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Explore More Intimacy · October 1 · 34 min

Episode 8. Delayed Ejaculation, Spanking & Long-Distance Intimacy

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community: Why does my boyfriend take so long to finish — and does it mean I’m doing something wrong? I really like being spanked. Why do I enjoy it, and how do I tell a new partner I want it? I’m in a long-distance relationship. How do we keep the sexual intensity and connection alive when we’re apart? A relaxed, honest conversation about delayed ejaculation, performance pressure, sensation and arousal, spanking, trust, consent, long-distance intimacy, anticipation, communication and keeping connection alive between visits. No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation. Got a question for a future episode? Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous. Explore More Intimacy Podcast Explore More Intimacy App Kat – Explore More Intimacy Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy Website: Explore More Intimacy Patreon: Explore More Intimacy Members Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach Instagram: @intimacyanxietyalex Website: Alex Gear For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.

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Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:

  • Why does my boyfriend take so long to finish — and does it mean I’m doing something wrong?
  • I really like being spanked. Why do I enjoy it, and how do I tell a new partner I want it?
  • I’m in a long-distance relationship. How do we keep the sexual intensity and connection alive when we’re apart?

A relaxed, honest conversation about delayed ejaculation, performance pressure, sensation and arousal, spanking, trust, consent, long-distance intimacy, anticipation, communication and keeping connection alive between visits.

No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.

Got a question for a future episode?

Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.

Explore More Intimacy Podcast

Explore More Intimacy App

Kat – Explore More Intimacy

Instagram: @exploremoreintimacy

Website: Explore More Intimacy

Patreon: Explore More Intimacy Members

Alex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety Coach

Instagram: @intimacyanxietyalex

Website: Alex Gear

For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.

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