landscape feel usable and human. We also get into personal software, the “thousand true fans” model, and what it takes to build community on Threads, Instagram, Twitter, and Reddit without chasing random virality. Karima shares how a Threads post brought 4,000 followers fast, how she uses AI as a content thinking partner, and how Crash Out Diary unexpectedly helped land her on Oprah’s AI special. Finally, she previews Wella, a nervous system regulation habit tracker for women over 30 designed to create a pause before doomscrolling, negative self-talk, emotional eating, or sugar cravings. If you enjoy smart conversations on AI wellness, emotional regulation, entrepreneurship, and building in public, subscribe, share this with a friend who’s rebuilding after burnout, and leave a review. What would you want an AI-powered self-care app to help you do every day? Support the show

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Crash Out With Me: When The Strong One Breaks

Send us Fan Mail One day you’re traveling for work, celebrating the mission, and showing up as the person everyone depends on. The next day, it’s a Zoom invite, a cold script, no severance, and benefits ending at midnight. That’s where Monikka Mann and I start and we don’t look away from what a layoff like that does to your body, your confidence, and your sense of safety in a brutal job market. Monikka is a two-time Stanford grad with an engineering background and a PhD path, plus the kind of “think on your feet” presence that’s literally won her game shows. None of that protects you from a system that can auto-reject your applications, punish you for short startup stints, or treat experienced talent as “too senior.” We talk about why being the fixer becomes identity, how servant leadership gets misunderstood by executives, and why so many of us keep asking smart questions about cash flow and runway only to be dismissed until the crash arrives. We also go deeper than work. We name career grief, family grief, and the invisible load of being the strong one at home and in the community, especially for Black women. We get honest about healthcare anxiety, the guilt that shows up when rest feels “indulgent,” and what burnout looks like physically when rejection emails keep coming. You’ll also hear what Monikka is looking for next, including remote-friendly chief of staff and program leadership roles where operations, communication, and deep tech translation matter. If this conversation hits home, share it with someone job searching, subscribe for more Crash Out With Me, and leave a review so more people can find these stories. What part of burnout or job loss do you wish we talked about out loud more often? Support the show

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Crash Out With Me: Toxic Bosses, Real Consequences

Send us Fan Mail Your boss should never get to be the loudest voice inside your body, yet so many of us live with work stress that shows up as migraines, panic, brain fog, poor sleep, and a nervous system that never powers down. I sit down with Dr. Claire, a leadership and mental health expert, and Sophia, a reinvention strategist, to talk about what toxic leadership and toxic workplace culture actually cost us and how we start taking that power back. We get honest about the health impact of poor management, why hustle culture trains us to tie self worth to job titles, and why “resilience” can feel like a weapon when Black women are expected to endure conditions nobody should have to survive. Dr. Claire breaks down why boundaries protect your credibility and your nervous system, and why community care is more than friends, it can include therapists, doctors, and culturally responsive healthcare that finally listens. Sophia shares practical steps for career pivots and exit planning that don’t rely on fantasy advice like “just quit,” especially when the job market is tight and responsibilities are real. You’ll leave with concrete boundary ideas, a clearer way to separate identity from work, and a reminder that joy, rest, play, music, and your people are not extras, they’re protection. If this conversation hits home, subscribe, share it with a friend who’s burned out, and leave a review so more people can find support. What boundary are you ready to hold this week? Dr. Claire Green-Ford LCSW: ttps://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-claire-green-forde/ Sophia Husbands: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sophiahusbands/ https://sophiaworld.co.uk/ sophiaworld.substack.com Support the show

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Crash Out With Me: Hiring Is Breaking People

Send us Fan Mail Applying for dozens of jobs, getting ghosted, and watching the same role get reposted can make even the most confident person start to spiral. We feel that tension hard, so we brought on Derek Lars, a talent acquisition leader with 15 years in recruiting, to talk about what’s actually happening in the hiring process and why the job market can hit mental health like a truck. We dig into the parts nobody says out loud: how “high-volume” recruiting can quietly strip out humanity, why endless clicking through an ATS can destroy your momentum, and what to do instead. Derek shares practical job search strategies that are more efficient and more human, including using your network to reach the hidden job market where many roles get filled before they’re posted. We also talk interview reality. The “two-way street” idea sounds nice, but it rarely feels equal, so we focus on how to ask better questions, name deal breakers, and walk away without feeling like you were just prodded for an hour. Then we crash out on the messier stuff: ghost jobs, resume collection, aspirational job descriptions that don’t match real work, and employer branding that oversells the culture. We also get into LinkedIn’s engagement-chasing chaos and what it means for credibility and harassment. Finally, we look ahead at AI in hiring, including AI interviews, bias risk, and why candidates should feel empowered to refuse a bot conversation. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s job searching, and leave a review if it helps. What part of hiring has been the most draining for you lately? And thank you for staying through the technical issues, we'll crash out about that next week <333 Support the show

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Crash Out With Me: Love, Immigration Paperwork, and Life Without Coffee

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Crash Out With Me, we’re talking weddings, expat life, and the why quitting caffeine might save you. From navigating the chaos of the wedding industrial complex to dealing with European bureaucracy and figuring out what life actually looks like outside the U.S., this one is part life update, part cultural observation, and part unhinged luteal phase crash out. Because sometimes the biggest life transitions, getting married, moving countries, changing routines, don’t come with a neat plan. They come with a little chaos, a lot of honesty, and the occasional crash out along the way Support the show