ADHD with Jenna Free

79: 4 Reasons Behind ADHD People Pleasing

You keep saying yes when you mean no, then spend the rest of the day resentful about something you agreed to in the first place. If you've been told your ADHD people-pleasing is a boundaries problem, and that explanation hasn't actually changed anything, this episode is for you. I break down the four explanations coaches and therapists usually give for people-pleasing and ADHD: rejection sensitive dysphoria, the automatic yes, penance for old mistakes, and chasing a quick dopamine hit. None are wrong, and none go deep enough on their own. I walk through why the fawn response takes over before you're even aware you've said yes, and what nervous system regulation for ADHD actually has to do with finally being able to say no and mean it. If you're caught in that yes-then-resent cycle and want to work through it directly, I'm hosting a Healing People Pleasing workshop on October 9th. 00:00 – Understanding People Pleasing and ADHD 03:07 – People Pleasing as a Protective Shield Against Rejection 04:56 – The Fawn Response: Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn Explained 07:20 – Digging Deeper: Rejection Sensitivity and the Nervous System 21:15 – How Regulation Brings Freedom from People-Pleasing Check out the show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/4-reasons-behind-adhd-people-pleasing Let's stay connected! Want to thrive with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

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78: How to Regulate with ADHD When Tips and Tricks Don't Work

You've been told to take a deep breath and get regulated, and it didn't stick, so you're stuck wondering what you're missing. If tips and tricks have stopped working, this episode is for you. I get into why nervous system regulation for ADHD isn't one action but three layers stacked together: the body, the mind, and behavior, and why skipping straight to behavior is where most people get stuck. I walk through the ADHD fight-or-flight response, whether meditation really helps, and what healing from chronic dysregulation requires when a single breath isn't enough. For therapists, counselors, psychologists, doctors, coaches, social workers, and occupational therapists working with ADHDers who have been leaning on coping tools and external strategies without seeing the shift stick. I'm hosting a free ADHD Regulation Method training on September 21st, where we'll dive into how to do this work with your clients. 00:00 – What Does ADHD Regulation Really Mean? 05:58 – True ADHD Regulation: Nervous System Retraining 07:09 – Step 1: Teaching Your Body Safety 03:35 – The Limits of Routines, Yoga, and Meditation 22:14 – Recognizing Physical Signs of Dysregulation Check out the show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/how-to-regulate-with-adhd-when-tips-and-tricks-dont-work Let's stay connected! Want to thrive with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

77: ADHD Time Blindness: How to Stop Fighting the Clock

Your relationship with time feels broken, and you've probably filed it under ADHD time blindness and left it there. If rushing, scrambling, and never having enough time has started to feel permanent, this episode is for you. I get into why time blindness isn't one problem but two: the ADHD piece and the fight-or-flight piece stacked on top of it, and why that second layer changes more than people realize. I walk through the time scarcity mindset, why ADHD procrastination often starts with feeling like time already ran out, and my time container concept for how to manage time with ADHD without fighting the clock all day. For clinicians working with ADHDers who have been trying to help them time-block or use these external tools to get time under control. I'm hosting a free ADHD Regulation Method training on September 21st, where we'll dive into how to do this work with your clients. 00:00 – Understanding ADHD and Time Blindness 01:20 – How Fight or Flight Distorts Time Perception 03:47 – The Scarcity Mindset Around Time 09:37 – Shifting from Task Lists to Time Containers 18:38 – ADHD Clinician Training and Final Thoughts Related Episode 75: Scarcity Mindset in ADHD: Why Nothing Feels Like Enough Check out the show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/adhd-time-blindness-stop-fighting-the-clock Let's stay connected! Want to thrive with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

76: 3 Reasons to Set Your ADHD Diagnosis Aside

You know the label. ADHD, anxiety, OCD, autism, whatever you have been diagnosed with. You know the symptom, and it still hasn't changed anything. If a diagnosis has started to feel like a wall instead of an answer, this episode is for you. I walk through why holding a diagnosis too close, ADHD or otherwise, can quietly stop the regulation work that helps. I get into what fight-or-flight does to executive functioning, why "that's just my ADHD" can shut down a search worth continuing, and how I use the hiking trail versus the hiker to explain what can shift and what can't. For therapists, coaches, and clinicians, learn more about this approach at the free ADHD Regulation Method training I'm hosting on September 21st. 00:00 – Why Put Aside Your ADHD Diagnosis to Improve Symptoms 02:47 – How Fight or Flight Worsens ADHD Symptoms 07:34 – ADHD Overwhelm: Diagnoses vs. Dysregulation 13:19 – Essential Tools and Supports for ADHD Regulation 15:44 – The Regulation vs. Diagnosis Analogy: Hiking With ADHD Check out the show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/3-reasons-set-adhd-diagnosis-aside Let's stay connected! Want to thrive with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

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75: Scarcity Mindset in ADHD: Why Nothing Feels Like Enough

You've screenshotted the same tip four times and still feel like you're behind. Or you finish the whole to-do list, and your brain zeroes in on the one thing left undone. If that constant sense of not enough is running the show, this episode names why. I break down the scarcity mindset, the survival response behind perfectionism, digital hoarding, and the endless learning-without-doing loop so many ADHD brains get stuck in. I walk through what's happening in the nervous system when fight or flight takes over, why external fixes only offer relief that fades, and what it takes to shift from managing symptoms to healing what's driving them. For therapists, coaches, and clinicians, this is a pattern worth spotting in your next client before it gets labeled as something else. 00:00 – Understanding Scarcity Mindset in ADHD 01:10 – ADHDers, Fight or Flight, and Survival Mode 06:09 – Perfectionism and Inaction in ADHD 07:02 – Time Scarcity: Rushing, Urgency, and Dysregulation 12:17 – Digital Hoarding, Spending, and Coping Mechanisms If this pattern is one you keep seeing in clients, the ADHD Regulation Method certification was designed to give you the training to work with it. Enrollment opens at the end of September 2026, and the waitlist is open now. Check out the show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/scarcity-mindset-adhd-why-nothing-feels-like-enough Let's stay connected! Want to thrive more with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

74: Stop the Confusion Between ADHD Emotions and Reactivity

You've been calling it "being emotional" for years, and it's kept you stuck. Or you're a clinician who lumps every client reaction into the same emotional bucket without separating what's really driving it. Either way, there's a solution, and it starts with knowing the difference between the two. If you want to stop managing feelings that aren't really feelings, this episode is for you. I break down the two systems most people confuse: the connection system behind real emotion, and the fight-or-flight reactivity that gets mislabeled as being "too sensitive" or "too emotional." I walk through what each one feels like in the body, why rejection sensitivity dysphoria almost always belongs in the reactivity column, and the three-part approach I use to build nervous system regulation instead of just managing symptoms. For clinicians, this names a distinction worth bringing into your next session before your next client walks in. 00:00 – ADHD Emotional Dysregulation: The Label That's Confusing Two Different Things 02:05 – Connection vs Survival: The Two Systems Behind Every ADHD Feeling 06:25 – How a Fight-or-Flight Response Hijacks ADHD Reactions 10:32 – Emotional Dysregulation vs Nervous System Reactivity: Why the Words Matter 13:11 – How to Regulate Your Nervous System, Not Just Your Emotions If what you just heard matches something you've been hearing in your own sessions, the ADHD Regulation Method certification was built to give you the training for it. Enrollment opens at the end of September 2026, and the waitlist is live right now. Check out the show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/adhd-emotional-dysregulation-vs-reactions Let's stay connected! Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

73: 3 Mistakes in ADHD Therapy That Stall Progress

You've been seeing an ADHD therapist for months, and something's off, or you're the clinician sensing your ADHD clients aren't getting where they hoped to go. Either seat you're sitting in, the pattern is the same, and there is a solution. If you want ADHD therapy that produces real symptom improvement instead of another round of coping tools, this episode is for you. I break down three specific mistakes that stall progress in ADHD therapy. The clinician's beliefs about whether ADHD symptoms can really improve, over-focus on validation without ever moving into growth work, and the therapist's own dysregulation showing up in the room. For clients, I cover the questions to bring into your next session to figure out if you're in the right relationship. For therapists, this one names the patterns worth checking in your own practice before your next client walks in. 00:00 – 3 Mistakes Your ADHD Therapist Might Be Making 00:59 – ADHD Therapist Beliefs: Can ADHD Symptoms Really Improve 06:11 – Validation vs Growth in ADHD Therapy 16:16 – Why a Dysregulated Therapist Can't Teach Nervous System Regulation for ADHD 21:01 – Questions to Ask Your ADHD Therapist Before Your Next Session If this episode named something you've been sensing in your own practice, the ADHD Regulation Method certification is the training built for it. Enrollment opens at the end of September 2026, and the waitlist is open now. Check out the show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/3-mistakes-in-adhd-therapy-that-stall-progress Let's stay connected! Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

72: Interrupt ADHD and Perfectionism Patterns for More Freedom

You spend three weeks fussing with a work project that was technically done two weeks ago. A two-line email took 40 minutes because you rewrote it 4 times. You can't start the errand list until you've mapped out the perfect route, so the errands never get done. If you're an adult with ADHD who's tired of being told perfectionism is just how you're wired, this episode is for you. I break down why ADHD and perfectionism is a nervous system defense mechanism, not a personality trait, and what shifts once you understand what's driving it. Perfect feels required because imperfect feels unsafe, and that shield quietly costs you your time, energy, and confidence. I cover how perfectionism fuels ADHD procrastination and avoidance, why it makes ADHD overwhelm heavier, plus a client story about the email habit that gave her back 90 minutes a day, and one place to practice imperfect action this week. 00:00 – Why ADHD and Perfectionism Isn't Who You Are 01:06 – How Perfectionism Triggers Procrastination, Overwhelm, and Lateness 05:46 – Perfectionism as a Fight-or-Flight Response 10:16 – Learning It's Safe to Be Imperfect 14:28 – The Client Who Cut 90 Minutes a Day From Her Inbox ADHD regulation groups start tomorrow, Tuesday, August 11th. If perfectionism is the pattern you're ready to work on, this is your chance to get in. Grab your spot here. Check out the show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/interrupt-adhd-perfectionism-patterns

71: How to Find Balance with ADHD All-or-Nothing Thinking

You either clean the whole house in one rampage or leave your clothes on the floor for a week. You go hard at the gym for a week, eat one cookie, and write off the whole month. You wait for a six-hour window to work on that project, and when it doesn't come, no progress happens at all. If you're an adult with ADHD who's tired of hearing that all-or-nothing thinking is just how your brain works, this episode is for you. I break down why ADHD all-or-nothing thinking is a dysregulation pattern, not a personality trait, and how it can shift once you understand what's actually driving it. Your nervous system swings you from one extreme to the other because the middle feels risky to a primal part of you. I cover what ADHD all-or-nothing thinking looks like across cleaning, work, fitness, and food, how the ADHD binge-restrict cycle is the same swing as going hard at the gym then quitting for a month, why ADHD perfectionism and avoidance are the same pattern dressed differently, what the ADHD burnout cycle does to your momentum, and how to identify one place you're pulling to the extreme this week so you can start softening it. 00:00 – Why ADHD All-or-Nothing Thinking Isn't Who You Are 03:25 – What Dysregulation Looks Like in Your Behavior 05:43 – The Pendulum Swing and Why It Kills Momentum 07:27 – All-or-Nothing With Food and Exercise 17:23 – Finding the Middle Ground With Perfectionism 22:36 – One Place to Soften the Swing This Week Building habits with ADHD lives in the middle of the pendulum. Join my free call on August 5th, Is the Purpose of Life to Check Off To-Do Lists Till I Die?, to go deeper into what life can look like when you're not stuck rushing through it. https://www.jennafree.com/adhdcall Check out the show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/find-balance-with-adhd-all-or-nothing-thinking Let's stay connected! Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

70: ADHD Executive Dysfunction Isn't Permanent and Here's Why

You know exactly what you should be doing, and you still can't make yourself start. If you're an adult with ADHD who's tired of being told your executive function is just "how your brain is," this episode is for you. I make the case that ADHD executive dysfunction is not fixed at the level you're experiencing it right now. The reason it feels concrete is that your nervous system is stuck in fight or flight, and that state pulls blood flow away from the exact part of your brain that runs working memory, task initiation, planning, and follow-through. I cover what ADHD executive dysfunction actually is and why researchers call it the core deficit, how ADHD fight or flight and survival mode make every symptom look worse than your true baseline, why drilling one executive function skill at a time doesn't create lasting change, why ADHD paralysis has nothing to do with laziness, and two things you can start doing today to move out of survival mode. 00:00 – Why ADHD Executive Dysfunction Isn't What You Think 02:04 – The Brain's Management System and What Goes Wrong 03:29 – The Narrative That Keeps ADHDers Stuck 05:15 – Fight or Flight and the Missing Piece of ADHD Advice 07:03 – What ADHD Survival Mode Looks Like Day to Day 17:23 – Two Shifts You Can Start Today ADHD executive dysfunction changes when you're out of fight or flight. Join my free call on August 5th at 5pm Mountain to go deeper. https://www.jennafree.com/adhdcall Check out the show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/adhd-executive-dysfunction-isnt-permanent Let's stay connected! Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

69: Why ADHD Regulation Works Better Than Chasing Symptoms

You've tried fixing the symptoms one by one, and you're still spinning. This episode is for the adult with ADHD who's exhausted from chasing symptoms and not seeing real change. I make the case that ADHD nervous system dysregulation is the thread running through it all, and that working on regulation rather than individual symptoms is how things actually shift. I cover why ADHD symptom management that targets one problem at a time keeps you stuck, how fight-or-flight ADHD affects everything from executive functioning to appetite to relationships, what rejection sensitive dysphoria looks like in nervous system terms, why ADHD paralysis and overwhelm connect to the freeze response, and why depth work on one thing creates more change than spreading effort across 30. 00:00 – Chasing ADHD Symptoms vs. Finding Real Regulation 02:35 – Why Chasing ADHD Symptoms Feels Exhausting 08:12 – Emotional Dysregulation vs. Nervous System Dysregulation 09:23 – Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria and ADHD 19:19 – Overwhelm, Paralysis, and the Freeze Response in ADHD 21:51 – Why Regulation, Not Band-Aids, is the Solution ADHD regulation groups are reopening! August 5th registration will open. Check out the details here. Check out the full show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/adhd-regulation-vs-symptom-chasing Let's stay connected! Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

68: ADHD and Relationships: How to Stay Regulated with the People You Love

You hold it together all day, then walk in your front door, and everything comes out sideways. You're snappier with your partner, more defensive with your kids, and impatient with the people you really want to enjoy being with. This episode is for the adult with ADHD who's tired of the people they love the most getting the worst version of them. I walk through what's happening in your nervous system when relationships and ADHD collide at home, why ADHD defensiveness, impatience, and controlling behavior show up strongest with the people closest to you, and what starts to shift when you work on nervous system regulation instead of gritting your teeth through dinner. If ADHD rejection sensitive dysphoria, mental rushing, or ADHD parenting dysregulation feel familiar, this one's worth your time. 00:00 - Why Relationships and ADHD Get Complicated at Home 02:53 - ADHD Defensiveness as a Fight or Flight Response 09:54 - Vulnerability, Written Communication, and Retraining Your System 10:27 - Impatience in Relationships and the Rushing You Can't Turn Off 16:51 - ADHD Controlling Behavior and Why You Insert Yourself 20:57 - Co-Regulation and Becoming the Calm in the Room Live workshop on July 15 called Calm is Contagious, on co-regulation, ADHD, and relationships. Get the details here Check out the show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/adhd-relationships-stay-regulated Let's stay connected! Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

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67: ADHD Task Switching: Why It's Hard and How to Make It Easier

You've been calling yourself bad at task switching for so long it's started to feel like a fact. And the evidence keeps stacking up: the hyperfocus sessions that run three hours past when you need to stop, the transitions that take so much mental energy you'd rather just stay in one thing until it's done. This episode is for the adult with ADHD who suspects there's more going on beneath that label than a skill gap. I walk through what's driving ADHD task switching struggles, why the cycle of going hard until you crash is a nervous system pattern rather than a productivity problem, and what starts to shift when you work on regulation instead of just the behavior. If ADHD transitions, all-or-nothing thinking, or the boom-bust cycle feel familiar, this one's worth your time. 00:00 - Why ADHD Task Switching Is a Nervous System Problem 04:19 - The Internal State Change Nobody Talks About 07:12 - All-or-Nothing Thinking and ADHD Dysregulation 09:28 - Why Alternating Mental and Physical Tasks Helps Regulation 13:01 - The Cause of ADHD Transition Struggles 16:43 - A Practical Way to Start Shifting Task Switching Today Live workshop on July 15 on co-regulation, ADHD, and relationships. Get the details here Check out the show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/adhd-task-switching-made-easier Let's stay connected! Ready to help your ADHD clients heal at the nervous system level? Join the waitlist for the ADHD Regulation Method certification launching in September. Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

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66: 5 Unexpected Benefits of ADHD Nervous System Regulation

You lived in survival mode. The stress, the paralysis, the frantic crash cycle. And then something shifted. This episode is for the adult with ADHD who's curious what life looks like on the other side of nervous system regulation work. I'm sharing five things that changed after I got regulated, none of which were what I originally went in looking for. From how I handle criticism and rejection sensitive dysphoria, to patience with other people, to finally sticking with a hobby for more than three weeks. The changes didn't come from trying harder, but from the shift in operating conditions. 00:00 - Unexpected Benefits of ADHD Nervous System Regulation 01:53 - How Nervous System Regulation Changed Jenna's Relationship with Alcohol 04:24 - ADHD Dysregulation and Caring What People Think 06:45 - Kindness, Patience, and Living Outside Threat Mode 12:38 - RSD and ADHD: Hearing Criticism Without Shutting Down 16:26 - The ADHD Hobby Cycle and What Changes When You're Regulated Check out the full show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/benefits-of-adhd-nervous-system-regulation Let's stay connected! Ready to help your ADHD clients heal at the nervous system level? Join the waitlist for the ADHD Regulation Method certification launching in September. Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

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65: Why ADHD Overwhelm Happens and How to Regulate It

Too much to do, can't pick anything, can't move. The list is right there, the day is slipping, and somehow you end up frozen on the couch, wondering what is wrong with you. This episode is for the adult with ADHD who keeps hitting that wall and wants to understand what's actually happening in the brain when overwhelm takes over. I break down why ADHD overwhelm is a nervous system event, what the brain is doing in fight or flight that makes executive functioning disappear, and why your perception of how much you have to do is almost never accurate. Plus two visualizations you can use right away to retrain how your brain is processing time and tasks. 00:00 – ADHD Overwhelm and What the Brain Is Doing 01:28 – ADHD Fight or Flight and the Prefrontal Cortex 05:37 – How ADHD Cognitive Distortions Warp Your Perception of Time 08:30 – Naming the Feeling as an ADHD Regulation Tool 10:16 – The Dotted Line Visualization for ADHD Overwhelm 13:16 – The Brick Path Visualization for ADHD Paralysis Check out the show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/adhd-overwhelm-how-to-regulate Let's stay connected! Ready to help your ADHD clients heal at the nervous system level? Join the waitlist for the ADHD Regulation Method certification launching in September. Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

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64: The ADHD Regulation Method: What It Is and How It Works

You are exhausted from swinging between frantic and frozen, and nothing you have tried seems to stick. This episode is for the ADHDer who is ready to understand why and finally have somewhere real to start. I am introducing the ADHD regulation method, the first A to Z approach built specifically for the ADHD brain. I break down why your nervous system being stuck in fight or flight is making your ADHD symptoms significantly harder than they need to be, why the tools and strategies have not been landing, and what it really looks like to build from a regulated foundation instead of managing the chaos one crisis at a time. 00:00 – What Is the ADHD Regulation Method 03:00 – The Frantic Crash Cycle and ADHD Survival Mode 06:19 – How ADHD and Fight or Flight Make Symptoms Worse 09:02 – ADHD Dysregulation Is Not Inevitable 13:49 – ADHD Nervous System Regulation in the Moment 20:44 – Behavior Regulation and All or Nothing Thinking With ADHD 27:18 – Getting Started With the ADHD Regulation Method Check out the full show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/adhd-regulation-method Let's stay connected! Ready to help your ADHD clients heal at the nervous system level? Join the waitlist for the ADHD Regulation Method certification launching in September. Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

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63: How to Stop the ADHD Comparison Cycle for Good

You scroll for five minutes, and suddenly everyone else seems to have it all figured out. You feel like you're not enough, and quietly panic that you're falling short of where you should be. This episode is for the adult with ADHD who's worn out from constantly measuring themselves against everyone else. I'm breaking down what's really happening with ADHD comparison, why your brain treats it as a fight or flight survival response, and why coming back to your own life, instead of trying to bring others down, is what finally calms the panic and helps you stop comparing yourself to others. 00:00 – Why ADHD Comparison Is a Fight or Flight Response 01:47 – Why Your Brain Compares to Keep You Safe 04:13 – How Comparison Drives ADHD Motivation Problems 06:44 – Comparing Yourself to Others on Social Media 08:58 – How Comparison Feeds ADHD and Low Self-Esteem 10:43 – How to Detach From Comparison and Regulate 13:12 – How to Stop Comparing Yourself With Others Check out the full show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/stop-adhd-comparison-cycle-for-good Let's stay connected! Ready to help your ADHD clients heal at the nervous system level? Join the waitlist for the ADHD Regulation Method certification launching in September. Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

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62: Improve Your ADHD Working Memory Without Apps or Lists

Your memory keeps failing you, and you can't figure out why. You forget why you walked into the room, lose your train of thought mid-sentence, and miss steps in tasks you've done a hundred times. This episode is for the adult with ADHD who's tired of feeling like their brain just won't cooperate. I'm breaking down what's really happening with ADHD working memory, why fight or flight and cortisol make it significantly worse, and why regulation, not another system or app, is where the real improvement comes from. Grab the free ADHD Regulation Guide in the show notes and start there. 00:00 – What Is ADHD Working Memory? 02:36 – How Fight or Flight Makes ADHD Working Memory Worse 05:05 – Why Your Brain Prioritizes Some Things and Drops Others 08:23 – Working Memory, Stress, and the ADHD Nervous System 18:18 – All or Nothing Thinking and the Fear of Forgetting 22:50 – The Real Fix for Improving Working Memory in ADHD Check out the full show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/improve-your-adhd-working-memory Let's stay connected! Ready to help your ADHD clients heal at the nervous system level? Join the waitlist for the ADHD Regulation Method clinician certification launching in September. Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

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61: How to Stop ADHD Revenge Bedtime Procrastination for Good

You already know you're staying up too late. You've tried going to bed earlier, and it hasn't stuck, and if you have ADHD, there's a real reason for that. This episode is for the ADHD adult who's exhausted but can't seem to stop hoarding the night away. I'm breaking down why revenge bedtime procrastination and ADHD are so deeply connected, what's driving it at the level of the nervous system, and why fixing your night routine won't help much if the real problem is happening during the day. Grab the free ADHD Regulation Guide. 00:00 – What Is Revenge Bedtime Procrastination? 02:29 – How ADHD Dysregulation Fuels Bedtime Procrastination 04:04 – Resentment, People Pleasing, and Saying No 14:20 – Radical Mindset Shift: "I Choose My Day" 23:37 – Easy Bedtime Routines for ADHD: Practical Tips Check out the full show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/revenge-bedtime-procrastination-adhd Let's stay connected! Ready to help your ADHD clients heal at the nervous system level? Join the waitlist for the ADHD Regulation Method clinician certification launching in September. Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!

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60: Why ADHD Therapist Training Falls Short and What Clinicians Need

You're a clinician who cares deeply about your ADHD clients. You're giving them solid strategies, and they're still not moving forward. It's not a compliance problem. It's a missing layer in how ADHD is being treated. I'm breaking down what that missing layer is, why most ADHD therapist training leaves practitioners without a clear clinical path, and what becomes possible when nervous system regulation becomes the foundation of your work. Grab the free clinical reference guide, How to See Dysregulation in Your ADHD Clients. 00:47 – Training Gaps in ADHD Therapist Education 05:10 – ADHD, Fight or Flight, and the Nervous System 11:13 – Why Skill-Building Fails Without Regulation First 16:00 – What Changes When Clients Get Regulated 24:59 – How to Spot Dysregulation in Your ADHD Clients 30:05 – A Vision for Making Regulation the Standard in ADHD Treatment Check out the full show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/why-adhd-therapist-training-falls-short Let's stay connected! Ready to help your ADHD clients heal at the nervous system level? Join the waitlist for the ADHD Regulation Method clinician training launching in September Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group

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