Attitudes!

Erin Gibson & Bryan Safi

A pop culture comedy podcast hosted by Erin Gibson and Bryan Safi who cover LGBTQ+ and gender issues of the moment with both hilarity and healthy doses of absurdity.

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#774
Thursday · 58 min
Ectopic Pregnancy Deaths On The Rise, LGBTQ Rights Around the World, Carol Has Covid and $70 Haircuts
This week Erin's luggage (with her mic) still hasn't been returned to her, but she's sipping on eucalyptus and discussing her appearance on the Scriptnotes podcast! Bryan has symptoms of exhaustion but managed to get a $70 haircut and learned all about the Seventh Day Adventists. Erin is Paul Revere spreading the news from the recent ProPublica study from 2020-2025 showing ectopic pregnancy deaths nearly doubling since the overturning of Roe V. Wade Bryan spins his big gay globe to lead us through Turkey's recent raids on its LGBTQ+ citizens, Hungary making progressive changes, and how here in the U.S. Democrats are failing its trans citizens in this conservative culture war. For all our bonus content visit www.patreon.com/attitudes Sign up for our Discord for episode discussions, watch parties, community and more!
#773
September 10 · 1 hr 12 min
HHS Trans Support Study, Frédéric Fekkai, Owl Towels and Tarkina™
This week Erin is recovering from being stranded for hours at the Seattle airport surrounded by owl merchandise, Bryan is back in his Texas childhood bedroom cuddling his stuffed lamb ottoman, and Sally Kellerman's daughter's legal war in Scotland over her emotional support dog spawns a new tech idea for our show. Bryan discusses the new study ordered by the Department of Health & Human Services linking trans rights supporters to being more prone to political violence and how it could be used against left-leaning individuals in the future. Erin reports on celebrity hairstylist Frédéric Fekkai who is being sued in New York City under the Gender-Motivated Violence Act by Epstein victims who claim his salons were used in Epstein's sex trafficking ring. For this week's bonus Dateline Recap visit patreon.com/attitudes Erin is on the Scriptnotes podcast this week! Join our Discord for episode discussions, watch parties and community!
#772
September 3 · 55 min
Rete Ovarii, Christmas with the Klumps, Haunted Doll and Dolly Parton
We start this week by mourning the loss of our North Star - Dolly Parton, the one and only hero we'll never have again, followed by Erin reading a selection from a translated Nordic book about a haunted wax doll. Erin discusses the forgotten rete ovarii that was written off by the medical community as a vestigial clump of cells but was determined to actually assist the ovaries in 2025, which somehow leads into a discussion of the John Grisham novel turned movie Christmas with the Kranks. Did you know Gray's Anatomy is an actual medical book? #themoreyouknow For this week's bonus Dolly-themed New Thing We're Doing! visit patreon.com/attitudes
#772
August 27 · 53 min
Log Cabin Republicans, Idaho Abortion Win, Lime Scooters and Click Clat Cl*t
We're doin' it live with our Lady Attorneys on a late night recording after a full day of work on a Monday! Bryan is trying to figure out whether or not to buy a car, and our suggestions weren't helpful. Erin is back in a Canadian AirBNB with no front door, or hangers. Bryan discusses The Log Cabin Republicans continuing the conservative trend of cutting ties with the trans community and their new focus of protecting straight people. Erin tells us of a recent court victory with a federal judge in Idaho blocking a near-total abortion ban when a physician believes continuing the pregnancy poses serious risk to the patient. For this week's bonus Dateline Recap visit Patreon.com/attitudes Join our Discord for episode discussions, watch parties and community!
#770
August 20 · 1 hr 15 min
Groceries Season 4: Wegman's and McCall's
Hey Tuderinos! Erin and Bryan weren't able to record a new episode this week, so we're releasing the first two episodes from the last season of Groceries as an amuse-bouche for the forthcoming platform where we plan for a new season! If you have any funny packaging photos or stories from the aisles, start sending them in to groceriespodcast@gmail.com! For this week's bonus episode, plus our entire archive of Groceries episodes, visit our Patreon! patreon.com/attitudes If you are still needing some new content, Bryan sat down with the Brief Recess Podcast!
#769
August 13 · 1 hr 3 min
Cis Men Entering WBNA Draft, Flock Camera Abuse, EpiGladys and Gratitude Journals
This week Erin's spilling the tea (from a paper cup) about the Baywatch reboot set drilling next door to her office, and Bryan's wrapping up his Off-Broadway run this weekend and is going to start putting his thoughts in a gratitude journal to remember the experience. Bryan discusses two former professional cisgender male basketball players publicly declaring they are "identifying as women" in order to declare for the women's league draft to exploit the vague language in the official WBNA policy. Erin details abuse of Flock Camera data by local police officers to stalk and harass women, and how the federal government can weaponize the information collected to target queer people moving to liberal cities and women crossing state lines to access reproductive healthcare. Listen to this week's bonus Dateline Recap on our Patreon! Bryan's show Are You Mad At Me?? ends its New York run this weekend! Get $10 off tickets with code IMSORRY. Get your tickets here. Join our Discord for episode discussions, watch parties, community and more!
#768
August 6 · 54 min
Evangelical Men-Only Gyms, The Internets and Show Me Your T*ts
This week Bryan is reporting live from his NYC office space aka his "renovated kitchen", Erin believes the phrase "The Internets" is a Houston thing, and we're showing each other our t*ts on this Zoom. The planets aligned for the first time in years and Erin and Bryan both wanted to discuss the same 'ssue! We both cover the hot new Evangelical trend of "men-only" gyms like Proverbs 27:17 in Oklahoma City and The Remnant in Denver that were created to help men avoid temptation and stay faithful to their wives and the Lord. Bryan's show Are You Mad At Me?? runs now through 8/15! Get your tickets here. Join our Discord for episode discussions, watch parties, community and more!
#767
July 30 · 1 hr 36 min
Murder In Glitterball City
We're taking this week off, but to tide you over we're giving you a supersized episode featuring one of our favorite Patreon recaps from this year - Murder In Glitterball City! The team behind RuPaul's Drag Race did a two part HBO docuseries that features nutty townspeople from Louisville, gays bringing up property values, Victorian ghost festivals with bad acting, court porn and kinkshaming. We're up to 120 true crime recaps on our Patreon (including a new Dateline this week for our Patrons!) so if you want more head on over to ⁠patreon.com/attitudes⁠. Bryan's one man show Are You Mad At Me?? is playing Off-Broadway in New York through August 15th! Get your tickets now at ⁠areyoumadatmeshow.com
#766
July 23 · 40 min
Gooner Assaults, Trinidad and Tobago Colonial Era Laws, Clown Holes and Cyclosaurus
Over the weekend Bryan performed his one man show in front of Sandra Bernhard with no AC, and Erin is unafraid to chomp down on lettuce despite all the Cyclospora warnings. Erin covers the disturbing trend of gooner assaults in low income community Dollar Tree stores and lack of consequences for these perverted acts. Bryan discusses the recent reversal of a decision to decriminalize consensual sex acts between men in Trinidad and Tobago and how colonial era laws are bringing the ultimate decision to the UK court system. Bryan's show Are You Mad At Me?? is running now through August 15th! Get your tix here.
#765
July 16 · 1 hr
Egypt Blocks LuPone Gay Cruise Too, Graham Platner, Eataly and Niche Movie Facts from 1985
Bryan is fresh off the first week of his Off-Broadway run and somehow learned the lore behind the Minions franchise. Erin is a working girl living in the phone-obsessed LA culture while becoming a regular at her local Eataly and people watching. Bryan reports on Patti LuPone's gay cruise being blocked AGAIN while attempting a reroute to Egypt and how it should sound alarm bells for countries deciding to piggy-back on each other's discrimination. Erin discusses Graham Planter's failed bid for Senate in Maine after sexual assault allegations, and how problematic men get redemption tours but women with similar backgrounds are kept from opportunities to run for public office. This is the last week to get $10 off tickets to Bryan's one man show Are You Mad At Me?? In New York by using code IMSORRY. Get your tickets here! For this week's bonus Dateline Recap visit patreon.com/attitudes Sign up for our Discord for episode discussions, watch parties and community!
#764
July 9 · 56 min
TradWives Giving Up The Right To Vote, Patti LuPone Gay Cruise, Telehealth and HR Violations
Bryan is recovering from a cold and sinus infection on the eve of his Off-Broadway debut but googled Telehealth and isn't sure if he was ripped off, Erin wants to feels tiny and stand next to the large Norwegians playing in the World Cup, and we bond over our shared following of Instagram's @georgesternleadership who shares coworker text responses to after-hours asks from bosses. Erin tells us about former Obama U.S. Attorney Joyce Vance who is sounding the alarm on the fringe TradWife movement of women wanting to give up their right to vote and give up all power to their husbands. Bryan delights in the recent story of Broadway star Patti LuPone's recent gay cruise that was stopped from entering Turkey because of the occupants on board. We are furious, but we are sailing. Bryan's Off-Broadway Debut show Are You Mad At Me?? starts this week and runs through August 15th! Tudes listeners get $10 off with code IMSORRY for the first two weeks of the run. Get your tickets here. Sign up for our Discord for episode discussions, watch parties and community!
#763
July 2 · 50 min
Rainbow Capitalism Dwindling, Texas GOP Infighting, American Gay/European Straight, Boots Up and Two Hoots
Your favorite common law married podcast couple is back this week and Bryan is giving us New York Bagel recs and we ask ourselves why all the European soccer jerseys in the World Cup are tight but Americans have a relaxed fit. Bryan discusses how corporate sponsorship dwindling during the second Trump term hasn’t affected the fight amidst the celebration, and how the UK has finally banned conversion therapy. Erin tells us about the Texas GOP has shot themselves in the foot with infighting at their convention debating the banning of IVF and surrogacy for their party platform. Bryan's show Are You Mad At Me?? opens July 10 and runs through August 15th! Attitudes listeners get $10 off tickets with promo code IMSORRY. Get your tickets here. For this week's bonus Dateline Recap visit patreon.com/attitudes https://discord.com/invite/Yn49ZkgePzhttps://discord.com/invite/Yn49ZkgePz
#762
June 25 · 1 hr
Missouri Abortion Restrictions Overturned, Nuclear Family Month, Gym Lotioning and Jurassic Park
This week Bryan's in a bad mood and Erin's back in LA staying at a weird hotel with questionable design and decor as we share gym hacks and review Steven Spielberg's filmography. Erin covers Missouri's abortion restrictions being overturned by Jackson County Judge Jerri Zhang removing requirements for a 72 hour waiting period, medical staff licensing and allowing medication abortions to continue for the first time since 2018. Bryan discusses how red states like Indiana and Tennessee are attempting to take focus off of Pride and rebrand June as Nuclear Family Month. For this week's bonus Kim of Queens Recap visit patreon.com/attitudes Join our Discord for watch parties, episode discussions and community! Bryan's making his Off-Broadway debut July 10-August 15th! Attitudes listeners get $10 off tickets for the first two weeks of the run with code IMSORRY. Get tickets here. Shopify: The only thing standing between you and your own income is getting started. Free trial at shopify.com/attitudes
#761
June 18 · 1 hr 8 min
Giants Pride Night, Hawaii Fertility Fraud, Bedroom Costumes and Party Pajamas
This week we find out we're one degree of separation away from Kim Gravel, and Bryan unearths some newspaper clippings from the 70s about how to be a wife, leading to some scintillating anecdotes from housewives trying to achieve climax from their husbands. Bryan discusses last week's San Francisco Giants Pride Night and how players Landen Roupp, JT Brubaker and Ryan Walker decided to make a statement by writing a bible verse on their rainbow caps instead of just opting not to wear them. Erin details a horrifying story of fertility fraud in Hawaii where retired gynecologist Dr. William McKenzie was found to have inseminated dozens of women with his own semen and faced no consequences due to no state laws prohibiting it. For this week's bonus episode visit patreon.com/attitudes Join our Discord for watch parties, episode discussions and community! Bryan's making his Off-Broadway debut July 10-August 15th! Attitudes listeners get $10 off tickets for the first two weeks of the run with code IMSORRY. Get tickets here.
#760
June 11 · 1 hr 15 min
North Carolina's HB 1232, Milo Miles, Open Plane Windows and Poirot
The People's Prince™ Bryan Safi has returned to LA after his Austin convention experience just after Spencer Pratt lost his mayoral primary race. Erin's bundled up at home watching Agatha Christie's Poirot and trying to get past all the subtle 80s racism and spit curls. Erin discusses North Carolina Republicans' latest attempt at anti-abortion legislation that deputizes any citizen to use deadly force if necessary to protect the life of unborn children. Bryan tells us about Canadian adult film star Milo Miles' recent 10 year ban from the United States after being detained in Toronto and questioned over two days by US Border Patrol over his line of work and items in his luggage. For our Kim of Queens Recaps and more visit patreon.com/attitudes Bryan's making his Off-Broadway debut July 10-August 15th! Attitudes listeners get $10 off tickets for the first two weeks of the run with code IMSORRY. Get tickets here. ⁠Join our Discord for watch parties, episode discussions and community! ⁠
#759
June 4 · 1 hr 12 min
Ken Paxton V. PRIDENTON, Designer Vaginas, Sally Field and Wet Sandwiches
This week Bryan is hangry and attempts to eat his just-delivered sandwich off-camera while Erin pitches her 10 million dollar Steel Magnolias commercial idea. Bryan discusses Texas Attorney General Ken Paxton's lawsuit against the Denton Pride organization for hosting their annual pool party, and how NYC Mayor Zohran Mamdani's "Trans Rights Are Human Rights" campaign aims to protect some of the city's most marginalized. Erin covers the Hamptons' newest designer gynecologist Dr. Amir Marashi and how the "Vagilangelo" aims to tighten and rejuvenate the vaginas for the most affluent New Yorkers. Bryan's one man show Are You Mad At Me?? plays the HERE Arts Center in New York July 10th-August 15th. Get your tickets here! For this week's bonus Dateline Recap visit patreon.com/attitudes
#758
May 28 · 1 hr 10 min
Oklahoma Child Marriage, ILGA Rainbow Map, Mexico Shopping Haul and Seeking Elderly Widower
Bryan's back from his quick trip to Mexico with a shopping haul and Erin's new favorite yogurt has inspirational quotes on the lid. Erin discusses how Oklahoma's legislature barely passed a child marriage ban and calls out those who voted against it. Bryan covers the ILGA Rainbow Map and how each European country's ranking has either gone up or down in the last year and why. Tickets to Bryan's show Are You Mad At Me?? in New York this summer are now on sale here! Get $10 off tickets for the first two weeks of the run using code IMSORRY. For this week's Kim of Queens Recap visit patreon.com/attitudes
May 21 · 46 min
Dateline: Running Man
We're taking this week off and are giving you a peek behind the paywall. Dateline: Season 34, Episode 8 - Running Man. This episode should've been titled The Untold Andrea Canning Biography. A focus on the victim? Not a chance if Andrea has anything to do with it. Canada, ski slope founders, bump-its and McDonalds chandeliers. Investigators discover a car engulfed in flames in a remote wooded area near the Blue Mountains; when first responders pull the body of a local mother from the wreckage, the question arises: was the crash an accident, or something far more sinister? For all our bonus content visit patreon.com/attitudes ⁠Tickets to Bryan's Are You Mad At Me?? in NYC 7/10-8/15 are on sale now! ⁠
May 19 · 1 hr 10 min
PrEP Belly, ICE Honeypot Traps, Truffle Dolls and Surfing The Internet With Your Aunt
This week get ready for surfing the internet with your aunts as Erin and Bryan rifle through some of their favorite websites and review art, estate sale pantyhose dolls and chocolate truffle characters you'd have to see to believe. Bryan discusses discourse infiltrating gay social media regarding "PrEP Belly" and some refusing to taking the HIV-preventing medication due to fears of long-term bloating affecting their physique. Erin reports on the minnesota women who lured ICE agents into a honeytrap to obtain raid locations and notified their wives of infidelity with screenshots of their chat logs. For this week's Dateline Recap and more bonus content visit patreon.com/attitudes Tickets to Bryan's Off-Broadway debut are now available! Attitudes listeners get $10 off tickets for the first two weeks of the run using code IMSORRY at areyoumadatmeshow.com
May 7 · 1 hr 5 min
Mifepristone Ruling, Queer POC on Vacation Study, Birthday Book and Bob Fosse
This week we pull out The Secret Language of Birthdays from the 90s and read off personality breakdowns and find out which celebrities were born on the same date, plus some love for Broadway's Bob Fosse and how he changed theater and dance. Erin discusses the 5th Circuit Court of Appeals reinstated restrictions on Mifepristone, and how the Supreme Court temporarily restored access to the drug via mail until May 11, 2026. Bryan discusses a study published in Annals of Tourism Research showing how queer men of color from London feel sexier and more noticed on dating apps while on vacation, plus how St. George, Utah has to pay the legal fees for a group of drag queens who sued for being denied a permit for an all-ages drag show in a public park. For all our bonus content and video episodes visit patreon.com/attitudes

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